₦airaland Forum

yuzedo: should I talk?

duni04: Lawd hav mercy! See transformation! :

tinatona25: ummm i will walk into ma car, go home and report him or her to eshu laaalu ogiriopo or ogun then leave the rest for God to judge

Caracta: Report to the Nigerian Police and have them check for matching thumb prints

babyosisi: Coke zero
I drink about 3 cans a day
When I get down to the last can unexpectedly before replenishing,I have a wave of sadness
And when anyone drinks the last can and I meet an empty box,I throw a mighty fit
Every lunch and dinner is not complete without a coke zero and any restaurant that doesn't serve coke zero will not get a second visit from me
Jesus help your daughter

fiscalcliff: This video gives you an insight into the Nigerian psyche and why sh*t like this happen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TA4AYQ2mFU

coogar: get with the new order. women are breaking the norm and going for what they want these days. i admire such brazenness. you might wait for a guy to come to you and his mind might be elsewhere. this girl is thrilled, she seems to like the OP to bits and she's got a gift of foresight to see the husband material in the OP......

i say let her......

you have not answered the single most important issue here......what's the difference between meeting a guy and telling him your expectations within 2 days or telling him within 2 years? should she pretend and wait till eternity before she makes her intentions known to him?

i mean - it's not like your opinion of a guy you newly met often changes drastically. if you like a guy, you like him. whether you voice it out or not is immaterial. the guy himself must know you like him and your morality bar must tell him you are not for a short-term relationship which means there's no question of being too forward!!!!

alutacontinua: Sometimes, they're serious!
What of those few times when they are?
I'm sure you've read Debrief's story on here, right? What do you say about that?

I have. Rare cases! Can't remember the details but you should ask her how long it took her to think and take him serious.
Most experienced ladies with their head screwed right on would first of all think such men want to hit and run, or baiting them and bluff them. If he persists, process his seriousness and......

alutacontinua: What of guys that do it?
I know guys who just meet you for the first time and they don't ask for dates, what they ask for is marriage. What does that speak of them?

Risky_mallam: You mustn't spend a life tine with someone before you know he/she is the one. Hence the almost forgotten "Nigerian" saying: Love at first sight.

Neither am I suggesting you rush headlong into marriage, take your time. Women are generally more intuitive than men, maybe she feels you on a deep level.

coogar: that assumption is premature....
it's very possible for a woman to meet a man after 2 days and discuss marriage. the man ticks all her boxes and she's taking her chance before someone else does.....