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PSTEMMA1960:
Good evening..... I still haven't received any reply yet....

PSTEMMA1960:
ok sir.. I've seen it and also sent a message to u sir...thanks..

PSTEMMA1960:
ok sir....I'll send u a friend request.... What I saw was Chika Okorie Emmanuel, not sure if that is correct?

unclesuruoffi:
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s ex-wife, Anita in a new blog post wrote about a couple who happy on the outside but are facing the reality of a dead marriage. According to Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s ex-wife, a spouse who is at the center of a 'dead marriage', sometimes end up spending many years of endless hope in anticipation for a change, enduring a relationship that is bereft of life. Her blog post has been linked to what allegedly happened in her marriage. 

Read what she wrote below;

Happy Anniversary to the best couple in the world

Wife : Hello

Husband: How are you?
Wife: I amgood. How is your day?
Husband : Good
Wife : Today is our anniversary. Happy Anniversary.
Husband : Happy anniversary.
Wife : I noticed many greetings on social media wishing us a happy anniversary. I find it confusing to read comments from your close friends saying “ best couple in the world”; it sounds like a complete joke, when they know we rarely see each other. We see each other at most ten days in a year; I can’t understand their reason for making this comment, such flattery. It is confusing to me.

Husband : Well, at least they sent their greetings.
Wife : Their greetings are on social media, no contact by text or by email.
Husband : Silence
Wife : Hello
Husband : Yes

Wife : I sometimes wonder if we are married. There is nothing more to this relationship to indicate we are married apart from a ring on my finger; the ring is another story and our pictures are interjected because we are rarely together to take a proper picture. I feel sad that we are not together.

Husband : Look, I have told you over and over again that we cannot live in the same country because we are very busy and one country is too small for both of us. I expect you should be able to figure that out.
Wife : One country is too small for us?

Husband : Yes and you keep coming back to ask the same question.
Wife : Okay. Since you don’t often call either, please call the children, at least once a month. They go on for months without speaking with you. I noticed they don’t seem to care anymore.

Husband : Okay
Wife : That is about all.
Husband : Silence (breathing sound)
Wife : Have a beautiful day.
Husband : Silence (breathing sound)
Wife : Bye
Husband : Silence (breathing sound)
Wife : Hello
Husband : Silence (Goes off the Phone)

Wife : Okay

Facing the reality of a dead marriage, where a spouse spends many years of endless hope in anticipation for a change, enduring a relationship that is bereft of life. Believe it or not, this was somebody’s experience and is another person’s state of affair.
There is so much in life to be enjoyed.


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/25/pastor-chris-oyakhilomes-ex-wife-anita-writes-about-a-dead-marriage/

PSTEMMA1960:
Thanks very much sir, I really appreciate every bit of ur message....

The oppression aspect of it had stopped since 2 years ago...after much fasting and prayers....

But I still hear their voices and the serious hardship and disappointments...

PSTEMMA1960:
I understand u very well sir, but what about in the situation than after giving ur life to Christ u are still been oppressed?

There was a time I almost ran mad, I don't sleep at night, they press me till day break, I hear there voices very loud and clear ( that I must serve them because it was a covenant)

As for me I rather die than to serve an Idol, but I can't help my self that's why I'm here asking for a way out...

I still pray to God everyday, in fact God still shows me about peoples problem and I do pray with them and they get instant testimony...

When I was in Benue I prayed for some people who came to me for counseling, some of them are commissioners now 1 even brought his appointment later and have to me acknowledging that it was me that God used to bless him..

But after that u won't hear from them again, not one not 2, all of them..

Even when my rent experied I summoned courage and met the man for help, the man dribbled me till I stopped going..... I know that there are some barriers that I need to break.....my mum's siblings are rich, some in the UK and South Africa, but they don't pick our calls...

Even my 2sisters that are married are passing through hell, my only brother I haven't seen him for 7 years, though we do speak on phone......

Ishilove:
Sounds like village people troubles

truthsayer009:
Well, there is one thing for sure. If he opens a church, he will make tons of money. I mean there are many of this churches lurking every where who keep deceiving people, seeing fake prophesies & what not.

Open a church, Organize fake miracles, Collect money, wake people from the dead then proceed to giving them Jollof Rice. Viola!

Ekakamba:
Please a relationship that is leading to marriage, which road does it normally pass?

mp3ree:
She is even telling me we should still be dating,but no marriage.she is still interested in what i give her ,i have this idea of just using her to satisfy my urge until i find another lady.meanwhile no more mr generous on my part.
what do you advice on my plan

martineverest:
it's so stupid to see a fellow Niger Deltan make such comment...did u see the federation allocation to various states that was revealed yesterday?

bayelsa,akwa ibom and Delta allocations combined is almost 10 times that of Kano state,even tho Kano population is 2x more than those states combined.

what is bayelsa (with population less than Ikeja local government) doing with the resources given to them ? Delta state( with population bless than alimosho local government) is riddled with underdevelopment but receives the highest federal allocation.


it's so ironic that the states with lowest allocation in South South,Edo and cross River,are the ones doing wonders with Thier allocation
Delta state remains the most stupid state in Nigeria

obembet:
Nice picture

DavidEsq:
Wow! I feel ur scripture bereft quotes. "AMAZING"

potbelly:
Move over bro... I am here already...

Biglittlelois:
I do not know why guys with muscles everywhere doesn't freek me

DavidEsq:
I see confusion everywhere in this write up. If all the righteous go to heaven, for whom wld the earth be left? Does the bible teach that? Psalms 37:29 says:
"The righteous will possess the earth,And they will live forever on it".
On the issue of citizenship in heaven, Jesus Christ told his 12 Apostles that they would sit beside him and judge the world (12 tribes of Israel). Why didn't Jesus say dis to the 70 disciples as we are told in Luke 10:1 that he sent out 70 disciples. It shows that there are a select few whose citizenship is in heaven. Revelations 7:4-8 makes this clear. That is why Revelation 14:1 says:
"Then I saw, and look! the Lamb standing on Mount Zion, and with him 144,000 who have his name and the name of his Father written on their foreheads".
At verse 9 of Revelation 7, we see another set of persons described as an "uncountable" crowd. This uncountable crowd are those who would reside on earth. This is because verse 9 identifies them a holding "palm branches", verse 15 says they are rendering sacred services to God "day and night" and verse 16 says they will "hunger no more", nor "thirst", nor be "scorched by the heat from the sun".
These items: palm branches, day and night, hunger, thirst and sun are only found on earth. U may say "isn't it when they go to heaven that these things wld happen"? Well I ask u dis: would u say something shall be no more in a place where it never was?
Hunger and all the other factors were never in heaven, so why say they wld no longer be, when they were never there in the first place?

Ishilove:
Let's pity mama and meet in the middle- 3days

Ishilove:
There's nothing you can do. Move out and leave her to her devices. When she enters trouble again, leave her to stew in her juices for two days before bailing her. When next she sees trouble she will think hard before pursuing it.