Romance › Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone You Met On Social Media? by sharpwriter(m): 4:10pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Macaulay Culkin 40th Birthday: Home Alone Star Actor Is Now 40 Years Old! by sharpwriter(m): 12:56pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Zzor how old are you?  |
Sports › Re: Messi To Move To Manchester City Likely As Aguero Removes No 10 From Instagram by sharpwriter(m): 7:20pm On Aug 26, 2020 |
DirtyGold: These people are just speculating rubbish
Meeeheeehn... The GOAT is bleating all the way to Kano Pillars 
What's tha business? Lol... You are high on Akpeteshi  |
Romance › Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Sexually Attracted To Someone Else. by sharpwriter(m): 10:18am On Aug 26, 2020 |
ItsTerah: I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.
I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.
I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.
Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship. I don't know how old you are and also, I don't normally comment on issues like this but I will say this. Cut off both of them. Because you don't love the first guy. And when you can't reciprocate love in a relationship, you are both wasting your time (especially the guy). You may cheat on him later if you get married and when there's no spark in your relationship, there will be problems. As for the second guy, well, you're human and can have feelings, love and infatuations. But any guy asking for your nudes is off the list of men to consider a relationship with. In fact, I will advise you to ditch him faster than the first guy. Stay away from him and forget him gradually out of your life. Don't become a victim of blackmail through nudes sent out of ignorance disguising as love. Don't get hooked with a pervert or someone who has no respect for woman's body and dignity. Finally, it's not compulsory to be in a relationship if you are not ready. Develop yourself, get a money making skill and prepare for your future. God will bring better men. Peace. |
Celebrities › Re: Face Of Woman Behind Instablog - Naira Marley Reacts by sharpwriter(m): 5:59pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
obembet: When Davido, Peruzzi and other Celebrities queuing in front of that Instablog's owner house to beat her Hmmmn... this meme. Where on earth is that? Even men and youths in Nigerian villages don't look this shabby and casual. Suffering dey that place, chai.  |
Romance › Re: Being Pretty Is A Curse Becos Guys Will Never Let You Be by sharpwriter(m): 4:34pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Unimaginable Horror In Southern Kaduna - Terrifying Slaughter Of Woman by sharpwriter(m): 4:29pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
tamdun: That video is too brutal, are u sure this is Nigeria? What d Bleep is going on in this country It is cameroon, she was killed by separatist fighters. |
Romance › Re: Being Pretty Is A Curse Becos Guys Will Never Let You Be by sharpwriter(m): 3:59pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Rushed To The Hospital After Engaging In Anal Sex by sharpwriter(m): 12:37pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Rushed To The Hospital After Engaging In Anal Sex by sharpwriter(m): 9:09pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Hmmmnnn.... Lefulefu, what do ya say to this?  |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Made A Shocking Revelation To Me by sharpwriter(m): 8:41pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Photos Of The Man That Ate Human Faeces With Bread In Oyo (Video) by sharpwriter(m): 7:13pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Joys Priscilla Oyedepo & Abodunrin Olaleye White Wedding Photos by sharpwriter(m): 10:10am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Uyi168: ...
Don't understand the color of socks the groom rocked..
 I thought I was was the only one that saw that  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Joyce Oyedepo And Abimbola Olaleye Wedding (Pictures) by sharpwriter(m): 8:26am On Aug 23, 2020 |
iramure: Congratulations to the virgin lady. She really tried holding onto her virginity till 28 it's not easy. But tonight I pity the guy...him go sweat to break the rock That sweating is dependent on certain conditions.... If he has empathy as a person, with the absence of necessary lubricant, den he go sweat, but if na guy wey no send with experience and research, no sweat... Get it  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Joyce Oyedepo And Abimbola Olaleye Wedding (Pictures) by sharpwriter(m): 8:19am On Aug 23, 2020 |
Queenlovely: When a man opens a car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife. Prince Philip
God bless the Union,,, although I am core atheist
it reminded me of when my first son got married. I wanted something noisy and flamboyant, he confided in me that he wants something simple, something like 15 guest highest. I said over my dead body.
finally I gave in, the girl is from Ethiopia, an Ethiopian goddess, those people dey fine Sha.
in 2016 , they celebrated their 10th anniversary together but with all the fun fare, it was the height of luxury. if you see me crying that day eem Before before, I dey read your comments and I think say you be serious person.... Recently I saw that you dey very unserious and you be attention seeker... Mtcheww  Queenlovely: When a man opens a car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife. Prince Philip
God bless the Union,,, although I am core atheist
it reminded me of when my first son got married. I wanted something noisy and flamboyant, he confided in me that he wants something simple, something like 15 guest highest. I said over my dead body.
finally I gave in, the girl is from Ethiopia, an Ethiopian goddess, those people dey fine Sha.
in 2016 , they celebrated their 10th anniversary together but with all the fun fare, it was the height of luxury. if you see me crying that day eem Before before, I dey read your comments and I think say you be serious person.... Recently I saw that you dey very unserious and you be attention seeker... Mtcheww |
Education › Re: University Of Ibadan Auditor ‘Went Blind' by sharpwriter(m): 10:41pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
enirock: This assertion is very wrong. We the younger generation, are we better off It's that :the older trained the younger in evil deeds  |
Education › Re: University Of Ibadan Auditor ‘Went Blind' by sharpwriter(m): 10:36pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Minjim: Most Nigerian ministries are messed up. Some, no audit for the past 5 years. Audit that should occur quarterly. My landlord, who is now a pensioner, with two houses in Lagos and Abuja said when he worked the the Nigerian Military are an internal auditor, whenever he goes to audit the top officers will call him into a room and give him an already prepared audit. In his words, they'll say, " if you live yourself and your family, take this and go. "
Since he lives himself and his family he usually does exactly. And they always greased his palms abundantly.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by sharpwriter(m): 6:42pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
pocohantas: People like her need to understand women are different and couples are different too. There is nothing wrong in being a housewife. It is the sacrifice some women pay for the smooth running of their homes.
As long as they are both okay with it and do not go begging for urgent 2k, you can only wish them well. Hmmm... Dear, your comments are changing these days, sometime ago, I could almost predict your comment. Your judgment ain't bad though...  |
Christianity Etc › Re: MY Experience With The Supernatural, Ghost And Spirits Do Exist. by sharpwriter(m): 11:49pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
luminouz: Thanks but nope. This is because I can't say more than what I've said online.
There are many towns in that LGA so it may not be urs I'm not saying you should say it here..... Let it be a private message btw both of us... That's all. |
Christianity Etc › Re: MY Experience With The Supernatural, Ghost And Spirits Do Exist. by sharpwriter(m): 11:39pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
luminouz: Lol...town is in Ekiti South West LGA. Cant say more than that  Ha! I'm from Ekiti south west o.. Please let me know it... Should I PM you? |
Christianity Etc › Re: MY Experience With The Supernatural, Ghost And Spirits Do Exist. by sharpwriter(m): 11:27pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
luminouz: Lool! Boss, please give me the Name of the town where you did your childhood in the old ondo state I am suspecting a town in ekiti. |
Politics › Re: Femi Adesina: The Buhari The International Community Knows by sharpwriter(m): 7:29pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Greensquard: Yeah whatsup man..il reply ur message today..just been busy Ok... Thanks |
Politics › Re: Femi Adesina: The Buhari The International Community Knows by sharpwriter(m): 7:21pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Greensquard: Who is this cow..Anyway i honestly woukdnt blame him cos him de benefit for the regime na like he clearly said 'we that travel with him' so no be him fault..
The govermment has some positive sides but the negative is alot more plus the lack of respect for the role of law is so disheartening..imagine a court order from a high court in Nija to the Nigerian military been ignored by Buratai smh.. Hey Bros! Good evening, are you there? |
Romance › Re: Pharmacist Dies During Romp With Lagos Sex Worker In Brothel by sharpwriter(m): 6:03pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
bizme: Oh my goodess! This is so hilarious.... I am still finding it difficult that that dude has not shown up yet... He always seeks out bad news as opportunity to preach...riding on mortal fear to force people to listen to him. You didn't search well, Dude is in page 2  |
Computers › Re: Naked German Man Chases A Wild Boar After It Snatched His Laptop (Photos) by sharpwriter(m): 5:21pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Heffalump: This is the reason why over pampering of this wild animals can be embarrassing atimes.
Let this boar come to Nigeria and play this expensive joke if it will not end as family dish  My dear, you see am too ba?Arinfin ile iyagbe. Those animals no get respect for abroad fa. And this wild boar dey sweet pass the normal farm pig  |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Cameroon Kitchen On Fire, Female Housemates Run by sharpwriter(m): 2:04pm On Aug 07, 2020*. Modified: 9:37pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Picture Of The Cobra Killed Last Night By My Neighbour & Brother by sharpwriter(m): 1:48pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Greensquard: The f.u.ck?? This dudes ate this disgusting snake with all the eggs..ewwww.. Bros. I sent you a PM. Please check it out. Thanks. |
Romance › Re: Supernatural Beings And Ghosts: Checkout Some Scary Stories From Twitter. by sharpwriter(m): 11:54am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Goldenfinger: .bro i tire 4 the mata,dats y trow d mata 4 nairaland.but our parents knws more than us nevertheless thank for your reply. No problem bro. I replied because we have 2 dogs in our house. One adult, the other young. And the young one is very naughty with that digging (e no dey hear word). Apart from this I have seen dogs doing this since my childhood. As some also said, dogs are sensitive and wise, and they may lead us to discover things (such as buried things). But I just want you to know that digging is their hobby, and in the case of omen (whether good or bad), I personally have not seen anything spiritual in that. |
Romance › Re: Supernatural Beings And Ghosts: Checkout Some Scary Stories From Twitter. by sharpwriter(m): 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Goldenfinger: .i need help wit sumtin.....is it normal for a dog to digging ground,mum say it means bad omen and she doesn't pass were the dog has already dug,i told her that i should cover it but she says no.she told my dad and he said its normal and she said by dad does not even knw spiritual stuff,the dog is not ours it belong to our neighbour.my mum is really supersticious woman,help guys i need info lol .... where is your Mum from? Dogs dig ground every now and then. It is a play for them especially young dogs and new puppies. Dogs can also dig ground if they suspect something valuable like meat or whatever they can eat has been buried is a shallow hole. No bad omen in this  |
Romance › Re: Supernatural Beings And Ghosts: Checkout Some Scary Stories From Twitter. by sharpwriter(m): 8:23pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Frenzy01: I remember a cousin brother of mine telling a story of how a ghost that has supposedly died in their village at Ekiti many years before gave him a heavy kunk in the head when he met her at Kaduna state in the market area. According to him, he was staring at her too much to verify if it was truly her or not. physical or spiritual kunk?  |
Family › Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by sharpwriter(m): 7:32pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
NwaIgboBoy: but waking up in the middle of the night to see those eyes is enough hypertension Only if they are staring at you  |