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CareerRe: Which Is Better, Handwork Or Salary Job? by Rubyjade: 2:50pm On Jun 13, 2023
Everybody in Nigeria these days is talking of learning handwork but something we all seem to be missing out is the fact that learning a handwork also has it's own problems and disadvantages.
for me here are few of the problems:
[1] poor or zero capital: majority of people spend years learning a handwork but when it's time for them to start-up you discover that most have little or no capital to start up.

[2] offenssive boss: if you have ever learned handwork in nigeria you will discover that some master or the persons teaching you handwork can be very rude and offensive at times.

[3] low customers or patronage: yeah you see people who after learning handwork getting a customer to patronise their trade can be very hard at times.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Neighbour Is Loud All The Time by Rubyjade: 2:44pm On Jun 13, 2023
cheesy
FamilyRe: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade(op): 2:42pm On Jun 13, 2023
This kids are super smart, my cousin is less than 2ys and he can operate an android phone
descarado:
Baaad girl cheesy
My kids can hack your phone within minutes. I don't know one can access tiktok through YouTube. I never owned an account. Noticed one watching something on the TV and when asked he said since last yr.
Music/RadioRe: Top 10 Nigerian Dance Styles Of All Time. by Rubyjade: 2:00pm On Jun 13, 2023
1) FOCUS DANCE. : Street Pop Producer , Ajinomoix beat produced the viral instrumental beat titled “Focus”. The dance was popularized by dancers , hagmandc and abatiade on the social media platform – Instagram.

The song has achieved critical success and entered the top 100 trends on TikTok as well as getting endorsements from stars like Micheal Blackson, Davido, Pogba, Burna Boy and many more. The Remix of the song with Dice Ailes has amassed over 500k views on YouTube . The focus dance remains one of the most successful dance styles to come out of Nigeria this year.


2 ) ANOTI DANCE : Wizkid released the deluxe version of his Critically acclaimed Made in Lagos album in August , 2021. A standout from the deluxe album is the Afrobeats tune and P-prime produced single “ Anoti” which also came with a new dance step . Wizkid teased the dance step on his IG almost two months before the deluxe release and the dance became quite popular upon release leading to anoti dance challenge on social media platforms Instagram and TikTok.


3) CHO CHO – Zlatan Featured Mayorkun and Davido on the single “ Cho Cho “ released in April , 2021 . The P prime produced joint is an uptempo joint that also came with the energetic cho Cho dance style which was quite popular in the country . The Winner of the Cho Cho Dance Challenge went home with a Million Naira .


4 ) PERUZZI STAMINA DANCE – Peruzzi Created the Stamina Dance which mirrored the strength of an ape and connotes stamina . The dance was featured in some of Peruzzi’s singles released in 2021 including Lagbaja, Somebody Baby and Sweetah .


5 ) AMAPIANO/ HAPPY FEET – As the popularity of the South Africa Originated music style “‘Amapiano “ grew, so did a couple of dance styles . The Happy feet dance and other dance steps generally associated with the Amapiano genre were also quite popular this year .
Jobs/VacanciesWhich Creative Way Can We Go Please With The Subsidy Removal & Effects On SALARY by Rubyjade(op): 2:00pm On Jun 13, 2023
Hello Joblanders, with this subsidy removal and it's implication on the disposable income of the workers. If the company is not in a position to increase it's staff salary immediately, what measures can we take to ease the burden on the workers?
Are we going to subject about 60% of workers salary as taxable while the remaining 40% should not suffer tax ?
Which creative way can we go please?
Your kind contributions are highly welcome in advance.
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Rubyjade: 1:54pm On Jun 13, 2023
Nothing personal.. < note: pls read this with a very gentle and polite voice, that is how I would say this if I were to say this in person wink Because the voice we use to read makes a lot of difference in how we take the message >

why should we ask the whole world on NL about a problem we have a with a person whom we are living with.. it just takes a simple direct question and it should be done.. Just because we have communication access to the whole world, we probably are creating a communication gap with the people who we interact.. we see mom asking a question about her child and a child asking a question about his/ her parent.. I strongly feel.. When possible, any problem or confusion should be discussed with that very Same person.. only the second step should be asking others.. like friends or family or quora…

Chill.. and have a happy life

She might just be a very nosy person or maybe she doesn’t trust you. My fiance has a cell phone and keeps a journal and I never touch them. He occasionally uses my phone with my blessing but he never goes through it. I don’t think your wife going through your things is normal.

Change the password on your phone and don’t tell her what it is. If your journal is on a computer, password protect it too. Explain to her that she has no reason to distrust you and it bothers you a great deal to think she doesn’t trust you. You are entitled to some space, even within a marriage. See how she responds. She’s already invaded your privacy a great deal, so if there is nothing there for her to be upset by, she should accept your point of view when she understands how you feel. If not, then you’ll have to decide how you feel about that.
FamilyRe: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade(op): 1:50pm On Jun 13, 2023
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ahnie:
I take number 3 very serious,I have once had serious issues with someone because of this same nasty comments.

And he stopped that nonsense.


An incident played out today and I was proud of how my daughter handled it,the lady was vexed,my daughter told her she was panned out running errands for her,that she needed a break,the lady was offended,and wanted spanking her,my geh told her not to dare spank her that she has right to object to whatever she is not comfy with.
Then she excused the lady.

Me I was just watching the free episode cheesy
RomanceRe: Hygiene: What Tips Do You Have To Be Attractive To A Potential Partner? by Rubyjade: 4:25pm On Jun 12, 2023
Every person is different and everyone finds different things attractive. Some of us prefer intelligence, others humor and third money and luxury. It is entirely up to personal preference. So, some people might be more attractive but it does not mean they are better looking. It just means their personality is well combined. There are some psychological traits that can make you more attractive such as the following 5.

1. Body language


Communication is not just about sharing words; it is actually about body language too. The way you stand, act and behave around people tell a lot about you. A simple smile tells you are open for conversation, and lack of eye contact makes you seem uninterested in the conversation. So, try to be relaxed and don’t lose your calm. Avoid using your phone while talking to others because it gives the impression of a rude person. Also, biting your lips makes you seem insecure.

2. First impression


We only have one chance for a good first impression and it only lasts 30 seconds. However, even though it can be changed later, it is actually very difficult. So, always try to leave a good first impression and present yourself as a confident and polite person. Shake a person’s hand when greeting them, and try to have a proper conversation.

3. Don’t be too involved with yourself


Worrying too much about how your hair looks or biting your nails may make you seem insecure and extremely nervous. Don’t be too loud but also too shy during a conversation. Also, avoid using your phone because it makes you look like you are avoiding people.

4. Self-care


Not spending a fortune on clothes or cars is fine. But it is important to invest in things that matter such as clean and well-shaped nails, properly trimmed beard as well as ironed clothes. Your entire appearance matters, so instead of wearing tons of makeup, make sure everything is in the right place. Simplicity is key.

5. Don’t be boring


This is a difficult point because it is difficult to figure out whether someone finds us boring. Also, it is hard to get involved in a conversation with people who don’t have similar interests with us. But, avoiding any type of communication makes you look antisocial and boring. If you are not informed about the topic, listen carefully and ask questions to learn more about it. This makes others feel like you are interested and will make them more comfortable around you


How do I become a more attractive person?
This is what I learned in my 20s.

1. Although you may feel alone, you are never alone. There are people out there that can relate to you, understand you, or support you. You just need to weed the crowd and find those right people, hidden in your day to day life.

2. Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Stay healthy to treat yourself well. Learn what healthy really is.

3. Learn to be alone and independent. Provide your own source of energy and passion. Shine upon others.

4. Put yourself in new, different, and uncomfortable situations in order to unravel the way you think about life and construct a better thought out reality.

5. All of the above lead to confidence. Girls/guys are attracted to all of above.
TravelRe: Relocate Or Stay In Nigeria (serious Dilemma ) by Rubyjade: 4:17pm On Jun 12, 2023
Do Nigerians regret leaving abroad?

Based on the experiences of my Naija Uncle's wife and friends, they miss the food (tough to get yams in particular), social atmosphere (although online forums help with this: she still texts in Pidgin to family and friends), and, to a lesser extent, the social attitudes.

Of course people miss the comforts of home, but Nigeria is not a comfortable place, so there is, quite frankly, less to miss.

That said, if Nigeria found effective leadership, and began to make needed improvements in security and infrastructure, we’d both happily move back. A Naija with even marginally better prospects of safety and improvements would attract many back home.

I love hot weather, travel to places with local customs and cultures, spicy food and cold beer. I still hope one day to start a school around Lokoja, or just north in the FCT. All we need is more reliable light, fewer kidnappings, and a president who cares as much about average citizens as he does about cows.
RomanceHow Can I Stop Cheating? by Rubyjade(op): 4:04pm On Jun 12, 2023
From DM
I am married with kids, my wife is a good wife and a loving mother to my kids and I have been cheating on her, how do I stop?
BusinessRe: Help How Do I Get 25% Pension by Rubyjade: 2:24pm On Jun 12, 2023
Kindly visit your former company, they will issue you this documents:

1. Letter of termination

2. Accrue letter

And I hope you still have your former company I.D card, employment letter,

All this documents you will take to your pension office with your bank statement for processing
CareerRe: Jobs City by Rubyjade: 2:22pm On Jun 12, 2023
What are problems that could be lucrative to solve in Nigeria?
I believe it is important to have a mindset that looks to add value to people, help people, contribute to the society. When we add value, the money would come. There are many problems in Nigeria that need urgent attention and creative solutions. The importance of technology in problem-solving is essential.

The internet is a medium that connects people, the successful tech companies (Google, Facebook etc) at their core connect people - they connect people to other people, they connect people to the things they love, to things they need.

Concepts that would help me find a problem to solve is asking questions like "How can I connect people to things they need? ", "How do I make life easier for people (myself inclusive), more convenient, much more enjoyable? ".

In answering these questions, look around you, the problems are right there, staring at you, waiting to be solved. They are problems you face yourself, if it affects you, you can be sure it affects some other people.

Some problems include:
1. Poor service at restaurants get overlooked all the time
Solution: Create a website/app that helps people review service at restaurants in an area.

2. High rate of unemployment
Solution: Teach people valuable skills e.g. Graphic Design, Photography, etc to help them become self-employed.

3. Inconsistent Power supply
Solution: Design an affordable solar power system for households.The electricity bill has been passed, this is a great opportunity.

4. Traffic-jamin Lagos/Subsidy removal in Nigeria
Solution: Car-pooling; charpell has started this - [i]https://www.nairaland.com/7655248/diary-jobless-developer-creating-startup
create a website/app that connects drivers and passengers.[/i]


When you do decide on a problem to solve, please focus on that problem, persevere and you will be successful. I wish you all the best, and I believe you can indeed make life better for us all while making a healthy profit.[/font]
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 2:20pm On Jun 12, 2023
What are problems that could be lucrative to solve in Nigeria?
I believe it is important to have a mindset that looks to add value to people, help people, contribute to the society. When we add value, the money would come. There are many problems in Nigeria that need urgent attention and creative solutions. The importance of technology in problem-solving is essential.

The internet is a medium that connects people, the successful tech companies (Google, Facebook etc) at their core connect people - they connect people to other people, they connect people to the things they love, to things they need.

Concepts that would help me find a problem to solve is asking questions like "How can I connect people to things they need? ", "How do I make life easier for people (myself inclusive), more convenient, much more enjoyable? ".

In answering these questions, look around you, the problems are right there, staring at you, waiting to be solved. They are problems you face yourself, if it affects you, you can be sure it affects some other people.

Some problems include:
1. Poor service at restaurants get overlooked all the time
Solution: Create a website/app that helps people review service at restaurants in an area.

2. High rate of unemployment
Solution: Teach people valuable skills e.g. Graphic Design, Photography, etc to help them become self-employed.

3. Inconsistent Power supply
Solution: Design an affordable solar power system for households.The electricity bill has been passed, this is a great opportunity.

4. Traffic-jamin Lagos/Subsidy removal in Nigeria
Solution: Car-pooling; charpell has started this - [i]https://www.nairaland.com/7655248/diary-jobless-developer-creating-startup
create a website/app that connects drivers and passengers.[/i]

5. Here's another WhatsApp group doing great things for Nigeria Unemployed population Job Openings | Upload your CV on Google Drive so that you can always have it handy. https://chat(.)whatsapp(.)com/JU42UFVjLvwDezKKcpLdmJ

When you do decide on a problem to solve, please focus on that problem, persevere and you will be successful. I wish you all the best, and I believe you can indeed make life better for us all while making a healthy profit.[/font]
RomanceRe: Have You Had An Encounter With A Mad Person?? by Rubyjade(op): 2:19pm On Jun 12, 2023
wink
Samantha124:
A nyaope final year student that was busy studying in the library and all of a sudden started acting weird?

The following day there were videos of him disrupting the library.

Well, I don't know... Maybe he was on drugs, maybe he wasn't, I don't know.
FamilyRe: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade(op): 2:18pm On Jun 12, 2023
wink
Meerahbel:
Do not sexualize your daughter, wear her age appropriate clothes, she's too young to be a slay mama or a slay queen, allow kids act their age.
FamilyRe: My Wife Has Not Allowed Me Touch Her by Rubyjade(op): 2:16pm On Jun 12, 2023
huh
achimendy:
What kind of advice does he want, are they supposed to tell him to fix his door b4 he will know. What kind of irrational man is that ?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Introverts, How Do You Cope At Your Work Place? by Rubyjade: 2:15pm On Jun 12, 2023
cheesy
McStoic:
I respect introverts but hate their selfishness and over analytical nature
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Introverts, How Do You Cope At Your Work Place? by Rubyjade: 12:33pm On Jun 10, 2023
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SaturnNick:
You just nailed it. Thanks, for sharing how we feel cool cool cool
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 12:33pm On Jun 10, 2023
Job Title: Dynamic Video Editor

Location: Remote

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Are you a whiz with video clips? A dynamo with digital content? Can you stretch a 1-minute voiceover into a riveting 5-minute video piece that glues viewers to their screens? Do you also possess an uncanny knack for completing tasks in a heartbeat? If so, step right up, because we might have just the job for you!

Our bustling multimedia studio is seeking a professional, talented, and most importantly, SPEEDY Video Editor. This is a one-month, full-throttle project that will challenge your abilities and test your mettle. Buckle up, because this isn't your regular 9-to-5!

Here's the fun part: we provide all the footage! Your task? Morph this footage into polished videos that captivate, entertain, and inspire. It's like being handed the raw ingredients to a sumptuous feast, and your job is to cook up a storm!

But wait, it gets better (or should we say slower?): your mission, should you choose to accept it, involves slowing down our footage and voiceovers to increase their length without compromising on quality. A strange request, you may think? Well, we like to do things a bit differently around here.

The pace is fast, and the work is challenging, but don't worry: you'll be generously rewarded. We're offering a total compensation of #300,000, payable in three suspenseful installments. Just like the climax of a great movie!

Here's what we're looking for:

Responsibilities:

- Be a video-editing wizard, capable of turning raw footage into gold.
- Take on the challenge of slowing down our footage and voiceovers to extend their length.
- Be comfortable with tight deadlines, delivering one folder of edited content per day.
- Show flexibility, ingenuity, and resourcefulness. Want to add your magic touch? Go for it!

Qualifications:

- Proven experience in video editing.
- Proficiency in video editing software and tools.
- A fast-paced worker who doesn't crumble under pressure.
- Creativity and problem-solving skills.
- Excellent communication and collaboration skills.

So, are you ready to embark on this fast-and-slow-paced adventure? Ready to take on our challenge and create videos that are slower, longer, and infinitely more interesting? Great, because we're excited to meet you.

Send a mail to creddypensmedia@gmail.com with a copy of your CV and samples of your previous work.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 12:31pm On Jun 10, 2023
Communication or Assumption.

Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge, someone once said. And another said that it is the lowest form of intelligence.

Conflicts fester and communication gaps continue to widen in workplaces, due to assumptions, miscommunication and/or ineffective communication.

We are often blind-sided by our prejudices plus biases, and commit ourselves to actions and inactions based on our assumed frame of reality.

He’s a Gen Zee and impatient, she’s a boomer and old-fashioned, they are millenials and not focused. And the war continues!

At the performance management level, I assume I am doing very well but an expectation gap exists between my manager and myself. The feedback mechanism isn’t utilised by both parties. And conflicts persist. Job dis-satisfaction. Disengagement. Quiet-quitting. Resignation. Replacement hire. And the cycle continues.

Seek clarity in communication. Give precise, clear and unambiguous messages and feedback. Avoid assumptions.

Let’s reduce conflicts in workplaces.

When in doubt, err on the side of caution; just ask.
RomanceLife Described As An ACCOUNTANT by Rubyjade(op): 12:30pm On Jun 10, 2023
* Humanity should adopt the psychology of possibility

* You are built to be the HERO of your life

* To hustle is the courage to go out there and work it out until you find the opportunities you want in life!

* Take the leap of faith from having a Victim mentality to being a Hero of your life

* So how do we look at the Balance Sheet of our lives?

* Birth is Opening Stock

* Death is our Closing stock

* What comes to you in your lifetime is your CREDIT

* What goes from you in your lifetime is your DEBIT

* Your BAD habits are your LIABILITIES

* But your GOOD habits are your ASSETS

* Have more ASSETS and less LIABILITIES

* Your HEALTH is your Goodwill - Remember the old adage: Your health is your wealth

* Your Soul (Atma/ Atman) is your FIXED ASSET - This is permanently yours so make it wonderful

* Your HAPPINESS is your PROFIT

* Your Sorrows are your losses

* Your Character is your Capital - Build it to be better day by day . Be consistent - persistent (DMOP - Daily method of operation) in this endeavour

* Your KNOWLEDGE is your INVESTMENT

* WE all age every moment and that is our DEPRECIATION

* FINALLY Karma is our Auditor (in this life to the next)

* So think about it and work relentlessly to build a nice BALANCE SHEET of your life and help others to build theirs

* Credits - Himani's Happiness
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 12:29pm On Jun 10, 2023
* Humanity should adopt the psychology of possibility

* You are built to be the HERO of your life

* To hustle is the courage to go out there and work it out until you find the opportunities you want in life!

* Take the leap of faith from having a Victim mentality to being a Hero of your life

* So how do we look at the Balance Sheet of our lives?

* Birth is Opening Stock

* Death is our Closing stock

* What comes to you in your lifetime is your CREDIT

* What goes from you in your lifetime is your DEBIT

* Your BAD habits are your LIABILITIES

* But your GOOD habits are your ASSETS

* Have more ASSETS and less LIABILITIES

* Your HEALTH is your Goodwill - Remember the old adage: Your health is your wealth

* Your Soul (Atma/ Atman) is your FIXED ASSET - This is permanently yours so make it wonderful

* Your HAPPINESS is your PROFIT

* Your Sorrows are your losses

* Your Character is your Capital - Build it to be better day by day . Be consistent - persistent (DMOP - Daily method of operation) in this endeavour

* Your KNOWLEDGE is your INVESTMENT

* WE all age every moment and that is our DEPRECIATION

* FINALLY Karma is our Auditor (in this life to the next)

* So think about it and work relentlessly to build a nice BALANCE SHEET of your life and help others to build theirs

* Credits - Himani's Happiness
Jobs/VacanciesRe: RJ Vacancies by Rubyjade(op): 12:29pm On Jun 10, 2023
Role: Tax Accountant
Job Description
● Prepare and file tax returns accurately and timely.
● Conduct tax research and analysis for clients to identify and recommend tax savings opportunities.
● Monitor and maintain the tax filing calendar to ensure that all required tax filings are submitted timely and accurately.
● Develop, implement and maintain tax compliance policies and procedures for the company.
● Review and reconcile tax accounts and resolve tax issues with tax authorities as needed.
● Provide tax planning advice to clients to help them minimize their tax liabilities.
● Stay up-to-date with changes in tax laws and regulations and assess the impact of these changes on clients' tax positions.

Requirements
● Bachelor's degree in Accounting, Finance or a related field.
● Professional Certification is a must. ICAN, CPA, etc.
● Minimum of 7 years of experience in tax accounting, including experience with tax planning, tax compliance, and tax research.
● Knowledge of federal, state and local tax laws and regulations.
● Strong communication and interpersonal skills.
● Excellent time management skills and ability to prioritize tasks.
● Proficiency in tax software and Microsoft Office Suite.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSctyFFPWm6vxyHzD9uhF1wyUnToaITt-9i4_PjFxu4vI5lBvQ/viewform
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City vs Inter Milan (1 - 0) On 10th June 2023 by Rubyjade: 12:28pm On Jun 10, 2023
cool
SaturnNick:
See as I serious dey read shocked shocked shocked
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Introverts, How Do You Cope At Your Work Place? by Rubyjade: 11:06am On Jun 10, 2023
I used to work with several engineers with diverse personalities but many of them were somewhat introverted. I found being kind, leaving them to their work and not forcing them to be overly involved.

For the most part, they were thinkers and not as introverted as they appeared. I discovered once they got comfortable with me that they would chat and we'd laugh.

I think the key is to try to be understanding, try to make sure they are comfortable around you and don't pressure them to do what isn't natural to them. Invite them to social activities like luncheons and other things but don't be surprised if they don't attend. I used to ask one if he wanted me to make him a plate. Eventually, he attended.

As long as they are doing their job, leave them to it. People in certain positions took those positions because it doesn't usually involve social activities. Engineers, accountants, dishwashers…there’s a lot of jobs that don't need to be social. Assume that's why they choose that job.






Introverts are not rude or arrogant. We just keep ourselves to ourselves and get on with things. It doesn't mean we're unfriendly.


1. Allow them to get settled in at work in the morning before talking their ear off. Introverts sorta have to acclimate themselves to social environments such as work or parties every time.

2. Keep conversations short and sweet unless they are keeping the conversation going. Nothing is more awkward than a person that won’t stop talking to you despite your clear lack of interest in what they’re saying. Just say “hi” and keep it moving unless they are clearly in the mood to talk.

3. If they say their “fine” or “okay” just take their word for it. Don’t try to probe for more information or try to get them to open up to you. We’re naturally quiet, reserved, and have bitch resting faces! We’re not sad or upset…that’s just how we are naturally.

4. If we decline the invitation to the office happy hour or Christmas party, please respect our decision! Don’t try to convince us to go or ask us why we don’t want to go. We would just rather avoid large awkward social gatherings! And everyone, (even extroverts) can agree that office social events are a bit awkward!

5. Don’t tell them that they need to be more social in the office. The only thing we NEED to do is our freakin job! Everything else outside of that is extra credit. And we are also well aware that our social withdrawal may cost us a promotion but we’re perfectly fine with that! Co-workers are just that…coworkers…not friends!

6. Don’t try to force them out of their comfort zone by putting them on the spot. We aren’t “shy” extroverts who need to get out more. We are introverts who actually prefer flying under the radar. Don’t make them give the presentation to the whole office! Don’t make them wear the stupid Halloween costume for everyone’s amusement! Don’t put them on blast in mass emails! Don’t make them give speeches to the whole office! Just leave us alone!!

7. Don’t make our quietness seem like an issue. Almost all of my supervisors have said “Gosh! You’re really quiet!” In reality, we’re similarly bothered by how loud everyone else is but UNLIKE you, we don’t make a big deal about it. We accept people for who they are. SO WHAT, if I’m quiet and you’re talkative?? People are different. Don’t make me feel uncomfortable for being who I am!

I know I listed 7 points, but it all boils down to 2 things:

ACCEPT THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE
LEAVE THEM ALONE UNLESS THEY REQUEST OTHERWISE!
FamilyThe List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade(op): 7:40am On Jun 10, 2023
The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age are boldly listed below…

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now s#xually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of s#x. If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year old how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. “THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME”
FamilyRe: I Need Somebody To Teach Me A Genuine Side Hustle. by Rubyjade: 7:37am On Jun 10, 2023
Aurelius1:
I recently got a job that pays 50k as a hotel manager. The location of the hotel is quite far from my house. The problem is I hardly see my family ( wife and kids). If I take time out to visit them to spend the night na wahala. He wants me there 24 hours to monitor the place. I am beginning to think about working for some then quitting to start something small. In the meantime, I need somebody to teach me a side hustle so that when I quit I won't feel the heat financially before finding my feet.
Please I need some advise on the way forward.
Look at the business the hotel would need and supply it to them.
FamilyRe: I Need Somebody To Teach Me A Genuine Side Hustle. by Rubyjade: 7:35am On Jun 10, 2023
Aurelius1:
How do I reach out to you sir?
join m y c r y p t o n g on telegram
RomanceRe: Have You Had An Encounter With A Mad Person?? by Rubyjade(op): 7:27am On Jun 10, 2023
Samantha124:
I was chased by one some years ago at around 2am.
Wetin you de do outside at that time.
RomanceRe: Have You Had An Encounter With A Mad Person?? by Rubyjade(op): 7:26am On Jun 10, 2023
Illegal1:
Omoh.......i've encounter them several times...


i met 1 at eluma(river state)she came to ask money frm me and i gave her 200 naira,ever since then, it was as if she marked my face bcus she always cums to ask money frm me wen ever she see me.bt i've nt seen her for sum time now,mayb she has relocate to another state....


i also met 1 at igbogene(bayelsa state)omoh...dis mad woman was loved by almost every body at igbogene junction bcus she was so neat and harmless,u hardly blived she's mad....up till date,i never see grl wen get voice reach dis woman...dis woman can sing...
I don't think those are mad women.
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Rubyjade: 8:18pm On Jun 09, 2023
What are the Disadvantages of Using CEX ?

1. Centralized Control: CEX platforms are operated by centralized entities that have control over user funds and trading activities. This means users must trust the exchange to handle their assets securely and fairly. Centralized control can make CEX platforms vulnerable to hacking, theft, or internal malpractices.

2. Privacy Concerns: When using a CEX, users are often required to provide personal information and complete Know Your Customer (KYC) procedures. This can raise privacy concerns as users' personal data is stored and potentially shared with third parties, making them susceptible to surveillance or identity theft.

3. Counterparty Risk: CEX platforms act as intermediaries in trades, matching buyers and sellers. This introduces counterparty risk, as users must rely on the exchange to execute trades and process withdrawals. If the exchange faces technical issues, financial difficulties, or becomes insolvent, users' funds could be at risk.

4. Limited Control Over Private Keys: In most CEX platforms, users do not have direct control over their private keys, which are essential for accessing and managing their cryptocurrencies. This lack of control means users are dependent on the exchange's security measures and may face challenges in recovering their funds if the exchange experiences issues.

5. Limited Transparency: CEX platforms operate under their own rules and policies, which may not always be transparent to users. Price manipulation, trading restrictions, or sudden policy changes can occur without prior notice, potentially impacting users' trading strategies or investments.

6. Market Manipulation: Due to the centralized nature of CEX platforms, they can be susceptible to market manipulation. This includes practices such as fake volume reporting or insider trading, which can distort market prices and harm unsuspecting traders.

It's important for users to carefully research and choose reputable CEX platforms that prioritize security, transparency, and user protection. Additionally, individuals who prioritize self-custody and control over their assets may consider using decentralized exchanges (DEX) as an alternative option.

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