₦airaland Forum

fkj950ax:
Nothing is written on anybody's passport if a visa is denied or approved. So rest the case with that.

Ask him to call the numbers listed on travel.state.gov to get more infrmation on getting a passport, which a google search shows US Citizens can get expedited services. Calls to US agencies are really helpful, especially for him over there in the US.

If you read 5 pages back on this thread, you'd know you can't get an appointment for visit visa in a year, so focus your energy kn him. I don't know if anyone on this thread can help really, but floor is open.

And just check here yourself https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/traveladvisories/ea/passport-covid-19.html

fkj950ax:
Why will you agree to pay N1m to someone to help you do something that is absolutely free?
And it is not a good idea to have someone fill out documents for you at any embassy and you don't know what was the content? US and UK share immigration information, and have a 2014/5 Treaty backing this.
That profile you don't know about is sitting in the US government database. Its not only Canada that shares data with the US.

Visa refusal is not a ban.
They don't write on your passport at visa centres. Its Border Control that writes (annotate)

The US issues Temp Passport, also called Travel Certificate to it's citizens if they lost or misplaced their passport and require a document to travel. The number on that document will be the same passport number (if you had one before) or the new passport (if you never had a passport issued).
Now, invitation letters don't require passport numbers.
Also, the US Embassy in Nigeria doesn't require invitation letters or give it much cosiderstion when you apply for a visit visa.
Even if he gets a passport in 4 months time, you can't get an interview date in 8-12 months, so wait out his 4 months.

oluayebenz:
Any travel history?
Fiance visa is even better, visiting visa interview is now 2024......

The best is for him to come over, chances of you going via visiting visa is almost zero....

duchess90:
This one pass my power..@sandra50 did you see the previous advice about knowing the course you want to study?and the breakdown on maintenance funds etc ...

I give up

Skymoore1004:
@Sandra50, do you have HND?

duchess90:
That's fine..First assignment 1) what subject are you interested in and have passion for and what is your budget

2) Look for schools and courses in the UK that fit that budget,use Google to do so.

3)Check to see what the course content is, the degree awarded ,school fees etc and then write the top 3 you might consider..

Come back to the house for more direction..You need to take it one day/information at a time

Your next post should be ,I am considering School A,School B or School C..then we continue with more assignments . You will get there if you are patient and do your part in searching

mimilyrics:
1. You don't need an agent to complete your visa application if you read the tier 4 rules and read up on previous posts in this thread. As long as you can defend your reason for choosing to study in the UK and why you've been out of the academic system for a long time, it wouldn't affect your application.
2.You don't need your corporate account for a tier 4 application, your personal account is what is required.
3. Act as their househelp as a way to circumvent the rules? Even if they agree, are they willing to pay you as much as you require for your services?
4. The only way a company in the UK can get you a work visa will be to sponsor you on a tier 2 visa and the requirements are no child's play. Those who have the tier 2 sponsorship will not give it if you don't have what they require.

slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

Inferno001:
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All of you insulting me don't have an idea...I advised OP based on what I would have done..did I force it on anyone? Did I say he must implement it? Its my handle and I am allowed to contribute same way y'all are...so why not transfer the energy and advice him better since mine doesn't make sense to y'all? Do y'all know how I handle my home? I'm not saying what she did was right all I'm saying is most people especially women attach importance to every first in their lives and it's understandable to want more for her kid but asking him to shout or beat or ignore her won't bring peace to his home..he can make her comfortable with the apology then caution her about the attitude exhibited... So that makes him a weak man? Na wa o

Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

...modify...
For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!!

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

MERCHANDISER:
Did You Call Odumeje a Fake Pastor ? You need to read this !
I see some Christians posting all sorts of bad contents regarding
Odumeje. This is wrong on every sides, because i have come to
understand that pastors are not perfect like we make them to
be.
I had previously chosen to just ignore but let me state that
Odumeje's crime is his inability to not speak English and his love
for casual outfits.
Odumeje has not done half of what your favourite pastors have
done, i hope you are cognozant of this fact, because i grew up in
the church.
While your pastor is buying private Jets, building world standard
edifices and schools that your children cant afford to attend,
Odumeje was giving Money to fire victims, food to the poor and
building roads.
While your pastor was allegedly looking for another female
victim to exploit sexually, Odumeje was showing his wife love
and being a father to his beautiful children.
Were we not here when Pastor Adeboye asked people to donate
1billion each? Were we not here when your GO in Abuja asked
his members to Jump into the cleansing Pool for 50k? Are you
not aware that your pastors sell mantle and olive oil?
While your Pastors move around with Armed men, Odumeje is in
the street mixing with street boys and girls, maybe thats why you
call him a fake prophet.
People that couldnt critisize the COZA pastor are insulting
Odumeje and thats laughable.
Some of your pastors have been banned from entering some
countries because of fraud, are you aware ?
Odumeje dances "in a worldly fashion" but your suit wearing and
English speaking pastor wines and dines with corrupt politicians.
I can go on and on but let me not open fowl nyash.

Things that
will make u a man of God

1: Your relationship with God

2. Your way of life

3: And ur spiritual background. Pls deduct that mindset that
reading ur bible, speaking good English we make u a man of
God

sandra50:
For sale...

(1) Office chair.colour(blue and white,mixed....red and black,mixed and black)
(2)wooden rack(furniture)
(3)walking sticks
(4)thick new blanket(milk colour)
(5)camping umbrella(big size)
(6)lawn tennis rackets,racket bag and backpack

Interested buyers call.08132265506

princegeremi:
Post prices here

Adaowerri111:
We are already missing Him.

Abogwara:
I feel very sad for my State. They ganged up to sponsor fake news against Okorocha which informed Oshiomole's stupid actions without knowing the truth. Till date they are still acting out scripts to prove their lies but yet very difficult.

Sundaypaul12345:
I dont know why i hate and dislike dis guy

tyup:
As long as they're illegal no shii esp those Mexican mafia

Trump should also do well to deport any Biafra patient lurking round US either legal or illegal

dingbang:
happy birthday

dingbang:
happy birthday