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JiniBula6:
Help me!
Is this still gonorrhoea?
I had unprotected sex with a girl in September and I got gonorrhoea.
I treated with some harbs for long time and later went for injection in a phamarcy with some drugs.
After treatment the gonorrhoea symptoms left leaving my penis hole open without pain. For some time now... I complain to the pharmacy and I was told it will close up by itself but up till now it hasn't.
I didn't have sex since September till December 25th when I started again but now I'm steady on a condom.

The whole of my penis is wide open. Today I noticed a little purse coming out again as it became wider. I'm worried.
I've searched online and I learnt it's Gonnocal Urethritis.

But I want to know if anyone here experienced this before... Please help.

Mature Minded Please. No insults

Don't tell us if are to insult you or not. Go to your Dr again if you like yourself

I saw a video of recent interview with this man where he said he has no single house anywhere abroad but even some of his younger staff in rank has houses in Dubai. He said what drives him is different from what drives those.

I was once intimate with a lady from Edo state and she told me that if I stays in Edo state and the ladies discovered that I am this good in bed, then I will have to be really prayerful not to me charmed to become their property for life. Even runs girls still fight to retain best banger for themselves

Animegirl:
Just say you're broke. Must you post what they ask for . Rich guys don't behave like you do.

some guys go just dey behave like goat. Just because of common 1k you decide to post the names of these girls.

If 1k is just, how come those girls can not afford it?

Jerkbaba:
If you no wan mumu yourself or downgrade yourself for vagina people, ashawo Na for you. No pretense, no bullshit, just give and take (transactional). Enjoy yourself oo! You only get one life! Fvuck all the better vagina you fit fvuck before you comot for this life!

it will be too late when you will discover the real reason of your awaiting misery

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

Is this a joke or something, Your husband deserve national award for even agreeing to be with some like you , yet, you think of punishing him in his old age, God may surprise you before that time. Any man living with your kind of situation is already living in he'll, I don't think there is anything worse than what he is already getting from you now. In fact, God will forgive him easily with his adultery life. Your reasoning irritates me madam.

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

He is likely not seeing you as prostitute but one thing is certain, he is surely not seeing you as a wife to be yet. This I can confirm 100%

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

I agreed that, this is really serious as you claimed but let's face the reality in the order of priority .
1. Do you like him? and ready to face the mockery that it may attract?
2. You need to tell your sister first and listen to what he has to to say as to why she couldn't stay, and if she will want you to go ahead, you can record the conversation if the number question above is Yes.
3. Your parents need to be at least 50% in agreement with you, you don't need total 100% yes from them, but don't totally avoid their consent to it.
4. Ask Him to go and tell your parent and his former wife about what he want himself.

But, I must confess, your type is scares. And I love you already for your kind of heart. Shallom.

wasi9ice:
Habba, what is in full pack of spaghetti?
Even achild of 10 years can finish it.

stop that lie, even adult that finish a pack in one sitting need to be flogged, what kind of gluttony is that?

That could have been a sign that you are not normal if you can finish a full pack in one sitting.

od501:
Neither has it died. As u can see, it is still on going. If the dream is alive, success is round the corner. Since the ideology is alive, there is hope.

Same is the dream of the coming back of Jesus Christ,

od501:
Since the Nigerian government have been killing the dreamers since 1967, shey the dream has ended over 50 years later?

Has the dream been achieved?

Emyzoloye5:
You can only kill the dreamers ...but the dream will never die

The land of the rising sun is beaming with Glory!!!!!!!!

Senseless quote, when you kill a dreamer, you kill his dream, understand this and understand how to put your own dream in your own hands to achieve.

Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

You guys should stay away from then now,

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

You don't want blood on your hand but you prefer the blood to be in hers? SHE DID NOT SUDDENLY START MISBEHAVING, SHE IS ONLY DISPLAYING WHAT SHE HAS HIDDEN IN HER ATTITUDE.

InternetAgbero:
Please, how do I go about reporting an international romance scamming syndicate that I was a part of years ago?

The person I was and the things I did in the past, I do them no more for I have seen the light and the result of my "magic". The "magic" I did, I have seen the result of and it is not pretty. It is demonic and basically taking someone else's life-force.

Upon sharing the truth, I became a pariah and labelled "mentally ill" by these so-called members of my family who are still very much involved in that life and refuse to stop the lifestyle.

I am not religious but now that I know better, I have come to understand the difference between right and wrong.

Because I have kept this inside for years, it resulted to me having anger issues that had me stabbed in Nov 2020 and almost losing my life. Luckily, I was spared and a part of me believes it is for this purpose.

Please, good people of Nairaland...I need help because I can no longer let sleeping dogs lie.

The truth weighs heavy inside my heart and is screaming to be let out.

I know my life will be in danger but at this point, death is no longer scary because i have been shown that we are not from Earth.

Lalasticlala
Justwise

You are even still hiding the actual thing you did to us here. Are you sure you are ready for this?

Don't rush to judge him, life is indeed not fair

I will be lying if I told you I pity any police officer.

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

Haha, report to police say what happened, You are only planning to be hurt the more. I advice you to go through the way of God through Christ, pray and break the covenant with blood of Jesus that is greater than any other blood and move on with your life, use wisdom to hint your current love the past

Suspect33:
Na normal thing for that region... Underaged girls birthing children like frogs... Kids later grow on to become agberos, shouting owo mi da up and down, they also impregnate themselves and the circle continues

Yet the region is the leader in education, technologies, infrastructure and development. Keep hating

This is the first time I will hear anything about the state in years, it's as if they are not existing in the country

QuizPay:
I will make this epistle to be as short as possible, forget about the grammar and focus on the content ...

Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this?

My fiancee Fines it difficult to cook (though she can cook and a very good cook), I am not the type that eat outside always (I love home food), I only do such once in a while. She cooks sometimes in the evening or at night but it's a no no in the morning, I have to make my dishes for myself before going to work and house chores is even the worst. l gave her 9.9% that's how worst in terms of house chores, her excuse is "my weakness is house chores, I will try to be adjusting blablabla.

She only tidy/clean when I complain, after that she returns to former ways except if I complain again. Any time she does house chores she won't let me hear words, I did this, I did that, you don't even appreciate me, I did that too ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home.

Although if I compel her to do things in romantic way sha she will do it but must I be compelling someone daughter in romantic ways always before doing what she needs to do ni. Also she works in a finance firm and leaves the house around after seven or 7:30am (House to work is close), back by 6pm but should this be an excuse to prepare dish for me, for someone that finds it difficult to prepare breakfast as Early as possible for just one person how much more when kids are involved waking up to take care of kids ecsetera. We agreed she will stop the work and I will set her up when we got marry and she promised after that she will be able to do the tidy and cooking very well . Planning to knot this year anyways, just a bit worry about this house chores of a thing which I have told her times without number...

The good part about her
* She is faithful and literally tells me everything that happens to her on daily basis.
*she can confidently give me her phone to work (this has happened twice, because I need to help in fixing her phone) , which I will give her updates about her callers, messages etc when she returns back from work and her phone has never be on lock.
*She is open and transparent
*She is supportive and submissive (with the time I have spent with her)
*She is a prayer warrior (she can pray for 4hours ), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning.

About me
Me: Am I.T guy, In aspects of earning I earn thrice more than her but I find it easy in doing house chores, (my mama taught me well you know) do dishes and tidy up things myself, (that was how she knows me) and always putting things in place, provides everything needed, supportive etc...Am the kind of person I return home late sometimes because after leaving my official work, I check in my personal business before going home.. So something 9pm or 10pm or 11pm (depends on traffic) before I get back home.

To married people, Councillors, experienced people in the house, , I will like your contribution in terms of House chores issue and wife responsibility etc, It can help me or some people out there in this kind of similar situation. Thank.. (no insult I beg.)

what are we going to have if you did not short the story? Red hot flag. Run

Who will someone with this kind of beard claim to be any army?

DonCandido:
1. Nothing noble about his belated instruction.

2. He committed a crime and escaped to the other.

3. He selfishly made his family suffer to raise money to pay for his crime.

4. He wrongfully thought sainthood could be purchased with Naira.

5. His family indulged him in his crazy last wish. They should bury their heads in shame. Nothing to celebrate.

You don't know God a bit. Stop saying nonsense.

Nokio1:
Eye service

People like you is a cancer to humanity. You can call it any name you like but it's obvious the nan has a better heart than you. You irritate me. Spit!

goaldynboy:
See a typical fooolani terrorist from the Sahel trying to apply divide and rule tactics on Igbos! You can only be smarter that the cow you herd!

All the shouting and futile attempt of Umahi to seize shops and businesses that didn't open in Ebonyi state on "sit at home" days fell on deaf ears!!

I will advise you reason with you brain and not your anus. I from the west, the same people you people refers to as afonja and I am proud to be from Yoruba land and I will never join you to condemn any region in Nigeria because I believed everyone has their own peculiarity. I just told you the fact and if you hate it, come and beat me and stop ranting.

ATIKU should come and tell his own story.

NaijaRoyalty:
Buhari has a year and half to vacate the seat of power so whatever he says or do now shouldn't be taken serious

2022 is around the corner so we must avoid the mistake most of us made in 2015 and 2019 in the person of Tinubu (God forbids)

Who in Nigeria has political achievements that Tinubu has? I don't understand how Nigerians think sometimes. Is it that that you are cursed to always choose wrongly? I am not in the country to vote in the next election but the truth is that Nigerians need the intelligent and hard man man like him to perform, not Osibanjo that can easily be colonised by north. Northern part will prefer Osibanjo because they perceived he is soft and loyal to them.

I serve in this state for just a year with then the SSG in the government house and I realize this truth about how other Igbos treat an average Ebonyans as if the are enemies. In reality, any Ebonyi person that want to go with Biafra is not wise at all.

officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

I want to believe this is a movie and not real. That curse are you talking about again after the clear indication that you are already cursed for letting you wife beat you, I don't know mumu people like you still exist.

Simple, get another bed in her room, sleep one of you or both you parent should sleep with her in her room then sneak to the other room when you need your wife.

princeade86:
with thugs right? That kind of leadership is not what will.need sir. We need someone that can develop our country.

Result is the bottom line, even if it's through military or thugs. Let Nigeria get better. Inubu has been achieving good results throughout his political position he has hold in the past, how he achieve those results does not really matter to me. I will give him the vote against any contestant but I perceive that the next Nigerian president is already in Aso rock.