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TheSeeker:
Don't mind him. He's clutched in his own obliviousness. Yoruba lovable folks my black ass! Who goes around marrying second, third, fourth wives? I guess that's a Yoruba way of respecting women. Yes, Igbo. Affirmative! I have lots of Yoruba guys as friends and I know how it goes down with Yoruba tribe like the back of my hand. Some things are better left unsaid.

Then I berra stay clear from you then . . . . I do not want the OP to have any truth in what he says. . . . . I do not want to be the yoruba girl who loves igbo guys ALOT.  

I hope everybody here realises the guy is talking NAIRA and not Dollar$ or St£rling!!!   [size=12pt][/size]roflmao!!  

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=316919.msg4453624#msg4453624 date=1251677070]I see. . . . . .


Chiogo ke? She's 13 yrs of age.[/quote]lol. So you love igbo babes, abi?

TheSeeker:
Just my brain cells? What about them?

An intelligent man is a. . . . . . . for me. . . . you are igbo abi?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=316919.msg4453534#msg4453534 date=1251676195]Chiogo, i am beginning to suspect you love Yoruba boys.
Isi gini?

Been where?
Done what?[/quote]Been to Igbo land , done Igbo land . . . . . . Now get back to Chiogo. . . . I can see sparks.      

TheSeeker:
Your version of the general perspective is not accurate, matter of fact, very wrong. I don't see anything blunt about your comments. All I see is some erroneous and tribal slurring remarks. There are lots of Yoruba women, classy ones (as you stated) at that, who are dating, dated, and are married to Igbo men. And by the way, what's your definition of "the classy ones"? Backward thinking tribalists?

You still need to grow or extricate yourself off of the fangs of heightened ignorance.

  I have fallen in love with your brain cells. . . .    

deji2009:
I think yoruba girls love igbo Guys A lot, not Yoruba Girls Love Igbo Guys A Lot. yeah

wtf?  

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Unless you take him/her as a partner, how does that work? [/color]

Exactly.

agabaI23:
What do you mean by going bare? Tell us you do not wear panties and show me a proof.

only you. . . . . . lol.

Been there, done that . . . . . big misconception . . . .  

faakay:
The best advice so far, cool

@OP, I feel your pains,

Not quite easy oooo, No be by ordinary mouth ooo to support

I know, but I mean in this case she should support and stick by him or leave, or listen to other people. It's all good that she's complaining that he doesn't have a job, but abi, is he not looking? He doesn't seem lazy. Even if she had married him before the 5 years came around, his fate is his fate, meaning this period of unemployment may have still cropped up for him. What if he eventually finds a very good job and she's gone on a new venture with someone else? (which may not guarantee that it will also lead to marriage. ) Either way, she is not living her life for other people.

In NIGERIA? ? ? roflmao!

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=312912.msg4451267#msg4451267 date=1251640585]Well, sometimes women overreact. What you call flirting might be no more than me looking at the girl's clothes and body and thinking to myself, wow, Id love to buy that for Secretz, I bet she would look lovely in it.

If on the other hand I catch guy flirting with my girl hin own don baje for that brief moment. I am not carefree with what is sweet to me, NO [/quote]If you're flirting for those reasons thats fine by me.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=315457.msg4451155#msg4451155 date=1251638430]She is not animated. . .this is still picture, but there is a language in her that men of virility can recognize (this will not apply to eunuchs). She is saying something, its subtle and like I said men. . .possibly lesbians can relate to her gesture. In translation, it will equate to spontaneity. The spontaneity is not visible but the message is suggestive. If I was a marketing manager using the theme "spontaneous" to market, say romance, I will recruit her as my model.

Spontaneous is living the moment and caring about the consequence later. A readiness for adventure! Definitely adventure is the firecracker that keeps a romantic relationship going strong. Take that away and it becomes a monotonous duty to satisfy expectations. This is the threshold where many of our women are and the men share blame in that. Nigerian women have a lot to offer sexually, if they would be allowed uninhibited to bring their loving and freaky spirit to the surface in a spontaneous show of affection.

Uuuhh Jesus. . .that was a mouthful! [/quote]Lol. Yes it was a mouthful . . . . . . . felt like I was in an Art class reviewing a painting . . . . .

No, I can't recall a time I 'knew' my bf did such a thing. Only times im aware a guy has done such is if he's in the middle of something like cooking. All the time doesn't sound right to me though.

Unless you witness the person with your 2 eyes cheating, I don't see how you can 'spot' a cheater, but you can most certainly 'spot' a bullSHITTER!

Girl, where are you going? No time to waste jare! Support.

NOT in this life. NOT even in the next.

As much as it hurts, she is doing you a BIG favour, tell yours and her family that she wants to break off the engagement because she claims to be in love with someone else and you can't force anyone to marry you. Simple.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=316226.msg4447047#msg4447047 date=1251561868]Gbam . . . thats the only solution but does changing it mean anything
For all we know, the dude might even be cheating changing his status dont mean shyte [/quote]lol, he prolly is . . . . . .

You finished ranting?

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=316226.msg4447003#msg4447003 date=1251561389]Why do ppl take take this fb thingy serious [/quote]Exactly!! People have too much time on their hands. Like I wanna see what time they entered the toilet and what time they left. Or pics of how they look when they arise in the bloody morning! In this case though, the poster should go and un-do what he has done because clearly his girl has taken it seriously.  

I would join in and flirt with her tooo, am sure she will then think both my guy and I are pretty weird.

@ Poster, you are the one that has drawn complications to the relationship by making it complicated when it seems by her reaction there were no complications in the first place. !

You both shouldn't even bother being on each other's friends list. I too can count the amount of times I have been on FB. It can take me 4 months before I accept a friend request and none of my exes are on my friends list. Go and fix it.!!  

mohawkchic:
~Learn To Love Her!!~


~You're so blinded by all the negative circumstances that brought about the marriage,you've not given yourself the chance of Loving her or feeling happy w/ her. . i'm sure there are things you like about her. . you said yourself she loves you. . if you feel obligated married to her,might as well make the most of it instead of spending the next few years miserable & making the life of your wife much more miserable!!


~Bear in mind for as long as you hold this resentment towards her for the decision you were supposedly foced to make. . you will not be happy!! For a minute,try to acknowledge how she muct be feeling knowing she's married to a man who doesnt love her!! Not a good feeling at all!! Try to make an effort. . little things make great impact. . . appreciate her. . .have you ever complimented her? acknowledge things she does for you? See her as a human being & not the source of your unhappiness!!


~If you know there's no way you can bring yourself to Love her,then I say grow some balls & face your parents w/ a decision to let her go. . Karma's a Bitch!!

Period! Couldn't have said it berra.

Interesting . . . . . . . .

I am sure if it did, Nigeria would have won the world cup un-told times!

Did it ever occur to you, to simply make yourself unavailable ? ? ? Because it doesn't take a genius to work out that you are being used as a 'stop over' and I am pretty sure that's what he has placed you as in his phone.

aysometin:
Really?? that's a new one!
I also like the fact that u get 60kg baggage allowance, I mean, thats so cool!!

Yes! Am being serious. The attitude came mainly from them, it was as if the passengers just being there were a nuisance to them. The baggage allowance is nice . . . . .  for now. However, they will soon follow suit in due time and reduce the allowance like most other airlines.  Most people I know that continue to use Bellview just want to get to naija and back at the cheapest cost-they just sleep for the duration of the flight.  

Flew with Bellview ONCE, and that will be the last time too, it is true you get what you pay for and then some.

aysometin:
I keep telling everyone, for now the best u can get btw Lagos and London is Arik, dunno about later o when their Nigerian characteristics start to show, but for now that's your best bet!!

I used this airline recently and I was pretty impressed. . . . . .But the bad attitude came more from the oyinbo crew than the blacks.  

follypimpi:

U meant those,U forgot they were mine when we doin role play.

ROFLMAO!!! Now you have mistaken me for one of your underwear chicas, cos you know I hate that role play CRAP!

follypimpi:

You know am a Faithfull Scout.

But that's not what you showed when I found her pata under the special pillow you bought me.

follypimpi:
Maybe one shld put a Note on the Door,Pls do not leave under wear in this room,Thank you.

lol. . . . which room then?

So did you find the underwear or your next chic?

Salad on it's own? ? ? for a candle lit DINNER? Is she a rabbit or are you hoping to starve her?

How about Grilled fish, moderately marinated, with some fried plantain on the side and a nice bowl of creative salad.

Salad is healthy and light, fish is not heavy (easily digested) and plantain of course is sweet. . . . I personally would be happy with that.

Banderas:
hahah. Thank you my man Chris. The bible knows what it's saying when it tells you "the children of this world are wiser than the children of the kingdom". People refuse to think, refuse to apply the spirit of the scripture.

ALL guys want a woman who is a lady outside, but a freak in bed. But they marry the lady without the freak and spend the rest of their lives frustrated. Or they leave madam (who has neglected her weight, and now appears to share genes with an elephant) and go and start "running things" outside the house.

Or even when they don't want to run things the young delectable girls in town quickly sense an opportunity and move in.
Then you go to church and complain about how "the devil stole your husband"

You sabi correct. No mind some of these hypocritical Idealists!