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What is the justification for this thread being on the front page?

teddyseun:
wow ,what if you seems not to like somethings about him ,do you move on to live with another man,for how long are you gonna be living with different men ,the point is we all have our differences and the ability to understand and copy with things makes it work.
tell me most people are still working where they working now cos they are coping with the stress of the work and the money involved, so if you want to stay married try n cope

The thing in in life we make our choices. There are somethings that we can live with or adapt to and there are others that we just can't. If when you guys are living together, you feel this is not something you'd be happy with, then by all means, leave. there are people who have discovered that their partners are control freaks, go through their things looking for evidence of infidelity, some guys expect their spouses/partners to be home 30minutes after they have closed from work, no going out, no phone calls to/from friends, they may be unhelpful slobs etc. i am not saying that it is a sure fire way, I am just saying that it could give an indication to the type of person you would be living with for the rest of your life.

coming soon

Fierce, Bold, Irreverent

Omolola1:
@ Sapphic

i no get time for you, but could we be friends i mean on the forum, i dont like fighting you know

Look, I do not go around looking for trouble o. It just irks me when people start being rude or abusive just because one is gay. I do apologise for the insults I hurled at you and hope we can move forward. Like I said on the other thread, no hard feelings.

@ Sisi,

You were right o, Check out the OP's incriminating posting chronology which I am pasting below (pay attention to the words in bold) -

precious68:
For the avoidance of doubts,Iam not impotent so not being able to satisfy my wife in bed.[/b]If you want a proff,then send your sister or gilfriend.Again,Iam not apoor lad who depended on my wife's family for anything.As far as I can remember,[b]in the five years of marriage,I have gootten absolutely nothing from my wife's family.The way I see it,They are just trying to provoke me to do something that may make me not a gentleman.Iam still waiting though to see what comes out of this.

From the foregoing, the bloke has been married for five years and according to him, he satisfied his wife. It gets even better below.

precious68:
Should a girl go around with condoms in her bag?Caught my girlfriend recently with a number of condoms in her bags.Does it mean she is having it elsewhere?

The lowlife was cheating on his wife barely two years into their marriage. Not only that, the randy goat wad prowling the whole of cyberland searching for more and more action as can be seen below.

precious68:
I need a babe to make me come alive. My dream girl must be genle and soft.[/b]She must not also be greedy.

This from a married man o. If he does this on the WWW, God only knows what he does in real life. There's more -

precious68:
[b]Do women really enjoy sex?or do they just pretend with all the sighs and moans?

The guy who professes to "satisfy" his wife in bed, does not even have a clue as to a woman's needs. He cannot tell whether his sexual partner is enjoying the sex, talk much less of whether he has satisfied her or whether she has had an orgasm or faked it.

Now this is the same hypocritical love rat who had the guts to "question" (A.K.A. ^{batter until the contrary is proven}) his wife about her cheating. Me, I don talk am, those thugs did not do proper justice with their beating. Dem for beat am so tay na only "Wayo Allah" him for dey shout up and down Nairaland. Shiorrrrrr.

(This na the "proper life" wey I dey jealous o, LMAO. . May the Lord save us from a life of hell. All for the sake of wanting to marry, someone would go and get hitched with unsavory elements. Tufiakwa. LOL. ).

KarmaMod:
Mexico is different. It's the wives that beat the husbands

Talk true. In that case, if in my next life, I come as a straight woman, I will insist that the hubby and I live in Mexico.

SuperPap:
This saffip or wateva seems to be a very sad spinster or an unhappily married persin.
y is she so angry abt marriage.
she has so many ids. . . .all she talks abt is destroying marriages.y?

ROFLMAO. . . another asshole I take it? LOL. Abeg tell me (and everyone else) all the many IDs I have (you think everyone is like you?), and while you are at it, show the places I have talked about "destroying marriages".

Oh and by the way, I not only have a "miserable life" but I am BOTH "a very sad spinster" AND "an unhappily married persin" (being so extraordinary, I am both at once, as well as any other negative thing you guys choose to console yourselves that I am. Hope I have finally cleared that up). LMAO

jamace:
I t is her fault and a good lesson for her. Why should she leave men and hang unto females for sexual satisfaction. Please, any one with this woman's contact should help me ask her whether she enjoyed the men thing more than the women's . The men must have done it deliberately to normalise her sexual life. I stand to be corrected.

jamace:
Yea, nothing but the truth .

The only truth is that you are a morally bankrupt retard and frankly the world would be better off without assholes like you.

What touched me the most was the old woman talking/praying at the beginning and end of the video.

kaykaybaba:
o ga ooo, shidren, o ti to. e ma ja mo. e tie ti wa gbagbe poster gan bayi.

E ma binu Sir.

fs:
I am just saddened when I read some of these posts, then I remember that it's not mandatory to get married to someone that's unfit for you. If there's a man out there that demands things that you consider ridiculous, then don't marry him. Yes I know at times that one can be desperate, but at that point that person would have to decide if he/she wants to be unhappy for the rest of their life or not. My husband always says that the goal in a marriage is to be happy and help each other grow. Sometimes I wonder what people think the goal of a marriage is (probably just to have children).

At the end of the day, everyone should just make sure they know who they are and what they believe before they get themselves into what is supposed to last a lifetime, and hopefully a happy one at that. We can't change anyone so we shouldn't think when we get married, we'l'l do that. WE should get to know the person now and open our eyes to the red flags, they are typically not hard to see.

Unfortunately, some people do not know how bad a partner is until they have been married and started living together. There are many habits that can be hidden (or which are not minifested) until 2 people start to live together. I personally think it is a good idea to live with your intended for a while (a year at least) before doing the marriage thing. That might give you an insider view of what living with him/her is likely to be for the rest of your life.

JustGood:
Could you come up with the information that you were given that was sufficient to deduce that this husband had battered his wife?

Or are you in the habit (so well known with semi-literates) of concocting stuff in your head and spreading them around as fact?

The worst kind of people in the world are those who are incapable of reasoning logically but who think that they are smart. That sisi jinx believes that the poster gave enough information to conclude that the husband has beaten his wife goes to show that she is not only a relationship failure but a pea-brained cow.

Look at this frustrated slowpoke. You better go back to carrying your kpom-kpom on the building site you are working on before your resentment kills you. Suegbe. Because you went to your backward village to marry some local illiterate, you are not used to having strong women who can talk out and speak their minds. Wake up and smell the coffee, and Restrict your incoherent babble to the useless idiot who consented to be married to a loser like you. Abeg carry your carcass away from here and stop offending our sensibilities with your demented rants.

JustGood:
I actually wanted to stop it at that. However since this useless woman has decided to get involed seeing as she has a miserable life and cant stand anyone who is able to build a proper life, I am compelled to write again.

Make una see Ode Oshi. You wanted to stop at that, that is why you came back and added jara to the original post abi? It is the ignorant person who decided to marry and wait hand and foot on a loser like you that is useless. If by your gutter standards, the life I am living now is "miserable", especially when compared with the alternative of your "proper life" which in reality is unfulfilled, bitter and angry, or even the life of whoever the unfortunate person who indefinitely has to wake up to see your retarded mug every morning, then I am very happy to continue forever with my miserable life thank you very much. Or maybe the life I should aspire to is the "Proper life" of your brethren whose wife was soooooooooooo happy that she decided to have an affair, and whose father-in-law saw that his son had such a "proper life" that he not only had to remove his daughter from that same "proper life", but had to send thugs to beat the crap out of his son-in-law who had been living such a wonderful "proper life".  Let me tell you a little secret - I am so green with envy at this kind of "proper life" that I want to change my "miserable" life for it immediately. I want a chance to live the "proper life" of having my spouse cheat on me then having my father-in-law beat the shit out of me to boot (Oh! Happy Day . Please, please, please say I can have a go at the "proper life". Pretty please. . . I desperately need to change this my "miserable" life for that one. . . Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee). . . ROFLMAO Suganmu Oshi. . .Shiorr.

temi 4 rea:
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Cant believe u Contributed this!

S o fit talk hakali talk For once!

Aiki hufi!

What the heck is this joker on about? After your immaturity and crap on the other thread, You'd do well to give me a wide berth. . . Trust me.

spikedcylinder:
Ok, lets assume us horrible women would never find a husband, suitable men and lovers. Would never settle with any "decent man" (as you put it yesterday), would never find men who can lord over us. SO FREAKING WHAT? IS THAT THE ESSENCE OF BEING? Please get a grip on reality.
You might want to know that some of us "horrible women" are not even into men. Get that? Now, scurry along and recite 10 hail Mary's.

ROFLMAO. Abeg leave the man to his delusions o. He thinks that this is still the 18th or 19th century. How many married women can boast of "happiness" in everyday of their marriage? If marriage was all it is cracked up to be, the divorce courts would not be in overdrive. That notwithstanding, the fact that some people think that you must marry a bloke in other to feel fulfilled or satisfied shows the mentality and self-esteem level of such people.

temi 4 rea:
well in a society like ours, its not accptable and mayb thats the reason myself and Lola sounded absurd to u.

I understand why u getting urself worked  SAPHIC!

The fact u are one is no excuse to insult ppl who are not,we are just talking.

@Taken
Good Question For Saphic So am all ears for her reasons o.

LOL. I have no problem with anyone whatsover. The only thing that "sounded absurd" to me was the rudeness you and your Lola friend displayed. You are saying someone insulted you people, I do not know that the Yoruba language had been amended so that calling people "Oniranu" was singing their praises. It is okay for you to call us that but not okay for one to return the favour abi?

And FYI, I do NOT need a reason to be homosexual, you need to disabuse your mind that anyone needs a reason to be. Moreover, my journey into Sappho land is well documented on the pages of Nairaland.

Omolola1:
@ SAPHIC

wetin be your own sef?
Why the insult? NA post i post no be say i insult you or insult the poster. Even the poster sef no complain, na you wey come they complain.
This is a discussion forum and everyone is free to say his or mind, what i posted has not warranted any insult from you, so wetin be your own?

What you even posted "MR. I TOO KNOW" is off topic, it is out of the topic. So next time, think before you post and think before you insult others.

NONSENSE! ORIRANU! YEYE PERSON

You'll do well to take your own advice, AS WELL AS going to specsavers mate cos if you could read talk much less of engage your brain, you'd observe that anything I have written on this thread is in response to one thing or the other posted on this very thread.

bonnez:
Congrats to the black race

And the white race (afterall, he is half white); And the Mixed race (Afterall he is a combination of at least 2 different races).

aisha2:
Yesterday, someone accused me of not being Christian enough, why? Because I am unequally yoked with an unbeliever, who is the unbeliever, my best friend of 23 years who has been with me through the best, worst and most trying times of my life. She was my consolation when I had my first heartbreak and subsequent ones, Currently she has a steady job and I don’t(Am chasing a lifelong dream) and so she knows am not as financially stable as I used to be so she finds ways of financially supporting me without making me feel like a charity case. Her only crime is that she is a Moslem. She is also being accused of being un-Moslem.
I always ponder why we allow some people brainwash us into believing that the enemy is someone who believes something different or who is from a different ethnic group, meanwhile we are all wallowing in unemployment, poverty, poor education, and corrupt insensitive and desperately corrupt leaders who continuously screw us out of our legitimate rights and privileges. we fight one another in our lack, instead of coming together to fight the common enemy, bad, selfish, visionless leaders.
90% of us practice our current religion because we were born into it and not because we converted based on our convictions. I know people will call for my head with all the fanatical ethnic and religious bias which we stupidly believe but I am so sad for my generation for our inability to face real issues head on.

I will advise you to ignore those who refer to you as "un-christian". Your religion and faith is between you and your God. It is only God who can tell whether all those sanctimonous judgmental nitwits will even make it to heaven. The relationship you have with your friend appears good from what you have narrated, Jesus did not discriminate against people who were different from him, why should you? She has been a great friend to you and it would be foolish to jeopardize your friendship because some bigots cannot see past a person's religion. Personally, I guard my friendships jealously. Tell them to take their opinions and stick it where the sun don't shine,

False.

Orikinla:
My buddy, the top Nigerian Publisher of the Supple magazine says that he does not snatch the girlfriends of guys, because he believes it is evil and wicked to break up relationships without any justification.

When is it justified to snatch another guy's girlfriend?
When he beats her up?
But what if the babe prefers to endure the victimization and violation of her life?
Let her be or rescue her before it is too late?

Why do you often feel the need to name drop? Is it a self esteem thing? ^{(I am just asking o. No malice intended, so abeg no come unleash extensive vituperations on top of my head o. ).}

Sisi Jinx:
[b]Well since it's your your buddy the top publisher of Supple, who are we to argue?

If it were the bottom publisher of supple or the medium publisher of Ovation or even the mid point half way bottom top publisher of City People now, I will argue like crazy!!![ /b]

Kai Yarinya, you dey too wicked. LMAO.

Sisi Jinx:
Brilliant! Absolutely Brilliant!!! Most people don't really want to touch on the reciprocating aspect of this issue. They just want to ram the "Respect Your Man" mantra down our throats and expect us to swallow it with nary a word.

Look, more often than not, women are automatically switched on to the respect your man mode, it only starts to dial down when their own feelings, their own opinions, their own freedom. . . basically everything that concerns them isn't respected.

Hear! Hear!!