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Lebron James, always representin'
Who wouldn't be proud of this nigga...

Dude thought you are a Christian, if you are then don't be superstitious.
You shouldn't be afraid. What will be will be.
Follow your heart and tackle challenges if they arise as they arise.

Hmm, dig deep, there's as always a reason.

Naijatalktalk:
Since the news, her partner, JJC, a father of three from three babymamas hasn’t said anything until recently when he shared a photo on Instagram voicing his stand on the wedding drama and other issues surrounding his relationship with Ms Funke Akindele.’Making moves in silence is the new motto.

http://amebosquare.com/news/jjc-breaks-silence-rumoured-marriage-funke-akindele/

Hmm.. respek (as birdman would say)

4.5 years...
Entire bachelor's degree program.

I am mega guilty at this - When she says ‘I’m Almost There’.

I'm always almost there, even when still in bed.

slimthugchimee:
people dont just understand earrings are just fashion it doesnt make anyone irresponsible....i do wear it and i behave maturely

Its not about how you behave, by no fault of ours humans are wired to access appearance first. When someone comes to talk to you, the first thing you do unconsciously is to access the person.
Dressing and personal hygiene becomes the 2 basis for any conclusion.

Forgetting my birthday, to me there's nothing worse than that.

What you value, you remember.

Humans are animals, and by nature animals get fond of what they spend time with (who), where they spend time (where), and how they spend their time (how).

I think it's the law of association. So if you regularly chat with someone, talk to the person, even without seeing the person you could seriously like the person, I wouldn't call it love though.

anuoluwami20:
My guy is cheating on me.....pls advice me on what to do

If you have established that he's cheating, and you are still asking what to do, my dear, there's no hope for you.

Honestly, to me it looks abit irresponsible, but that's just me.
That said, I have seen some fresh guys that look good with it (studs though). Maybe it's just the packaging sha.

From your write-up your mind is already off the relationship, so leave.
You could have one final talk with him, expressing yourself honestly, that you don't feel he's puttingg enough effort.

BTW guys should focus on getting a job and not a girlfriend, when you get a job (no matter how humble), and can at least take care of yourself, thats when you should start dating.
Priorities mehn.

joseph1832:
Then the question becomes, why should a girl be demanding for money from someone she's not dating?

While I don't support asking for money generally (boyfriend or otherwise), I don't condemn ladies that do, the constitution gives us freedom of speech, she is free to ask what she likes and so are you, now it's your prerogative to give, SIMPLE.
You either say NO or give, it shouldn't cause any qualms.

The problem is, most guys don't want to say NO, or don't know how to say NO, and so equate the money given to some sort of physical right over her body.

The problem is that of entitlement, that most guys feel they have when they give money.

gfullmoon:
The new National eID Card issued currently by NIMC is inbuild with National Identification Number (NIN)(which serves as Personal identifier that can never be duplicated once successfully issued ) which is issued instantly upon registration and which is even more valuable than the card itself. It also has Master Card enabled payment platform which if FG utilize in this Social Security Benefit, the vulnerable will actually receive their benefit without much stress. NIMC also manages a National Data Base (NDB) which the President had asked all data collecting agency to aline with them to enhance a Central Data Base for all Nigerians.

Above you listed the added features on the card, I don't doubt it can do all you mentioned, but let's go backwards;

A national identification card is basically a card with digitally embedded information - photo ID, basic bio metrics which includes most importantly thumbs print. It's sole purpose is to establish an individual's identity.

Can my identity really be established with my current NIMC ID, yes it has my picture, names, but is that all needed to identify me?

Can my residential abode be traced NO,
Can my thumbprint be used for identification, for instance if obtained at a crime scene NO,
Is there's any certainty that the age on my ID, is my actual and not official age NO,

Before issuing ID card the following should be in place:

The NIMC needs to work with the national population commission, once an individual is given a birth certificate, s/he should be issued a ID card to be renewed at a set interval.

All LG local govt need to undertake house numbering, any location where people live or can reach should be numbered - steet address and house number.

This address will be synced with NEPA and other agencies that send bills, banks that send dividends etc.
To obtain a NIMC card you need to show either an affidavit from the owner of the house that you live there or a copy of a utility bill with your name.

This is just a tip of the iceberg, the lists of actions needed is endless. All the authorities need to do is little research.

joseph1832:
And a big fool is the one who always ask for money and others things, but refuse to open up when sunny comes demanding.

If you want a transaction where money is exchanged for b.ooty, I believe what you need my dear is a prostitute.

Biggest joke of the century, one might not like Buhari, but for now there's no competition. PDP has failed to restructure and purify their party, the other opposition parties LP, KOWA have been dumb since the elections.

Buhari has what Trump also has, die hard fans, regardless of policies, statements made, actions or in actions, they are in full support.
I think nairaland calls them zombies.

I admire that though. Politics is a game of numbers

funlord:





A man whose priorities are having his security details dust off his gucci loafers in public is who you think should "sit up"? This man couldn't "sit up" if he was at a dinner table



He has always been an un-charismatic and incompetent oaf! Ask any of your friends in the military about him and check out the disdain they have for him! Get familiar!




By the way You are that mature babe innit? So you may abhor my colorful language but its all good! Even the mods have given up! The _fuck off option is the best option for this national turd!

Hmm, so you noticed my typo.
Everyone deserves a chance, though I am unaware of his work history, I believe everyone deserves a chance, I think some people call it, giving benefit of the doubt.
He hasn't spent up to a year in office, all he needs is a query, and more time. If he maintains the same status quo, then by all means remove him.

Your dislike for him seems more personal than professional.

We need an effective database management system, I wonder WHY NIMC is still issuing ID cards??

How can you issue card to people that are not traceable, no adequate housing numbering system, no personal identificationnumber, no nothing and you are issuing identification cards.

We need a consolidated database, a centralized database, not just the segmented BVN database, National population commission database, NIMC database and now the database for the vulnerable .

At least 1 good news.
We need more of this mehn, our morale economically is at a low ebb now.

This adamu...
O that was rude, happy birthday sir. Though your role in the previous administration WAsn't commendable.

Retaliates? How do you mean??, the mode of rearing cattle is wrong, you don't just move on the streets with cows. It aint done like that.

The federal govt., Minister of interior specifically should have issued that statement not Fayose, regardless I believe the budget has appropriation for creation of grazing fields.

Why don't they emulate their leader Buhari, he built a ranch for his cows.

funlord:





Good!



That minister of interior 'Dambanza abi na dambuzu' needs to _fuck off!

I agree with you to some extent, maybe not as far as him "f.ucking off", but he needs to sit up.

He hasn't issued a single statement since the Niger delta bombing, not to talk of leading a delegation there. .

The silver lining though is that now Nigerians, like never before, are holding their public office holders accountable. That's definitely a plus.

whogoscam:
So my wife is celebrating her 25th bday today. So I'm just wondering what I can get her.

Men and women in the house, what do you think? I was considering a teddy bear (She likes teddy bear alot) but I was calculating how I would walk into a shop to buy a teddy bear at my level.

So guys any mature recommendation?

Why not a vacation, Nigerians hardly do it. Buy tickets cross river - Obudu cattle ranch, or some other resort (if you don't have kids though). Spend the weekend together. It will be a birthday she will always remember.

BTW, your comment above "at your level", there's no level to buying a teddy bear. No shame in that mehn.

Or better still order the teddy bear (the huge ones, think they are called "Giant teddies" , cake and a million balloons and have it delivered to her workplace.

craziebone:
so a guy his wife's age is not mature? How comes men younger than some ladies are the ones rulling the world, running most of the multi national coorperations we know?

Success in your profession doesn't equate to success at home. The most successful business men aren't the best husbands.

It's often the opposite, quite frankly, as you cannot serve two masters, you focus on one at the expense of the other (but that's an entirely different topic).

Life is a journey, the longer you're on the road, the better equipped you are at maneuvering potholes and other hurdles on the way.

Older men have this experience.

On the contrary, a fool is one who thinks because he gives her money or spends on her, he's entitled to some boo.ty

Hmm, is this marketing

Hmm,
Very random question.
I would send some one to either purchase another gown for me(if financially buoyant), or to bring another attire from my home, change and enter the dance floor like nothing happened.

Either way, the problem is solved without ruining my day.

joey150:
At what age do people generally stop becoming children? With reference to your child statement.

And experience dosent neccesarily come with age. The more you do something or engage in something,the better experienced you are. A person who at a young age has seen the world and travelled places,is more experienced than a 50 year old man that has been stuck in his village doing the same thing.

Age dosent mean anything,its no barrier for those who want to soar higher.
Cheers!

Most conclusions are based on probability, odds.
Now I ask you, which has the larger probability, what's most probable in reality.
A youth (in his twenties) that has seen the world or travelled places (as you put it), or a 50year old man that has done same.

The latter of course, this doesn't negate the possibility of someone younger being more experienced, it just shows the chances in relation are slimmer.

In life we base most of our decisions on probability, you would rather send your child to a school with a higher success rate, because the probability of your child going there and achieving same is higher.

In the same vein, I, and infact most rational individuals, when looking for a mature guy would use age as the first criteria, atleast to shortlist, if not to ultimately choose.

Hmm, y'all weren't aware of this before, passing through the friend phase, dating phase, courtship phase??
Interesting.

Cutehector:
dahs one tin abt u ladies, u ladies dnt ask questions dats just d fact...

Yall never try to find out who really ur man is... u only wait for him to tell u, whch isn't right...

It really baffles me sha...

Hmmm. So we are supposed to find out who you are Interesting....
Communication is 2 way my dear and there's a different between talking and asking.

If I regularly have to ask you before you say, then there's a problem...

@OP, Your No.1 though "1) You still slap your girlfriend in public with the slightest provocation".
Are you allowed to slap her in private

It's not so much about my physical appearance,it's my work ethic, I am a workaholic.

I just can't help it, up sometimes till 2am working.

That shi.t gotta stop.