₦airaland Forum

Wordsfrombimpe:
Double Date means platonic and if you read to comprehend

I stated no premarital sex

No billing too, I just wish I was a woman, I will teach most of you what it mean to have standard.

Why will you bill a man and deny him sex, is he your father?

Patrickker:
Very true. Save employment that they may grant, the prices are even going to soar. When Dangote bought Benue Cement Company Gboko for instance, we all jubilated here and thought prices were going to crash, but we unfortunately saw the prices doubled. Infact, a bag of Dangote cement in Benue where the product is produced costs more than it is when the same product is taken to Kano. The rich always have a way.

Just another way of raising his stakes as one of the richest men in the world. Plus or minus, it is good for the economy, but don't expect prices to crash.

How is it good for the economy?

Vinnie2000:
*High in Fuel price
*Inflation of Food prices
*Charging of Exorbitant Prices by Business owners e.g. Barbers, Salon, Hotel, Football viewing centre owners, etc
*Financial constraints in most firms.
*Delay in Salary payment
*Laying Off of workers.
*Increase in House rents.
*Hunger in various Household
*Increase in Petty criminal activities.

The Above..👆👆 are the NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES of Tinubu's Thoughtless removal of Subsidy.😏

Plz, Those that say It will Benefit Nigerians, LongTerm.

PLEASE TELL US HOW.
LET'S LEARN FROM YOU GUYS.🙂🤨

Nplfmod.

Fuel subsidy removal is good for an economy, but not for our type of economy. Nigeria is very corrupt and underdeveloped.

Before removing subsidy on petrol, there are economic structures which should have been put in place, coupled with finding alternative to subsidy removal, and the best alternative is refineries, see I mentioned REFINERIES and not refinery. We must have refineries not one, not two.

Then, government must priorities economic growth, this will increase investment, production, reduce cost of commodities and create employment, only this can caution the effect of subsidy removal. Don't listen to them when they talk about making transport available, how many Nigerians will benefit, or giving 5k to poorest Nigerians, the same ignorant mistake Buhari govt made that made inflation go up.

Yes, the only benefit of subsidy removal is that those billions would be used for other projects, like developing the health and education sector, build infrastructure to drive development, but I ask, have there been allocation for that in the budgets and what did they do with it.

I say this and will keep saying it, unless we can get governance right, that mean getting a president who will manage our resources well and use them for the betterment of the people then let subsidy remain.

BluntCrazeMan:
Inside the PETITION,, I could clearly read where they mentioned ELEVEN STATES, and then went ahead to write “AND OTHER STATES”


LP had produced the results in the mentioned 11 states,, and proceeded to continue to produce the results in some “OTHER” additional 7 States, making it a total of 18 States in all..

How can the INEC be expecting Peter Obi to tender only the STATE-LEVEL Collated Results for the States they were disputing, without him tendering all the Polling-unit Results, and all Wards Collated Results, and all the LGAs Collated Results of all the States he intended to dispute..??


For the Fact that he wrote “And Other States” inside his petition,, he is at liberty to dispute the whole if the 36 States and the FCT...
Thus, the 11 mentioned states are sacrosanct..
Any other states he added are at his choice.

These people don't know Obi, man was prepared for the court case more than the election self, they should as Ngige, Obi might lose the court case, but he will expose these corrupt institutions.

Fineman2:
My name is Dora.

I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.

My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.

My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.

The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.

From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.

He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.

He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.

I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.

Are these not red flags I should run from?

I am confused, please advise me.

In your mid twenties, there was a young man, who was loving, always let you have your say in matters that affected you both, but I guess you saw him as a weakling and immature, now you have the controlling man at 35, what can I say.

Dump him if he is controlling.

drlateef:
Only one governor to show for Obi and less than 20 reps and 1 senator. And he wants to prove that he won general election. No be juju be dat?

You see how daft you guys thinking is, how is gubernatorial and HoA elections now a parameter in measuring who won an election.

garfield1:
Obi winning Lagos is not important afterall atiku won osun.obi won nasarawa- narrowly.according to obi lawyers,he won benue- by 20,000 votes which makes no difference.his failure to perform well in SW and core north killed his ambition

Obi won the elections, just follow the court updates, we will reclaim our stolen mandate.

Ekemini11:
From today henceforth, I will be posting updates of proceedings at the Presidential Election tribunal to help prevent fake news.


Source: Seraph Ibrahim
https://twitter.com/TheSerahIbrahim?t=oHTf7fTEXdAzOazSiVsHtg&s=09

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garfield1:
How did obi win? Gej won the SW and NC? Did obi win SW and NC?

Obi won Platuea, Won Benue but was rigged out, won Nasarawa, what else do you want in a 3 man tight race.

Obi won Lagos, a state Tinubu governed for 8 years, we don't expect Obi to win any state in the Sw but he did.

garfield1:
Is the topic about fuel? The topic is about Desmond Elliott,go to fuel topic and discuss there.meanwhile,tell obi to wa himself to the core north and try again in 2031

Obi won the elections without the vote of the Muslim core North, just as Jonathan did in 2011, and he is proving that in court, so let's wait for the court.

garfield1:
Is the topic about fuel? The topic is about Desmond Elliott,go to fuel topic and discuss there.meanwhile,tell obi to wa himself to the core north and try again in 2031

Oga what is your reason for winning an election, just so people will say that you are with a party that know how to play dirty politics...

Everything about 2023 general elections have to do with the suffering Nigerians are passing through.

garfield1:
You guys have refused to learn.are you with atiku or obi? Obi did not win,he was never going to,getting 90%in se and dominating social doesn't translate to winning aso rock sir.even in taraba,he lost upon all your noise

I asked a simple question, you buy fuel for 60 naira?

garfield1:
With hon Femi gbajabiamila rumoured to be the next chief of staff,he would vacate his house of reps seat creating a vacancy in surulere one federal constituency.desmond Elliott is from this same place and is the next in line.this is his third term in the assembly and I feel it is time he is elevated.he is also close to hon femi.he would be the first Nollywood actor to get to the national assembly.



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Oga, I heard you now buy fuel at 60 naira per litre. Meanwhile, we are coming for our mandate.

Back to your topic, not only is he close to Femi, he is close to Lagos GAC members or what they call them, he have a high chance, but money might change hand and dude doesn't have that type of money.

All I see is comments from people who have little or no knowledge of macroeconomics, exchange rate is the last thing you rush to temper with.

When a country devalues it currency against other currency, it means just one thing, that country is operating a mono economy, which is very bad. Why the rush to devalue the naira, who will it benefit, Dangote, Otedola, Elumelu?

Tinubu should prioritize diversification, import substitution policies to strengthen the manufacturing sector and allow our exchange rate yo float.

That was how Buhari poor policies were hailed until we became beggers online.

N3TRAL:
Only applicable in NNPC filling stations.

Unpopular opinion:

NNPC is no longer owned by the government. I see the corporation monopolizing the downstream sector.

If the forces of demand and supply are to determine pump prices, NNPC has the capacity to sell at the lowest rate. They should buy up and rebrand filling stations across the country.

Do you really know what the forces of dd and ss mean? If NNPC are buying up fuel stations nation wide, then there is no forces of demand and supply here.

UptownVibes:
You say? Biggest refinery o? You can say the price will be high,but he can always supply the quantity you need. That refinery is large o

Simple demand and supply law states that the higher the supply the lower the price. Biggest refinery? Dangote refinery has the capacity to refine 600,000 barrels and that is even on paper.

Stop taking Nigeria newspapers serious, if fuel prices should go down, then there should be more than 5 private refineries, the competition will bring down price. Dangote refi very will not serve and even if it does, price will go up because he will run as a monopoly.

Nazgul:
N300 is too much biko. With dangote refinery fully operational, I'm expecting it to be way cheaper than that.

Which dangote refinery, you people are funny, how many litres of fuel can dangote supply?

Funny.

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Love still dey dis one eye, those qualities you mentioned is because you are in love, when she go show you shege, your eye go clear.

Most guys saying that they can date and marry a so called CAREER woman are saying it because they probably have not been I to one before.

I read of men coming to nairaland to cry about how their wives disrespect, don't cook, don't give them sex and when the man complain, they ask for divorce. Listen, those narcissist ladies you call career women will put their career ahead of you, and no man can ever put up with that, later you will get tired and become a nagging husband.

plenitude:
Hello guys, share with us your experience dating a career lady. I’ve never dated one but my guy is currently dating one and he told me she’s trouble free with zero baggages🤭

They are mostly narcissist...

PARADIZEPRIEST:
POVERTY IN AFRCA HAS MADE AFRICAN WOMAN SEE MAN AS SOLUTION TO ESCAPE THEIR POVERTY. THAT IS THE SADDEST REALITY OF TODAY,EVEN IN MARRIAGES OF YOUTHS,THEMAN PAYS FOR HOUSE FOOD, MEDS,BUY CLOTHINGS YET THEWOMAN CANT SPEND A PENNY WITHOUT ASKING FOR REFUND.

Imagine a Nigeria girl telling me that if she doesn't ask me for money, is it her father she will ask. I told her she is her father's responsibility.

Just imagine Nigeria girls mentality.

thesilentman:
BRO...the reality is that love is not enough and will never be.Being a provider is one of the most attractive quality in a man.

Being a provider to who, your wife or your girlfriend. Which law states that you should be a provider to your girlfriend?

Kobojunkie:
1. Umunna settles disputes indeed, however, the divorce/marriage abandonment rate amongst those who were hitched following your traditional ways is just as high as the rate for those who simply registered their marriage in the court without dragging ummuna along with them, so what exactly is the benefit for the extra load when the changes are same no matter which way you take?

2. So no privacy in marriage between man and wife, it has to be broadcast for the world to review and decide on their behalf?

3. Kindred indeed! So kindred will also be in bed with man and wife to decide all they do and think? What is the point of maturity when kindred will still come in to make decisions for one?

Do you know the worst form of immaturity and lack of privacy? It is going to marriages councillor or pastors to settle marriage disputes, because those people are total strangers.

Kobojunkie:
1. Umunna settles disputes indeed, however, the divorce/marriage abandonment rate amongst those who were hitched following your traditional ways is just as high as the rate for those who simply registered their marriage in the court without dragging ummuna along with them, so what exactly is the benefit for the extra load when the changes are same no matter which way you take?

2. So no privacy in marriage between man and wife, it has to be broadcast for the world to review and decide on their behalf?

3. Kindred indeed! So kindred will also be in bed with man and wife to decide all they do and think? What is the point of maturity when kindred will still come in to make decisions for one?

Like I said bro, it is either you are still young or you are from a tribe where cultural values are not respected.

Kobojunkie:
I don't know about you but weakness is exactly what you described here. Consulting outsiders when it is his relationship and life is sign of immaturity. This is an issue between himself and his wife. He needs to work with her to deal with it. Did OP also consult this ummunna when he was dating the same woman or what?

It is either you are still young or you do not have tradition, what do you guys think TRADITIONAL wedding is all about, Adobe? Pictures?

In Igbo tradition, the Umunna settles such dispute by visiting the woman family to talk yo her, the Umunna went with him to marry that woman, and when such dispute about leaving her husband house comes up, they are invited, between, what do you think Umunna is, some sort of strangers? These people are part of your kindred.

That's how it is done in Igboland, tradition bro, tradition.

Whites go to marriage counseling, that's their tradition, we to Umunna meeting, that's our tradition.

promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....

You are an Igbo man, why come to nairaland to seek advice, report the matter to your Umunna, let them carry it up from there.

Don't be a weak man.

Lordcassy:
This is what happens, when you do not take time to digest the redpill properly and just run with what you have at hand..

Young man, I understand the message you are trying to pass but your message is full of impossibilities

A woman with that much bodycount can not be submissive..damn she is going to argue doing wifey thing with you, so no hygiene and I will be damn if a woman with that brain of dicks past.. contribute anything valuable to your life...my man she has be jaded...if you want her to submissive, you have to out alpha all her exes (herculean task).

Don't fall for your own bullsh!t...a woman like that will be manipulative as Bleep...she is the proverbial Delilah (funny the biblical Delilah was submissive untill she wasn't ). When you get married to her..the beast and trauma of exes with big and small dicks will reveal themselves..

Young Man... dealing with a woman with that high body count is futile.because she will not pair bond with you traditionally..

Trust a woman to be woman...if you are unlike me, whom a woman's virginity and youth is unnogiatation for marriage..

Then you have to make sure that your impending whôre finance feel like she won you... don't make that hoé think she settled..if this happens you will be miserable.

She has to fight to get...let her fight against her own jadeness with men and fight to get you...one simple way is to cheat...let her suspect..let her fight your side chick and stick with you... anything less from a whôre with many bodies... it's futile...

There are more takes but maybe another day...well there are exemption here and there...so if you want to chase after the lottery...then you are welcome to..


Young Man focus on your self, read the tenet of the redpill..build your value to the best of your ability.

Have frame, muscle, money and game..most of all spin plates... don't date just one girl at time...maybe then you pick up on something...you haven't so far...

When become the "Man" ...then you can select a young virgin or at least a conservative modern woman....if that much of a G and sti chose a whôre as wife then you are on your own...

It not delusional to worry about a woman body count..

A woman is interested in a man Future and a man is interested in a woman past

You are welcome....

Pls send me some redpill books, here is my email, oogechukwu06@gmail.com.

Thanks so much.

DEROX:
fulani marry white

Informal education is not a crime, travel more. Not everybody in the North is Fulani.

Guys, pls who has this book "The rational male" , help a brother. Here is my mail oogechukwu06@gmail.com

Flows001:
I'm working towards that..
Everything is already in order, both families are in support and we both are perfect.
She's almost graduating from the University and I'm also hoping to improve my finances before then, so I can marry her either before she goes for NYSC or immediately after.

Better check out for other things, no be virginity you stay with forever, character is one important thing you must look at, I am talking from experience.

neonly:
How old are you pls

It is not about my age bro, I was just a SIMP in love then, I am old enough to start up a family.

Kongaone:
A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.

Oga this story was made up by you, so many fake lines.