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[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=862084.msg10116688#msg10116688 date=1328313261]Your friend wouldn't get away with such act in the western world or where i'm from. She would be beaten into a pulp before she could say ''eh''.

Face it, you and your friend did that to that poor waiter, who according to your story seemed to be under immense pressure, because you believe she is either of a low class, ''bush'' or cannot do anything to you. Would you try that c.rap on somebody with a wealthy background or can beat the hell out of you?

Do you know that this single act could cost the poor waiter his or her eye sight forever? You have the rights to trade words with anybody you feel like who also has the time to, but the moment you raise your hand on another or cause bodily harm, you have lost those rights and whatever comes after that, you should be ready for.

To all those who are supporting this act on this thread, may worse befall you and maybe then you would see yourselves in the same position as the waiter.

Baaastards!!!! all of you.[/quote]

What is the difference between you and the person that poured peppersoup on the waiter, with this your statement? Everybody is preaching ''civility'' when we all know that Nigerians are not civil in anything. The person opening his/her mouth to utter insults and arrant nonsense to his/her neighbour is also birds of a feather with a trouble maker, omo-alata, agero, bus conductors, touts., and the peppersoup pourer.

coogar:
speak for yourself, ronkebp

some people deliberately avoid attractive men/women cos they fear the competition they might face. . .

oh!!! so you avoid attractive women because of the competition you might face? Now, i see!!!!! , so you know want better thing??

emmatok:
LOL,

You no tell me say you be OMO-ALATA.

Yes, some Agberos with grudge for the Unruly Waiter[b] might[/b] support you.

But if that Unruly Waiter na another Agbero GF expect war.

For gentleman like me, i no go fight or assault any Unruly Waiter for Joint, without backup or escape route.

Because those Waiters na association of AREA GIRLS, with ABGERO BF on standby.

, NA so, dem never born dem naaa, next time, if na me oooo, i dey go there with area boys,

Coogar, the truth is we all want the best, have you seen anybody not praying for a handsome, rich, well-behaved man and men praying for a pretty, well-educated, well-behaved women. There is nothing wrong in that. even if we know that it does not usually work that way, the whole idea whether beautiful or handsome rich or poor, we need to be with someone that you will eventually find happiness, respect and peace in.

We might find the so-called ''idol'' we have created in our hearts in another man/woman, but these days, what is usually the end result? a nagging wife, a serial cheat, disrespctive spouse, a woman that cannot cook, a man that ''panelbeats'' his wife, disregard, hatred and so on.  and eventually, Separation or Divorce.

coogar:
true. . . .but trust me, men look out for those factors. an ugly woman is already on a back foot.

i don't know why people generally perceive beauty and good character cannot co-exist.
i should introduce you to my spouse. . . .

They actually do, you can be beautiful and have the best character, loving, soft spoken etc, and be ugly and have the worst behaviours.

And it could also be beauty and bad behaviour, ugliness and great behaviour to die for.

Sagamite:
Well, in my view ugly people only deserve happiness if they have a decent personality. queensmith doesn't. No decent man wants a hoodrat.

Just say you are falling for queensmith, and stop using ''abusive words'' to woo her.

@ Sagamuuuu!!!!! i know ugly women have husbands, infact there is this distant aunt i know, she is so worwor ehn!!!!b that her hubby just packed and ran one night like that, am so sorry to say, that lady is ugly!!!! kai!!! no be small thing. And we have worwor guys too dating prettly girls. you never can explain why??

coogar:
dating is not marriage. . . . .
besides, there has to be something your friend was hooked on? drugs? sex?

Dating is the road that leads to marraige, after all i can't just meet someone on the road and take him home to papa!!

She was not addicted to anything oooo, and it is not a matter of low-self esteem, when it comes to the matter of the heart, you really do not follow all your laid down ''physical attributes'' you are looking for in a spouse, you overlook so many things, when it comes to settling down, on a normal day, you will not eat frog, but let that person you love cooks, fries and garnishes the frog now!!!! you will be licking the bowl.

coogar:
you cannot leave money out of it in nigeria.

for instance, look at the men going for older ladies. . . .
have you ever seen a smart city boy that got married to an older woman in the village whose profession is subsistence farming? hell no.
they always go for the richer older women. . . .so that should tell you money/potential to make money is the reason people marry out of their league.

not in all cases, you are talking about those doing it4the money, i am talking about those doing it for other reasons besides money. For example, when i was in the university, my very close friend, hmmm!!! when i say this lady is pretty, believe it!! she was dating this ''ugly guy'' (i really do not want to call anybody ugly) so i had to ask this babe, why she was dating this guy and her response was that, '' Ronky, i am so inlove with this guy, i really cannot explain what i feel'', mind you this is not about money at all, the chick is from a well -todo-home. And that is just one out of the many list i have, i just hate tyuping long epistles.

dayokanu:
Some men marry the ugliest women ever too

Oh yes!!! that is true, not everybody can be beautiful or ugly, we are all not equal in every aspect, and just because they are ugly does not mean they do not deserve happiness too, everybody deserves to be happy.

coogar:
aki is not poor, i hope you know that. . . .

Lets leave money out of it , he is shaa not married to a midget like himself. And i know we have poor midgets in that same Nigeria with wives too.

At least one of dem smallies, i think ''Aki'' is married, and we have paralysed/ disabled men with wives!!!! Some women do not go for the appearances only.

OmoPastor:
@ronkebphow many kids are you planning to have in life

6 beautiful Children by God's Grace.

emmatok:
Do you have to fight everybody that behaves rudely to you.

I am not talking about sueing here.

I am talking about get beaten for assaulting the Unruly Waiter, abi how many people you fit fight.

Pepper-soap joint is not a club were people go form-levels.

If you go to joints regularly you will know people fight alot .

The OP is lucky boys didn't descend on her, because she ran away.
She should try go back there next time and meet the-same Unruly Waiter.

Emmatok, some people there would support the lady, especially those that have been getting a rude service from the waiter, And true we cannot fight everybody, but trust when i tell you, that waiter has also learnt her lessons. Agbero meet person wey gberoo pass am.

emmatok:
How many beer-parlor pepper-soup sellers are nice?

Most of them are unruly from Waiter to Madam.

Look you either take your pepper-soup or walk-away.

I have seen Military Officer insulted by pepper-soup sellers, they just laugh it off with a bottle of beer.

If you go about fighting everyone that behaves unruly to you, then expect IGBOBI to permanently admit you.

And who says you cannot single handedly cause commotion in a beer-parlour, abeg leave story jare, Nigerians are rude, from beer-parlour, to eateries and the market places, we are all rude, i wonder the amount of education that all Nigerians would have that will increase the level of civility there??. The rude girl deserved what she got, it is not everybody that can overlook some excesses, how can i order fish and you will ask me to manage chicken, who is supposed to sue who? Abegi lets be realistice and stop forming on the forum abeg.

Next time the waiter would know how to talk to people, just because people are trying to buy peppersoup and you are busy is not a yardstick for anyone to be rude to anybody, we all deserve respect, whether you are the seller or buyer.

Even though two wrongs do not make a right, and i don't support Jackie pouring peppersoup on the waiter, the truth is, both of them have learnt from their mistakes.

agiboma:
@op i am leaving everything i got for my son, i will just teach him how to manage money in a responsible way

Is it only one child you want to have.?

I really don't know how you would leave stuff for your kids after you die, i was thinking it is usually before?

andromida:
@daviddylan because many guys here have been arguing that most women are golddiggers and money sucking demons,and are ugly as sin too, well where u reside. Since it looks like those are d kind of women you keep meeting and have made provision for bad marriage in your book there is the likelyhood that is the kind of woman you will end up with. "As a man thinketh in his heart so he is"

Thank you!!!!!

Deniyor you get time oooo,

@ Poster, you must be going to the clubs in the ghetto.

And why did she confess that you

My dear, so sorry for your loss.!!!!

^^^^ Debrief i get your point, but as a christian that knows the word too, what i don't do is judge other christians, We all have our faiths and believes and if theirs' is to '' bring down fire on their enemies'' let them enjoy doing so, it is not for me to take the Position of God on that matter. We all have different levels of Faith, that is the level their own faith is at, and i think it is working for them one way or the other.

Although, truth be told, i still prefer Naija ''runs'' to Obodo Oyinbo, we have classy babes in naija, that knows ''whatz-up''

armyofone:
let me post my pix so David and Congar know there are real foine babes with class around. look well
well, not surprised your uni not get foine gals not our fault huh

My dear, that is it oooo, i wish i can post mine too, but the day i do would be my last day here on NL  ( so my hubby says) he does not want to share at all.

Good morning all, hope you are ready for the weekend

@ Mightlove, i know!!!! my dear, i sprained my neck the first time i did that Billy Blanks workout, and my whole body was just to sore to even explain it, but am better and stronger i guess.

Logs for yesterday;

25 minutes '' keeping fit cardio'' with Andrea hmmmm??( can't remember her last name) it was fun, nice workout.

Well, hope you all enjoy your weekend.

moremi2008:
Heartbreakingly cute! You never jam awon iya osoronga! By the time they start plucking your loved ones one after the other, you will run to MFM and start cursing em too!

Exactly what i was about telling Debrief, my dear, read more of psalms and see how David and others ''prayed'' for their enemies. Praying for those that are being wheeled by the Devil himself?

I just like that name, don't know what it means

^^^^ Nope am not from Nigeria.