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AmazonTopaz:
Yes oo I hate hypocrisy if cannot even criticise someone because for wetin I dey guilty of shame go dey catch me

It is good to put your money where your mouth is.

cococandy:
A hysterectomy is by far way more complicated and dangerous than a vasectomy. It’s major abdominal surgery. Risk to life and limb. Long recovery. Excruciating pain. It’s a totally unnecessary procedure to be used as a birth control method.

Is your second paragraph a jab at me? Una don start now. I’m only just seeing that. Let me ignore the subtle dig. I’m not saying every woman has the same healthcare needs. It will definitely differ from person to person. I’m saying we shouldn’t be providing better access to married women than the single ones . Explain to us how being married makes one woman more deserving of reproductive healthcare than the other. I’m waiting.

AmazonTopaz:
Yes because when women support one another incredible things happen .

Acidosis:
What if I tell you that I have never seen a female condom? I have no idea what a female condom looks like. That shows that men have been playing their part for years. Many women out there don't even know their safe period.

AmazonTopaz:
Very true anyway it starts from all us when the time comes I will start the conversation with mine

pocohantas:
All the values (mostly evil) you guys have promoted. Did you wait for women to help you spread the word? Why are you now waiting for us to help una?



Lol. Enjoyment go kill the husband with all thise qualities.

Acidosis:
When your son agrees to a vasectomy, I will consider.

Acidosis:
Uterus is uterus but how many single ladies can gladly say yes to "hysterectomy"?? You want to do what a mother of five does with her body but when the doctor tells you to remove your womb, you will run.


The world really needs more women who are realists. Unfortunately, many of you aren't. Even some acclaimed nurses who should know better (that marital status play a lot of role in healthcare) have continually sacrificed their professional practice and knowledge on the altar of gender fight/equality.

pocohantas:
Na real wa. One person get all these qualities?

cococandy:
Indeed. I could write a whole book on this matter.

And it’s not even a desire for self preservation per as. One just gets tired of sounding like a broken record saying the same thing over and over.
I’ve written a few epistles about it in the past.

AmazonTopaz:
You know what, I think we should be advocating for male vasectomies because men can impregnate as many women at a go yet they don't get held to a standard in playing their own part in preventing unwanted pregnancies which could lead to abortions they get a pass while women get to bear the brunt.

If men were open to vasectomies believe me women would not be having unwanted pregnancies that may lead to abortions.

In countries where abortions are legal because of easy access to family planning and even the abortion services the rate of abortions are much lower but in countries where it is not legal it doesn't mean that it does not happen o they just go through the back door alley to get abortions which could be life threatening for them

AmazonTopaz:
I understood your point what I meant was that before seeing your post I pointed out to coco candy that single women don't find it easy to access family planning options like married women do and when I saw your comment I realised that someone(you) had already pointed that out.

I only concurred with your submission.

AmazonTopaz:
What I just pointed out to cococandy. The double standard nor tire you?

cococandy:
Yes. Sadly the notion that married women deserve certain rights over single women is upheld by women. It’s a lot to unpack.

They’ll come for my head now if I start as if I don’t like married women. But I think all women deserve equitable consideration . Marriage doesn’t place one on a pedestal over being a single lady or single mom.

compton11:
I want males

ahnie:
Just bn sarcastic.

compton11:
cos u said I used reserve it for my daughters

cococandy:
Married or single it’s the same. Marriage doesn’t make one woman better than another or more worthy of reproductive rights & healthcare than another.

I’m saying this because in my experience, people find it easier to judge single women for having abortions but will excuse it if it’s a married woman.

Saintmary:
In Ondo State, unmarried women were excluded from the free family planning initiative provided by Dr Mimiko's administration around 2016. The discrimination was perpetrated by Nurses in Primary Health Centers. You must come with your husband.


I wonder if women's uteruses are only activated by wedding rings.

ahnie:
I did 37 abortions last week,now m looking for my womb


Incase you see my lost womb,pls kindly help me hang it at my door knob

Beremx:
exactly!!

obembet:
I believe abortion is not a good thing for both married and single ladies ( even though some stupid guys pushed single ladies into it... That's off topic anyway). But there some married women that determine not to have kids again due to the numbers they already have, Some even go for family planning but the truth is family planning do failed.

Now in a situation where couple already have kids and base on thier income and planing, they decided not to have kids again but woman get pregnant. If they allow the baby to grow, it will affect the financially.

So it's Biblical for the woman to terminate the pregnancy since the it's early?


Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Mukina2
dominique

Beremx:
Single women—— Abortion
Married women—— Termination of pregnancy

compton11:
Im yet to have children

NewDadTroubles:
Good morning Nairaland


I'm going to be as explicit as possible and I need professional legal counsel/inputs to the issue stated below. (Pardon all blunders biko)

My wife recently got fed up with her place of work and decided to tender her resignation letter. She happens to be in the teaching profession and we all know what goes on in the private teaching schools (Most anyways).

On Friday the 4th of March which was supposed to be her final day at the school, the school's HM instructed her phone to put her phone on her desk (HM's) on the pretense that it was an open day and didn't want her distracted. She did exactly that and the day went just fine, after which, she dropped all the school's materials/properties with her and left.
On getting home, she went through her phone and discovered that her WhatsApp messages and conversations had been deleted, text messages deleted, all her contacts deleted, and all chats on her phone read. As if that wasn't enough, a few of her contacts called her to tell her they received messages from the school asking what her relationship was with them? Imagine!!!

Moreover, I think it is also good I state the fact that she and the HM haven't been best of friends due to an event that happened sometimes back between both parties. But for her to pick up her phone and go through it, and not just that, but also deleting her chats and wiping off contacts, deleting photos that has to do with the school, that's to the extreme haba!!!

Is there any legal ground to pursue this case or is it me just being emotional hurt that my wife's privacy has been trampled upon and I need to act. What should be my next point of action?

Thanks
NewDadTroubles

compton11:
yinmu

Didn't they have Brain to reject the corruption when they were being corrupted?

Deborah98:
Rip to him. I think I'm the only one that hasn't watched this movie or just don't like movies. It's well ooooooooooooooo

compton11:
Lisa sparks the madam OG of all oloshos.


May God give us good daughters plus niggas are getting scare to give birth to females these days!

reiddecuti:
Lovely! A lady with brain.

Not all these clitocurrency abi na vaginaterian everywhere looking for who to damn!!!

lalasticlala:
As shared by StatiSense:



https://twitter.com/StatiSense/status/1485002666866614278?t=SSYCkDmBMCpbvFONYLeqFA&s=19



https://twitter.com/StatiSense/status/1500054902382469120?t=JqI6VAN_gU_CevYo0Ls8DQ&s=19[/quote]Very wrong statistics.


Why not keep quiet if you don't have the facts.

Ishilove:
He seems like a very problematic person.

gistmega:
With the increased invasion of countries in the asian continent, why has western African escaped any sort of physical invasions like Yemen, Syria, Libya etc?