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Marraige is a gift, to be single is also a gift, but being married, really makes you look responsible instead of fathering every child on every street in ajegule.

^^^^^^ this your list nawawa!!!!!!

Tell your friend to look for another man, too much wahala and trust issue, this type of relationships always have a sour end.

Just mind your business and cover your nose, who says he does not know that he smells now!!!


Or better still, buy him deodorants and cologne, and i mean expensive ones not cheapey, give it to him as a gift that you appreciate all he does for your company.

Good for her,

The guys is just tired, is it easy to be working two jobs, he has so many things on his mind, that does not mean he does not care for his wife and child. The lady's hormones are everywhere, so she is emotional about everything.

His pocket!!!!!

That is why it is not good to date small boys, and old secondary school teachers.  

^^^^^^Gbamm gbamm gbamm!!!!! i rest my case.

@ Poster, your cousin is the ''cheap one'' in this scenario. Sorry!!!!! no need to vent for nothing.

Congratulations girl,am happy for you, ain't they always so cute?? !!!!!!

wendybaby:
HELLO NAIRALANDERS,
I NEED THE LAGOS TELEPHONE NUMBER(S) OF THE OFFICE ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
WE HAVE THIS (MAD) MAN THAT BATTERS HIS WIFE IN MY NEIGHBOURHOOD. I FEEL I JUST HAVE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS.
PLEASE POST THE NUMBER HERE.
THANKS.

My dear, open a new thread, so that all and sundry can view it and reply to your post, on time.

I think people should change for the better whether they are married or not. it just helps the world.

@ Poster, i will say it enhances behaviour/character, not change it.

^^^^HG i so much related to that ''posing in a certain way, thank to tight braids''

Logs for yesterday, so i guess i bit more i could chew with another workout dvd i bought, Billy Blanks ''Taebo explosion'', i did that for 50 minutes, guys i am not joking when i say, my whole body is soo sore, i know no who send me oooo, , but i felt ripped, it was a real explosion.

I hope we all have a wonderful week ahead. take care guys and remain ''motivated''.

Hey guys how are you all, hope you are enjoying the weekend

thanks HG, i detox like every two weeks, but iw ant to be sure i am not loosing nutrients by doing it, more so i was thinking i did it too much and the frequency might not be too healthy, but thank God it is well, was also thinking of a ''body wrap'' for another form of detoxification, maybe, once in three months.

@ Uche, exercising has to be constant, as in twice or three times a week for maintainance, your people are just watching out for you,

Logs for yesterday, bought a Jillian Michael's workout dvd, ''shred it with weights'', did the level 1 for 25 minutes, it was something else, but i felt really good after the workout.

Take care guys.

2buff:
You there! Woman. Come ruffle my chest hair!

Sorry am not into gorillas too

[quote author=Ch@nges link=topic=829425.msg10063838#msg10063838 date=1327698474]^^do u mean that u guys(ladies) keep guys with female voice at arms length? Do u guys hate them??[/quote]I don't hate them but would rather have them as friends, i can't imagine dating one (no offence), it's just that kissing and cuddling would seem to me like am with a woman, i like masculinity in every sense of the word.

^^^^ I know the observations come from men, but they rarely understand , only because an average nigerain female, has soo much pressure steming from the fact that ''they must not bring shame to the family by bringing unnecessary pregnancy home or disease because of promiscuity''. though majority are promiscuous still, but you cannot compare the level of kids giving birth to kids in a country like America to that of Nigeria.

though i don't really know what your ''forming'' means?? i just answered the way i understood it.

@ POSTER, i THINK IT DEPENDS ON ''UP BRINGING'', OUR MOTHERS' ESPECIALLY NIGERIAN MOTHERS, TRAIN THEIR DAUGHTERS ON HOW TO PROTECT THEMSELVES FROM MEN, SO THAT THEY ARE NOT USED AND DUMPED. and majority of us have so formed this attitude and it shows in everyway.

jacobscros:
so what's the best move in that situation especially if it's a fine girl cos fine girls never look at guys. P.s sorry for the late response. Should I just work on getting even sexier than I am now cos I have been approached by groups of girls more than once but it's very rare.

I think you have to focus more on your approaching a girl, than your physical looks, how is your swagga, you can have all the abs in the world and still work like a girl, or your voice is like a girls'.

I had a personal experience once, when i was in the university, there was this guy, OMG!!!! the most handsome man i had ever seen, i fell inlove with him instanta, i would work round and round just for him to notice me, he was in my church then, and trust me when i say, most girls where after him, the guy too fine, tall, well built, he was studying medicine then, (oooo every lady's man). So one day, he finally noticed me, infact he had been noticing me gan sef from the beginning, then one day, he finally pulled up the courage to talk to me, Omo wetin i here, ''woman voice'', i tear race sharp!! sharp!!

it actually depends on what the attraction is like, for some, you can't resist their hotness, no need to beat around the bush, for others, take it slow, but you will still end up in bed, only if you have made up your mind to remain virgins.

See, this is what i don't understand, why would someone keep that type of secret in a marraige?? I know and i have heard so many women doing this, and it is just SO WRONG!!!!!!!!.

NOT TRYING TO JUDGE ANYBODY, BUT ONE HAS TO SAY THE TRUTH,, i don't know what to say, but would ask the hubby to calm down.

Lastpage don vex, Please we do not want a display from men ooooo, leave the fights to women

And Moremi, who talk say you dey among the young-un, ooo just because you wear baggy jeans, and pull your pants down so tey we dey see your boxers, and also your pierced ears, you qualify for '' ayoung-un''?? I dey laugh!!!

Guys make una pipe low, no fighting ooooo!!!

@^^^^^ LASTPAGE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, NO!!!! i WILL NOT CALL THE COPS ON HIM YET!!!

moremi2008:
But we can't know Chioma's parents more than Chioma does and we can't assume that her parents will help the situation. They might even make it worse by disowning her and THEN making sure she doesn't graduate in a few months. I have seen parents do horrible things in the name of discipline. Let's not destroy Chioma life by making unfounded assumptions about her parents.

M,oremi, in Nigeria, who would want to get pregnant out of wedlock and stroll into her fathers' living-room, and say, ''papa come and see ooo, i don born pickin'', i trust my dad, he will leave the house first, drink alot of gulder, then come back to face the issue, while mum would be eating me alive, and having my younger ones tend to the baby while she is pinching me and biting me at the same time, ( exageration ooo, so that Chioma does not fear too much))) I personally do not feel comfortable with us aiding and abbeting her ''keeping it from her parents thingy''.

Thank you guys, wow!!!!!! aM SO TOUCHED, God bless us all, those you have contributed, those yet to contribute, Thank you all again and again.

Meanwhile, lets keep it rolling in!!!!!let the money rain!!!!!

My ''bp'' SIMPLY MEANS ''BISHOP'', ( the first letter B and the last letter P)

No be you lastpage You sabi talk too am sure, but your write-ups are usually insightful, not that i agree with every of your post, but they make sense.

Mightlove dear, we are so motivated by each other on this forum Though, could not exercise yesterday, had to go to the store to buy somethings, got back late, just ate and went to bed, hoping i would wake up early to do some exercises, For where?? did not want to break my sleep at all


I also wanna ask, how often should one detox?