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oloriLFC:
And I was being objective by saying he could have contracted it from the Idp camp, not rulling out the possibility of getting it from his girlfriend. Most comments here are one way : his girlfriend only. That's my take

Okay... but objectivity says that being around people who have the virus is not a transmission route. In fact, there is no reason to contract the virus unless you are living recklessly or are otherwise exposed due to an extraordinary incident. Now OP has not told us of any such incident, such a needle prick.

Compare that to unprotected sex which is the major means of transmission. Objectivity tells that there is the 95% chance this is how he got it. I understand you were also being objective but this is more objective. Don't put it down to misogyny.

iPopAlomo:
Nah you wan seperate husband and wife way no fight...?

So until he begins to beat her before you separate? The woman ran out to beg bystanders to protect her!

Eulalia:
This news again?
If this news is for real, then the man has lost his senses and this clearly shows why man can rape a mad woman.
Now i believe when a man is Hot, he can sleep with anything. Imagine how this man is behaving in public. One hot slap from one strong guy there will reset his brain to factory settings. What rubbish?

Problem is that everybody in that vicinity seems to think it is okay. What would make a man pursue his wife out onto the streets... When you can easily wait for her to come back inside after some time. To the point of forcefully dragging her back in in front of people. And no man there could restrain him.

Nairalandmonika:
What if the other way round, like the man was tired and the woman wants to continue?

The manner in which he dragged her back into the apartment constitutes coercion. No one must be coerced into intercourse.

As funny as it may seem to some. That is actually rape.

oloriLFC:
You know this is a forum for blaming women 100%, right? Most of those who commented didn't see/pretended not to see he wrote that. It surely must be the woman. Smh!

Didn't you see where he wrote this:

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

Be objective.

So they are to be hired because of the pandemic, but cannot get to work until the pandemic dies out.

isunday:
Street cleaners for 3 months after which they go back to unemployment mode.
While not employ them permanently

Have you tried to work out the cost of paying 700,000 people 30k a month?

rusher14:
So If I go to my neighbours house to kill him it's Buhari's fault?

If you go to your neighbor's house to kill him everyday and never get caught or nothing is doing to prevent you from doing it, yes it is the government's fault.

ikcid:
Soon they'll be shouting inflation up and down, without knowing fully well that controlled distribution of relief materials not necessarily money as done by some food banks in organized counties is the way forward...

1. People are starving, really starving
2. How much will you share to help them out from hunger, when the price of goods is equally on the high side....
3. In countries where money is being shared, prices of goods hasn't skyrocketed, rather price of goods has remained the same and in some cases there is reduction in prices.


I pray we get it right in this country.

What are you saying sir?

In the US every single household is going to get a cash payment. Totaling 2.6 trillion thereabouts. In the UK the government is releasing money to businesses who have to furlough heir staff. Of course, all these will cause some inflation but fiscal policy can easily tidy that up in due time.

festacman:
From day one, loudmouth narcissistic drama king Idriss Derby has always been full of his ego. He has never fully fought alongside any other countries' army. He would go alone, suffer losses and whine like a baby. In his reckoning, it is only Chadian soldiers that can effectively defend both Lake Chad area and Sahel Region while other countries' soldiers are mere 'Boys Scout groups'. SMH

Idriss Deby showed many pictures of the battle including cache of weapons seized and where . Why hasn't he shown the video or pictures of corpses of the one thousand terrorists killed and littered around?

Idriss Derby can only bamboozle emotional Nigerians who are searching for new deity to adulate. The reality remains constant: He tolerated and harboured terrorists camps on Chadian soil against Nigeria before they killed 90 Chadian soldiers.

Let's not mix issues. This will not be first time Chadian soldiers woukd wreak havoc on Boko Haram within Nigerian territory. The greatest advances made against Boko Haram have been made first by South African mercenaries and then by Chadians troops.

Most of us saw that video where Nigerian soldiers were hailing Chadians soldiers. So there is definitely a fire to this smoke.

Yes Deby may have been a little passive in allowing the boko haram to hide within Chad but that is a separate issue that does not negate the fact that when they come out to fight they are more effective that NA.

BTW did you also ask to see pictures of the dead 90 Chadian soldiers??

Astark:
you think benins gives a Bleep about igbos and their Biafra?

When igbos wanted to leave nigeria the first time what did the benins say? We said don't add us to your plan and leave our region alone but instead you attack us.

Nothing concern us concern Biafra, it's the fulani you should be fighting

Actually nobody attacked Benin. The then Midwest welcomed Biafran soldiers with open arms due to the influence of Victor Banjo. It was when Nigerian troops came to the area that they slaughtered people in the area that is now Delta state.

BlackShit:
So what are you doing now as a solution, fornicating?

And was that the 'cure' you suggested to him?


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The Bible condemns uncleanness and impurities, which masturbation is, and other sexual sins also fall under.

I'm interested in knowing how you know masturbation is a sexual sin. Can you elucidate with scriptural reference?

iammo:




they are everywhere this days, we tip our guards extra (money, shekpe and cigarette) and buy more groundnut for them as they have requested to stop service one too many time without them its either tire burning or violent attack

God would purnish the people who did this to you insha Allah

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Pardon my curiosity.

1. Why are your guards eager to leave?

2. What does tire burning imply?

Kweensavvy:
Lol OP this issue has been over flogged okay?

Lol. And he has not added any new info either.

okomile:
Na me go dey on top jor!
U no sabi book at all

Realist5:
No wahala. I will give you the time to ride me. But when I will start my own push up eh, your ringing tune will be heard in Abuja

Can you guys stop this? Don't ruin this thread.

GraGra247:
She didn't in my eyeview. She in fact refuted them all.

Read again. She clearly confirms that they are finding it difficult to find partners. The difference is that she claims it cuts across both male and female.

She also hinted that white men like to use and dump them.

GraGra247:
I was totally convinced that silly guy on the earlier thread was talking gibberish.

His line of reasoning wasn't carefully thought out.

She basically confirmed most of what he said.

leaculpa:
Leaving a cheating husband & being alone is okay. Living with abuse & low self worth just causes emotional pain. We all have one life to live & deserve happiness & peace of mind, even if it's outside of marriage.

I'm sure someone like Mo Abudu wouldn't have had the joy & vision to pursue her media company (Ebonylife) while she was in an unhappy marriage with a cheating husband. You mentioned Beyonce. She only seems to be seen, these days, giving sideeyes to women talking to her husband in basketball games or shes staring into her husband's phone. You really think she's happy? I haven't seen a picture of 'happy beyonce' in a long time.

There's a reason God is against adultery. Whether u like it or not, the emotional turmoil pple go through is real. And if theyre going through it over & over they will feel worthless & grow numb. Most women hold on for their children, but children shouldn't be growing up in homes dt lack real love & connection. The cycle of the entitled dad & the angry doormat mother just gets passed on to the children.

Everyone is unique in how they handle their issues. God has forbidden divorce too lest you forget.

Bbbwings:
Hillary is more powerful than bill today.
Hillary was never a President.
She became a senator because of the influence of her husband likewise when she was a democratic nominee
Bros i tire for your matter.

This is a tangent. The point was not who was the more powerful. It is simply that Hilary is powerful. And as you put it, she is more powerful than him today.

The second point, my friend, is that if she was was angry enough she could have left him at any point in recent times. Or are you saying that the act of having cheated dissolves into thin air with the passage of time?

Parisian:
If you can forgive your cheating wife then you have your answer.

You think I didn't consider that before I posed that question?

Parisian:
And Jeff Besos' wife who divorced him is what, an ant? Lmao.....

In what sense could you describe her as powerful?

Parisian:
Bla bla bla. Didn't Tiger Woods wife divorce him? Trump's ex divorced him as well. Angelina Jolie divorced Brad Pitt etc etc etc so why are you using Beyonceas a yardstick?

Actually I'm demonstrating that "powerful" women do not behave any different from "unpowerful" women.

So yes women may choose to divorce their husbands or they may choose to stay, whether they are enlightened, educated, rich, famous or nor not.

To comprehend my point well, you need to travel my comments back to the first person I replied, who denigrated the woman.

Xisnin:
Money?
Beyonce doesn't even make the top ten in the world.

Actually, I am not surprised that Beyonce doesn't care about cheating afterall
deviants are a normal part of nature and she ticks the boxes for those kind of
personality.

Second, being "powerful" is irrelevant.

You mentioned Hillary Clinton as if she was unusual.
Hillary was just the wife of the president at that time and it will be
political suicide for her to choose a divorce. It is the same reason
why she eventually dropped her maiden name for Clinton.

To date, only 2 US presidents are divorced, Reagan and Trump even though many of them
are chronic womanizers.
Reagan actually institutes his own divorce.

Anyone who has spent some years in this world knows that powerful men
get away with a lot of things that average men won't whether in regards to
women or other men.

Some men forgive their serial cheating wives, it will be a folly for me to claim that
men forgive their wives when those are exceptions.
The same way it is out of character for enlightened independently powerful women to stick with adulterers.

Re point 1: top 10 is an arbitrary standard. She is worth hundreds of millions. You simply cannot deny this.

Re point 2: Hilary is undoubtedly more powerful than her husband today, and has been so ever since he left the Oval office. If she didn't leave him then does it mean she couldn't leave him subsequently??

Now over to you. What are your examples of powerful women who have left their cheating husbands?

pocohantas:
I can be stupid enough to forgive a cheating husband, but he would be the most stupid man on earth to believe he is indeed FORGIVEN.


It is better to a widower, than a divorcee.

Is cheating really so unforgivable?

Xisnin:
What makes Beyonce a powerful woman?

Most marriages in the entertainment industry don't last.
Why don't you cite those cases, why the exception?

Beyonce is multi millionaire with one of the most recognizable brands on the planet. What a questtion?

I don't cite these examples you speak of because these women largely do not qualify as powerful.

There are endless examples of indisputably powerful women staying with cheating men. Take Hilary Clinton as another.

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

Even the most powerful of women have to accept that many if their husbands cheat. Go and ask Beyonce.

If everyone left their partners for such offences, then most people would either be single or dating someone else's cheat.

And of course this goes for men too. In the coming years more women will cheat as a result of more equitable economic standing for women. We all need to either be more forgiving or more willing to be alone.

Ishitinyourlife:
I assure you that was not my intention

Don't worry it's obvious you were just trying to give us a bit of context.

The girl has already made her move. It's up to you now to have this conversation with her if you like her too. Please don't mess her up in any way.

If you are ready to wife her, why not. It has worked out very well in many cases. If you are genuine, take the right steps and maybe to be safe, record your usual conversation and explicitly state that any refusal of your advances would not lead to any consequence in professional terms.

irunoko:
Mshewwww

Nigeria always chasing shadows


Is it those ones doing exercise that is our problem nitoriolorun ABI iru iluwoleleyi gan na?

How about the lunatics scooping oil from a tanker that just fell?

Those ones don't deserve to be arrested abi?

What is the crime in scooping oil from a tanker that fell? They are putting only themselves at risk, and perhaps even sparing us some potential environmental degradation.

seunmsg:
Even with the above explanation, some diehard wailers would still come and argue that the building was burnt down because someone somewhere had stolen all the Covid-19 donations. They think we’re still in the 70’s and 80’s where people can steal money and then burn down the building to destroy the records of the theft.

Glad I found you here. Following our earlier conversation, the minister's comments here are rather instructive. He basically implies that damage to the days centre was a strong possibility, though he says that this has been averted. So on reality, there is a great amount of damage that a fire can potentially do.

Ishilove:
Smarty pants

Boss How far?

thunder74:
The government is afraid that the so called Regulation may be struck out by the court if the learned SAN challenged its legality.

Read the beautiful article below to further understand why the government was afraid of going ahead with the arraignment.

there is a defect in this argument. I will be back later.