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The context sounded like it was demeaning. He could have stated that it was against his faith

humilitypays:
because probably the person u quoted is a Christian and it'd against his faith.


Being fetish also means being diabolocal....it all depends on your faith. Some of us are satanists, occults, spirits in human form, etc, others may not like your faith or spiritual inclination, don't blame them

Nah, his intention was to groom her but it backfired.

Kenneth10110:
Because he won't prefer to help his family member rent an apartment if they needed one

How has she uses it to affect others?

Kenneth10110:
If she uses it to affect others its bad

Incisions...common with pagans or people who engage in juju.

SavageMaster:
I don't understand the "Osingbere" you described.

What is bad about being fetish?

darhray:
Started dating this girl when I was working in a company in 2017. She was the secretary and after work we go home to have a nice time and we dated for a year or so before the company shut down.

To cut it short, she was kind of fetish person and I discovered that when I got to work the next morning and I saw her hand cut round, in Yoruba they call it (Osingbere) was amazed how we left office yesterday night and this on your hand this morning. That was the starting gear of our break up. She was the worst choice I have ever made in my life...

Share your experience

Why don't I feel bad for you?

Wizywiz:
Caught her making love in to another guy right in the house i paid for her as a student....

After then she was the only student i ever dated till i got married....she was one experience i hate to remember...loved her so much then...was willing to groom her and marry her...funny part is that the whole area..street even her school knew we were dating..the mum tried to reconcile us but hey aint forgiving any cheating slurt

Fake news. Bunch of liars!

You are very foolish for defending a very dirty and despicable behaviour. Do you have any evidence that the Chinese man was racist to you?

Where are you from? Lets start with your tribe and see if you would love the bigotry that come with it.

RaptorX:
You must be mad for defending that filthy Chinese in Nigeria. People like you keep racism against Africans alive, nothing change a racist behavior faster than getting a dose of your own medicine. Actually you deserve to have been beaten up.

She hasn't said anything

None

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1. Everyone can be an abuser. People abuse those who are weaker. Abusive behaviour is not a gender issue. Calling it a 'different treatment' is minimising the harm they cause. That was why I quoted you

Can you please read before quoting me?

majamajic:
U are the one stressing yourself , u don't wan believe u women can't treat another woman's children like your own , never

I have not seen that , if she do , just know the husband is a very mean person and he is watching over her and the girl

Personally, children with mum and dad should not be living outside their homes save for exceptional circumstances.

pocohantas:
I don’t know why Nigerians can’t be realistic. I keep saying this thing- take the child away. You can’t always be there to protect the child and you can’t force love out of some humans.

Very simple and they’ll be getting all touchy/emotional.

The OP did not say it is worst. Read again.

What will he do if the mother refuses to stop? Would you rather the child continue to be maltreated because she was adopted? Please, don't stress me

majamajic:
So your suggestion is to move already adopted child back to her mum ?

Nothing minding op saying it's worst

How is it going to be worst? The op mentioned the environment, he didn't say her mother wad going to aybise her.

majamajic:
Do u read where he said , she can't go back to her mum cos that will be worst?

Besides she has been adopted, the Op like am seeing it will be around 19yrs , he can't act violently to his parents yet , mine is he should continue to love and care as time goes on things will be better , he can't fight his mum

She has a mother.

majamajic:
What's your solution ma ?

The woman is not treating her in a different way, She is ABUSING her.

How can she be ever okay? God gracious!!!

majamajic:
It's normal if a woman treats another woman's children a different way from hers, cos maybe she was not in support of the adoption .

There's nothing u can do here , than continue the love and accommodate the girl , as time goes on everything will be ok

Just keep up the good work , things will be perfect as time goes on , thank God she is a girl

At the expense our crippling economy, Nigeria should have rejected it but knowing Buhari, he can dismiss them for days.

They don't value the health of their citizens

Adjovi:
Not surprised. Nigeria is the key figure and major provider for ECOWAS... They want our money..

Committee of Jokers

Have they started shutting down Almajiri schools?

Great thanks. Can mango puree activate baking soda?

Akposy:
Mango Cake

1¼ cup mango puree
2 eggs
¾ cup sugar
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp baking powder
1½ cup AP flour

For the mango puree
I don't have a blender so i de-skined and mashed till it looked like something blended but I noticed it affected the cake...the fibers and lumps made some part of the baked cake very soft and inedible. I advice you de-skin and blend till it is very smooth

For the cake
Whisk/mix the eggs and sugar together
Add in the mango puree and mix properly
Sieve in your baking soda, powder and flour
Fold in gently
Pour the batter in a prepared pan
Bake in a preheated oven for about 30 - 40 mins

LOL. Your opinion is very curious.Thank goodness it is nothing but an ill-foundd opinion. When did humans hurting each other become a gender issue?

How about if I said that I believe otherwise based on experience and all?

24kmagic:
8/10 times, that's the case

Try is the keyword but this was not the answer to the question. Your post painted a picture that women do the hurting not men.

24kmagic:
I'll try as much as possible not to.
I can't hurt her to that extent.
Same way I don't expect her to hurt me to that extent

It looos nice. How did you manage to get it moist? Recipe please?

Akposy:
My No Butter Mango Cake!

What will you eat this with

When you something to her that will make her feel like smashing your head with a hammer, what should she do then?

24kmagic:
I already told myself that that's what I'm going to do in any relationship or marriage I find myself. I don't have strength to talk or shout. I'm a cool headed unforgiving spirit guy.

Not only will I reject your food, I will also leave the house for you. I will just ignore you completely.

Women will do something to you sometimes and you'll just feel like battering her. Thank goodness I don't have that violent spirit. What I have is an "ignoring spirit."

I swear I no go even do like say you de exist.
I think keeping malice is something I'm somehow good at. It's not like I like it tho.

She is a private person. Pregnancy shouldn't lead to paranoia.

sylve11:
@ Simi, This thing you're showing to the world isn't good o. the internet is a dangerous place. If you are not careful it will consume you and rob you of your happiness. It can make you angry, jealous, hostile, bitter and lead to the eventual loss of enthusiasm for living your best life. Be wary and avoid overconsumption.

Living a private life remains the best...

They need to flog the kingmakers of Iwo.

No. Yaradua was buried the next day. Even if it had taken some days, he was the president.

Financial status doesn't matter. Many muslims are usually buried same day or next day.

miketayo:
As if yar'dua wasn't covered up too. Dey there, the rich and prominent men in the society are different

He was buried the next day

ignis:
Is Umoru Yaradua not a Muslim ?

Wow..You are blaming your wife now

deleSayo:
i work a very stressful IT job (which allows me provide the high standard of living my wife has always been used to from birth). so, when i come home by 6/7pm, i enjoy relaxing with my favourite TV shows and movies. whats the crime in that?
don't i deserve time for my own hobbies?

That sounds like human behaviour. What is exactly your problem again?

Gerrard59:
Funny enough, if you check the profile of the founder of the magazine, she identifies as a feminist. You see why they shouldn't be taken seriously? People who champion "feminist", "queer", "LGBT" and the likes cannot condemn rape because they have food in their mouths. Hilarious lot!