₦airaland Forum

Simbrixton:
biko iya mi nneoma don't be offended but you can't rewrite history the benin met us here

Even the oba of lagos said it he is a descendants of benin but the aworis have always been here I know igbos hate yoruba and hate guides how you guys are seeing this issue but what can I do I am only one man

Please baba mi you are wrong..it's rather you people that hate the igbo's..the people we had issues with was the Hausa's and when you people started to lick their asses we refused to join and it became an issue for you people.

uchefefe:
The bolded are good points. I guess I shouldn't let my frustrations get to me. I just get tired becuase it's not as if I want someone to sit down and give me lessons every day. Just speak to me in it, point out some objects a few times a day and tell me their meaning, anything. When I was putting effort into Yoruba, I always had friends willing to teach me and speak to me in the language. Maybe I will have to look online and find a tutor somewhere.

In your personal experience, do Igbo people in Nigeria often speak their language the way Yoruba people do?


I would like insight onto how you came to this iconclusion. I think it will help me.

My dear if you want to take the stress I think it's best you learn Igbo which is your culture..you can use to igbo..the spelling and the pronunciation.. Godforbid that I will have my kids and they wouldn't know how to speak my language.

Simbrixton:
i just read your life history and your anambra man that left you ndo what is not your own is not your own stop inciting violence after all you are a good woman and a Christian your root is imo state biko leave it like that and move on

We have our oba we have our tradition biko leave us how you met us

Bleep yourself..who cares?tell your own let's see if it's not as ugly as you face..by the way who is inciting violence?maybe you didn't read the comment I responded to..by the way I can only leave you if I'm in your state..this place belongs to Edo state so you are also a visitor so stop the noise.

Simbrixton:
meanwhile I am working with that Stanley guy I would track you soon maybe people will learn from you and stop this no mans land nonsense

Shut your silly mouth up you fool...I have also started tracking you too Azu...

Simbrixton:
u left imo state awoo idemili or mbaise came to lagos and you not giving us peace of mind I would track you

No worry

Common shut up there..anu..you left osun state to Lagos and you are giving us trouble in Lagos..I will depot you back to you state..I'm already tracking you and when I get you I will teach you the reason of your life..ozu..

Simbrixton:
so shall it be hope say u go dey sha because na u and ur family deserve to go down first anuofia land thief

Egu ohia..Na you and your family go first go down..ebila like you.

Simbrixton:
war go eventually happen I dey sure so be calm boko haram insurgency never end we will conveniently bring one to lagos

Cockroaches

Your mama cockroach..till then let's see how you will end..boko Haram like you.

sanesta:
Pls someone should remind Tinubu that APC is not like Lagos he controls anyhow..

His say in APC don't count.. Pls help me tell him that he has been used and dumped..

Imagine this frog eye telling the senators that either they support his preferred candidate or get out of APC like APC is his family property..I trust buhari and his men,they wouldn't even say a word until it's time for action and the will throw his back on the floor.

Simbrixton:
you have a point but we that would lead to civil war no reasonable igbo would say that and I really wonder what is igbo obsession with war sef

Personally I don't mind as I am an active soldier let's just hope it doesn't lead to that because you met us here and you have five states already na poor people go just suffer am but bring it on infact start a rally to say you own Lagos sebi una no like peace

And who is not ready for war?if we should get hold on gun then you all are finished.. without guns you people are scared of us how much more when we have guns...

You can be anything you want it's none of my business.

Simbrixton:
Gthe Royal family in England is from Germany the olu of warri is from edo the oba of lagos family is from edo the Obi of onitsha is from benin as well this has nothing to do with lagos land please stop inciting violence

We have always owned lagos but the ruler was from benin

If that is the case we also own Lagos.

forgiveness:
Don't the SW have the choice to vote whomever they want?

So why are you including igbo's in your fight against buhari if he doesn't hand over power to you people?

forgiveness:
Is Atiku a Southerner?

It's our choice to vote for atiku and not your failure buhari.

Simbrixton:
ur view of the civil war is dim do you know Awolowo was imprisoned in 1963 tafawa balewa and azikiwe where in charge do you know agiuyi ironsi had the chance to release Awolowo but that was years ago we must forget the past and not use it as an excuse for bigotry ten million igbos live in Yorubaland why can't they all move away if they really hate us

If we have to move away then you people will also move away and allow Edo people take back their land..

Simbrixton:
that means you hate yooba more than you hate hausa

Since you people said the northerners are the best thing to happen to Nigeria then let it continue.. because of them you people fought us and you think we will support you when your fight start?never.

WiLdFLame:
By 2023 both APC and PDP will zone presidency to South ...The south is not daft to zone presidency to north come 2023
The kind votes that will come out from south will make the north fear..in fact that day trees and stone will vote...let’s see as things unfold

By south you mean Yoruba's?you think the Igbo will vote for you people when you start fighting with the people you have been licking their asses?we go even vote for the make them continue..not only the kind vote that will come from South.

Obainoneandonly:
everyone knows dat its not compulsory and it's not written in d constitution....but what we had is a gentle man agreement dat power must rotate between the two regions.....if they don't stick with it,then they will create a precedent that no one knows d outcome

Anumanu.. between two regions ba?your eye go clear 2023 when they refuse to give you guys power.

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

If you are truly handsome and all that you mentioned then maybe she is a lesbian and doesn't have feelings for men.. probably she just married because the world was expecting her to so she is giving the marriage her best to make it work but can't fake the feelings.

Mumu people.. someone that just went to Bleep that guy that is carrying his bag in a hotel.

Ndi ara as if he is not the one that ordered for his arrest.

Amagite:
Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2018, Anita Ukah has started the compulsory National Youth Service Corps (NYSC).

Anita who is currently in Enugu state orientation camp, shared the above photo from her Swearing In ceremony today, March 29th.

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2019/03/mbgn-2018-anita-ukah-begins-her-nysc.html

No be only the most beautiful girl..she go meet people wey beautiful for camp there and shame no go let her come out..this one no be Photoshop beautiful you go see for there ooo

It seems some where eating while some where dancing before they were gunned down judging from their posture..satanic generation..abeg church of Satan no be your own Satan ooo..

GolDRoger:
Daddy freezer abi freezy wan set whc ppl free??
Wen he never sets himself free from stupidity

Wetin diswan wan tell me??

No be Etinosa aqain
the one who danced nude coz of 50k naira not dollar oo

You and your likes free

This should better not be by force ooo..which pension?the one you people will borrow from soon?you no fit help them create avenue on how to make money Na how to spend am Na him you want teach them as if they don't know how to save their money.

stephenduru:
A blind man regained his sight during last week's Friday Night Adoration during praises and prayers by Father Mbaka.

To show appreciation,he on Sunday 24/03/2019 for thanksgiving with his mother.

Below are photos of the excited healed blind man during his thanksgiving


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/03/blind-man-excited-as-father-mbaka-heals.html

I'm a Catholic but it's a lie..money hungry priest..he just went to arrange it to cover up his disgrace during the election..and people still attend the church?daft people.

Ask buhari too

Telling us to go wash Abuja toilet..that maggot filled toilet that students usually poo till they get to the door.. disgusting.

By the time you are done reforming that yourmumudondo Na your dead papa you go use am fight for now..fool.

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

If truly she loved you she wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place..she will keep on going back to that guy if you forgive her but this time she will play so smart.

The reason why I don't accept cheaters is because they will never stop cheating even when they are married..it's not your fault that she cheated so move on and find yourself another girl.. though alot of girls are like that but you will still find someone that her pussy doesn't scratch her..thanks.

Abokinah:
Its called TAX! Light headed Bimboo!

Azu

I called my ex who actually bought two shops there as at the time we were still dating..the issue they are facing is not about selling it..their problem is that Lagos state wants to be collecting money from the traders monthly which is something as paying for the shop rent monthly..shops they didn't build.. God save my brother's and sisters.

GAZZUZZ:
I just placed a call, and the place is confirmed to be open.

I also placed a call and confirmed it was closed earlier but now opened..they bought the land from FG and built that market now some lazy boys wants to be collecting money every month and any day they like when they are not the ones that built it.

BabangidaHamza:
Igbos are one of the most ungrateful and heartless people in Nigeria..
You guys bought land in any part of Nigeria but you dont want to sell to others.. If we start our own now dem go say we dont war, shun tribalism and all sort of stupid talks

Because they are killers including yourself..we don't kill our host..that chief has bought market..he is in for the big problem.foolish Chief that doesn't care about his people's life but money.