Ephemeralbeing: Good morning, please I really do appreciate this platform and it's inspired me alot during this tough and trying period.
Please I need the advise and opinions of other members in that platform. Keep my name.
Okay so i've been depressed, battling with anxiety.
I got married at 26.
Before our marriage, things we going pretty fine and okay.
6 years later with two female kids. I secured this awesome paying job for my wife. But eversince then they go for conferences in other states representing her company which I'm aware of.
But after the third conference in Calabar. she's LOCKED her phone with a new password and times without number I've requested for it but she would say that there's nothing to check on her phone. (Meanwhile before this job, we knew each other password and are entitled boths phones)
Long story cut short, she now communicate with men and Stay up late texting and if I ask her who she's texting with she said her female colleagues at work.
Until last weekend when a whatsapp text came in on the notification from JOHN saying I miss you and I want to be with hold you again.
I inquired about who John was and holding her means, she said I shouldn't mind him.
Then I asked for her password she said don't you trust me.
Please I want to know does this matter cos I've been worried?
Why would she change her passwords?
Why can't i know who she's texting up late? Do partners hide phone passwords from eachother after years of knowing one another password?
Am I just feeling insecure or something?
Please I need the opinions of other matured minds in the platform so I don't ACT WRONGLY PLEASE.
starting gettin a life for your self, you have lost her as long as she still keeps her schedule if the office
oluwadabira111: Though they have been trying at least in Ibadan north east to be precise, we have light like 15-17 hours but since last week we have been in total darkness!
You people are suffering the light you enjoyed earlier .
sacajawea: We met at Yaba and we connected very well on the very First day we met. She is Black, A bit short and cool. She is Benue and Kogi mix. She lives at Egebda with her married elder sister and her name is Florence. If you know her pls connect me or message me. Thanks
JOBgame: I thank god self i don de love this girl like say i go die,but she no de see am she come de tell me say if i no buy her iphone6 she go start bluefilm,i love her but i no concern me if she like may she go de act yellow film
imustmakeit: He's a comedian obviously. What I don't understand is how a normal person will bath on a Sunday morning and attend church in such an atmosphere, except for those that want to get entertained
You said he is a comedian, so people actually bath to see his comedy on Sunday morning .
Ancientbeing: Good day Nairalanders, am sorry for any disturbances i may be giving individuals on this forum but this my baggage have pass containment in my room so aff decided to pour part of it here . I am able to share this issue here, (thanks to Seun for creating a faceless forum) due to my anonimity. For somewhile now (abt 3yrs) i have been staying @ my elder brother's place. Sometime last yr, he informed me that he's fiancee was to spend sometime in his place, i was cool with it. As a junior bro to him, i took it upon myself to do majority of the petty house hold chores which i dont see as anything but since his fiancee landed in the house, hell let loose! I don't know if she does it on purpose, whatever i arrange , within minutes, its misplaced. I still do all the cooking in my bro's place not minding that she's a girl but after cooking and cleaning up, she enters the kitchen and sprays heavy amounts of water all over(talk more of if she should cook). Her room is a dump of clothes, she wears rumpled clothes to go out. I'm tired of her. So presently, i am confused .should i leave my bro's house or should i advice my bro against marrying her. I have endured several annoying personalities in the past but a kind like hers , i have never seen. Help!!!
Pray you have your own accommodation, tell your brother what you notice and let him bear his cross.
nairafamedotcom: “If you want to marry a girl with pointed breast, Come and marry me now that my own is still standing before it collapse” - Nigerian Lady says.
When writing for assistance like this be very explicit. State the period your rent starts and expires? State the amount you pay? State the amount you want to pay for now? State how much you actually need? State how to confirm your story if it’s true.
solidifi: Tanx sexy74. But he's on exclusive breast feeding. We even changed the diaper to another size, still the same.
All the same, you're making a point. There's this diaper we bought and we suspected that it's fake somehow. It's so light like paper and the logo on it is different from the genuine one. I even complained to the seller.
The diaper is molfix size 2.
The exclusive breastfeeding is the cause some kids have this issues. Am talking from experience give water. It happened to my son, he was on exclusive breast feeding and we noticed it, mother Inlaw a nurse told us to give water and check the diapers it solved the problem. Please give water .
If he is a big 8 year old no problem with that, Na the Nigerian Factor, he must mature fast. But from the videos Na toddler he is learning real fast My son of 8years do start our generator.
valentineuwakwe: The Northern Governors’ Forum has insisted that the Almajiri system in the region be banned. The governors stated this on Tuesday while discussing the region’ s response to the coronavirus pandemic. The meeting , which was the second of its kind, was presided over by its Chairman , Governor Simon Lalong of Plateau State and convened via teleconferencing with 17 participating governors . According to Lalong ’s Director of Press and Public Affairs , Macham Makut, the governors discussed COVID -19 test centres within the region and noted some improvement but insisted that all states in the region should have at least one centre in order to make the detection of the disease and its management easier and faster. The statement read in part, “ On border control and lockdown measures, the governors retained their earlier decision for each state to decide on the measure to adopt but reaffirmed the need for border closure to stop the inter- state spread of the disease in the region. “ The governors also discussed the risk that Almajiri children are exposed to due to the virus and they unanimously decided to ban the Almajiri system and evacuate the children to their parents or states of origin . “ They vowed never to allow the system to persist any longer because of the social challenges associated with it including the perpetuation of poverty , illiteracy, insecurity and social disorder. ” The statement also said the governors engaged the Minister of Agriculture and Rural Development , Muhammed Sabo Nanono, on COVID- 19 incentives available to farmers in the country and how those in the region can benefit from the palliatives .
I have little issue with my landlandy over payment of house rent, though it is a single room apartment.
My rent had due since end of december, 2019. And since 3rd of January, 2020 she has been disturbing me and i promised to pay when i have money. On 20th february, 2020 she approached me again and i told her i that whenever i ad money i would pay, but in a short while. She framed up, and which led to exchange of words. I would have paid her in march, but due to lockdown issue, all plans have scattered. For nearly a month now, no money at all. She just brought quit notice on 15th april, 2020 stating that she gave me 6 months to vacate my apartment. While reading the letter, and if you go through content, i ascertain some things:
1. Since she gave me 6 months, from counting from april, it means the quit will expire by 15th october, 2020 but she indicated 30th september, 2020.
2. I was not formerly addressed in the letter.
3. Was she supposed to give me quit notice at this period since she knew that the economy is in total lockdown, and i have not been going to work.
4. I was the person who repaired my roof when it was leaking, she claimed that i was the one living there and it was my responsibility. It is the tenants theat contribute money to do most repairs of the house
5. Though, she had increase a rent on the ground that she wanted to repair the sockaway, bathroom, toilet. But there is no sign of her repairing the house. Though, she and her children are living in an apartment, and her elder sister and her own children are also living in another apartment of this same building.
How do i go about it to live spend a year or more quit notice on this matter. I need your advice and help.
Kindly find attached copy of Quit Notice issued to me.
My brother quit honorably no matter what loopholes you see the house can’t be your own?
Metrix147: The Abia state Police Command has announced the arrest of policemen involved in sporadic shooting in Ohafia on Friday that led to the death of an indigene of the area, identified as Ifeanyi Arunsi.
The State Police Command said it received with nostalgia the news of the shooting incident in Ebem Ohafia by a team of policemen led by an Assistant Superintendent of Police, saying the team were neither on duty nor on COVID 19 preventive assignment.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7LT57yr548 In a release signed by the command's PRO, SP Geoffrey Ogbonna on behalf of CP E. Ene Okon on Saturday made available to ABN TV, he said the team went out in a private car belonging to one of them to a drinking joint where they got drunk and while going back home, the driver hit a truck off-loading goods.
"In an ensuing argument between the Policemen and the people off-loading goods, one of the Policemen, a Constable disappeared from the scene and resurfaced with a Police rifle and started shooting sporadically under the influence of alcohol during which, bullet hit the victim on the buttocks.
"This singular act and others of same nature is regrettable, condemnable and not tolerated by both the Nigeria Police Force and its Abia State Command.
"The Commissioner of Police Abia State, CP E. Ene Okon commiserates with the immediate and extended families of the deceased as well as the entire Ohafia people.
"It is the Commissioner of Police’ sordid appeal to the youths and people of Ebem Ohafia to eschew violence and destruction of Police/government property while assuring that justice must be done.
Millenniumlady: Ladies divorce any man that ask for DNA if you can trust him enough to open your legs for him then why can't he give the same trust to you This is why i stylishly ask any person I'm dating on his opinion about DNA if accept it I'll just break up with him
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All this guys quoting me should better trend carefully.....let the op swear that he have not cheat on her before.....
Frustrated men be talking sh*t in the comment section but can't keep the same energy when they see you in person.
When you see them you know them. You don’t have to justify evil.
MiztaFabuloz: Just imagine what am eating this afternoon because of corona issue. No better food anywhere and we are not sure when everything will become normal again.