₦airaland Forum

kponkedenge:
When the president of a country follows its citizens to grief instead of swinging into action by combing all the forest in the South, then just know that they are complicit in the matter.

We always keep hearing that the perpetrators are foreign Fulani bandits, but nothing is ever done about it..... We have the Army, DSS, Police NSCDC etc, yet no one is ever apprehended.... Which begs the question; What are they doing?

Nigeria is the only country that foreign machineries infiltrate.... The federal government knows about it and does nothing to secure their citizens life.

The other day, a Rev Father was kidnapped, he paid 100 million naira to his abductors..... How come the police or security agencies didn't trace the kidnappers through cellphone and intercept them?

They didn't because they don't care! Same thing with the Abuja Kaduna train attack.... Whereby those kidnapped were still there for months after the incident and the government did nothing about it.

The more we pay ransom, the bolder these animals will be and the more funded they will be to by more ammunitions and carry out more attacks on soft targets.

The South needs to wake up.

Even the seating governor of Delta State paid ransom to kidnappers few years ago...... The logic and analogy keeps on convoluting in my head when I try to reconcile issues.


What hope have the citizenry if a whole governor of a state is paying ransom to kidnapper?

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

He knows he's about to lose you, he doesn't know how but he knows it is coming.

I wouldn't know how much you did to distil his fears but if above is not the case then maybe you better off leaving.

Any body here having issues with paying for games/apps on playstore?

Any tips to resolve?

Animegirl:
Mehn, Nigeria is a hell hole.

Hi.... Made a choice?

WibusJaga:
Why should a religion teach its adherents to murder anyone who they consider to have "insulted" their god or prophet? That's more like a Religion of Terror rather than Religion of Peace.

Infact all devout Muslims should be regarded as potential terrorists. No wonder Pantami once said he considered Osama Bin Laden as a better Muslim than himself.

Islam needs to be reformed.

There's no way you can reform Islam without denying Islam. Even devot Muslims admit that Islam is in itself its own major problem and a cankerworm to the world

If you study and interact well/deep enough, you discover that even Muslims (especially enlightened and highly educated) declare that the only problem with Islam is Islam itself and they are never afraid to state it publicly.


You cannot condemn the evil perpetrated by Muslims with Islam

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

For you to post this, it means you didn't understand anything those folks above where saying to you. You better go back and read them again.

Islandlady:
Dear guys!!! Have you been wooed(toasted) before by a lady
If yes how many times?
What was your reactions!? were you shy, angry, happy, blushing

Also ladies have you wooed a guy before too

Gist us
Lalasticlala mynd44

Hmmmmm

Wetin man do man?


At least he'll be picking and dropping our daughters in school

Animegirl:
Budget 100k but is gaming laptop good for programming?

A gaming laptop is basically a good laptop for everything, having great specs all round. That's why they are always expensive.

With that amount, I'll recommend you go for a UK/US used from a trusted source (be careful not to buy stolen goods), then have plans to upgrade later.

Animegirl:
Pls, can someone suggest affordable and good quality laptop I can use to practice what I learnt in coding/programming.

I was told to get laptop with core 5-7, 4gig ram, 500gig rom. But when I checked online, most of the laptops with these features are expensive, ranging from 200k above.

Pls, I'm desperately in need of your suggestions.

You need to declare your budget range for best recommendations.

It's always recommended to go for a gaming laptop in order to avoid hassles but nevertheless, you can start with a cheap laptop (even mini laptop) depends on the complexity of what you need to do.

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Afonjamuslim24:
Only cone headed Afonjas from the muddy sad west can be this unreasonable in their dealings with fellow humans. They think just like their Slave master, from Iragbiji who still thinks Lagos is his after so many years.

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala

LegendHero:
Do you know other politicians can say they ain't stepping down to respect the zoning? No be Naija we dey?

Ben Bruce was not the hero there by obeying the zoning formula. The formula was what gave him the opportunity to become a senator, besides it was non-negotiable. He could have tried it to see the outcome

LegendHero:
Cool.

It’s always hard to see someone step down from their senatorial positions when they have chances of winning.

I think Ben Bruce did something like that too.

Ben did not step down. His senatorial district has their own zoning formula with they adhere to before and after him

Moorish:
Yes covid delayed it’s implementation

They announced over a year ago that they are continuing implementation.... That was after endsars of 2020.... They even have timelines of increasing the generating capacity. Today we have another announcement to show that work never kicked off.

All these are delay tactics to push the Wahala to the next administration. COVID didn't delay anything.

Was the money already earmarked in the 2020 budget? What then did they disburse it for?

These and more are the questions that needs to be answered

Scammers

This deal was announced around 2019 if I remember well

nnamdiosu:
I've replied, but if u don't get it, reply the mail and I'll send it again. Thanks

Seen.... Thanks

I've sent a message

Ladyzeus:
Job brief

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No more details?

nnamdiosu:
My oga, pm me I'll send my WhatsApp no to u

Check your mail boss, thanks

nnamdiosu:
My oga, pm me I'll send my WhatsApp no to u

Done

nnamdiosu:
Hello bro,
You are welcome.

Truth is, for this kind of task, there really isn't a common industry standard of charging. Many times, developers charge clients with work like this based on their personal relationship etc.

However, for hosting and domain renewal , 25k should be fine for a WordPress site that will have the capabilities you mentioned.

Then for updates they have two choices. Either they pay you a all fee monthly, (regardless of whether you update anything or not)...or they pay you a certain fee for every single.time you update.
Both have advantages and disadvantages. But since you said it's small modifications and image upload you will do, then 10-15k per task you do on the site will be fine.

Feel free to buzz me for any other issues and I'll help out if it's in my power. Take care bro

Hello sir, good afternoon

Please what's the best way I can get across to you? There's a few things I need your help/guidance on.

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?

Why don't you instead look for the best way to rent out the house. Maybe use an estate agent so as to avoid Issues with tenants especially with a high chance of being out of the country.

Even if you still need a loan after it won't be as daunting as before and you can service the loan from future rent collection.

Just don't burn yourself.

SeaTrade:
If Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world,where will you now out Burundi?
Just dey talk wetin you no know with confidence.
And also know that all prosperity indices plaguing Nigeria today is the North and its large population of unproductive people.
Take that away and Nigeria index goes up instantly.

Nigeria became the poverty capital of the world, take it or leave.

Maybe Burundi has overtaken us now, I don't know for sure but yes, my point overall still stands. So many countries of the world, African countries inclusive, are better than Nigeria.

Don't confuse our potential and our brilliant minds or where we could have been with where we currently find ourselves as a nation.

Pray4meJC:
No sir actually l'm not into covenant with any person. Why it baffles me much is that I do not lust after the opposite sex. That was in the past.

I was told masturbation can help eliminate the chances of wet dreams hour before going to bed but I find out in my case it was all lies from the bottomless pit. After masturbating (ejaculating all semens) then later in my sleep same day, wet dreams still erupt with sizeable fluids expelled. Many times this could not help and I knew this is strong spiritual bondage on me.

Another strange one is that I find myself having strong erections (not ejaculation) towards some females when they come close to me without any contact or sexual desire, thoughts whatsoever with them. Just ordinary discussion about trades because I was selling in a shop. It thus seems there's a strong sexual force in those females that activates the sexual demons tormenting me. I have never had sex physically with any body since I came out from my mother's womb.

You need deliverance but a very big problem which you have and you seem to be avoiding is the issue of lust. You need to overcome lust. You don't lust but you masturbate?

BigDawsNet:
I appreciate you explanation... I'm aware of all this...
I'm just trying to put a smile and hope on an average Nigerian here..

I'm doing the job of minster of information here on nairaland

Please delete this comment before I get angry with you. Put smile on peoples face with falsehood? We have comedians for that. This is why we never grow, always watering down serious issues.

BigDawsNet:
Just to give some people here some hope and value of our country...

It's obvious, isreal is berrer

Not just israel, most of the countries we are aheàd of via GDP are better than us and all the countries ahead of us via GDP are surely ahead of us.

We are the poverty capital of the world. We overtook India who have a population of about 4-5 times our own

BigDawsNet:
Countries with highest Gdp

Nigeria made no 30 on the list...

So I guess we are better Dan Countries above 30

Young man use GDP per capital.... How can you compare Nigeria to Israel in GDP and you cannot compare the population producing said gdp

Sanmel:
In a bid to lead a healthy lifestyle, I've decided to be taking my dinner earlier and yesterday I had it around 5:30pm, Eba and egusi soup.
I went to bed at about 11:30pm and slept off around past 12am.
I woke up hungry at few minutes past 2am and till now I'm still feeling the hunger pangs. I even decided to get up and pray but I almost fell down so I just remained on the bed.
The annoying thing is I was home all through yesterday, so I wonder why the dinner couldn't sustain me through the night
Who else experiences this and what do you do about it?

Firstly, check your blood sugars to ensure you are not prediabetic or diabetic. Secondly, people that practise what you doing are usually advised to drastically reduce carbohydrates in their meal and replace it with healthy fats/fatty food.

Thirdly, you should give your body time to adapt..... You cannot adapt to such changes in a day but make sure you eat well and healthy within the window you've given yourself. Some folks even practice a meal a day but eat that meal very well.

ProfGday:
The original app had been replaced by non-functioning one.


For now just chill... Na 9ja tactics, to delay people from withdrawing all their money from that bank...


We have been patient until now,na small remain

Please if you have the working app, can you kindly share the apk file with me via WhatsApp or mail probably? I don't even need to touch any money immediately.

I need to upload documents and all so my account can be activated. There's no branch in my city and its a little difficult to make out time to travel on weekdays

Fihto:
I downloaded their app from play store, used the account number I got after the ussd validation and updated the account myself by uploading the necessary requirements. I access my account currently by myself on my phone window

Please what's the name of the app on play store and how do I get my login details? It appears I downloaded a wrong app