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responsibility doesnt have one single definition...
Its a lot of things put together to define a person!

funny how all the id1ots chatting shittz here have mothers,girlfriends and wives who do the same and can't even ask them why they do it.
Funny how its the girls with shaved eyebrows that they are attracted to the most.....even if they'll openly deny it.
...fyi y'all,it is fashionable if done rightly.that's as simple as it is!
Fccking hypocrites!

scary!
If na me,na to just abandon the baby for govenment..
abami baby

sauer: This is really not a contract relationship. Well, at least, it's not meant as such. Only the two parties have resolved that it's the best way to enjoy mutual benefits in the relationship. Must a marriage entail one depending an awful lot on the other? Can't people ever be independent?
I think with modernity a lot has got to change about the relationship between male and female. And it's not out-of-place for women to demand equal control in a relationship. As a man, I'd be willing to give this cos I find it understandable.

capital YES!
...dunno about the awful part of that though....
There no point going round in circles.
You can't be in a marriage and be on your own (that's your theory...right?)
you'd have to be all up in each other's space one way or the other...you have to want to share anything and everything!
You have to want to be dependent on each other!
If you want independence,you had better stay outside marriage!

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Everything is a matter of degree but I think one should be able to let go of the past. Why hold on to feelings that have no more relevance.[/quote]you want an answer?
...ask the op's ex!

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Hmmm, so you can't divorce your emotions from a person you are no longer dating?[/quote]if it was that easy,we wouldn't be on this thread debating the op's last conversation with his ex!
someone in this case obviously has an issue with being an ex...

that's his hope and dream...
Now how that one take be [b]your [/b]concern?

[quote author=Lord_Reed]And if you were friends before you started dating the friend should just end like that?[/quote]that's why its best not to mess long standing friendships with romantic/sexual relationships in the first place.
Romantic relationships change everything!

....that's a complete contract relationship.
That's not a marriage...if that word means a union of two people becoming one....

why are you even communicating with ur ex in the first place?
keep your ex in her place-no fb friendships,no calls,pinging or texting!
It would save you the trouble of wondering what you said/did wrong...and save us the trouble of reading your boring and childish conversations!

Siga: Was only going by what he said ooo...slimyem baby

so was losing your virginity a part of your [b]childhood [/b]and where you spent it?

i spent my childhood in a one of the western states.....
It was a peaceful and beautiful period of my life.

Siga: Lost my virginity to a family friends daughter...even though she was 2yrs younger than me....she had been hav1ng s3x a year before me....lol

how does this relate to topic?

this is a copy and paste...someone else's work...but it beats Mukina's five line version...
enjoy!
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I dont have children and i dont plan on having one in the coming 6-7years time, i just love the fact that i am a woman and tend to have kids in the nearest future, No! not making kids, but raising them. Please, elders, feminist, already-mothers don't judge me. I know children aren't what they're cracked up to be, I know theres a lot more to it than playing with a baby, which is why I'm not having any children until I'm married, have a home, a stable job ETC. (hopefully that plan will not change).
My letter goes thus:


hello Lovelies,
This is my first time to write to you ever since you became real within me,I can almost imagine you in my mind.
Beautiful, Happy, Bouncing, flashing a smile so kind.
Feeling you flutter is a sensation like no other.
It does wonders for the joy of this soon-to-be-mother!
You create a glow in me I never knew I would see.
The thoughts of you have always occupied my mind for a long time now, at a very tender age i can recall telling your grandma this: ''momma, when i have kids, i will send them to the best schools'' she never got to read the seriousness in my words..
I'm addressing the 3 or maybe 4 of you, oh my dear 4th i hate the fact that you are an option, i may or may never get to meet you but i still love you like the rest, i believe there's a bond that links us all no matter how far we are from eachother now.
I will name one of you after myself, probably the first to get to me or maybe the last, either way i'll have to make a bit of compromise with your dad. Speaking of 'dad', i promise to get you a loving and caring father, one with a very compassionate heart, persevering and down to earth, i probably might have met or maybe yet to meet him, right now i'm not so sure of that..
I once heard from a friend that one's earthlife is less than a tip of an iceberg of his/her actual existence, i promise to make that tip with me profoundly valuable and worth spent.. I feel tasked really with this, you'll not just be acquainted with the knowledge of physics and chemistry that are taught in schools, but also with the requisite knowledge of creation, i will watch you grow and know more than i ever got to know.
I look forward to meeting you all soon, i have a lot to say to you but i feel too lazy to write, i hope you dont inherit that from me, that is one of the faults i ought to shed no matter how trivial. I think i'm a good person though so you need not worry so much.
Be careful, my promises are not perfect so do not feel relaxed when you get here, Things happen! Things you expect the least to! We are now in a state of 'what can evil not do?' so be on your guard, i will try create a condusive environment for your early stage in life, I love this country more than anything. No matter how much I say I hate the government or how much I would like to live in another country, Nigeria is my home. And I’m damn proud to be a Nigerian. I hope you will be too…And I hope you have the same freedoms, and I hope you remember today and the importance of it… though a lot're happening around here, the usual peace and harmony is going extinct, human beings seems so inhumane and the nation seems unjust! Whatever happens i'll have your back always, your dad will be there to support us as well... I will confer a lot more to you when we meet, right now i have things to face, i worry less about you for now.. But wherever you are right now i want you to have it at the core of your minds that i love You and will always do that, this time not till death do us part but Eternally!. Ciao for now.
Affectionately
mum...

...didn't wait around to see any reaction....

Ijogz K: I didn't spend much of the Kobo's but i could remember when N5 would buy me rice N3, beans N1 and meat N1.....

smallie!!

i only remember apending 50k and one naira note....
Dunno about the rest...

akumars67: Hi,

I love a girl verymuch. She is my best friend. She know that i love her that much.
She always talk to me. But still she says that she like someone else. What should i do.

walk away!
...you don't want to be caught up in silly triangles!

Nope!!
No need for long story!

Spirit of Okija: EKITI ... Fountain of Knowledge!!

Please let them publish the result jor!! Make we see the kind stuff all those Professors are made of..

Especially Ileke Idi's scores..

Anybody who works there should help me Check Ileke Idi's scores..

Name: Iyawo Ileke Idi OluwaBimbo
Examination Number is; 00427..
Center; Ekiti Mental Retardation rehabilitation Center, Ado Ekiti..

Haba!

london2lasgidi: você é uma atenção muito estúpido procura menina. parar de me seguir por toda parte antes que eu bata na sua cara feia.

vous etes un idi`ot meme pour penser a gifler une personalite en ligne!et de penser,foolow vous rend fou partout ua parce que jene me soviens pas d'avoir une conversation avec vous.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]slimyem/Lasgidi

Can you two do this love wan tin tin offline. PM nau.[/quote]sorry jare!
There's no love to be done no where.
I leave in peace!

london2lasgidi: Onye oshi. Ode, olori nla bi ori agboniregun.

o ti binu ni?
Haha!
O ti rii nkankan..
O sese bere ni!
Arindin!
Don't even go there with me else....
anyways,good day!

london2lasgidi: u have been noticed. now slap yourself and roll on the floor, onye uzuzu.

being noticed?
By who?
You? *scrolls up to check the handle again*
Lmao!

mister,i have more than enough attention/notice on this forum.you will just be another run in the mill..
...and btw,you still a confused fellow...as far as this thread is concerned!

london2lasgidi: Do I know you?

I'm a Briton and I was having banter with my e-friend who lives in the yank; mind your business.

you don't have to know me...neither do i have to know you.i do not care whether you are from Briton or the bahamas!
Its a public forum so i cannot mind my business!
Everything i choose to comment about on here is my business!
Btw,you still a confused fellow....at least in relation to your posts on this topic!

london2lasgidi: Ileke, you're my friend but you need to always pay homage to Great Britain.

london2lasgidi: I luv you but I've to put yankz in their place.

God save the Queen.

london2lasgidi: I'm gone!

GOD BLESS NIGERIA!

FUKK AMERICA AND BRITAIN!!!

you are such a confused fellow...
Smh!

what brand of nonsense is this?

who is this special person?
A boyfriend,fiance or what?
Are u scared of telling us who he is?
..and why is he staying in your house or why are u staying in his house?
I can only deduce that what happened was a little misunderstanding which shouldnt be a reason for a break-up..
More like you both need to grow up!