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Some men can not take it when he is talking and a woman is talking too... To them, it is met with brutal force... Forgetting we are in a democracy, just as he would want to freely air his views anywhere.

If u know u are not mature enough for marriage, don't enter into it.

After one id$ot will be looking for virgin to marry@ Jeromestarks after encouraging males to Bleep and dump... Tomorrow nemesis fit wear cloth like this come meet am. You won't see the idiot on threads like this that men mess up, saying " fear that gender( men)".

Devil just came in through that 14year boy to mess up a happy family when the Op least expected bringing about this kind of reaction instead of apply patience, wisdom, tact.... Seems Op did not truly love or trust his wife before.

That Prophetess too no do well, why spreading such sensitive info and betraying Op's wife? May God forgive her.

Op, immediately release your wife.... Beat sense into that boy and possibly send him to a juvenile home or psychologist/psychiatrist.... But me, I too get soft mind, juvenile home may not be the best for that boy, both he apart from your daughter deserves second chance, make his name/reputation no go dent for life.

Prayer is key as devil do not love happy homes that is why he keeps on putting it in the heart of Nairaland redpillers to hate women( a subtle way of encouraging gayism).
Peace

AlorJulie:
thanks for sharing. please is there any particulay youtube channel or account that i can look out for. any link would be appreciated. thanks

Nurse Joyce from Kenya.... Or type in search box( specifically).

Paysend....Those in Europe, Israel especially etc, enters into your account ( eg current account)

Worldremit

Western Union/Moneygram: Let them remove charges from your money

send wave and some others from USA...

Problem in Naija is payment( paying for things from Nigeria), so u are forced to patronise fintechs whether or not you trust them.

JasonScoolari:
With the current situation of the country, please avoid anything that will lead to you exchanging blows....


May his soul rest peacefully.

So painful.... Combined with constant fumes and noise from generator sets which makes people walking corpses( with headaches, nervousness and ear aches).

A country like Cameroon, u see people with canes, walkers and walking sticks because people live long there unlike Nigeria coupled with the cold environment that toughens the external to help them last longer. But in Naija, u can hardly see many people celebrating 85-100years unlike Cameroonians.

Men love sex but may not want to be responsible for the outcome/s.

He convinced her to bury their child since no be him labor to push out baby after 9 harrowing months carrying the pregnancy.

If he had married her, this baby will be in a HOME and not in a toilet.

Like a friend of mine years back who is from Uyo( dad) and Yoruba( mum) but eventually married a Yoruba guy would tell us then that most times the brideprice of AkwaCross can never be fully paid even after the traditional marriage... She advised you just do your best financially and explain to the lady's family.... Most grooms 'owe' even after many years of marriage.

I think the cheapest place to marry is Edo state.... Also, some places might be a bit high but individual families may not want it that high

drakeli:
It’s true but at what cost for the husband? After different men don nack their wives before they could get paper to invite their husbands

Why are u seeing this only from the angle of being a man and NOT from the angle of women.

Women don't always carry sex matter for head like gala like men. She may even be too busy working to save in order to bring her husband abroad.for her to have a complete home.

Issue is that when our men here tell u they want to date you, they actually want FREE access always to your body 'irresponsibly'( if u know what I mean)after all, not all relationship leads to marriage.... The shocker is the Nigerian girl sees it as she cannot be that cheap/ free....

Truth is, even in marriage, nothing really is free, from both the male angle and female angle....

So, our men take it personal, become bitter ( especially those PMB messed up) and it is as if there is a daily conspiracy to tarnish the image of the Nigerian lady.

If a man wants free/cheap sex( as they will say they cannot carry the burden that the females fathers cannot carry), the only person that can do that for you is your SISTER or FEMALE RELATIVE but it comes with a price and curse....

They have said many evil things on social media about the Nigerian woman but being a strong woman that she is, other African ladies still look up to her and not even as motivated as her( the other African women also have their own baggages).

They say all these stuff but every weekend na wedding with/for a Nigerian woman....They convince themselves that Nigerian men have more foreign marital choices than their ladies but the end product is what people look at: Guess which gender gets wedded to those foreigners 2ce their ages the more?

They said Nigerian women are lazy, but if we have to use football( which they should naturally be dominant in) to compare who is lazy between the two, guess the lazy gender?

They said "fear" that gender, but guess who the world is actually afraid of?

It is not good to hate ANY gender because hatred is not good and you don't even know who your helper in life will be.

I'm surprised to see that people are underrating Serbia, na wa oooo....

They are as good as Switzerland too.

Me, I don't even know which to choose to win, but if it is for Cameroon to win and my friend to be happy say dem beat the Swiss, fine for me( lol)

He must have heard it from the daily rantings of Nigerian men....

Marriage isn't for everyone.

Anyway, person when no like to marry Nigerian woman( can't even be compared to Ghanaian women) has the choice of marrying whatever he likes even his fellow man. Shikena

Sex addict K( male) found and married his type....Once upon a time, one of his girlfriends screamed on tabloids that she couldn't stand his sex life.

Curious345:
Aisha Buhari' represents the vengeance of God over the matter

Same way some boys on Nairaland claiming to be MEN want to bash women on different threads and see it as cool.

How can one bash those who go through PAINS to bring them to life and won't see nemesis trailing them.

May they not be victims of circumstances they caused themselves before they learn( in a HARD WAY).

Cameroon doesn't know what is : Good morning Sir/ Ma

We can air our views and still be putting Sir/ Ma as Nigerians are not known to be docile....

But, you see Cameroon, once someone is talking or just finished talking and u air your views or want to try to air it even with Sir/ Ma, they see it as the greatest disrespect as you are NOT supposed to air your own view.....Maybe they inherited that from their government.

Maybe the Onana was just trying to say just one thing ( not defending him though), them go sanction him especially if this is not his first time of trying that.

Ebubu:
ugly fool you are only fit for househelp work
you wan make person marry you make you born ugly bastards for an ? i no for pay ur hospital bills, born troway like u see picture below

Mumu....

Ugly fool with ugly pocket....

Thunder continue to fire your useless ugly parents( ugly in heart and face).

Jobless fool.... Write any nonsense again about women....Idiot!

See what a typical shameless Irresponsible simp does for a living...

Not that he is even moving big money( lol)... This is why they are so frustrated because PMB is dealing with them but they now pour their anger on women since they can't date a reasonable, decent woman as she is highly unaffordable to their type.

Instead of EBUBU to put his life in order first, na how to bash women.... And this one pocket too UGLY....

Awon crypto aka SCAMMER...

Sha no scam people too much just to enjoy yuletide( lol)

Cameroon that allegations are flying everywhere that to secure a spot in the national team, players had to pay heavily?

See what corruption does, it dims patriotism.... The way they play for their clubs is different.

Ebubu:
see as you ugly reach below this comment just scroll down

meanwhile i have completed the payoneer funds purchase
scroll down, picture proof still below

but abeg try fine even if na small, Nigerian men no dey pamper ugly girls sorry

Fine man, no pimples but with ugly pocket!

U can't even impress a lady to keep her as yours that is why u rant all over social media blaming women even for what men do.

U need to check my specifications on the type of men that command my attention before you make your personal, unwarranted conclusions( lol).....

Immaturity is your name, reason y u kukuma join broke, redpill gang.... When una don join Ubunja una be like dog wen no dey hear word again even wen his master blow whistle dey call am.

If your pocket no reach u toast/ marry any woman just marry a man since u love degrading women....

Bye!

*Try not to scam people too much sha in order to enjoy in Christmas

So, this is what Ebubu does for a living?... So shameful...


No wonder you can't manage a woman or a home.

SCAMMER!

BigBashiru:
I'm happily married and the wife supports herself....it has made the home more peaceful....

Between me and you you know "her king" concept is a lie....more like her 'work horse"

BigBashiru:
I'm happily married and the wife supports herself....it has made the home more peaceful....

Between me and you you know "her king" concept is a lie....more like her 'work horse"

Woman will play her role in giving birth plus add yours ( apart from others)while u play only yours and dodge ie 2:1... Well done.... You see being responsible as woman pushing burden on u?

I don't envy u, definitely another man will be or soon be playing your role in her life ( lol)as u can't change the natural order of things due to oversabi or laziness... You for just come as woman.

I now see y tongues wag because women like this move on quickly with their lives when their spouses are no more, since they have NO fond memories of them....

Marrying u will be tougher than Nigerians being under APC....

Bye

Why the lamentations?

Everyday crying but no laid down strategy to at least attract fresh graduates ( trained in Nigeria and outside- whether it is called observationship/ practicum) in the health field to work in Naija at least with N10000 stipend and small, one room self contained apartment so at least they contribute their quota while they build on their experiences/ skills.

Fresh graduates still labor to throw in applications and get a house(+ high agreements)...Going through needless protocols even if is free service( at both government and good private specialist hospitals).

Tell me, with these rigours who would want to stay for long or stay at all to serve Nigeria? Some even when u want to work for free see it as strange and like something you need favor from them.

We need to be more pragmatic about with solutions for the health sector to be 'bouyant'...

We have good, big and specialist hospitals but our politicians travel abroad for health checks... None of the campaigning politician for 2023 Presidential seat has so far said much about banning Medical tourism for politicians and making it part of the constitution.

This is the price of petrol in Cameroon but I don't know how they do it such that intercity transport is cheaper than in Nigeria.

A 9 hr journey is 6000 FRS, 8 hrs is 5000 FRS and these prices may be 5000frs and 4000 FRS if it is between Tuesday and Thursday.

Intracity transport is same with ours or ours is lesser

Ebubu:
you dey craze well well. pampering kill your mama there you beg african man to pamper you and still insult him. thunder faya your mama faya who want pamper you join

why not express your desire on how you will like to be treated well without insulting who you are demanding such from?

That thunder you are calling will surely destroy and eliminate that your UNLOVED mama and HARDENED, FOOLISH papa...

Did I insult you for you to talk foolishly?...
Anyway, when no money dey, u frustrated Nairaland men start hating women, instead of PMB that caused your problems.

Anyway, if a woman isn't good like your mama, marry a wicked man like your papa and be gay naw

BigBashiru:
You are the lazy gold digger and you know it.... go and work na why must a man give you his money....did you make it with him?? Entitlement mentality of gold diggers....

Easy words to use on women: Hoe, Gold diggers.... We are used to it already.... A simp! Very irresponsible.

I don't blame you.... Your background may be affecting you where mama sees dad as Baba omo mi instead of Oko mi.... You don't know the difference....

When u grow up in a dysfunctional home where dad doesn't do his duties to his wife apart from sex, you grow up with such mentality.....Your type should marry from similar backgrounds and not be entangled with people from decent backgrounds with father, mother and children setting, each knowing their roles and mum playing her SUPPORTIVE role to her KING, who pamperd and cares for her and the kids.... So, I can't be forcing what I'm used to on someone who is YAWA....

either u stay single, or marry a YAWA woman like yourself so she can be married to you and still be living like a widow.

Na u sabi, if u like marry and not care for your wife, na still Nairaland u go come with anonymous status for us to give u advice.

Bye

BigBashiru:
You are the selfish person. Your money is your money while my money is our money bah?

The advent of social media has accelerated men's connaisssance of female tricks....

Get a job and use ur money to support urself....the husband gets a job and uses his own moni to support himself. Everyone is happy.

But ur gold digging tendency won't let you...you want ur hands on his money under the guise of "marriage" and "being head"... while you keep urs and only bring it out when convenient....

Male provision in the past wasn't altruistic....it wasn't charity...men expected something in return....and marriage isn't based on "love" and "romance"....its based on compatibility and mutual benefits

So y would a woman marry you or your type?

U sound like a lazy MAN or cripple for u like to shout this at the rooftop in Nairaland...
You want the woman to also be a provider, say u go born for her eg through surrogate?

I advice u don't marry because u are expecting too much from an already overstretched woman.

CaveAdullam:
1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you....

BigBashiru:
My dear child birth is no excuse..Men don't lose blood in their jobs?? The earlier you go get a job to use in supporting yourself the better for you.....

When I already get a job, why will I still need a SELFISH man like you?

Your type will need to do interviews and FBI investigations on any woman u plan to marry, if at all there will be any marriage...

Change your view on how to be a MAN to your woman and even children because this OVERSABI you are doing now will not pay you ultimately....

Your type will want to eat their cakes and have it then, want to compare themselves with selfless men, ko possible!

BigBashiru:
Better go and get a job otherwise no man will marry you....

For una little mind in Nairaland, a Naija woman is a beggar.....

Better change your mindset on women generally and marriage... If not, don't enter into the institution as marriage is NOT for everyone especially SELFISH men like you who want to kill a woman all in the name of her bearing your valueless surname.

I advise you get a baby mama who actually wants to birth for you from the onset of una 1 night stand abi na 1 year stand encounter so that u don't deceive her and later incur her wrath and curses...

Ebubu:
please add “pamper your sister, pamper your wife, and pamper your mother”, to your context.

Because that is what pastor meant, and not “pamper your girlfriend”.

Before wife, wasn't she girlfriend?

How does the wife know you will pamper her when u didn't pamper her when there were no kids and lesser burden to bear?

Make una dey think before writing.... Small pampering won't kill you..... This is y the African man appears unromantic.

BigBashiru:
And no one pampers the man? Marriage as an institution should be shut down. No more using men as financial slaves....

A woman most times takes care of all others apart from herself ... She loses much in blood and physique just to birth babies to make a family complete. .. You men still want her to add earning income to her already FULL schedule doing wifey and motherly duties.....

Your little pampering will not kill you.... When u sow love, care and pampering, you reap likewise even from your children who you think aren't watching.

Bahamas95:
What a beauty.


RIP pretty woman.




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I just played the video now, it took me back to my childhood. I remembered the soundtracks of the American movies I watched back then.

Na our Van Damme come be this one?... Ageing...Hmmm

If most men here are arguing with the truth from Pst K.....Hmmm.... Women are in trouble..... Many women will prefer being by themselves than being with these SIMPS.....I don't even know if Nairaland men know who SIMPs really are: IRRESPONSIBLE men, not anything less....

Nothing is wrong in pampering a woman in kind/cash.... Those asking if she is richer, will she still need pampering?... Don't you see how happy rich people are when people also remember them with gifts, no matter how little?