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Chika you try ooooo, Church for Sagamite?? save that advice for a willing broda.

^^^^^^ Sidon there, till that your pink lips turn to black, dey find perfect woman. CWNAW (Classy White non-Agressive woman)

Yoruba ( ondo and ekiti)

Chinese beef fried rice and chicken.

debrief08:
And now I cant wait to get home oh

My dear, with all your load!!!! (i don jam)

debrief08:
Amen, I feel you in the Spirit my brother.
Loollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll @ your husband, hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. No be every day na, dis one na once in a blue moon waka. Try am, I swear he will do no such thing

Ok, i will try it

debrief08:
try it one day, a trial will convert you, that one sweet pass sleep jare

Am so with Blank on this one, i dey sleep, you dey try to disturb me?? it will not be funny by the time i open my eyes, nothing interfares with my sleep oooo, it is a different world for me. Moreso, my hubby can't be sleeping and i mount him, he will just lift me up, carry me to the next room, lock the door and go back to snoring.

Oh!!! we are still on this topic, odikwa risky!!!!!

pro01:
Lol. Typical. If a man is a 'wife-beater', then I expect that the woman should leave the very first day she is 'wife-beaten', not wait and pretend to endure just to have a larger share of his self-made fortune. Same applies for cheating. If you hate cheating so much, file for divorce the very first time he cheats; don't wait 10 years so you'll get half of his wealth. The one that I don't quite understand is 'Lazy'. Women tend to categorize every broke or struggling man as 'lazy', regardless of how hard he actually tries: I've obseved this severally, and it is a universal fact. If you knew he was 'lazy', why marry him in the first place? Oh, I get it, he wasn't broke lazy when you married him, he just became 'lazy' along the line when things started going awry with his work/business. Smh.

In any case, you'll need to become more realistic and quit all these funky 'fellowship' mindset of shallow optimism. Part of being realistic is KNOWING that any young and successful man that does a random woman a favour by marrying her SHALL most likely have another woman/women. Ignoring this fact ab initio, only to later use it as an alibi to seek divorce (in order to reach for a chunk of his self-made wealth) is serpentine and deceitful to say the least. If you know you hate cheating husbands, reduce the odds by avoiding the sort of dashing/successful young man that you KNOW you can't have alone for the rest of your life. Anything else is pure deceit.

There is a difference between having a 'potentia'l and not working on that potential, having a vision without a mission is equal to laziness (not in all cases though), we have so many men that build castles in the air, and do not have what it takes to back-up their mindsets of ''building castles in the air'', hence, the laziness thingy.

Now!!!! you do a woman a favour by marrying her?? you guys must be allowing boxers to wear you all, it is a thing of pride even if you as man wed a woman appropriately and not ''chickenly'' put a woman in the house.

What yardstick do you use in measuring your 'realism'', thank God for the ''funky fellowship mindset'' we have, at least we know what we go by, what is so realistic about what you have been saying??Any man that has the balls to marry a wife should be ready to part ways with some of his ''hard earned'' money, if you cannot, as in parting is already giving you typhoid, stay out of the circle.

^^^^^^^^ no need for ;long talk, you, marry today and divorce tomorrow, nobody will ask you any question,  nobody is asking Koby Bryant, Tiger woods and the rest why they are divorced today, at least it is not for the fear of spending their ''hard earned'' money with their wives.


Marraige is supposed to be forever, but definitely not at all cost (especially when it involves life), if you are wife beater, you would be dumped, if you are a serial cheat, trust me, your arse is alreday dumped, if you are lazy, , that one has it's own answer already, now if you go to the village and pick a wife, she might manage your excesses , if you refuse to shape up then it pays to remain single, you cannot wish for a wife like beyonce and expect a village mentality in her brains.

Outstrip:
That is even more worrisome. They should not even stop to eat or drink

I tire for you oooooo, you go like this thing too much oooo

dayokanu:
Everyone hopes not to be involved in an accident(divorce) because of the injuries, the emotional and physical trauma and the financial cost

But despite that hope, they still go ahead and get insurance

We know auto insurances are for cars, what will you recommend for marraiges pre-nups?

^^^^ and that is why i would like to join the club of those that have been driving for 60 years without accidents. why would i want to jinx myself by thinking about accidents before buying a car.

If poeple had that mentality. nobody will be driving!!! don't you think

moremi2008:
All of those pretty walls you think you've built for yourself are paper-thin should the marriage lead to divorce. Everything is accessible in divorce courts.

Why would you be thinking of divorce, even before tying the knot You are just a funny young man. Don't worry when you meet ''the one'' you think you cannot live without, you will see clearer.  

@ Moremi, then why add her on your account ( your wife) why should that give you sleepless nights?, i am not on my husbands account, he is not on my personal account, though we have a joint just for the family, and we are living happily ever after!!!

I will not expect a man to marry and just add another person on his account just like that, na beans, what if that lady was their solely to steal all the money and run? Marraige is not equal to being dumb.

^^^^^^ Quite fresh?!!!! ok gat you now!!!, what will dey be doing if not sexology, it is a different thing if u started it before marraige, but waiting till you marry before having sex and not doing it daily is another wahala.

I get you now phemmy.

Poster, seriously, what do you want us to do about it?? Plastic surgery?

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well, they wont need women if they're gaay. . . . . . . . .[/quote]yeah, the younger men (with woman-like faces and qualities) would be punching their balls for them.

2buff:
^^ Why won't we comment?

Oh!!!! you have become suddenly handsome, i see!!!!

All these sayings about not wanting a leech is just by the way.

This type of men with their ''thinking faculty'' are afraid of committment and do not want their balls/manhood to be questioned by a woman. Talk about Ego.

But they have forgotten that when they turn 50- 70, it is a woman that their best friend gave birth to, or their driver gave birth (since they are so rich) would slap that their tiny hairy balls around.

@ Poster you are on point jare, you will notice that the really handsome ones will not comment.

emmalexabl:
WHY marry. . just to make ONE WOMAN HAPPY, when u can remain SINGLE and make LOTS of THEM(women) HAPPIER. .!!

Where is this mentality coming from, who says marriage is to ''make a woman happy''??

Outstrip:
Maybe in my 60's or right after a new baby but other than that why would anybody say that you should not have frequent sex. The question should be if he can handle it. If I am not Being Intimate at home where in the world should I get it from. Also it is not just the act of Being Intimate. It is everything else that comes with it. It is hard to stay mad at someone you are making love to. Even if it is angry sex when you are done you relieve some tension and unless you are mentally unstable you will not be as mad as you were before the act. It reminds you that this person is the only other person in the world that is worthy to have that time with you and vice versa. What should you do in the weeks when you don't have it. Pray? Anyway just make a time table and be done with it then

Frequent kpekusing is good. , but daily (also good ooo) i just can't have sex daily,

Outstrip:
You make it sound like a chore. Abeg stop pulling my legs before I vex

Fhemmmy:
And that is why the man and the woman would have to invent best ways to add flava into it . ,

But, like inventing styles and drama everyday to spice up the action it really becomes tiring after awhile

Good morning every,

Log for yesterday, 50 minutes Billy blanks ''taebo explosion'' , i thought i was going to do only 30 minutes, but i was strong enough to go all the way, i guess am getting stronger.

i know when it becomes a routine, it looses it's ''flavour'',

40 days and 40 nights. since i am a woman would reduce it to 20 days and 20 nights.

Some wise men and women have spoken on this post, especially Coogar's first post, and Chaircovers' analysis.
A kolanut/bitter kola tree/plant cannot bring forth pineapple or straw berries, the bitter-kola hangs out with other bitter- kolas', apples hangout with apples, when you go to a produce junction, you would see apples in one basket, pineapples are together, potatoes are together.
You cannot see yourself as a responsible man and hang out with LovePeddlers and expect a ''good wife'' from one of them.

You cannot hangout all day in the club or beer parlour where you would tap the yansh of the peppersoup seller,or hit on the bar-tender wearing only bra and g-string to serve you don-pereon (or whatever you call it) and exepct to get a classy wife with self respect.

If you see marraige as a problem, it would remain a problem to you. If you are afraid of a gold-digger, so you will not marry, eat your money alone!!!!! after all you suffered for it. save the world the stress of your reasons behind not marrying and remain SINGLE
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^^^^^ where are you based, naija or over/across the water??

Where will you see them on nairaland? i laugh!!!!!!!!

naijababe:
Very wise words.

@ OP, how can you get a fine educated Yoruba babe with a fashionable mother who's not Ijebu or from Ogun state. You might as well marry the 'ho'

Dayo, u don change your song o, wetin happen ?

Dem don dey 'rust', for house, that is why they are singing a new song.

Now Moremi will soon reach that 'rusting stage' with his marriage mentality.

armyofone:
girl, how are you
i know i know, just helping a brother

My dear, i full ground, how are you? and how prep??

mightlove:
@ronke:that billy guy is one tough guy.welldone oh

My dear you can say that again, i am still sore, i think i will still do the dvd but not the whole thing, 30 mins of that workout is so okay for me.

@HG, pele, i hate all those headaches that cannot be defined, maybe you are dehydrated, drink alot of water, i get those when i lack water or when i need caffeine, addicted to my tea. Hope you feel better.

How is every, modath, agaba, babs (wetin dey shele now, hope you are feeling better?? ), uzoo, pmama, and E. hope you guys are doing well,

LOGS FOR YESTERDAY, 30 MINUTES, JILLIAN MICHAELS LEVEL 2 '' SHRED IT WITH WEIGHTS''. NICE!!!!!