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Busari is a very very common surname amongst the Yorubas.

You should go out more.

funmijoyb:
Busari not Yoruba name

Her surname is Busari. You don't have to be a bigot, you are no better. It is a very disgusting attitude towards others.

funmijoyb:
She's not from Oyo state but erosion, who the hell is Ufuoma with no tribal mark?. That's how they will be claiming Lagos which is just their birth place as indigene.

Lebanon sell Nigerians, Shameful

Nigerians sells themselves in baby factories, very pathetic.

The time Nigerians were rescued from Lebanon she refused which means she sold herself, slavery mentality of the pigs

When they ask them not to go, some of them refused.

Yeah, you read one or two of their texts and you ask what was your parents, grandparents and greatgrandparents problem?

For example, Ifa is mainly about ^{philosophy and stories}. The spiritual aspect is very understandable. I am still yet to come across the one that ask Ifa adherents to sacrifice any parts of the human body or a human life.

DropsMic:
Thanks for asking this question. The black man has been so brainwashed to the extent that he now shits on his culture

I haven't got any life saving or sad experience to share

Dybala11:
Do you have any experience concerning your past relationship(s) worth sharing?? It might serve as a life saver though, that's if you're willing to share yours sha.

I wasn't

Dybala11:
I was afraid that you're getting annoyed over our discussions. I'm kinda feeling too lazy to type right now too, if not I'd have answered some if not all your questions. See you around ma'am.

Lmao. I was explaining myself and asking questions. Enjoy yourself too.

Dybala11:
No be fight o, so pls don't get unnecessarily agitated over our little discussions, enjoy yourself though. Ciao!

Read my comment again.

Many Muslims and Christians manage that wickedness on their own without the input of 'juju'.

In most situations I have heard, many of people of these faiths do it more for their benefits than harm to others. When they go fetish, they do it because of the common erroneous belief that it is faster.

The peculiarity of each religion on how to deal with enemies differ. Muslims can pray to God against their enemies and there are many Biblical texts that are fashioned specifically against enemies. Jews and Pagans across the world have their modes of dealing with their enemies.

So what makes yours superior to theirs? What makes theirs more wicked? Can't religions be different for the sake of being different?

Dybala11:
Don't get it twisted ma'am, it's not only traditionalists that are included in my comments. I wrote something pertaining to how many so called Christians and Muslims go fetish to destroy others.

Lol. Wickedness doesn't have a colour, a tribe, a religion and a race.

They are as wicked as the next non-pagan. I am not 'fetish'. Frankly, I don't share their beliefs but I have understood that they get bad rap for no good reason. Many of you don't share this energy with Hinduism for example.

Dybala11:
I didn't mean it as an insult, but then I've seen how horribly wicked some fetish people can be, that's the reason for my sensitivity and been extraordinarily careful.

No. I am not talking about those 'go fetish'. We will talk about that erroneous belief.

I am talking about Muslims and Christians being wicked and including those who have used 'their religions' to wreck havoc.

Dybala11:
Yep, but I know that many so called Christians and Muslims go fetish for the sole purpose of wrecking havocs on others.
Are you fetish??

Should we go down history on wickedness? People have used religions to perpetuate wickedness. For you to use that judgement, you must be willing to accept that many Christians and Muslims are also wicked and our wickedness are unmatched.

Dybala11:
Of course, but fetish people's wickedness is unmatchable. I had an encounter with a fetish guy few weeks ago, he came to our house to challenge me, I treated his Bleep up though. But then, I generally tend to avoid people like such.

Don't people use Christianity and Islam to destroy?

Dybala11:
She will eventually use spiritually diabolical means to destroy, I generally tend to avoid someone that I know is fetish.

How so

Dybala11:
Everything.

The context sounded like it was demeaning. He could have stated that it was against his faith

humilitypays:
because probably the person u quoted is a Christian and it'd against his faith.


Being fetish also means being diabolocal....it all depends on your faith. Some of us are satanists, occults, spirits in human form, etc, others may not like your faith or spiritual inclination, don't blame them

Nah, his intention was to groom her but it backfired.

Kenneth10110:
Because he won't prefer to help his family member rent an apartment if they needed one

How has she uses it to affect others?

Kenneth10110:
If she uses it to affect others its bad

Incisions...common with pagans or people who engage in juju.

SavageMaster:
I don't understand the "Osingbere" you described.

What is bad about being fetish?

darhray:
Started dating this girl when I was working in a company in 2017. She was the secretary and after work we go home to have a nice time and we dated for a year or so before the company shut down.

To cut it short, she was kind of fetish person and I discovered that when I got to work the next morning and I saw her hand cut round, in Yoruba they call it (Osingbere) was amazed how we left office yesterday night and this on your hand this morning. That was the starting gear of our break up. She was the worst choice I have ever made in my life...

Share your experience

Why don't I feel bad for you?

Wizywiz:
Caught her making love in to another guy right in the house i paid for her as a student....

After then she was the only student i ever dated till i got married....she was one experience i hate to remember...loved her so much then...was willing to groom her and marry her...funny part is that the whole area..street even her school knew we were dating..the mum tried to reconcile us but hey aint forgiving any cheating slurt

Fake news. Bunch of liars!

You are very foolish for defending a very dirty and despicable behaviour. Do you have any evidence that the Chinese man was racist to you?

Where are you from? Lets start with your tribe and see if you would love the bigotry that come with it.

RaptorX:
You must be mad for defending that filthy Chinese in Nigeria. People like you keep racism against Africans alive, nothing change a racist behavior faster than getting a dose of your own medicine. Actually you deserve to have been beaten up.

She hasn't said anything

None

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1. Everyone can be an abuser. People abuse those who are weaker. Abusive behaviour is not a gender issue. Calling it a 'different treatment' is minimising the harm they cause. That was why I quoted you

Can you please read before quoting me?

majamajic:
U are the one stressing yourself , u don't wan believe u women can't treat another woman's children like your own , never

I have not seen that , if she do , just know the husband is a very mean person and he is watching over her and the girl

Personally, children with mum and dad should not be living outside their homes save for exceptional circumstances.

pocohantas:
I don’t know why Nigerians can’t be realistic. I keep saying this thing- take the child away. You can’t always be there to protect the child and you can’t force love out of some humans.

Very simple and they’ll be getting all touchy/emotional.

The OP did not say it is worst. Read again.

What will he do if the mother refuses to stop? Would you rather the child continue to be maltreated because she was adopted? Please, don't stress me

majamajic:
So your suggestion is to move already adopted child back to her mum ?

Nothing minding op saying it's worst

How is it going to be worst? The op mentioned the environment, he didn't say her mother wad going to aybise her.

majamajic:
Do u read where he said , she can't go back to her mum cos that will be worst?

Besides she has been adopted, the Op like am seeing it will be around 19yrs , he can't act violently to his parents yet , mine is he should continue to love and care as time goes on things will be better , he can't fight his mum

She has a mother.

majamajic:
What's your solution ma ?

The woman is not treating her in a different way, She is ABUSING her.

How can she be ever okay? God gracious!!!

majamajic:
It's normal if a woman treats another woman's children a different way from hers, cos maybe she was not in support of the adoption .

There's nothing u can do here , than continue the love and accommodate the girl , as time goes on everything will be ok

Just keep up the good work , things will be perfect as time goes on , thank God she is a girl

At the expense our crippling economy, Nigeria should have rejected it but knowing Buhari, he can dismiss them for days.

They don't value the health of their citizens

Adjovi:
Not surprised. Nigeria is the key figure and major provider for ECOWAS... They want our money..