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Vibesking:
Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

With all advise given. If you still don't feel it is cool. Go get your own experience and your story. This is one thing you can collect/get/borrow from anyone.

byemx06:
madam bcus u are married you stop dressing hot,u begin tie wrapper turn urself to deeper life..........my honest advice make fine heir all d time,dress super hot,look gud all d time den see his reaction

do sorry abt that,may God change him

This one wey you dey give advises so o. Hmmm
Remember we only know what she has type o

BlessMySoul:
Hopeless Man. Why won't you have memory loss? After tagging Igbos 5%, how have you bettered the lives of the other 97%? Nkita ara nwuru anwu answer me.

I pray you win again in 2019. Because you will sink Nigeria by then.

Meanwhile, there is a rabid, senile Igbo hater on this forum who has sworn that Igbos won't know peace on this forum. A vulture who the mother should have kept the umbilical cord and thrown away at child birth. Below is what he said;



Well, my humble and gentle response to you without apology is this;

You worthless Vulture and Rabid dog.

May this curse you sent out to Igbo people return to you and your worthless tribe be you from the North or South.

Your immediate whole family will never know peace.

Before the the year runs out, 3 of your family members will die by terrible accident.

May the thunder of the holy ghost destroy and light up your family house.

May the curse of Ichabod and Jabez never depart from your life and your children both born and unborn and may it remain so till eternity.

The earth will reject you from this day forth.

Go to hell with your Nigerian presidency. All we Igbos want is our freedom which God will give us soon.

I place a curse on your whole family.

Poverty and Death is yours in Jesus name Amen.

No rich man will ever come out of your kindred

By next year, people will be dying like ram in your kindred through accident.

May burial be the daily portion of your whole tribe and state.

May an incurable disease hit your anus and the anus of your whole family that you people will eat this Christmas and never use toilet for the next 7 months.

May your whole family start decaying while alive that anybody they pass will put handkerchief to he nose.

For cursing Igbo people, may erosion and earthquake wipe out your whole village and state with no survivor

The united Nations will soon declare your village and community an IDP.

Any Mod that deletes my comment or bans me while allowing the comment of this iddiot will take the same curse as this worthless bastard.

If you dont die within a year, then God is not with Igbo people. You will and must die.

No Pastor, Bishop, Prophet, Pope, Priest, Native Doctor or Babalawo can unlock the curse on you today.

As For Ndigbo, the Love and Favour of God shall always remain with us. No matter the type of media war and physical attacula the likes of these ones push to us, we shall always defeat them. Igbos will always remain the number one tribe in Africa. Our sons and daughters shall always go and come back in peace. Since God is with us, it shall never FINISH WITH US. Our help is from God and Zion. No Bastarrd born of a han being can eliminate us. As far as Nigeria is hostile to Igbos, Nigeria will never know peace.

Ojiofor ga ana. Ndigbo mma mma nu.

Same goes to other Igbo haters on this forum. 2018 will be hell on earth for you folks if you don't repent from Igbo hatred. Buhari's worthless government is a testimony of what hate can breed. You hate on us, God makes you look stupid even to your own children.

Would Jesus have said this?
For God sake we are Christians(christ like).
As much as I don't support people abusing other tribes but your response is shocking and you again curse people saying "In Jesus Name".
Accept It or leave it, you may not be any different from the people you are cursing.

Emzyme:
hmmm
who remembers "Aromates" in organic chemistry
See what they have turned it to now


Deh can wear d berets nd no one judges them.cos they are famous nd rich

Buh if I wear it , jeez am a cultist

Life is full of hypocrisy
Bu what am I looking for with beret sef

That is because majority of cultist are broke ass niggas

Puzzypleazer:
And they posted this in a Nigerian public forum?
What picture are you showing to the international community?

if to say today no be Christmas I for done..... Anyway merry Christmas.

Morayo, why the Bleep up now. You let ur fan down big time

Jbleenk:
Man ur use of word for this topic makes u sound uneducated and idiotic. Witchcraft pressing. What da hell is that? Say that to a non African and watch him look at u like a fool after realizing what ur trying to say. Must we attribute every and anything we don't understand to witchcraft? What ur trying to say is called sleep paralysis and has nothing to do with ur village People. Stupid ppl everywhere.

Are you trying to say you have never heard naija people call it witch pressing them at night.

coolestofall:
Oh damn, d nigga don shoot himself 4 foot. Propose privately, they won't listen.

Abeg shift for me make I join you laff..

Fine woman.
Not those lousy bit.. /ho.. that would be telling us why men are r attracted to them

SIMPLYkush:
Despite her ugly face, i won't hesitate to see her big lips on my dick

You won't hesitate, because it might never happen.
SMH

NLbully:
I hope he contacts monkey pox

Abeg, we no want.
No be only him go suffer am.

MrBrownJay1:
these are the only phones today that NOBODY can eavesdrop in, steal your info or attack via virus etc.... any smartphone can be accessed to listen/view what you are doing via the camera or mic (even if the phone is turned off). so i surely understand why a billionaire business man would be against using smartphones

Mr helper, How do you know, are you a billionaire?

Op so you mean he tried kill the girl or he killed the girl?

B3sty:
Ok...where I came from, if a woman commits adultery, it's either she Dies or her male Children die mysteriously until she confesses else all her children will die.

What is killing them?
And what happens to the men that commit the adultery too?

JESUSBOIY:
please i don't get you.

See the hard truth is that you really believe that you behave like a girl and everyday you are trying to fight the thought. What a serious battle.
Almost nothing you do will solve your problem because Your problem might be solved instantly if everyone that is saying you behave like a girl stop saying so or stop behaving in a way that pass that message but you and I know that might never happen, so you seem to be fighting a lost battle.
But that is not my concern for now. But my contribution is this.

You said you don't have alot of female friend because of this,
Bro your girly behavior has nothing to do with this, trust me it is just you except there is something you are not saying. Stop believing you can't have a girlfriend because you don't behave manly, are you trying to be-friends a girl who are clique with your friends that mock you? If your answer is No then how would every girl have problem that you behave girly, bro from now onward start improving your skill on relating with female friends and put off that mindset of yours. Things might get difficult at first that is because you have not sharpen you skill on relating with female but with time and practice you go improve.

Secondly, you have start to exhibit some anti-social attitude which is as a result of low self-esteem, see bro even if later on you start to behave manly you will still notice you are way back when it comes to socializing,Bro girly behavior is not only your problem now but have you seen someone that is a sissy of behave girly? If yes do you see any behavior that resemble yours and if no then your case might be a little different but trying to be like a boy without know why you behave like a girl and situation you behave like a girl would not erase the girly behavior. So from now on the attentive at which situation you behave like one.

Lastly, I suspect that you have been buying to many cheap talk from people and you are filled with so many silly comment from your friends. Trust me, some friends are calling you whatever they feel like simple because they heard it from someone and not from their own judgment. From now on when someone says something about your girly character try interrogate them and if each time they don't come up with solution or good explanations, start ignoring or shunning them when next they try to do so(there are exceptional cases though).

Now remember I haven't told you why a boy might behave like a girl. By the way I am a human psychologist(per time one though)and that does not mean my contribution fit your situation. I really don't know you in person. So my advice is perfect for my mind model and experiences I have had.

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Bro from the way you speak, you seem to be fighting so hard to prove wrong what you have been believing for long. Please reply me if you want me to suggest you something.

BiggyB242:
Sometimes you just have to compromise, the boy friend when she dey chop dick from everyday was a cultist, is he any better.

Mr. Conclusionist na you initiate im boyfriend to become a cultist abi?
Receive sense b4 New year in Jesus name. Amen

kolnel:
Officer asked for sex
Does it mean she stayed away from sex for 6 years ?

It’s her decision tho


But what’s the moral standing of a cultist girlfriend

Nairalander and conclusion.
Who tell you say the boy na cultist.
Are you sure you are not the IPO?

yesloaded:
18 years old girl should spend her time on productive things(academic) instead of partying with boyfriend.

Yes daddy

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enemyofprogress:
What did the sister did to him before she was beated by him?he couldn't have beated him for nothing. The father's punishment was not fear to the boy

I sensed the humor in your typing, hahahaha

Dj cuppy my crush

Alway talking rubbish...

mrborntodoit:
Wrong

You can love a country without supporting the government, don’t allow reason to escape you

You can't love a country without loving the government. If we love the country we would have put a good fight to ensure we chase out bad leaders from our government. But we fold our hand and let the people use governance to destroy the country we love.
Remember the government is body responsible for stating affair and policies a country. So if you love the country, strife to reform her government

mrborntodoit:
Well deserved situation.

By 2019,most of you would be easy to shove around by toddlers due to hunger, too weak to go and vote out the dullard

Most people thought they were doing Gej, see una life ?

pdp member spotted

Emeritus001:
I addition get your fact right and follow ur heart especially at d examination center...Do not be mislead by the too know guys because on the examination day they will come up with different formulas, idea and facts....I could remember when I was in Year 2, on Eco 201 examination day, people started bringing different formulas and terminologies like Lagrange's multiplier, Epitomea function etc and fear grips everywhere but I was calm....When they distributed d question papers noting like this formulas and terminologies and a lot of students failed including those guys dt brought the terminologies but to the glory of God I had an "A"

I can relate with what you just said. Being informed is good though but that does mean we let people fill us with unnecessary information.
I had learnt that one should trust his/her instinct when necessary(although we should also know when to also drop our ego at some point)

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Ok we haf hear, next please

crowntoro:
0803544678
I'm interested

Ur number is not correct

MakeADifference:
Churches have always been trying their best even though empowerment/skill training isn't part of their spiritual scope of assignment.

come again

OrestesDante:




∆ I doubt if you can make a good wife!!!

No hating.... You're probably too "loose" and expensive for you suitors ∆

Na you loose am abi?