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All these one-business owners will soon invade this thread to heap abusive words on the Op.

Everyone should be able to decide what they want for their life. Whether you are an employee or employer, your fulfillment is the only thing that counts.

See as she com swell up like bread wey fall inside water.

But it's her life, she can do whatever she pleases to do.

Purple has never been so attractive to me. Wow, this is really awesome.
But if I could afford something as expensive as this, I would go for something that's not so colorful.

free2ryhme:
You have not or have started and you are asking about the financial value of the programme

You have started failing already

So you would prefer he has spent many years studying, only to find out the course is a waste of time?
That's a very wrong way to live.

@Op.. If you intend getting white collar job in the field after graduation, you might as well run away from it because jobs in such areas are not easily available. However, if you're ready to establish yourself and because an industry-leading professional in the field, it's lucrative.

My tuition fees from Prep class till PG never reach a single session of any of the classes seff.
I don't envy them, but this is definitely too much for me. However, no be me go tell them wetin dem suppose use their money do.

SamzackD:
That's easy



just bring out your phone and chat with her,

on a lighter note though for a woman to be staring at a screen when you're talking to her, it either means you're boring or she's childish,

if the latter is the case then you've gotta improve on your conversation skills, and if it's the former then dump her a**(no time for babies)

Lots of guys are boring all in d name of acting cool with girls. Also, many girls don't contribute to discussion at times and it'll just look like you're talking to yourself or questioning them.

But I think you muddled up the terms "latter and former". Former should be for being boring and latter for being childish.

Thanks, Op. Quite educating and inspiring. The pictures also increase the appeal of the lessons. This deserves to be on the FP.

belindar:
If the name you mentioned is right.
Just ask wether ronke oshodi is the first wife of the man AND is the man the first husband of ronke oshodi.
They are all irresponsible set of people.

I only made an educated guess based on the description given by the Op.
About being irresponsible, you're so right. They are just a bunch of unfaithful gold diggers looking for someone to call their husband while they continue their promiscuous lifestyle.
Their men are also not different.

Ronke Oshodi-oke
Promiscuity runs in the blood of some men. No matter how endowed a woman is, any man who'll be promiscuous will be still be promiscuous.
And many of actresses are not helping matters too, they are equally unfaithful.

casspersteve:
make una no dy discourage person to go school
what works for mr.a will not work for mr.b grace are in brands
in a developed society without your degree u r nothing even if looking for a menial job

Although I don't agree entirely with Brymo on his stance here, the second paragraph of your Statement is a great fallacy. In developed societies, there are several jobs people without a degree can do and make a living. They're more concerned about what you can practically offer, not what your degree says you can do.

I was/am part of the government owned schools and I know they are mostly rubbish. I was just three months away from graduating in 2013 when strike started and it lasted for 6 months. ASUU and internal strikes delayed me for more than a year, and you want my kids to go through the same stress and torture?? Never!

If I can't afford to sponsor my kids to go abroad and spend tens of thousand dollars, at least, spending 1 million naira each year should be attainable by God's grace.
Until public universities become better, CU and a few other well funded and managed private universities will continue to be better options.

jay7:
Your response is short and catchy there are things you don't pretend to be when your income is still struggling, like the subscription he mentioned why pay 10,000 on subscription when we have dstv 1800 subscription a month which have basic channels, feeding is something you eat when you are hungry if not for the hike in foodstuffs a family of 3 cannot eat/finsh a half bag of rice in 2 months and half bag is around 8500 to 9500. all am saying is one should not try to play i gats to belong when you are still struggling to grow, I am not from a wealthy home neither am i from a poor background but i have friends who are struggling with life serving along side with them really thought me so many things about life.

You're so right.
I'm doing financially okay too, but I know people who earn more than me and are struggling.
Even when I was an undergraduate, a friend, who used to get double of my pocket money, used to borrow from me. Since then, I've realized that it's not how much you earn that determines what will satisfy you, but how well you can manage your income.

olaboy1:
I was going to jump on that post your replied to. It's not practical to calculate income and expenditure across countries the way he did.
A loaf of bread here cost 1000 Naira, the question is does it cost 1000 Naira in Naija.
I don't have much time to elaborate on what is wrong with his calculations, I believe if you earn 150k monthly today in Nigeria you should be fine and not die of hunger.

If you are married with one wife and one kid, no need trying to save other dependants, you need to tell them to go start something for themselves because your primary responsibilities are your wife and kid.

Rent/utilities: 20k monthly (150k rent per annum and 90k for utilities per annum = total 240k)
Auto /Transportation : 21,750k (50liters tank x 3 times a month @ 145/liter)
Child Care: 20k (includes pamper, baby oil and other sundry)
Clothing for 3: 15k (you can shop for clothes every 3rd month @ 45k for 3 people)
Entertainment/social/dining out: 16k (4K per week)
Groceries and food stuff: 35k
Fitness: zero Naira (free jogging on the street and home cardio work out)
Hobbies: find inexpensive hobbies or free hobbies like pokeman go....Hahahaha, seriously look around you there are free hobbies
Household Maintenance: 7k (fixing things in the house, learn to be handy and get to work, many DIY YouTube videos at your disposal)
medical/dental: 15k
Investments/saving buffers: 10k
Miscellaneous: 5k
Subscriptions: 10k (tv, internet and phone credits)
Fuel for generator: 15k
Vacation: 5k
Car maintenance: 10k monthly

Grand total : 204,750 Naira ..... this should be a reasonable monthly family budget of 3, so broda you need to find a side business to earn like 50k more monthly....200k monthly should be ideal to live an ok life. I hope I'm not missing anything out?

You're not missing any necessity. As a matter of fact, it's possible to live well below that #204k in many parts of the country. Even with a family of 3, #120k is good enough in many places in SW Nigeria, except Lagos.
I know a lot of families with educated, prudent and lovely couples who, though not satisfied with their current condition, are living a 'good' life with love.
Prudence is the key. Even with a million naira monthly income, you may still live like a pauper if you're living above your means.

joey150:
Never you..read stuff here and feel bad or guilty.. Folks lie all the time to soothe their ego.



Word of advice

This is the best advice everyone viewing this thread should not overlook.
However, why people lie just to soothe their ego on a faceless forum like this is what I don't understand.

That pop-out socket is the only thing I like. It's a good way to prevent, or at least reduce, electrical hazards when you have kids around.
The chandelier looks cool too, but not really useful.
Anyway, they're showing their creativity and getting paid for doing so.

samisj4real:
Is RONALDO a better footballer compared 2 MPPAPE? Or does he contribute in madridz game dan ISCO & MODRIC or even ASENSIO?... football is been rubbished day by day by da way dey give awardz, aw can u use a whole team performance 2 award just 1 person dat didnt make much impact just because of da #HYPE!!!!.... comparing RONALDO 2 MESSI its wat still baffles me since i waz born.....

Asslicking Messi sometimes makes you guys say utter rubbish. You are even comparing cr7 to Mbappe, Assensio and co. Which sane person does that?
You're here sucking and hating while those who know what they game is about continue to shower him with praises.
I hope some of you won't commit suicide when he finally equals the balon d'hor record of messi later this year.

petengine:
I just hope an average Nigerian can afford...
Kudos to him.

Bro, private universities are not meant to be affordable to an average. The quality of education is what matters, not the number of people who can afford it.

Just got data from Modelsms. He's a highly responsive data seller. I'll definitely buy more from him.

modelsms:
Yea, it used to be 100 naira as bank charge you know.

At any rate, you should be bothered when dealing with others and not me. No other seller anywhere has more than 2 or 3 banks. We are unique.
We have 6 popular banks accounts, so 99% of transfers to us are not charged because it's an internal transfer, that is between customer and customer of same bank.

So if you use, for example GT bank, I will give you our GT account so you don't pay charges. If you use Diamond I give you Diamond and son on..

That also makes the transaction faster since it's internal.
.Cheers!

I will like to get 1g 9mobile. How do I go about it?

Dazzle? how??
Not a hater, but these bloggers are liars who are found of hyping every little thing.
He just walked down the street like every other person, and these bloggers are here saying he dazzled and walked like the lord of the street.

You mean the self-acclaimed naira billionaires!??
We all know who the real dollar billionaires in Nigeria are and also know who the chest-beaters are.

May God bless everyone's hustles sha.

INTERMAN:
na the work of my phone "autocorrect" be that.

Why did you only quote this and avoid the ones of those who schooled you on why/how her matric number is not that of someone with an extra year.
Admitting your mistake won't kill you, boy. After misinforming the public, the least you can do is to admit your mistake.

Explorers:
Na d 2 hands u go pocket o.

lol.. that's a better strategy.

officialarab:
Most times na to hook the guy behind my belt till e cool down or hide in between legs. The agony of a man.

mehn, that hooking can be really painful, but it'll avert the embarrassment.

Explorers:
Awkward Boners At the Most Inappropriate Time.


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Very embarrassing. Sometimes, pocketing your hands won't even work as a few individuals would have noticed.
And this happens sometimes without you having any sexual thoughts, but who would believe it.

The truth is some of them rather look amazing and better with their new look than the previous.
But why will someone consider changing his/her sex? Quite a pathetic decision, I think.

ivolt:
Lack of imagination.
It takes more than land to run a university.

Lack of imagination!?? Honestly, I think it's more like lack of brain. Even a five-year old kid knows it takes more than land acquisition to run a school successfully.

Olanrefront3355:
All this For infinix hot 4? or?

For a start, that's not Hot 4.
and whatever phone it's, she bought it with her money. So it would be daft of you and other mumus like you to assume that she should let it go without a fight.
Y'all should make use of your brains once in a while. I don't think it's really that hard to reason.

The way people go about crying about bleaching nowadays would make you think it puts food on their table.
Although the crave to be fair skinned for some ladies is extreme, it's possible to have a fairer skin than before because of a number of reasons. Better cameras, lighting, make-up and better hygiene are a few things that can make someone appear fairer in a "now" pix than a "before" pix.
It's her life, her skin, her bleaching and her skin cancer.

Of course, it depends on where you're having the interview.
If you're being interviewed for the assistant herbalist leader of your village at a shrine, you definitely can adorn your native wears with beads. And please, don't forget your cap.


Seriously, play it safe by sticking to what is considered to be acceptable at the place. Do a background check on the place to know whether they expect the interviewees to come in formal, semiformal or informal dressings.

Good morning, everybody. Have a great day.