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Very good advice!

Ejenavi18:
He should be readmitted to a psychiatric hospital. I think he's suffering from a relapse since he has already been on admission before.
Afterwards he should be made to undergo rehabilitation at the Drug Abuse Treatment Education and Research(DATER) unit of the hospital.
If it's possible to change his environment after rehabilitation, do that as well.
Also, who are his close friends? Are they into drugs as well? If that's the case he has to stop being around such persons.
It takes a lot of effort for most people to overcome Mental and Behavioural Disorder (MBD) due to psychoactive substance abuse.
I have a friend who's into substance abuse just like your brother. Currently he's been readmitted again for the 3rd time since he suffered a relapse just last year, a promising young guy like that.

God is punishing the parents and God will also punish him also. Does that even sound right at all?

Ebere044:
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Nawaooo

They don't need to sell any property because of him. It is the buyer's fault if they don't carry out due diligence

frozen70:
If you guys can take him to psychiatric hospital, there is a drug they will give him that will calm his mental state down

Take your mum away from the house because of fear of killing her

Whatever property he can sell, you guys should sell it and he will have nothing to sell

Lastly, if he continues, he will definitely commit a crime that will take him to jail

Ode!

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Well, serves her right

Zambian newsroom is your source. You can't get sillier than this. You must be one of our internet trolls.

Tboy1419:
. This one you just type is what is called original fake news, your news no get source at all.

Likely fake news

onegig:
Same Buffon that came in through a coup?


What won't we hear from this crazy Madagascar President?

May God forgive the idiot this recorded this video.

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If it were our parents, they would have condoned it s a moral and karmic lesson
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Please men, ENJOY YOU LIFE TO THE FULLEST WHILE YOU HAVE IT!
Don't live your life for anyone or to the happiness of anyone AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT.

This is why your life expectancy rate is short

GodPunishBiafra:
Why do men die much more earlier nau
From diabetes, hypertension and prostate cancer especially

Please men, ENJOY YOU LIFE TO THE FULLEST WHILE YOU HAVE IT!
Don't live your life for anyone or to the happiness of anyone AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT.
Our life expectancy is shorter, especially in this part of the world...

RIP to him.

The would be low demand for most of these products when hardship hits.

Virginnn:
We probably don't use sugar in cooking our daily soups,
But sugar is a vital ingredient in most of the already made food such as breads, cakes, biscuits, seasoning cubes, mineral soft drinks, fruit juice, ice cream, alcohol, beverages and so on...
Do people consume the above on a regular basis?

Dreadlock

Matted hair = dreadlock

So if I let my hair run free without combing it for a while like a month or two- it would start the locking process. Some hair are easily matted than others.

Or I could decide to lock it myself. There are two ways to achieve that.

So don't be a paranoid liar. There is nothing marine or spiritual about dreadlocks. IT IS A HAIRSTYLE. It is made hair, the hair in the head, natural oil God created from the body and maybe a bit of ingredients like shea butter, oil or even cream.

MistarT:
The best and surest adviser is the Holy Spirit, however with little knowledge about dreadlocks, there's a comma somewhere, if you have a child with dreads, prayerfully cut it, that is why most believers cut their children's hair before dedication, the words I write are not comprehendable with a carnal mind, they're spiritually discerned. God bless you.

Does your explanation make sense to you?

Why would they cut labour hours when they are making a lot of money?

vertueptime:
Some companies are just wicked, some made more gains than ever and still follow bandwagon of laying off workers to cut cost, when they were making abnormal profits they never gave the staff more welfare, just 3months delay on sales/ manfacture with little or no loss to some then they start making noise

Lol. Sugar isn't part of essential food. Many people would skip sugar in meals and it doesn't help that it has gotten more example..

Virginnn:
well, as a food manufacturing coy, they are not expected to lay off workers. The only things we spend money on these days are food and, yes, data. Agro based industries are expected to rack in huge profits.
In any case, everyone must look inwards and start considering working for themselves. Start a small business.

People don't even write negative reviews. Buying online is a nightmare in Nigeria.

Happy birthday!

pocohantas:
Pay for you to write reviews? That is a new one o. I get your idea of motivating people with money, but I never knew it has gotten to this extent.




We write this one fast, though sometimes we dey tire to write negative reviews. I know people that leave it to karma and God.

There is no point in having unidentical twins

The business that can fail

Ladikwa:
I thought she loved me not knowing that she was just after my money. But I was not able to spend much because I am broke for now, but I have land I am in the process of selling to start a business which she didn't know because I didn't tell her cause I don't trust her that much.

Well, we broke up because she has a guy that is the main boyfriend, without me Knowing thinking I was number one.

I just look back and imagine how much this girl will have chop from me. Though I love her and am hurt after the breakup, I'm grateful that all the amount of money I would have loved to spend on her, to show my love I can use it to build my business and help those around me.

And it taught me how not to trust girls 100%, and to be very careful about loving while using my head. If she knew about the land I wanted to sell she would have continued pretending to love me.

"Guys be careful, don't trust these girls 100%"

It will get to a point we would classify victims of abuse as people suffering from a mental disorder, with exceptions of course.

You will be encouraging human trafficking. Nigeria may nit be perfect but it we should encourage actions that have ruined lives of the powerless. All parties involved are aware that it is wrong.

Amotolongbo:
Left to me, I don’t see anything bad in what the lady did. Only that she didn’t follow the legitimate process. Come to think of it, is there anything so legitimate with nigerian systems?

Instead of giving birth to the southern almajiri, she opted selling her baby willingly to couple who can take care of it. The only problem is the third parties involved and the authenticity of the buyer.

Imagine them quoting me down there on my opinion. What if she chose having the baby and being unable to cater for the baby, it is these same set of people that will crucify the woman for keeping a baby she can’t cater for.

Red flag- God called me or too much spirikoko

That is very kind of them

A serious market for that.

Ezewuzie01:
Why building market in the middle of a residential area?

You abused a goat . It is not its fault that its owner is irresponsible.

Pluse992:
Advise Me Please. Should I Confess?

I recently packed into my apartment somewhere in Ogun, and my neighbor's goats have been sleeping at the back of my apartment near my window and they have been urinating and passing out faeces making my room inhabitable.

So the other day, I poured some hot water on one of the goats. I discovered that the woman is into traditional medicine. She has been making some incantations since yesterday concerning the goat. And I am scared that she will hurt me.

Should I confess or be brave? What should I do?

Too many animals in this thread.

Do you think at all? He would destroy investments and livelihood because they flouted an order. Where is the provision for that in law and common sense? Why must you support a draconian behaviour?

topcatking:
Wike for president please

More like 300-400 deaths and still counting

Lol. Traditional wife is so foreign. Women in most cultures in Nigeria had a job. These women were also expected to make the home right.

You may not know this, a woman can move mountains herself if she so desires exception include where it requires strength. It is down to biological differences. We actually had chilvary in the world, there would be less women talking about more rights.

Wake me up where Chilvary include actual respect for women not some pseudo respect to keep women subdued.

I don't give masculinity a bad name, I am not responsible for that. I appreciate the gender differences. However, it doesn't stop me from calling out actions that harm the other gender on the umbrella blanket of 'masculinity'.

I really don't know what the problem is though, you used a very derogatory word on Nigerian women now you are trying to flip it on me. There are many Nigerian women that are ready to become traditional wives anyways. Find one and marry..

Kingarthur21:
where did the issue of doormat or disrespect come from in our conversation? Its obvious you don't know what a traditional wife is.
Men have moved mountains and sacrificed their lives for traditional women. If you can't differentiate between doornar and not a traditional wife then I can't proceed with this conversation.

You ladies give masculinity a bad name always,you always omit chivalry from masculinity and define it in terms of oppressing women

Sarcasm is lost on you
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Nephilim:
you right! Caucasian all the way

I don't know of that woman that wants her husband to respect her as another adult but who would prefer a doormat for her brothers. Example, is me. My brothers don't want a doormat and their masculinity is not threatened because of fear of treating another human being with respect, kindness and understanding.

Kingarthur21:
oh please stop using the you-have-mothers-and-sisters card for me.

I can't marry someone like my sister,the honest truth.

Just like how you ladies want to marry as woke women who is equal to men but you want your sons to marry traditional women.
I will love someone else to marry my sister but not myself(if I were not her brother)

Lmao. Some of you just like to yarn rubbish.

oshaosha2014:
That’s funny. I just hope the African men overseas, especially in places where a man is second class citizen to a woman, will not sign away their lives in the name of marriage. That is the only way they can escape the wrath of this power hungry, feminist who are not qualified to be wives in the first place. You don’t wife another man like you. The western world have turned their women to men. Don’t go and marry another man like you.

Lol. Marry any good woman and you wont have issues.

God bless those are looking for Caucasian women to marry.

Nephilim:
All these are stories for the gods! Marry a Caucasian with humility of heart and you will be asking God why you are this lucky!