Marriage in that effeminate world called UK is a no no, the system oppresses menfolk and still shout patriachy, that's why you have pussies as men in their monarchial system.

You can never ever win her even if she's the oppressor. men are now beating the system with just normal boyfriend and girlfriend paro.


oloshi ni won ni beyen.

Please any woman here should list all the benefits of marriage to a man compared to a woman.


1. As a woman she wants you so you complete her, don't believe all this feminists here, they get man too.
2. She will use you as a long term provider for attention, security, sustenance etc
3. she needs your superior seed stock to bring forth kids
the list is endless.

nah woman marriage they pay pass people. Adopt prize mentality as a man

International women's day cap of the century.

johhbekeboh09:


@shomutuski

Abeg manup!... talk wetin de your mind...give reasons why he shouldn't marry any of the ladies!

who the fvck are you??

Telling who to man up lol

Boss hafa
Send me specs of this benz

Sharp sharp

Buyer they like dis, i they come festac tomorrow

Seandisputed:
If her husband didn't lose his job, she wouldn't let you know the boy's yours. She's looking for an escape route using the boy as a medium.
The husband was established already as a man that was why she opted for him instead of you, thereby denying the paternity at the initial stage. She didn't think things will get this bad that was the reason she didn't bother you all these years. Would she have told you that boy's yours if they were still living fine?
Run a DNA test and take your child but cut ties with the woman.(it's gonna be difficult though, because of the presence of the other father).
No be my mouth you go hear say most women are opportunistic and don't really love us as we think they do.

SABI BOY

yinkaOdutuyo:


Meaning bro?

Owoo ma to ba eh

Bro how you no take no sey that babe nah scammer.

cut her tf off from your life and move on.

You no they use icq E sure and save nah

No marry anyone of them.

What a joke

Enceladus:
Very Bad advice. Multiple access means multiple targets by foreign enemies. The POTUS remains the most secured individual. A congressman is an easy target to the Russians, N-Koreans and the communist china spies.

MODIFIED

Before you want to claim intelligent please read through the thread before you quote this post or you will be duly ignored.

Biden chosen to rule wasn't an accident, The powers that be wants to cripple America's spine. BIDEN lacks balls needed to rule and he's effeminate af, watch how women will full his cabinets and the VP will control him. Another plot is that he is there to make way for the VP after he dies to an undisclosed illness

Stealthassasin:
she doesn't put anything on the table are family doesn't even give her want she wants , i'm her only source of income

You're her only source of income.

Nvgga fvcking listen to yourself.


Weak af, Effeminate and low value that's how you sound. You've put her on a pedestal already.

Your prime will come and it's a long period, you'll reign supreme but you need change your mentality.

She's suppose to enter your kingdom not you ass licking.

You be mumu, the fact you kept mentioning you're a bad guy in your story shows you a weak af nvgga.

Girl cheat on you, admit to your face beg and you asking shitty questions on here. I swear to God, the bulk of men on nairaland are effeminate af.

Style up, get a life, dump that broad. Girls don upgrade their style now. They act like good girls to catch mugu like you. So fvcking think she telling you all her family problem and happenings is attractive and shows she's trustworthy.

Play thr field with that broad and get someone else.

RomanGreen:


I pity the simp that will marry you, you ladies see marriage as poverty alleviation program, it's high time men start paying you ladies back in your own coin....now before you broke-shame me, I'm very comfortable and my girlfriend is so very supportive..... Unlike leeches like you who want to reap where they did not sow.....una never see anything, useless gold digging hoes, y'all think your pussies are free ticket to a man's wealth

Asin all the bvtch knows how to do is bicker and bvtch about everything that doesn't end up in favour or doesnt favour women. smelling ass, raggedy lowlife that will hit the wall soon.

We will be waiting for you here madam zzor when you fast approach the wall and hit it like wiley coyote.

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

Boss you valid, it is a well known fact that during the course of marriage trials would come and go, sapaa will come and go and it won't be all rosy. As a man like you my investment in my girlfriend/wife to be is only to cushion the effects of whatever test that comes our way but i have to the realization that women don't think this way maybe not all shaa but the bulk of them. they want to eat their cake and have it. They want a serial provider and don't want to provide even relationships of today you'll see girls not doing shii for their bf and they ask ask ask and bicker like the bvthces they are when you can't provide. some even go as far as sleeping with men outside for rewards or switching up in their marriages.

back to your matter! I'll share a word my dad told me and he said whatever you do for a woman, do it out of the kindness of your heart because it's like pouring water inside a basket. Don't expect nothing in return. If another man comes and best all your doings, she'll forget you in an instant. They are monkey branchers by nature.
I'll advise you to support and business by providing her with a little sum for startup make she Hussle the rest sabi sey street no easy and use your money as you intend to earlier. let the investment be the failsafe contingency incase shii wan rub you cus lack of money go make woman disrespect man for marriage wella.

Personally I think it's high time we menfolk start dating or looking or looking to settle with women who are capable to help us or our marriages, women do it everytime and call it hypergamy. she'll leave you once you can't provide. Let's do the same, nobody wan marry woman wey no fit help.

Imagine giving your wife monthly upkeep and feeding money plus she works and earn, you go broke one period and she no fit even borrow you 50k talk less of dash you sef. which kind woman be that.

We sef come life to enjoy ooo, no be every time give give give

SenecaTheYonger:
What does this mean? I dialed the code circulating around yesterday and got this

Exactly. I just dialed the USSD code and I got this message prompt from Airtel. I have NIN number already

I don't want to waste my chi on you. you're a FOOL. the biggest to have ever existed.

Why do men come on nairaland to ask for what to do on issues that they can decide for themselves, i mean you have a thinking faculty.

ShugaFly:



How do I get in touch please

na scam bros

A

Veryfoolishboy:
print the letter of invitation and take it there

Bro I can't, the only proof I have is the snapshot on my phone, should I just print it instead and take it with me.

I think i will, just try it.

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Ninamanda:
Please who has checked the shortlisted names and how did you do it.

2. Were you able to check your name on the website?

Hello, i was contacted by email and the email was blank so i went to their portal to verify my status and i was shortlisted. As i am speaking to you, i went to cafe to download the invitation letter, just for me to put my application identification number and i was told i wasnt selected after the earlier proof which i have with me and i was give a centre number LAG217 and seat number 113.

is it hoax
Im so devastated right now

Rabz4real:
For those people getting another person's detail, try logging in using a computer or laptop. Thanks

Hello, i was contacted by email and the email was blank so i went to their portal to verify my status and i was shortlisted. As i am speaking to you, i went to cafe to download the invitation letter, just for me to put my application identification number and i was told i wasnt selected after the earlier proof which i have with me and i was give a centre number LAG217 and seat number 113.

is it hoax
Im so devastated right now

R2bees:
They will contact you via email and PH Number ie if you are shortlisted.

Hello, i was contacted by email and the email was blank so i went to their portal to verify my status and i was shortlisted. As i am speaking to you, i went to cafe to download the invitation letter, just for me to put my application identification number and i was told i wasnt selected after the earlier proof which i have with me and i was give a centre number LAG217 and seat number 113.

is it hoax
Im so devastated right now

ABUJA NAH THE ONLY BETTER STATE THERE, IT LITERALLY CHANGED MY LIFE AND OPENED DOORS FOR ME.

I DON GET CONNECTS OF BIG MEN PIKIN

zeratehk:

Its not an error, its a deliberate act.

Southerners/Easterners are receiving blank mail while North are getting their full invitation letters.

If you don't have a copy of the registration mail containing your ID, that's the end of the road.

Fear North

Hello, i was contacted by email and the email was blank so i went to their portal to verify my status and i was shortlisted. As i am speaking to you, i went to cafe to download the invitation letter, just for me to put my application identification number and i was told i wasnt selected after the earlier proof which i have with me and i was give a centre number LAG217 and seat number 113.

is it hoax
Im so devastated right now

NarnieAceTech:
Hello, house. I got an email this morning from The Nigerian Immigration Service but when I clicked on the message to open it, it was blank, there was no content inside, I clicked 'back' and discovered my gmail had a '?' sign, like an error or something.
Who else experienced this and what can be done to rectify it?

bros not to worry, mine was like that. go throught your gmail and get our application id then proceed to https://immigrationrecruitment.org.ng/ to check your status, you have been shortlisted since you received the email same as i did.


You are required to come alone with the following items:

Printout of this Letter of Invitation
Printout of Application Confirmation Slip with ID Number ( this is the mail they sent far back as lasy year with your ID) NIS/AIS-#####
Any other form of valid identification
All candidates are advised to adhere strictly to the dates scheduled above as failure may lead to disqualification. PLEASE NOTE THAT VENUE AND TIME MUST BE ADHERE TO STRICTLY.

R2bees:
Hi please has she replied you?? my bro was shortlisted but there is no notification from them

https://immigrationrecruitment.org.ng/


tell him to use his personal application identity, it satrts with NIS/AIS ------

Anutoriola:
This is the response I got from their portal this morning. Are they still loading names or they have eliminated some applicants after the credential updating to their portal?

which site is this please

WhyAWhy:
I had my honeymoon at Epe resort in 2017. Chai dem overfeed person oh. Very clean and nice environment. The staffs were quite professional too. They did their job diligently without lingering around or indirectly demanding "change"0 I enjoyed the pool and the daily servings of peppered snails

I spent my day ramming into my beautiful and my nights relishing the dishes

Gosh I miss that place

How much is the chalet I'm interested in spending a week there.

Oga put expense breakdown naah, I'll like to visit there this december.