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Indeed a man of God!!! More grease 2ur elbow

Again again

Abracadabra

Happy birthday sir

Amen

To me i get mad wen d sittin room i've cleaned up get dirty, most especially wen my siblings and younga cousins comes in. Arrrgh! I dislike seen kids because of dat *wish dey were not born kids* cos u keep explainin things to dem (dont eat biscuit on d floor. Dont jump here and there. Stop runnin afta 1 anoda. Etc). But it there nature

Lolz

Legalized or not dey still sell it evrywher and pple still take it.

This ought to be in d lifestyle zone but there is none...

Women are often labeled as ‘complicated’. It is often said that the mysteries of their heart are as deep and unfathomable as the depths of an ocean. But what exactly make women so complicated? Here’s a list of 10 reasons that may providean explanation:
1. They experiencea lot of biological changes
Biologically, women undergo so many changes within a month. With the end of each menstrual cycle to the ovulation period and then again to the start of next menstrual cycle, a woman’s body experiences so many hormonal and biological changes that it is bound to have an effect on them. Under the effect of such hormones, they often behave differently, thus making their behavior ‘complicated’ and ‘complex’ to others.
2. They think with their hearts
A lot of complications come from the fact that women tend to ‘think’ with their hearts rather than with theirminds. They tend to become emotional very fast. Emotions make women more complicated.
3. They are forever multi-tasking
Women are often juggling somany personal and professional responsibilities.They are at many places at one time. They are performing the multiple roles of wife, mother, daughter, sister, professional and so on. This constant multi-tasking adds complexity to their behavior.
4. Women give a lot of priority to ‘trivial’ issues
It’s in the nature of women to give priority to trivial issues. Little things matter a lot to them which may mean nothing to men. That’s why when they have a problem or an issue, often men find that it’s ‘nothing’ and they end up calling them as ‘complicated’.
5. Women can’t let go of past
The past keeps coming back to haunt them and interfere with their present and future, making their behavior complex to men who find it difficult to connectthe past conflicts to the present escalations.
6. Women are forever comparing
Be it themselves or their spouses, they are forever comparing and judging. This adds a lot of complexity to their daily interactions and behavior.
7. Women are extremely self-critical
Believe it or not, but women are very self-critical. They are very harsh on themselves, from physical looks to emotional temperament. This makes them very difficult and complicated.
8. Women often make their world go round their boyfriend/husband/family
They give a lot of priority torelationships and easily get hurt when others don’t respond in the same way. Little things can tick them off,thereby leaving the other person confused about what happened.
9. There’s never a right answer for them!
If they ask men, “Am I looking fat?” and if he says no then the man is termed liar and if he says yes, then they give “Are you kidding me?” expression! These often display why women arecomplicated.
10. They expect a lot
Since women do a lot, they tend to expect a lot too. But often those expectations arenot met, especially the ones concerning with emotional needs. This hurts them but they often expect that others should understand. So they don’t directly say what is wrong. The man is left wondering what is wrongand ends up simply labeling women as ‘complicated’.
Every complication has a way around to make it simple, so is the case with women. Men should try to understand them, then every woman will seem a bit ‘less complicated’.

Nice post. Lmfao! Cant stop laughin here. Am i permitted to post female activities too.

Funny! D last question i heard 4rm a younger sis was. How did light run 4rm d transformer to our room, without seein it or meetin it on d way I'll answer it d work of God and its Angels

I wish both naija and S.A d best

I tink am learnin 4rm d guys here, sayin sorry will make dem(women) take u for granted. Hmmm...... I dont tink i'll be goin into any rela

MONEY! AM SO HAPPY AND I REALLY APPRECIATE DEM ALL. NAIJA IS WORKIN

IT SIMPLE, LIFE WITOUT FAILUR, AM SURE DERE IS NO SUCCES. MOREORSO, A BROKIN DATE IS BETA DAN BROKEN MARRIAGE. IT BOUND 2 HAPPEN

Kids are as soft and fragile as flowers. Only with proper care and love, they can blossom into confident human beings. It’s very important to help your kids to believe in themselves so as to lay foundation of a successful and happy life for them.

Here are 7 simple ways to do it:

1. Believe in them:
Your kids will believe in themselves if you first believe in them. For young kids, parents are the role models. They do as the adults do. If you believe in them, they’ll believe in themselves. So set a good example!

2. Encourage them always:
Let them try their weird ideas, let them explore their world. Encourage them to believe in their own ideas and to try things. Do not discourage their creativity and ideas even if you feel they are ‘unimportant’, ‘insignificant’ or ‘stupid’. Encourage, encourage, encourage… always!

3. Take out time for them:
The best gift that you can give your children is your time. If you take out time for them, they’ll feel they are important. When they realize their self-importance, they’ll believe in their self-worth.

4. Don’t label them:
Don’t label them with tags like ‘stupid’, ‘worthless’, ‘idiot’ and the likes. Kids take these things to heart. If you call your kid stupid 5 times, he’ll start believing himself to be stupid. So choose your words carefully,they can make or mar your child’s personality.

5. Appreciate generously:
If their efforts bear fruits, if they achieve even a little bit of success – just praise them. Be very generous with your appreciation. Even if the outcome is not successful by your standards, praise the fact that they put in efforts to do the work. Let them know that it mattered to you.

6. Make them dream:
There’s this famous quotation by a wise person, “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”. Give your child a dream and then make him believe that you think that he can achieve it. Tell it to him again and again. Before you know it, your child will believe in his potential to achieve that dream!

7. Give your unconditional love and support:
Self-belief can come when your child has you to fall back upon. Let him know that he has your unconditional love and support, always. No matter what happens, you’ll always believe in him. No matter how many times he fails, you’ll always believe in him to succeed at the end!
Words can work wonders, especially in case of kids. Always use loving and encouraging words to make your child believe in himself!

http://www.magforwomen.com/7-ways-to-teach-kids-to-believe-in-themselves/

A beautiful relationship gets ruined because of constant arguments between a couple.Even a small argument can lead to a big conflict in a relationship. The best way tosave the relationship is to avoid arguing with your partner. How will you do that? Well continue reading and you will know.
1. Strike the right balance:
A healthy relationship thrives on the right balance. It is best to confront your partner and talk on the issue rather than argue. This usually happens when one partner lies about a particular thing, which is followed by an argument. The best way out is to talk on the matter concerned.
2. Compromise is the biggest thing:
If you do not compromise on something, it is bound to lead to an argument. So, what would you do in this case? Simple, just learn to compromise. If you do not compromise, then it will lead to a bad dispute. Compromising on smaller issues would do the trick. But, remember do not compromise, if your self respect is at stake.
3. Stop dominating:
If you dominate your partner, naturally there would be arguments in your relationship. It is important torespect your partner and treat your partner equally. Why would your partner accept your dominating nature in the first place? To avoid arguing, avoid dominating.
4. Develop the skill of listening:
Do you ever listen to what your partner has to say? If you are not sure regarding this, then think again. Major arguments happen due to this. One partner says and other partner ignores, whichleads to arguments. It is better to develop your listening skills to maintain your relationship and avoid arguments. Listen carefully and do not judge based on action.
5. Take monetary decisions together:
About eighty percent of young couples today fight because of money, and the result is arguments. To avoid arguments related to money, it is important to takemonetary decisions together.Distribute your income with your spouse. Fix a set amount for household expenditures. If this happens, one can easily avoid arguments.
6. Change the topic:
The best way to avoid an argument is to change the topic. Or else, choose to stay quiet when your partner is arguing. We know this is not a feasible solutionto the problem. But, by doingthis, you would ignore the argument and then later confront your partner in a peaceful way. This really works to avoid a conflict.
Do follow the above tips to maintain peace in your relationship.

I pray evrytime, even wen talkin wit friends i quote bible to motivate. Cos d devil in mother and father side are not restin dey strategize evryday, so i dont nid to rest too, i nid not to retire i nid to refire and be fire branded

Kissin in naija is weird cos dey can neva put aside dere CULTURE

Life is all bout choices o

Sure!!! I can, even if it a male friend. IT DOESNT MATTER AT ALL

It funny though, it happened to me most times

Suckin bosom more dan female child it just normal

Give unto ceaser wat belong to ceaser

Naa dem knw

Who does not wish to spend time with friends? Friends are like a fresh breeze in our stressful life. There are many types of friends- Introvert, intellectual, talkative, etc. But talkative friends can be the most annoying type of friends. Weare sure you would agree. Listed below are some ways to deal with super talkative friends.

1. Make an excuse: It is best to make an excuse to end the conversation. But,it is important to do it in a polite way. If you do it rudely, it might hurt your friend. Simply cut the conversation short by making an excuse that you have some work to do.

2. Change the topic: The best way to avoid talkative friend is to change the topic graciously. While talking, just divert your friend’s attention to something else. Do this in a tactful way; it should not hurt your friend. Talk about something else to avoid the situation.

3. React with yes or no: It is easy to know when a person is interested and when he/she is not. To break the conversation, justreact with a simple yes or no. Your friend would definitely understand that you are not interested to talk. He/she may change the topic or end the conversation, period!

4. Look uninterested: The best way to avoid the conversation is to look uninterested. Just give that look to your friend; he/she will definitely stop talking. But, do not be rude, just give a blank look. Any person who realizes that you are not interested in listening to her talks will automatically stop talking.

5. Time restriction: Tell your friend that you need to go out, or limit the time. Tell them that you needto complete certain things. Your friend would cut short the topic or the conversation following this.

6. Start playing with your phone: Honestly, this is not the best idea, but this can work well if your friend is too talkative. Start playing with your phone or start chatting on phone. Looking at you, your friend will definitely stop talking.

7. Talk about something randomly: To stop your friend from talking, start talking something randomly. Start discussing some favorite things to cut the conversation.

8. Make the conversation interesting: If the conversation is boring, make it more interesting by adding something that would interest both of you. If not, then look for an opportunity and change the topic.

9. Be honest: If your friend talks too much,be honest and tell the truth. Tell him/her to talk less. This would hurt your friend for some time, but it is good to be honest.

10. Simply tell yourfriend to stop: In a funny way, tell your friend that he/she talks too much and should stop now. Remember to do it in a jovial way so that you and your friend can laugh it off.

So the next time your friend talks too much, you know what to do.

Nice post!!! But it interestin i found myself in d midst of nowhere and a lady of 26 said i nid a player of 20-22 to alway handle me cos my bf is borin but i still luv him(he's30), and i also nid a suga dady. Now wat do say bout such taught. Is she a player or a real woman

Oops. Speakin of how God can talk 2u, m not a prophet neither m i an evangelist but i knw it possible to change ur destiny to ur choice, a word in d scripture says "IF U DWELL IN ME AND MY WORD DWELL IN U, U WILL ASK ANYTHIN IN MY NAME AND I WILL DO UNTO U". So, it time to decide wat u want. If u dont luv him tell God in prayer u dont want him am sure he wil do wat u ask of him. QED

Cant still figure out wat u all mean cos i see it as if u all r lyin down facin dsame side. Pple tends to say "fight for ur luv" and frm wat i knew is dat u cant decide who u luv, ur heart does. Speakin of choice here, it really hard to make and dont let us forget dat som of us r hybrid of christian and muslim. More also even if u get married to dsame religion of urs, it still doesnt change d fact dat evry marriage has got is challenges lyk attitude, financial status, care, and morealso it doesnt disturb either of d couple to cheat. So wat r we upto

Cant believe dis, but anyway he's on solid so there's nothin to believe bout it. It only my father which says "i knw d taught i ave 4u, d taught of gud and not d taught of evil". QED

Am awkward moment, but anyway it just reminded me of a movie "destined heart". 2me it nothin, d marriage wil push through but she'll nid to give me space after d whole trash

He nid 2b delivered. Kinda ill