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jakeng: Yeah, she told me last night that I must present her a gift on the first day of our love making because the day would be a special day in her life.
We've had enough kisses and caressing though.

okay now.

This lady's state of being unmarried has suffered enough pressure and she is taking op by force. That is all I see.

maclatunji: The man in my example was not joking O. It was proposal at first sight!

You were not there. I imagine it unserious same way you imagine it serious. ....and if he was serious,I can imagine the shock on the girls face and how long it must have taken her to process the guy's sanity.
Same reason the op had to open this thread because it's not normal.

maclatunji: It could be her intuition which may be strong. I am not saying he should accept her but definitely I would advice him not to shut her out because of her unorthodox approach towards getting his attention. I once watched NTA Newsline and a couple that had been happily married for over 30 years were interviewed. The question was asked- how did you meet.

The man admitted that he had just come back from the UK when he visited her home and when he saw her for the first time, he told her she was going to marry him- just like that! When he was asked why? The man just stood-up and brought a framed picture of his wife at the time and he asked (paraphrasing)- "who would not want a stunning beauty like this for a wife?" In all honesty, she was.

I am cutting their period of marriage to the minimum so as not to tell a lie, I am sure it was much more than 30 years and the love between them was so obvious! It made me jealous!

...and that's why I just wished him the best.
The man in your question was most probably jocular about it. If I was the lady,I'd have laughed and thought him unserious at that point.
[s]Besides,that coming from a man can be romantic and crazy in a sweet way [/s]

This lady seems to mean what she's saying and that to me is scary after just two days. I'm not a guy but would definitely tell a brother to not get too comfortable around someone like that.

jakeng: You don't get that part! I stated that she said that - I am not a terrific dresser and I don't drive a big car! Therefore, she doesn't even know d reason she's in love.

Doesn't make sense. Once again,teen talk!!
A 27-year old should know the reason why she's "in love" after two days and why she wants to spend the rest of her life with someone after two days of knowing him too.
Since you are already falling in love too, I can only wish you all the best!!

U4unique: I wish Yerima will marry this kind of girl.

yuzedo: Huh? Gold diggarrrrrr?? Is she Slimyem?!?!

...oh, never mind, can't be her.

obowunmi: 1. Is her father rich? If her name be Michael Adenuga....let her keep it.

But she has to take my name or hyphenate.

She
claims she had loved me from the day she sets eyes on
me and am her perfect match.

maclatunji: Sometimes people make mistakes in the way they make an approach. She could have been observing him for a long time and finding him suitable she made her move rather swiftly. I know people I can propose to in a day if I feel like it- the key factor there is that I don't feel like it.

Let's say I do propose within that short space of time, would they not be shocked too? That does not necessarily mean I am desperate.

I agree though that there should not be too much haste on the part of the person being proposed to. They should take their time within reason.

Note: Proposal and acceptance does not always mean a quick marriage. It just means you guys have agreed to marry- when that will happen is another matter.

switdil: She's really happy n enjoying wit her family, I pray her marriage last.

Its what she wants you to believe.

Efemena_xy: Gays (men), make the best friends, especially if your female.

At the very least, you hubby / boyfriend won't suspect you of cheating if you have a lunch date with your gay best friend

Efemena_xy: Forget that one sef.

See, I bet you many of the gay bashing posters here are Anglicans. And yet, the Anglican church boasts of a gay bishop. Now how's that for a religious twist on gay-ism??

kandiikane: All this hediotic pretenders! As if you've not ask your girlfriends or wives to let you insert your pee-pee in their a-hole. Undercover homos!

bukatyne: I quite agree with you.

As for your last paragraph, I only believe in divorce on the grounds of infidelity and abuse esp physical(not fighting I.e. Wife abuses hubby and hubby slaps her or wife slap one hubby slap two). All other grounds na wash.

That's why I said ladies need to be counseled and inspired to make something useful out of their lives. A lot of women end up achieving nothing or not being useful to themselves or their societies.

Shollypopz: @slimyem: What are you talking about?? What today Nigerian women are entering marriages with the mindset that divorce is the way out?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJ-pZoV7H8s

bukatyne: many of our parents believe cheating is ok as far as he doesn't bring the woman home or he still takes care of her.