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Mrkrobz:
Hello Nairalanders!
What will you advice him?

Bernard is thinking of relocating to another city to start a new life. He is confused on how to go about choosing the right partner, because all the ladies that keeps coming into his life are only interested in him for his money.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9c_d6krhL-I



Lalasticlala

God1000:
This is amazing, I'm still mystified by China's rapid technological rise.

Why can't we build something like this in Nigeria?
Where are the nigerians that went to Harvard, Oxford, Cambridge, MIT, Stanford, etc
They can only speak big English

Dreynox:
Learn To stay away from Things that doesn't worth your attention, be it on Nairaland or in your everyday life.....


Una go complain and una go still comment......radarada

muykem:
Do me a favour by also state the prices of those commodities in 1999 when PDP took over government.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Ebubu:
em dey fûck both man and woman
greedy bunch

Issybilla:
Glad someone understands this bold.

I honestly don’t see cheating as an option, though I am very afraid cos I never knew a day would come that I would touch myself but unfortunately I did last night reason I couldn’t hold it again and decided to seek others opinion anonymously. I can’t even discuss it with my people around.

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

Ehmmah588:
From your write up,you said she's from a poor family Abi??...Oga high standard did it occur to you that she too would have wanted to enter the university but opted for third choice cos of funds??..You said yourself that she's hardworking..Have you asked her how she was able to finish her NCE degree of 4 yrs?? I'm sure if you do you'll discover she alone footed the bills with her teaching job by going for part time studies.....Guy forget that shit of "she's from a poor family" talk. You're an adult so if you're scared of her family demanding from you,clear her now that your cash is yours alone and you can give or choose not to give....

She even be virgin..guy no let me swear for you ooo....marry that girl or you'll share my kinda story of how I lost a good girl

guobe:
quite expensive but guys are still running it

Mom007:
My Dad has a fish farm in Lagos. My neighbors in Ogun are also fish farmers so I know a thing or two about it.. I know for a fact a kilo of fish is sold for over 2500now. This is over a kilo. You claim you bought it for 1k. You didnt say you got it from the owner in your initial post. Nor that the Owner is your guy or is doing giveaway. Anyways, enjoy your fish.

gentlesinna:
So every cheap things now are stolen goods abi....madam,when it comes to price of things location matters alot.am sure u will be ashamed of urself when u realize that it was bought from the owner directly...ur likes are one of the problems we are having in this country.... imagine accusing innocent employees of theft sharp sharp...na waooo.

justicechichex:
The worse part is that the guy she wants to Impress wouldn't waste much time moving on to the next lady... So you begin to ask, what's the need?

siofra:
So because I joked about it, it means I'm not happy for her
Besides who is Chioma to me that her happiness or unhappiness should concern me? She doesn't even know I exist.

Brother, please check your head, something is seriously wrong with it. You have cognitive issues and you don't know.

mariahAngel:
You dodged a bullet dear.
Be thankful.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

franchasofficia:
Most Nigerians are daft and greedy at the same time.


Okay you come from a poor family and somehow you found a way to make some millions through internet scam, normally, anybody that have sense ought to invest that money into their dream business or assemble talented and skilled people to work for you in rendering valuable services to the society and then you quit the illegitimate business of scamming people and focus on your now legitimate business.



Instead of doing this, Nigerian youths would make 20million from internet scam, then use 10million to buy a luxury car, use 5 million to rent a luxury apartment and use 3million to furnish it and then use the remaining 2million to club around town, womanize and live lavish lifestyle in the hope that another maga abi mugu will pay a bigger amount soon. Like play like play, they turn internet scam to their full time job and still expect not to be caught, how?


This is the problem Bola Tinubu has, he was able to pocket Lagos state and some Southwest states from being a poor boy born into wretched family but billions of Lagos treasury he controls is not enough for him and now he wants to control Nigeria, and na there God will show him that He is still God that sees the heart of men and knows our deepest secrets.




To all Nigerian youths doing Yahoo Yahoo or Armed Robbery or Kidnapping for ransom or money ritual or drug trafficking or any other illegitimate business, this is a wake up call to you all; quit that criminal business you are doing and hurry now and invest the money you have gotten from that illegitimate business into a legitimate business that will start generating you income.


Don't even think buying cars or lands or building house will save you from your future doom knocking on your door.


Invest in a business that will be yielding you daily, weekly or monthly income and quit that Yahoo nonsense now! I