QuintessentialW:
Hello house, good morning.

I have a real concern and I want to know what is permissible from mature and discerning individuals in the house.

Myself and my siblings were raised (from when I was about 8 years old) single handedly by my mum. Even all the 7 years that my father lived with us, my mum chiefly ran the home... she was the one who paid rent and school fees and ensured quality feeding. Father was gainfully employed at the time, but he just lacked a sense of responsibility for family. He finally absconded at about the time I was 8 because he lost his job, and never looked back... he was never involved in our finances or welfare. In all those years, he visited a few times, but that was all. My mum passed on a few years ago and her brother, my uncle, assumed FULL responsibility for my siblings and I. My paternal uncles never lent a helping hand.

Now I'm in my 20s, done with schooling, working currently, and would be getting married soon. I want to know what is permissible. I'm from a minority tribe in Edo State, so I'm not Bini or Esan. My maternal family are Okpe (Urhobos). Left to me, I don't want my father collecting my bride price or walking me down the aisle. He now lives in squalor in the village. I don't want to go to the village to do my traditional wedding if I can help it.

Two years ago when I first had plans of getting married, my maternal uncle who's responsible for us had mentioned that I shouldn't take any man to my dad. My maternal family is angry with him, for what he did to my mum and us. I would love to respect my Uncle's wishes because I feel he has a say, and to show my appreciation for all he's done.

Has it ever happened that a girl's maternal family receives her bride price? Is it a taboo? If that's against tradition, is it possible to choose another location other than the village, where my dad and his kinsmen can perform the traditional rites?

Also, on my church wedding day, can my Uncle walk me down the aisle?

N:B I don't hold any grudges against father. I've been the only one amongst all my siblings who's tried to keep in touch with him. I was the one who personally went to seek him out to know where he lives... and to know my village. Whenever I can afford to, I send him money.

Still, I don't feel he deserves to give my hand in marriage. He's never been a dad, in the true sense of the word. Something happened not so long ago, and he was threatening to curse my brothers... for not looking after him. He acts really entitled.

Candid advice, please. Thank you.

Carry the money give your sugar daddy.

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FlirtyKaren:
BBNaija 2018 housemate, Ifu Ennada said she spend N1 million (one million naira) in a week on perfumes only.

In a video that was shared online, Ifu Ennada can be heard sharing a shocking truth about her love for perfumes and how she got to spend N1 million buying perfumes.

According to Ifu Ennada it is not all the time you get to see the original perfumes and because she is a lover of perfume, she got excited when she found the original ones and ended up spending that much on the shopping spree for just perfumes.

She said this happened during her birthday week.

Watch the video below.

https://twitter.com/lailaijeoma/status/1192737057317249024?s=12

https://lailasnews.com/i-spent-n1-million-on-perfumes-in-one-week-ifu-ennada-video/

Heavy lier

superlanny:
I know its a politically immoral act by the so called person, but it is something that pleases my eyes and its more insulting because he used White colour, "using white means wiping off, making to disappear, erase... And to be sincere that is what PDP is today, bunch of failures who have contributed immeasurable roles to the stagnant growth of Nigeria, there are no saints in the Nigerian political sphere, but I doubt if Nigerians can Forgive PDP.....

When you see them you know them .

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StrikeBack:
Odumeje.

Leading people to destruction

Please be sure of what you are interpreting .

Odum- Eje

Odum lion
Eje. goes with me

Or

Odum Eje

He goes with me

Depends on how you your pronounce the words

Okoroawusa:

You that commits fornication,cheat at work n exams,lie to everyone... you are not mocking Christianity?

Abeg ask them , jollier than thou people .

All you guys condemning the guy should know that it is his style.
Every pastor has his way that may not be palatable to some people.
You can serve God an mammon.

sharone21:

Sure.....but come to think of it, seriously what do average Nigerian men give to ladies to warrant the sex they so crave for( even without giving her anything) before marriage?

Good question, most provide for the girls one way or the other , most women are not ready to bring anything since sex cost them nothing they freely give for material things they can’t get.

openmine:

I may be wrong but Its obvious you started watching U-17 world from this edition for you to come to such conclusion!
Go and find out about the golden eaglets of 1993 and 1985!
I refer to this period because of the youthfulness of the squad then...they were so young yet they played like men!
Well organised and had everything!
Teamwork,Skills,gameplan,showboating...Name them...They had everything!

Have you watched the current U-17 Brazilian team?
Please stop defending mediocrity...we did not go with our best players!
They are just a bunch of individual players trying to impress foreign scouts from top clubs in Europe!
Wait until they meet a formidable opponent before you hastily conclude!

i concur with the bold letters, the coach was with sentiments( my opinion) in selecting his players.
Even if they won, it was just luck

tundemania:
France-born German midfielder, Topmann Ugochukwu Izuwa, has confirmed his desire to play for Nigeria.

The 18-year-old, who plays for KFC Uerdingen in the 3rd division in Germany, also said that he will not turn down an invitation from the German Football Association, GFA, to play for their national team.

Topmann was born in France to Nigerian parents but was moved to Germany after his birth, and has a German passport.

Actually, it is open, I love Nigeria and it is my desire to play there also but I will look for a team that I am more important to,” Izuwa told Allnigeriasoccer.

It is not about being in the national team, it is about being one of the key players in the team, playing a special role there where my services in the national team is highly needed.

I do not have that connection to France even though I was born there, I feel a stronger connection to Nigeria and my father also taught me about my roots never to abandon them.

It is not only because of my parents but my own desire to play for Nigeria.”

Izuwa added: ”In Germany you have a lot of chances but it is not easy because here there are a lot of talents but it is not bad to play for the national team as we know Germany are one of the world leaders in football.

The German-born players prefer playing for Germany because of the incentives.”




Read more here ; >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>https://maniagist.com/2019/10/17/france-born-german-midfielder-confirms-desire-to-play-for-nigeria/

Him no get face ?

Which level do you want to take it to with a man?
Where do you reside?

Kindly read Deuteronomy 14 verse 23 to 27

alBHAGDADI:
This is a pure rubbish teaching coming from a Catholic Bishop of gay kingdom.

Where did God order that we should do what this preacher said with our tithe? Nowhere. What God said in Malachai 3:10 is that we should bring the tithe to his house. He didn't say we should branch somewhere else with it.

Yes, the pastor's idea seems like a reasonably brilliant and kind one, but that doesn't make it right in God's eyes. Remember that the way man thinks is different from the way God thinks.

Man thinks it is a good thing to give the tithe to someone in need of it. But where did God say such about tithe? Nowhere. He only said to bring it to his house and from there it is distributed to the needy.

Think of it this way: You are on your way to the hospital with 100k to pay for your child's medical bills. Suddenly you found a needy man. Be honest with yourself, will you give the money to the needy man to the detriment of your child in the hospital?

I can bet you won't. So why do you now think it is right to give your tithe to the needy man? Remember, it is God's money and you have no right to decide how to help God spend it, especially when he gave you no such order.

Look, don't let people bamboozle you weird scenarios like the one given by the preacher. Always stand by God's command. The tithe is his, and the only thing you can do with it is to take it to his house, nowhere else.

They may even use your child as an example, saying what if your child is sick and the money needed for treatment is equivalent to the tithe money you have, which is your last dime.

What will I say in this case? Give that money to God because it is his. At this point many will be kicking against me. Little do they know that they are kicking against Jesus who said...


Mathew 10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Why do you think Abraham is referred to as a friend of God today? Because he obeyed God by proceeding to sacrifice his son Isaac as commanded by God. He didn't think twice. But people who are not worthy of Jesus are the ones who will disobey him by doing the thoughts of their heart instead of his word.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

doris00:
oro Olumofin, a popular Nigerian relationship expert and self-acclaimed- love doctor, has shared the story of a man who contacted him over claims that his girlfriend whom he has had sex with four times keeps telling him that she is a virgin.

According to the story which he shared on his Instagram page, whenever they have sex, the lady claims that there was no penetration.

The confused man is trying to figure out if the lady in question is normal or not. What do you think

Read the full story below:





See more here https://thickmatch.com/lady-sex-4-times-keeps-telling-virgin-man-cries/

Hope you have not been putting it in the wrong hole?

zakim:


https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/imo-police-declare-notorious-armed-robber-ukachukwu-wanted.html

doesnt he have a picture abi na Nigeria police Logo be him picture?

tyup:
I said it Nigerians are dumb foolish sect of people especially Igbos who leads in giving the country a bad reputation worldwide

I swear I just wish Nigeria is identified by regions would have been much proud to be an holder of the northern passport

Where are you from Mr sensible ?

Mcreloaded:
Stage name Nosa in Behind the clouds.
The tv drama had to stop after his death.
Sam Loko with stage name papa Efe was Nosas father in the drama behind the clouds.
This was way back in the 80s

Nosa’s Real name was Mac Arthur Fom, hope I got the spelling correctly.
He really died in his prime .
I always remember him with his punk hair style.
RIP to our stars and our loved ones, not forgetting our haters too.

Famousbabe:


Source: http://www.thefamousnaija.com/2019/08/video-oge-iloh-cheat-on-me-and-i-would.html?m=1

Please kindly reset your brain, not with force reset ooh but with gentle reset.

Martinez39:
Don't give her a dime. Tell her you don't have cash to give her. Let her go hustle.

My brother Na hustle she Dey hustle so.

shakmati:
Pictures of the private parts or we're not interested.

Preach on brother and louder too.

BBC confirmed him dead

Elimon:
I've been dating this girl in my school for 3 years plus now and even if we be gone through a lot...we always came back together, always there for each other.Till recently a girl visited me and she came to my place to meet the girl in my room,even though I wasn't cheating or intending to,she got angry and destroyed some things in my room(not first time,esp when she is really angry).I begged her for over a week,spending money and time just to get her back.After we settled with the help of her friends..my gf started lying and going out to clubs and parties frequently. Even recently she was drunk and told me she fell in love with someone at the club and has gone far as kissing but no sex..but I held it in my heart cos I love her so much
Just recently she went out again to the club even with my staunch refusal,ignored my calls throughout the night and morning and then came back with stories which were false,it was obvious she was playing me,even after the resolution, so today I told her I needed space for myself and if she has found another guy,she should feel free to go...My point is I love her so much and I never planned it this way,but also I can't bear fighting for her again(has happened before),please what should I do?

Thank God for your liberation, start a new life make money then the girls will show them you make your pick with your terms.

GistGoViral:
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The Afro Nation Festival in Portugal got quite raunchy after D'banj took the stage, as a lady flashed her panties while twerking for him.


The Ghanaian lady Efia Shemona, was called up from the crowd to perform with D'banj and it instantly became an 18+ show. Sharing the video on Instagram, she wrote;



See more photos here; http://gistmore.com/dbanj-rest-his-head-on-ladys-backstage-on-stage

Hope the pant was clean sha?

This is wankur wankuru if you know you know.

Generalwoodz:
Asteriod that God sent to land in Aso Rock is doing mumu mumu now?

they have bribed the asteroids

Do you have any for now?
If not over ok Dey worry am.

trevormide:
I urgently need advice to rescue my elder sister from the torture that she is receiving from her husband.

My elder sister is still young. She is 24. She is just 1 year older than me. Growing up, we have always watched each other backs. She got married about 2-3 years ago. The man is in his late 30s. Almost 40 years. She now lives in Port Harcourt with the husband. I had an interview in PH this week and my sister asked me to stay with them. I arrived on Wednesday. Everywhere was peaceful. Or so it seemed. I slept on Wednesday, woke on Thursday morning. That morning, the man was walking up and down with only white pant as if he did not know that there was a visitor in the house. The thing in his pant was like they put 4 fufu inside the pant. The thing was just excess. I ignored the man's stupidity and went for my interview. I came back in the evening and my sister and her 2 years old son were home. The husband did not come back till 9pm. When he came to greet me, he had alcohol all over his breath.

Later that night, I was awoken by screaming. I quickly got out from my room. My sister was screaming ah ah ah ah uh uh uh ah ah ah uhhhhh ahhhhh. The man was just fxcking her anyhow. Their door was locked. I went back to my room. I could not sleep. The screaming continued for almost 1 hour. When everywhere became quite I tried to sleep but sleep did not come until about 4am.

After sleeping for a short time, I was awoken again by another round of screams. I checked my time. It was around 5.30am. My sister was screaming again. She screamed till about 6am. I was angry. I felt sorry for her. I said I will talk to her once she comes out from the room and check her face for bruises.

When she came out later, I saw her in the kitchen, she was just laughing and playing like mumu. I asked her if she's fine, she said yes. I kept quiet so as not to rush into hasty conclusion.

Last night again was worse. I was hearing kpa kpa kpa kpa, the stupid guy was slamming her and she was going ah ah ah uh uh uh like 3 times last night.

I am leaving today. I have made up my mind that I will talk to our family about it. She needs help. She needs to be rescued from the torture she is facing almost daily.

Anyone with mature advice on how to rescue my sister can guide me. I am open to suggestions. Thanks

My brother please let your sister enjoy her marriage, since he is not beating her.
Make you marry first then you will know better.

djblue007:
Greetings!
You are welcome to read this post on how to treat your woman right.
Every woman wants to feel special and enjoy every bit of marital bliss. Of course she should because she has really come a long way preserving herself for the marriage. And the marriage must not be a hell.

Women are different from men especially in the way they reason and handle issues. Women are generally more tolerant and they have the ability to multitask. Kudos to them all!

Like we all know, women love gifts and surprises. This aspect of them forms the beginning of romance. Buy her things, surprise her and and take note of every little thing she says.

Pay attention to her whenever she looks depressed even if she says nothing is wrong. Every woman is a baby regardless of their age : They love to be pampered.
Another point to note here is giving her the maximum respect. See her as your better half and carry her along in every plan. Make room for her submissions and suggestions towards your plans. The two of you should find a suitable way of managing your finances. I don't encourage joint accounts ownership but try to clearly define each other's area of financing. E. G. Buying the food stuff, paying the rent and paying the children's school fees.

Having Fun
Fun time should be as much pleasurable as possible. Never rush things with her, If she must have a ground-shaking orgasm. You know a woman will always respect you and want more if you can give her a rhythmic orgasm, and will never feel sexually starved.
Give her compliments such as "I love the way you pack your hair" or "I love the way your curve and body shape are". Please be real about those compliments. Ladies are already getting tired of "you are beautiful and the likes" Be specific and make her feel unique.
When you guys want to make love, start really slowly. Talk softly, look sternly into her eyes as you touch her hands softly.
Get her to tell you what she likes when you are making love and probably the position she enjoys the most as well as those points..... Cont'd.

https://beautifulniche..com/2019/07/treat-her-right.html?m=1

Have you married ?