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Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by selemempe: 12:42pm On Feb 02, 2020
wirinet:
Very
great..now run along
Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by selemempe: 12:26pm On Feb 02, 2020
wirinet:
I am from warri of the Niger delta, I will only hate the map if you include warri.
and I did not...are you happy now?
Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by selemempe: 12:02pm On Feb 02, 2020
wirinet:
Very unrealistic map. You guys draw a map incorporating other peoples lands without their consent. You even went ahead to locate the capital at the heart of alaigbo. These map will be a disaster waiting to happen.

Most of the oil is situated outside alaigbo, but will be used to develop a capital at Enugu. You think the ijaws, the calabaris and other tribes of the lower Niger Delta would accept a country with predominantly igbo population controlling their oil resources. What makes this situation different from the present situation of Nigeria?
don't worry about the map...we understand that you hate the map passionately...relax and focus on your tribe and region thanks
Travel › Re: See The Comments South Africans Are Writing About Nigeria by selemempe: 4:40pm On Feb 01, 2020
tartar9:
Igbo kwenu!
Just see what some people have done to our image,yet the same fools will still blame buhari or others for this.
was it igbos that made Nigeria a terrorist nation?

Was it igbos that have been smuggling drugs to Saudi Arabia?
Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by selemempe: 4:35pm On Feb 01, 2020
wirinet:
This topic had been trashed again and again, but you guys just can't see things that contradict your hard beliefs.
Terrorists are labeled by respective countries. A terrorist in one country might not be labelled terrorist in another country. In fact no single organisation is labelled terrorist by all countries of the world. The Gulen movement is labelled terrorist by Turkey, but not by the US and European countries. Their leader Muhammed Fethullah Gülen still resides in the US till today, and Erdogan has been fighting for his extradition
ANC was considered a terrorist organisation by the Apartheid South African Government and it's allies, but not by all other African nations.

According to Nigeria IPOB remains a terrorist organisation.

Politics › Re: Presidency Reacts To US Visa Ban On Nigerians by selemempe: 4:34pm On Feb 01, 2020
helinues:
Nobody will tell US to reverse the policy by the time they start to feel the economy impacts..

We have the population on our side..
scarfaced Moslems think like ass. You have almajiri population that has zero economic importance
Politics › Re: I’ve Constitutional Power To Withdraw Any Case, Malami Says In Reaction To Dropp by selemempe: 1:12pm On Feb 01, 2020
clarocuzioo:
Buhari is the most corrupt President ever in the history of this country.

Oya

BUHARIADVOCATE
HELINUS
PASSINGSHOT
IPOBANTIDOTE

Come and see your "kwaraption phiter"

No wonder they call all of you zombies.
these people are paid posters working personally for Lai Mohammad
Travel › Re: USA Fiancee (K1) Visa Thread by selemempe: 12:39pm On Feb 01, 2020
LegitBachelor:
Hi guys,

I am a K1 Visa applicant. I had to create this thread because I couldn't find a thread that's specially dedicated to Fiancee (K1) Visa Application. My motivation for the creation of this thread is the USA Visit Visa Thread which have been really helpful to lots of nairalanders and guests (shout out to LadyGuinivere and Co).

K1 Visa is unique because it has both non-immigrant and immigrant features hence the need to have a dedicated thread where issues can be thrashed out.

My hope is that both successful, delayed and intending K1 Visa applicants will be active on this thread so we can all learn from each other. Also I hope we can get the Visa Officers to offer their professional comments once in a while.

So I'll provide a brief guide on how to proceed with the K1 Visa application. Please correct me in the places where I'm wrong so I can effect the changes.

The first step in the visa application is the filling of a petition using the form I-129F by your US citizen fiancee whom you must have met in person. The filled form is submitted to USCIS at their US address. If the petition is approved, it is sent to the NVC who in turn sends it to the US Embassy here in Lagos.

Once the US Embassy receives your casefile, you can now proceed with the second step which is to fill the DS-160 form and schedule an Interview.

After the interview, you will be issued a K1 Visa if you were successful which allows you entry into the States. You must marry your fiancee within 90 days of entry.

Details of the process involved can be found here:
https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/immigrate/family-immigration/nonimmigrant-visa-for-a-fiance-k-1.html

I recommend we all read the info on the link before asking specific questions on this thread.

There also exists an official thread created by a US Embassy Visa Officer for Immigration related questions. You may want to check it out wink.

Oya let the discussions begin smiley

Honorable Mentions
will this visa category be affected by the recent visa restrictions on immigrant visa? Kindly reply anyone
Culture › Re: Hausafulani The Most Beautiful People In Africa(photos) by selemempe: 12:35pm On Feb 01, 2020
Gudiza:
but the thread was about hausa0fulani, are u that insecure?

Btw, I thought we were done with these kind of thread from nairaland years ago?
it was ok until he started posting supposed ugly images from the east
Culture › Re: Hausafulani The Most Beautiful People In Africa(photos) by selemempe: 12:19pm On Feb 01, 2020
Beautiful igbos

Culture › Re: Hausafulani The Most Beautiful People In Africa(photos) by selemempe: 12:16pm On Feb 01, 2020
Real abokì women

Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG: Redeemed Church Protests Insecurity, Killing Of Christians On Sunday by selemempe: 11:42am On Feb 01, 2020
Buhari should arrest the idiots at once
Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by selemempe: 11:41am On Feb 01, 2020
Throwback:
You mean "people" who come to this forum to lament everytime about how others are responsible for their own self-inflicted woes?

The same "people" who make it their duty to repeat every hatemongering they have received from IPOB and its pirate radio, by bringing it into mainstream media and this very forum, just so we can know they are still traumatised?

Nigger please!


You have posted clearer pictures than the OP did, and I will not be a steadfast idiot like those who claimed Buhari wasn't in UK, despite all the facts and evidence to clear their doubts.

Your own clear picture has cleared my doubt, and I hope your mind is as learnable as mine.

However, knowing the lying bumbling buffoon for who he is, I hope he will not claim he had a private meeting with Trump or the American government, when all that happened is a supporter sitting in the stands like many others to welcome the POTUS at a political event.

Politics › Re: Keke And Motorcycle Riders Leaving Lagos After Ban By The State Govt (Video) by selemempe: 11:37am On Feb 01, 2020
Sanchez01:
Those are Northerners relocating to God-knows-where.

They come into Lagos with truck loads of people and motorcycles and now that the state government has said no to them, they are left with no option than to leave the way they came lest they die of hunger.

Some of you have never been to Lagos before but you are pseudo-knowledgeable about the affairs and activities of the state. Beats my imagination.
I thought all of us are struggling to be in Lagos... Afonjas don't know how to stick to one narrative
Politics › Re: Amotekun: We’ve Broken Ties With Yoruba Nation.- Miyetti Allah. by selemempe: 11:29am On Jan 30, 2020
Donaldoni:
Only piggiiddiiootts do what is written in the picture... grin

Yorubas and Fulanis are no strangers when it comes to duel... cool
awon sophisticated chest beaters
Politics › Re: Obaseki Warns Oshiomhole: 'I Will Show Him I'm The Governor' (Video) by selemempe: 10:43am On Jan 30, 2020
saheedbadmus:
Nvr bite d finger that once fed u.. Obaseki needs to apply wisdom .. dere is a saying in Yoruba.. eni ba junilo leh Juni nu.. person wey senior u fit throway u..
what is it with Yoruba Moslems and 'wisdom'
You people always think you are smarter than everyone
Was that the wisdom you were applying when you lost Ilorin to abokis?
Politics › Re: Amotekun: We’ve Broken Ties With Yoruba Nation.- Miyetti Allah. by selemempe: 10:23am On Jan 30, 2020
Donaldoni:
Ilorin you meanhuh

Even Ilorin was lost by Afonja's treachery.
is Tinubu not an Afonja?
Politics › Re: Amotekun: We’ve Broken Ties With Yoruba Nation.- Miyetti Allah. by selemempe: 10:21am On Jan 30, 2020
Donaldoni:
Stupid empty rants... angry

Aki gba kaka lowo akiti, enikan ki gba ile baba eni lowo eni

You were roundly defeated in Oshogbo many decades ago... cool

You will be defeated again... cool

Yorubaland can NEVER and will NEVER be conquered by Fulanis, let alone Fulani herdsmen... cool
smh

Romance › Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by selemempe: 6:01am On Jan 30, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:
By Tonyebarcanista

Most people falsely misconstrue Alpha males to be irresponsible men filled with arrogance and are disrespectful towards women. They misconstrue Alpha males with with cocky males.

Many also misconstrue guys that are body builders with nice physique to be alpha males. Some misconstrue wealthy and fierce looking men as alpha males. Some even misconstrue womanizers, famous or people of high status to be alpha males. While some alpha males may belong to the aforementioned groups, not all those groups are alpha males.

Who Is An Alpha Male?
An Alpha male is the real man. He is a man's man and a warrior. He is very confident and a stand-up guy. Irrespective of what you call him, he is a leader. He is the guy others look up to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He is a man that knows what he wants, confident of himself and can't be tossed around. The alpha male knows his power as a man and doesn't use it as tool for oppression. He can't be manipulated by women, and this makes him attracted to women. He's the kind of man every woman want. The Alpha male is mentally and emotionally strong but kind. He is very Confident, yet humble, he assertive, yet gentle at times. He is very powerful, yet calm and tempered. He has self worth yet doesn't proud! He is the kind of man every man should be. He is the kind of man that every woman crave for and hold in high esteem.

Who Is A Beta Male?
Beta males are men that always seek to fit in. They are the typical human pleasers with little or no opinion. Beta males in relationship and marriages are the typical Mr Nice Guys that always bury their thought, desire and want so as not to offend their partners. They are typical followers that always seek to blend with the society. They are not stand alone guys as they are easily manipulated. Because of these traits, Beta males are often disrespected and controlled by their partners, the society, their church, families etcetera.

ALPHA MALES VS BETA MALES

1. In Relationship

Alpha males go for who and what they want, and are men with standards. When their partners err, they are not afraid to speak their mind, address the problem and speak up when the boundaries they set are crossed. They inform their partners on the effect of their ill informed, they tell their partners the consequences on the relationship and take action to ensure that the partner falls in line. Alpha males don't seek conflicts but are not afraid to tackle conflict head on. They are active and not passive

But Beta males don't have any standard nor boundaries that they hold sacred. They would rather endure and die in silence when their partners err because they are afraid of causing conflict in their relationship. The ones that speak up do so in form of a plea or nag. They are passive men that live with burden in their heart in their bid to maintain peace that they never get.

2. Gentlemen Vs Mr Nice Guys
Alpha males are polite, nice to others, respectful but respects themselves and aren't doormat; Alpha male will never allow anyone treat him like second fiddle no matter what. An Alpha male priories his own well-being, irrespective, he genuinely care about the needs of the people in his life and want the best for others. He does this not do this for validation, to gain attention or to be praised by people around him, he simply does it because it is the right thing to do. When an Alpha male doesn't agree with you, he tells you.

Beta males on the other hand may be nice, courteous etc, but they don't prioritise themselves. They are doormat, Yes-man. They are nice because they need the validation and they agree to a fault because they want to maintain the "Mr Nice Guy" tag.

3. Beta Males Are Bitchy, Alpha males Accepts or Change A Situation:
Alpha males takes responsibility for their lives. Once anything happens in their lives, an Alpha male seeks to do something about it. If an Alpha male finds his partner with another man, he takes action- whether to breakup with her or any other action. An Alpha male makes decision for himself; whether relationship, career or whatever.

But Beta males always look at someone to pass blame on. They don't take responsibility, they bitch over it. A Beta male will find his partner in an unpleasant situation with another man, he runs to his pastor, family or social media to bitch about it... Seeking their help to take action because "he doesn't want to act irrationally". He's a weak man! Simple!!!

4. Genuine Connection Vs validation
An Alpha male always seek genuine connection and friendship with their partners and people around them. They have no time for fake relationship. Alpha males don't seek anybody's validation to feel good. They are true to themselves.

Beta males are pretenders. They desire validation of their partners, friends and society to feel good about themselves. They are fake towards themselves and others around them because they suppress their true feelings for external validation.

5. Alpha males trust themselves to make decisions for their lives, Beta males follow popular opinion.

An alpha male may consult others before making decision, he evaluates the response he gets, and compare with what he had always wanted to do. If he still believe that his desires is the best for him ahead of popular opinion, he follows his mind, makes his decision and swim or sink with it without blaming others.

Beta males consults with people, he may or may not evaluate responses, but he follows popular opinion even if it doesn't tally what he really wants because of his conformist character. He is always ready to blame others should his decision not turn out the way he wishes.

I will stop here!

I remain TonyeBarcanista
unstable tonye is telling us how to be alpha male...nyen nyen. You have moved from PDP to APC to apga and back to PDP and soon to join APC ...are you not ashamed of yourself? You have gone from politician to blogger.... what is the problem with you?

Should we be expecting a church from you too? I pray the future of Nigerian politics is not peopled by your ilk
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kwatas, Bokkos In Plateau, Kill Many (Graphic Photos) by selemempe: 3:11pm On Jan 29, 2020
BuhariAdvocate:
Stop calling me to unnecessary things. Because There's no how person will explain matter to brainless and sadistic people like you that you will understand.
Buhari you always take to cleaner every time you will definitely regret your action when he leave office.
stupid reply smh
Politics › Re: Buhari’s Nomination Of Kingsley Obiora, Emefiele’s ‘Kinsman’ As Deputy Governor by selemempe: 9:19am On Jan 29, 2020
solmusdesigns:
cool



If forced to pick an Ibo man, Northerners would only pick Delta Ibos or Ibos in South South


i dont blame them i really dont!! how they humiliated North and SouthWest during the first bloody coup... openly killing revered Northern and Southewestern Politicians and Military men, throwing them to rot on the street while they gloated on radio as being superior to others and then chest beating, or when Aguiyi ironsi and Constituitional Lawyer Prof Ben Nwabueze centralised our governance and filled civil service to brim with their kinsmen

go on Facebook and see grown ibos from SouthEast openly display hate, curse and insults on yorubas and Northerners, then check the ditribalised comments from SouthSouth .. this alone would give you insight of the reasons of mistrust


.
funny enough it was a 'delta igbo' in the name of Nzeogwu that carried out the coup you mentioned...

Your hate for igbos have kept you awake all night... great
Politics › Re: See Why South West Muslim.s Are Against Amotekun by selemempe: 4:26am On Jan 29, 2020
reality1010:
Our loyalty is to the Sultan of Sokoto so nobody should interfer with our loyalty. There is freedom of association. Enough of the abuse on yoruba moslem. It s not a crime to be a moslem.
chai.... everybody should come and see this.... yoruba Moslems are the major problem of the south
Politics › Re: Amotekun: Fayemi Says South-West Has No Plans To Secede by selemempe: 5:03pm On Jan 28, 2020
solmusdesigns:
a

where in my comment did i mention niger delt
they don't own oil?
Politics › Re: ‘Southeast has highest rate of abuse’ - NHRC by selemempe: 2:10pm On Jan 28, 2020
Ogonimilitant:
He is very right. freedom of expression is very high in the SE. It's not easy to intimidate our women actually.
They based their report on cases that were reported to them.

I bet you that no region will have the liberty to report such cases except the SE and some part of SS.
freedom of speech is no way threatened in the SE.

If you do proper research, you will see that those abuses are more in other region than the SE
but they don't dare to report the cases
this is the simple fact. Our region is highest simply because our women are no push overs

Look at the north...they are lowest when all of us know how their men treat their nyarinyas
Politics › Re: Amotekun: Fayemi Says South-West Has No Plans To Secede by selemempe: 1:55pm On Jan 28, 2020
solmusdesigns:
whatever.. atleast we are smiling to the bank while we plunder some dumb peoples petro crude dollars, now who is the fool here? the ones getting new rail and new seaport or the ones whose resources would be use to pay back the debt
great at least some Niger Delta peeps living in denial can read this and see what yorubas think about them.
Keep it coming
Politics › Re: Amotekun: Fayemi Says South-West Has No Plans To Secede by selemempe: 9:56am On Jan 28, 2020
solmusdesigns:
it is simple politics

North needs access to the ocean for survival, Southwest has it, North need a market to sell their perishable agricultural product and SouthWest has it, North needs buyers for its Cows, SouthWest eats meat more.. Southwest needs Northern voting strenght to continue ruling Nigerian economy...

If you look closely SouthWest controls the Banking sector, the Entertainment sector, Local Comuinication sector, the Power Generating (gencos) sector, and many more sectors that funds Nigeria's non oil sector

.
sophisticated unity begging with myopathy
Politics › Re: She Is No Longer An Igbo Woman by selemempe: 2:53am On Jan 28, 2020
ProudDick:
There are more tribes in the north than in the south. Taraba alone has more tribes than the south south. Stop displaying your ignorance. Not everyone in the not speaks Hausa and calls himself arewa. The western region was also divided and you don’t see Yorubas calling urhobo, isoko, Itshekiri Yorubas even though Itshekiri speaks a Yoruba dialect. You igbos should move on and let people be what they want to be.
until the yorubas learn to stop insinuating themselves into every Igbo topic, looking for validation, they will never be respectable.
Who cares if you guys don't call itsekiri Yoruba?
Politics › Re: She Is No Longer An Igbo Woman by selemempe: 3:36pm On Jan 27, 2020
mimichinaza:
yes ooo,we dont answer igbo,we are egbema women
the reason why the illiterate north is able to continue ruling Nigeria is because unlike us in the south where every local government is an ethnic group, they in the north no longer have tribes.... everybody is Arewa and speaks Hausa.

You are not ashamed to say that you stopped being Igbo in 1967 when a Northerner decided to carve your town into Rivers state out of old eastern region.

They keep dividing us and keep uniting themselves. I am really angry at the shallowness of the south south.

Tell me the difference between Efik, Ibibio and Anang? Just slight dialects of the same language. Smh

Egbema women indeed. Tell that to boko haram when they catch you with a typical Igbo name like chinaza
Celebrities › Re: 6 Nigerians You Probably Didn’t Know Have Won Grammy Awards by selemempe: 2:33pm On Jan 27, 2020
MartinCorridon:
No pig ? angry

We would report to UN, APC, DPG undecided
lol funny...by 'pig' I assume you are referring to the great Igbo tribe.

Do you badly need validation from us all the time?
You are the proverbial kid who has more than another kid but still jealous of him. Smh
Politics › Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin Stopped From Greeting Ganduje By Security (Video) by selemempe:
SangoOlukosoOba:
How I wish South East can support Ganduje so his political career can nose dive like that of Saraki, Dino Melaye, Ben Murray Bruce, Fayose, Shehu Sanni, Ihedioha, Atiku Abubakar, Goodluck Jonathan, Jimi Agbaje e.t.c
the idea that you will hate anyone supported by south east is not an indictment on the south east but an indictment and embarrassment for your bigoted mind and tribe
Foreign Affairs › Re: Saudi Arabia Announces Plans To Stop Funding Mosques Across The World by selemempe: 6:00pm On Jan 26, 2020
grin terrorists
Politics › Re: Yima Sen: Nnamdi Kanu, Main Stumbling Block To Igbo's Chances - NEF Leader by selemempe: 5:11pm On Jan 26, 2020
Ebenezar2020:
@bolded.
If you're still dreaming of the old defunct Eastern region as the map of biafra then u need to wake up to reality.
wetin consign Port Harcourt with Biafra?
Or u want me to school you on the new biafra map?
believe what ever you want bro

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