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coogar:
because parents in nigeria don't understand the concept of "adulthood" until that child is married.
even if one is 30 and one stays under their roof, they still treat one as a child.

Ok, so that is why, we as ''adults'' and parents too should support her hiding this ''big thing'' from her own parents, what is the worst that can happen? they will disown her? Don't mind me shaaa, i am just looking out for baby- Destiny, i really do not want that child to be somewhere else without proper care. Chioma has gone through alot and i understand that, but that baby is too precious to be playing poker game with, and i think her mum can help take care of the kid more than anyone, will she (Chioma) be in serious trouble, OH!!!! Yes!!!!!!.

Last page is sooo RIGHT!!!!! despite his long write-up, he has said it exactly as it is.

And that is why am sooo glad for the western countries, any woman that chooses to kill herself ontop man, even as the law is on her side, na her palava be that. More so, the laws are putting all those ''nigerian men'' that see ''abusing'' their wives as an inheritance in soo much check.

moremi2008:
Chioma is an adult. Frankly, her parents are irrelevant to the equation.

Frankly, her parents are so relevant, if she were an ''adult'' why is she trying to hide it from her parents?

There is no amount of knowledge that can determine when the world will come to an end, join your knowledge of the world with the knowledge of God/ Christ and balance it.

Guys, all these things happeining shows the signs of the end time, but the end is not yet, when you least expect anything to happen; a time of peace, no more war, all the nations would come together to live peacefully, now that is when the end would come.

Remember to watch and pray, no one knows the time or season that the world will come to an end.

Too bad she had to take her life, may her soul rest in peace.

I think if Nairaland is going to help her financially, we should also help her in reaching out to her parents, i seriously do not support Chioma, keeping it from her parents, just for the safety of the child.

^^^^ Oh no !!!!! you didn't your case and problem can not be solved by me.

My people, hope you all are doing ok!!!!

Logs for yesterday, 35 minutes ''xttend barre; lean and chiseled'' with Andrea Rogers, love that workout too much, 100 obliqu twist and 80 bicycle crunches, wanna do the oblique twist and crunches at the end of every workout, everyday. so that i can get faster results.

Okontami, we have the suicide thread incase your suffering has reached the point where you will be contemplating suicide.

Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lets all go to Perx's post and donate, enough of Kadarva's Mother-in-law

The girl should just let go, what has happened has happened, she should forgive and forget!! so that she can move ahead in life.

@ Poster, i am so with you on this one, infact most of it are true, no one can please anyone, we just do our best and leave the rest.

Acidosis:
If I were you, I'll let her know what I have i mind now. That doesn't mean you shouldn't wish her well in the new relationship. Infact try as much as possible to plan the wedding alongside the family. She'll always respect you in life, and you never can tell, anything can happen between now and april. .

Love that!!!!!

jacobscros:
but now that I'm not super muscular but my face is nice, I am not getting attention. Do girls hate letting a guy know they find him attractive thru their body language?

Trust me, they are noticing you, but are just fronting!!!!!

Been looking for the thread, from Adam, Thank God i have finally found it

So people lets start rocking the boat, by donating to help Perx!!!

The whole story is soooo confusing Can someone please explain what problem Chioma really has?? why does she need money, is she an orphan, are her parents poor, what is the connection between her parents paying shool fees and Nl helping her with the school fees?

We can all help her, but we need to know why she needs help and not somebody trying to take NLanders for a fool with her inconsistent stories.

armyofone:
how can he ever? that bobo ni latest is a sharp shooter, na him computer be him lover.

what are his other ID self, i wan know.

lmao AND HE SABI WRITE THESIS, i DEY TIRE TO READ long talk, you will see him drafting out words, paragraph by paragraph.

I am just seeing the ''after marraige part'' ( I am thinking dhe had those affairs before their marraige, and confessed some before and the rest after).

MBJ, the poster is not a baby, like someone asked if he was held at gun point during the marraige ceremony?, and he did not have to wait till after having 3 children before deciding he is no longer inlove with her. The wife slept with every and anything, and she told him, why didn't he run then? why now?

The physique and the face have to go together ooooo.

cdoffx:
you got it right cold and calm she doesn't seems to be fired up with jealousy i can't but sometimes think that maybe its that she doesn't even care

Oh my dear, don't get it twisted, she is soo ''fired-up'' but silently, and people like that are more dangerous than the ''scatter all, break-all'' type of peeps. You don't want to put your fingers in a ''lions mouth '' naaa.

moremi2008:
Which kin luv is dat one? Dat one nah mugu-express oh! Kill myself over a girl when dem plenty like water everywhere? Hahaha! Not me!

You can never understand that type of ''love'' if you have never experienced it.

Poster, look for a job first and get settled at mind, the child will come, when you least expect him or her. You are bored, you need to keep yourself busy.

mutter:
When my first son was about 7 I gave him a lecture about ,"what a man can do, a woman can do, " I was driving on a not too busy road. He just listened and suddenly he said "mummy stop the car". I stopped and he got down opened his zip and "watered" the nearby shrubs. There were passerby's but it didn`t bother him. He got back into the car smiled at me and said, " okay mummy since a woman can do what a man can do go and do the same". I had to correct myself. He was right. "okay a woman can do most things a man can do and vice versa"
This really happened and I still laugh about it till today.

You would be surprised, how much wisdom some kids have. That is so funny!!!

^^^^^She has a licking mouth, her mouth is oversize

^^^^^^^^Her cold and quiet looks, means ''no try am if you still want to keep your dicko''

MBJ, eee don too late for him to divorce her, he soo knew what he was buying from the market, before deciding to marry her, and it was not even ''after one'' but ''three'', then he finally realised that he does not love his wife anymore because of her escapades, Omo, make e no think am at all.

Yes ke!!! wanna normal die!!!

What is his plan towards your cousin??, is he planning on marrying her and calling it off with your best friend?

Those are not the qualities of a playa, they are qualities of a gold digger and desperados'.