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Saturn444:
Your ignorance is now understood. Who the fucck breath into mud and it comes alive. You have got Genesis wrong. You need to read the Epic of Gilgamesh. The poetry where all Abramic Religions were copied from.

Don't be silly.

There was life before Earth and Life after Earth. There is life augmented. Evolution created a vehicle not a Spirit you morons.

Reason as a spirit not as a body and your egoistic Neanderthal understanding will give way to enlightenment.

So I have been chatting with root Chakra activated beatials.

How low can this be.

Look at you!!!

Helper of women.
Tamer of aggression.
Advocate, and benevolent million-dollar philanthropist reduced to throwing cheap insults on social media.




You have so much money, no restraint.

Where is your maturity?

While accumulating cash and properties, certificates and accolades, where did you place self development.

Emotional intelligence? Where is it?


Look at you!!!!


I was correct when I said it's so painful, when you see supposed "educated people" exhibit primitive behaviors.

So disappointing.

People easily get triggered when discussions turn towards religion. It really is the opium of everyone.


I was hoping you'll be different. Too bad.

cococandy:
you can’t even say what you mean. Is it because it’s shameful?

Don't waste your breath on this one.

Saturn444:
If you do not know what base reality is, then your assumptions are wrong and you ate not qualified to talk to me.

Humans have existence before EARTH incarnation and have existence after death.

Don't be silly

God breathed into mud and man became a living soul. That is the beginning of existence for every human.

After one death, there is judgement for every human.

Now it's obvious I've been responding to a...............fill in the gap.

Saturn444:
You will end up destroying women the same way your life has been destroyed. That's my concern.

You're concerned that your life has been destroyed?


Anyone that expresses differing opinions from yours has been destroyed.


Don't you just love to use those terms on women?

Her life is destroyed.


I've never seen a man whose life has been destroyed.


Only women are destroyed, and are to be destroyed.


So, just because I pointed out your inadequacy, you had to bring out your guns.


Let's see what else you'll come up with this time since it looks like I will indulge you for a little bit.



Women are made to fit into your little boxes with no agency to decide their own destinies.


Oh no!!!! Women's destinies start and end with you!!!

And you just can't stand the thought of any change to your little status quo.



You just found them roaming about the planet aimlessly, so, let's harvest, boys!!!



I'm just on cruise mode.

I'm not your enemy.


You, and your forebears, are your own enemies because you have rejected wisdom.

Don't face front inugo, let me use you for writing practice.

Saturn444:
Mary,

You are admitting your actions and I am impressed by your expression of emotion. It is a protection mechanism. It is my responsibility as a man to, beyond taming the aggressiveness so expressed and offer more than facts, because facts do not care about our emotions.

Facts are structures that establish the levels of truth. But I am not here for facts, because facts also lead us to confirmation bias, since truth is relative.

I deal on the Absolutes, based on the Realities beyond expressions of facts.

We should always remember that most of the actions of men are expressions of effects, effects from the environment and the expectations from men from family, the society and even our higher dimensional creators. I can call those Actuators, so we must find the source of the actuations, and nip the actuators in the bud.

There is so much stress on human men, so much responsibilities and they have become programmed to react aggressively towards women, and towards their fellow men. And it has become very dangerous to our women.

Teach the women about intelligence, the source of intelligence and that will uproot the confirmation bias and show women that truly the men are suffering in silence, they are not able to cry. They do all sort of things just to meet expectations and then sub conscious mind goes into flight and fight mode.

Teach women to also make use of technologies to generate resources and help themselves as well as their husbands, boyfriends and their children.

Teach the women that it is not compulsory for a man to provide for them, that they can also lift a man from poor homes, marry them and change the lives of those men, and the lives of the lives of the families of those men. There are countless men who have married from poor homes and change the lives of those poor families without making it a war against women.

Please teach them to love the poor men, teach them to foot all bills and teach them that men are also humans and not beast designed for labor in exchange for sex.

Teach them that working hard and earning money is not a war against men, and is not a challenge against, but it is time to be a functional human and not a pusssy seller.

Mary, teach them the truth, teach them peace and not war.

I am not your problem.

Please face your fellow men and teach them to learn the reason for their existence from their creator, not their uncles, friends and fathers.

Everything I have pointed out is a result of thousands of years of subjugation, repression and untold pain that you have no capacity to understand, neither can you have compassion for it.


You wish to tame female aggression?


Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

You have learnt nothing from my posts.




You can't tell a fellow human you want to tame them!
When they are not animals!


Your case is D. O. A

Dead On Arrival!

Who will listen to a person who wishes to tame them, you will only get resistance as a response!!!


Hahahahahahahahhahahaha


I just laugh at your type.


You no reach



Go and improve yourself, and try better next time.


It's time for you to face front Oga, stop replying.

realvikash:
Yeah sure, one day they’ll be free from the whole sham it’s an inevitable fact!

I'm glad you agree.

Saturn444:
Enlightenment is great, but you are not enlightening them. You are creating rebels.

People rebel against tyrants.

If you are using tyrannical principles, your followers will naturally rebel.


But if you follow the Law of Truth and Freedom, you will draw all people to yourself.

I'm only concerned for the little child right now.

Truvelisback:
The men are SIMPS.

They're actually self-anointed alpha males.


Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

cococandy:
What is her root that she forgot?

They don't want women to be enlightened. Hence the protest.

cayorday89:
Well said ma'am, that heat of the moment is not for me oooo, my mental wellness and peace of mind is of utmost importance. I try not to bow to pressure.

Na so

realvikash:
Rest madam you act like you’ve been there before or did someone hurt you? You’ve been saying a totally different thing from what’s happening there.

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

It's laughable seeing people who think they can control their fellow humans through marriage, religion or by any other means.

The day they will break free, you'll be shocked

GGirll:
Your words are full of wisdom sir, I pray single ladies will adhere, I don't know d fuss about getting married this days well, Isaiah 4:1 comes to mind as d Bible is filled with all d happenings today but they will rather worship their pastors than to read the king James version of the word of God.

I'm female, thanks.

We allow pressure to get to our hearts and allow ourselves to be pushed into wrong decisions.

It's not easy to stay single when you're seeing even younger people getting married, you start to wonder if something is wrong with you.

But is it not better to take our time to chose right and become a good partner ourselves rather than rushing into marriage only to spend our lives in pain?


God help us.

cayorday89:
The above stated facts are my worries and I am a male. Truth is some humans can be terrible.

It takes the help of God to be able to avoid mistakes when choosing a life partner.



Lots of us want to get married, but there are so many traps out there looking like marriage proposals.


The hardest part is that when we are in the heat of the moment, marrying the right partner no longer becomes our priority until we have fulfilled that burning desire. Then our eyes will clear after marriage.


I pray that those of us who are still single will take better precautions so we can marry the right partner to avoid regrets in the future.



P. S. This is not to say that imperfect marriages are doomed, just that peace of mind should be our target whether single or married.

Saturn444:
My words, were not many; I said you needed a cerebral reset, cos you have forgotten your root. But you typed a whole lot, in response to a line of words of mine. It was an advice, not an insult.

Toxic behavior is a human problem. The stress is binary.

We can find toxicity in both gender types. My job is not to educate you, because Education itself is mind control. I have no intention of mind controlling you, cos you are already mind controlling the gullible, from a place of your own gullibility. My duty is to remind you of your root as a human and as a future ancestor.

It is necessary for every human being to earn a living and not be dependent on the others. Do not brainwash our young girls to believing that earning a living is a revolution against men or to stamp their independence from men. Men have been carrying the burden of providing for women for generations now, and we do not think we are warring against women. So women becoming financially independent should not be a signal that they do not need men. You all need presence of masculine energy to control your raging hormones, not even the sexual one.

Do not lead our ladies astray. We love women, and will continue to provide for them the best we can but we also want them to work, so they can understand the pain of hardwork so as to stop being of the opinion that love should be monetized. I am not your enemy, except you want to me make one.

Please be guided.

1. No human belongs to you
We all belong to God so the term 'Our ladies' is simply wrong.

2. The concept of work and the fulfilment that comes with it applies to each human, regardless of gender.

Working and making money helps a woman to be able to make her marital decisions without the pressure of money.

3. If you feel upset that I desire for ladies to be the complete human they were created to be by carefully choosing a husband that will not play a role in distracting them from their destinies by putting them in unnecessary competition for affection that should have been given out freely, which plays out in the case I was referring to, then I take no responsibilities for your feelings.

4. Every human has plenty of hormones in their body

Both male and female:

Insulin
Serotonin
Cortisol
Adrenaline
Prolactin
Progesterone
Oestrogen
Testosterone.

Now, women have prolactin, progesterone and oestrogen in abundance for smooth reproductive process and you will be surprised that women also have testosterone too.

Men have testosterone in high levels but they have oestrogen too.

So, the notion that a woman needs a man to help control her hormones when he is also under the strong influence of his own hormones is not only laughable, it's condescending and misogynistic!

5. You are afraid that someone will bring information that would open ladies' eyes to their capabilities and the reason why they were created

Love is patient and is kind. If you really love someone, won't you leave them to attain the greatest heights they aspire to rather than keep them in the ignorance of what they can achieve?

But no, people like us who inspire women to be great are your enemies, you don't want those women to be career conscious, because that means they won't have the time to be grovelling for your attention.

Is that love?

Is that all there is to life?

Sit down and become a liability, is that why God created women?

To have a complete brain, a precious gift better than all computers in the world combined, and then make it rot away because you don't want them to use it?


Who is the enemy here?

Who is the one who wants to waste away the best resources in the world?

Definitely not me.


6. I should be guided?

I think you should get an education!

It's so painful when I see people who have a lot of certificates actually behave like uneducated people. Now I see that wisdom is not acquired through formal education.

So sad.

Lovebliss2:
Not easy for women at all, no matter how they try to pretend.
It eats deep!

I'm glad lots of women can see through the facade.

Kobojunkie:
To an extent, I agree with your assertion and this because I have seen that it's typically women who are not busy in their own lives - not pursuing dreams and desires of their own - that are more prone to this typical MIL behavior. However, I don't believe it is the MILS husband to blame. A woman is a fully capable individual with complete faculties of her own

Of course every human is to be accountable for his/her decisions, but if it comes to love, hmmmmm.

That feeling makes us irrational.


P. S. Every woman should have a life, pursuits and goals. That will mitigate the effects of these little cycles we find ourselves in.

OBALOLA55:
POLYGAMY IS A BAE

Only for men.


But polygamy kills women, and turns the children into horrible adults except for those who make the intentional decisions to turn around their lives.




We only have one life to live.

Let's use it wisely.

Saturn444:
You need cerebral reset. You have forgotten your root.

And where is your own root?



People like you are the ones driving women into unnecessary competition with each other.


I'm here advising women to chose peace of mind over toxic environments. You're looking for roots.


If my words bring you pain, it's because lots of women will read my words and avoid people like you and your little games, thereby gaining enough peace of mind to fulfill their destinies.

Don't put your hands in my throat. You won't like the words you'll meet.

MufasaLion:
Your submission is wrong. It's full of false assumptions. Women tend to be more closer to their kids, it's natural as the father is mostly not wired to be too soft on kids. Moreover, irrespective of how much a father bond with kids, the woman will always be their emotionally for them unlike the father, hence the reason they bond more with mothers.

My post was about the relationship and bond between a man and his wife, not the bond between the man and his kids.


The bond between men and their wives are, in majority of cases, too weak.

For this reason, women overcompensate by loving their kids too much.


Please read slowly.

shegzhkn:
Lol, POTUS ke

For starters he is not a natural born US citizen.

I have not seen anything that is impossible on this planet.


Meanwhile, thanks for reminding me he's South African.

This is a lesson.

A chilling lesson to all single ladies:



Build yourself, even if you spend the rest of your life single, you will have peace.



A part time husband,
a polygamous husband,
a randy husband,
a man who never loved you,
a man who can't forget his ex,
a man who married you for any other reason but love.
a man who only wanted a baby
a fetish man



These men will bring you nothing but pain and sleepless nights.


Insanity is real
High blood pressure is real
Stroke is real
Dementia is real




How do you want to spend your old age?


Chose peace first!!!!!!!

God bless.

KevinDein:
Lmao
Babies in adult bodies can't take responsibility for anything.

When it comes to human interaction, it's not all black and white.

Lots of factors affect the outcome of a person's behavior.

It can be temperament
It can be environment


Hardly do I see anyone who sets out to be evil in their lives, to know that what they're doing is evil and to continue doing it. I have not seen.

When a woman gets married, the husband expects her to abandon her family and friends and focus on him and his family.

While this benefits the husband because he gets to isolate the woman so he can do as he pleases. In the long run, the woman, who has no support or defense ends up turning her kids into her friends and only means of support.


Once the children grow up and begin to start their families, the woman grasps at every means possible to keep the only friends she knows, her kids!!!!!!!


So, if the woman is a nasty person, or she has had horrible experiences for which nobody seeks therapy, well, she will take it out on anyone in close contact with her. And who is the easiest target? You guessed it: Daughter in law.

MufasaLion:
Men don't have entitlement mentality like most mother-in-law. And also, women are too emotionally attached to their children/wards.

The father in law is at fault, partially.


The time he should have spent building a solid bond with his wife, he got too busy leaving the woman to direct all her affection to her kids. Now it's not easy to break a bond that is firmly rooted in the brain.

The woman will definitely intrude in her children's lives.

It's a cycle as the daughter in law will do the same when the time comes because her husband is already neglecting her.

tctrills:
He was not forced to pay tax. Under US law, he could hold on to his stock. He is only eligible to pay tax until after selling stock so you are wrong in saying he was forced.
You do not pay tax for owning stock under the us law.
Musk carried out a survey asking the American public if the wanted him to sell some stock and pay tax. More than 50% said yes. Since he promised he would do what ever majority wanted, he went ahead with the tax.

Very smart guy.

If he ever thinks of becoming the POTUS, he already has a support base.

I'm really impressed by that gesture.

Nosayer:
If you know how much Americans (especially the leftists) drag their rich people over taxes, you'll marvel.

Humans are the same every where. The same way we accuse Dangote of tax fraud is the same way they accuse their billionaires of committing tax fraud too.

The difference is that rich people in those countries listen and make necessary adjustments.



Unlike Nigerian rich people who see the poor as dust.

POLYGAMY:
WETIN HAPPEN

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha


Tell the guy to console himself with the rest of his girlfriends naw, why is he embarrassing himself?


Shebi men are polygamous in nature.

I'm sure he has lots of girlfriends.

Where is the polygamy geng?

Na wah o.
Once you go to see a Nigerian "Counselor", they'll tell you that the man is on the "Autistic Spectrum". Never the woman.

awesonjr:
Hello,
I'm not necessarily looking for concrete answers here, I
was just thinking that writing things down here might help
a friend of my think things through and maybe people could make
suggestions or comments to help him in that process.
his been quite unhappy in general for at least the last three
years. For parts his been depressed, but for the majority of
the time he just engrossed himself in his interests during
his spare time, and avoided thinking about the general
unhappiness.
his been married for over eleven years. The last two years
of the marriage have been especially difficult.
his wife is neurotypical, and has been suffering from
depression for about the last six years. She doesn't work
and spends the majority of time sat on the sofa in the
same clothes with her laptop. When she's in a bad mood,
she's very difficult to be around.
About four years ago dey saw a marriage counsellor, the
counsellor had experience with people on the autistic
spectrum, and within a few minutes of speaking to him
suggested he was on the spectrum. It was the first time he
seriously thought about it and it helped answer a lot of
questions he had about himself. The counselling helped a
bit, but didn't resolve things.
About two years ago, his wife said she didn't love him any
more, and she left to stay with her parents for a couple of
weeks. dey talked things through and decided to try again
and she moved back in. But the experience really hurt him.
he feel like he just been drifting along the last couple of
years.
The last few months the unhappiness has increased, and
he felt depressed for periods of time.
Initially he thought it was because he had very few friends, and
so tried to do something to improve that. he met someone
online who he felt a connection with, it developed into
something more than platonic, dey met up for a few hours in
person, and he felt a connection and happiness with her that
he haven't felt for a long time. he stupidly fell in love with her
even though he hardly know her.
dey're still 'friends' but she doesn't feel the same way he do.
In 'another world', where he wasn't already married he think dey
might have had a chance.
So although he think this chance of happiness has gone, it
does make him think that he could potentially find happiness
in the future with someone else.
So sometimes his thinking he should leave his wife, give up
on the marriage, and try to start his life afresh.
Other times his thinking he should just be happy with what he
already have. he have a home, pets and lifestyle that he
worked hard for and don't really want to give up. he still have
a bond with his wife, who has made him a better person,
and on the good days is good to be around. But he don't
know if he still feel any love for her.
he started seeing a counsellor who has experience with
people on the autistic spectrum, and his hoping talking
things through with her will help him decide to what to do
with his future.
Whatever happens, his not going to make a rash decision
immediately.
Thanks for reading.

I laugh.

First, being a licensed counselor does not give you the right to make diagnoses, that's what some people spend up to 7 years in University to become CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST. Or psychiatrist for, you get?

A counselor can observe, note symptoms and refer you as far as I know........


I'm being harsh again.

Mr poster, your friend is probably overthinking things, autistic people don't overthink, they simply can't process social scenarios like everyone else does.


Tell him to relax and take his wife out especially during this holiday season, experience lots of fun and get back to routine once you resume work.

He's just bored. His wife is bored too.

Eletididi:
How can someone have a painless death?
Like the way we sleep without pain, how can someone die that way?
Saw a post about a machine that can off someone without pain

How old are you?

Ebelelivinston:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders. I need advice from bankers in the house.My father has been sick for quite sometimes now that he doesn't know where he is.We are three sons two daughters he has,our mother passed away for a long time now.My father has an account of which we his children know the his password because he do send us to withdraw money atimes.Ever since he has been sick,my elder brother has been in position of his phone and he has been making unnecessary transfer from our fathers account,I got to know about the unnecessary transfer via the bank app I have on my phone.Is it possible for me to go to the bank and change the sim connected to the account to another sim without him knowing because I have all the bank details but am afraid the bank would notify him and if he gets to know,he will deal with me.I want to do it because he's spending the money uselessly and I my father gets well,he would be very mad at him.Elders in the house what do I do plz

Your elder brother seems stronger than you in many ways.

You want to put a stop to his spending without his knowledge.

I suggest you get the account flagged, then move your Dad to your place. Things might be a bit tough but it's better in the long run.

Let it be obvious to the rest of your family that your brother is only after money.