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because the dude has tossed all his friends to the gallows

You should never oppose a friend's choice of a partner even if you don't understand it. Friendship 101.

ifefemi, please switch to your official email address so we'll know you are genuine. Otherwise,

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You should read: PHP Scales

It just makes me feel sleepy!

@wiseguy: lovely advice, but I gues it doesn't apply to those who can't handle their own parents.

@Queen1: you missed his point exactly. Both the husband and the wife have to help each other out.

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Her problem initially was not the age gap but the way he tries to control her, which is unhealthy.

Lets imagine u are on the board of directors of your company and a decision is to be taken on an issue, u make your case and vote accordingly but in instances the Chairman has the priviledge of casting a tie breaking vote. Would you because of that say you would resign from the board.

What we are asking is why the husband has to be the chairman all the time. In a company, the chairman's seat can be taken by anybody at anytime depending on the way the board of directors vote. And apart from that, who says a marriage must be organized as a company or military group? Why can't it be organized like a friendship?

PHP/MYSQL solutions can be designed to be scalable. Much of Yahoo.com runs on PHP, and it scales.
The first version of Friendster was built with Java, and upgraded to a more scalable PHP/MySQL version.

At least name your asking price then we can beat it down.

Pele dear. It's all in good fun.

Let's quickly return to the topic: "should wives submit?" Most Nigerians say "yes", including both men and women.

What makes you think that you are wiser than she is?

The perfect question.

software: don't submit 2 your husband and see the other side of him.

Don't marry such a husband in the first place. If he demands obedience, don't enslave yourself to him.

software: anybody who change what God has commanded. Big big curses o.

What a clever way to keep women under control. The fear of "big big curses o".

I and Seun would be a marvellous couple!

I doubt it. Inasmuch as I don't like to control people close to me, I also don't like being controlled.

Noted. Alas, I think dynamic website development with PHP/MYSQL is where the demand is. Who uses Java in Nigeria?

A slave has no opinion of his own but a woman does.

Your post fails because slaves have opinions of their own. It's just that their opinions can be simply ignored.

The fact that he was caught is a good sign for the next democratic regime.

babyosisi: After you're married and garnered some experience in that department, I'll listen to you.

Then why do you pay attention to the opinions of Jesus and Apostle Paul who were never married?

If your friend is married then there must be a deeper reason why you're afraid to marry this girl.

Are you commitment-phobic? Is there another girl you have in mind? Those are the real questions!

Related topics:
* Is it wrong for a couple to live together before marriage?
* Moving In With My Boyfriend: Advisable Or Not?
* Co-habitation Before Marriage

Do not seek a job through an agency that charges you money. A word is enough for the wise.

Do you want to know how to feel or what to do? If you're in such a situation, just say so!

Your blog makes me want to cry. Women should learn to be self-dependent and dignified.

His controlling nature is what you initially complained about, so the age difference is not your greatest worry.
If you marry him, make sure you embezzle a lot of his money because you won't enjoy the marriage at all. Cheers.

What freelance jobs do you have to offer?