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Visblog:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/14/god-has-departed-from-wike-primate-ayodele/

All these so called "men of god" self. So, you mean so many nonsense he has been doing were the handwork of God?

Dtruthspeaker:
This is to hear directly from the victims themselves as well as to let those evil fathers and uncles know that people do see what you are doing to the girls in your custody; that you are handling and molesting and sexually touching them thereby killing them.

So you people had better know that you too are guilty of murder just like Cain and that whenever people say that they have not killed before, you people cannot say that for you are all rapists and murderers (so Cain even better pass una as na only kill e kill, e no rape Abel)

So, this is coming about because of the case of an acquaintance I have been closely monitoring since the daughter was 3 years I suspected that he was defiling her but because I thought the mother was a sharp woman and she was technically in control of the house, I did not think the guy could implement his evil plans.

Nonetheless, I watched and then corona virus made it better because the mother now worked from home since then till today... so i thought and wished.

And there was a period the bastard left the family for a year and I did see the girl improve slightly but I also saw that the mother was attacking and bullying her.

And sometime last 2 years or so, the bastard returned as i noticed he was not in the estate for that 1 year and we met on the street in our estate where he confirmed that he was now back home for I withdrew visiting them.

To cut the long story short, I just ran into him and his daughter on the road (she was going for school party) and oòoh she was dead.

This was a very bright and very sharp confident girl who freely speaks her mind and ready to face anything.

But today, she could not even lift her head to greet she was completely defeated and one can see that she had been claimed and wife by her bastard father who was just smiling proudly and possessively.

And she is 11 years old but she looked 18. Her head bowed low and she silently cried for help.

So, JennyClay and other victims would you prefer I destroy your family by having your father and mother thrown in prison to save you or what do you recommend?

For option 1, is the only thing I have and wish to do to that bastard and his wife, for she works from home so she cannot claim that she does not know for even I, a mere acquaintance saw it from outside, so how can she who lives with her miss it?

So, I wish to throw the beast and his wife into prison to stop the evil but, would that be a good move?

Over to you! DVST people oya, what do you recommend.

Ask the girl to confirm your suspicion. This will help you to better strategize on how to help her.

Loveth160:
https://.ng/2023/12/15/nigerians-being-held-backward-by-leadership-failure-peter-obi/

He is very correct. But he is part of that leadership failure being a former two terms governor and a special adviser to a president.

GindoX:
What he sees in other women, he is not seeing in her?

Why did he got married to her then?

1. Watch your favorite channels on DSTV or GOTV. Most especially sports.

2. Buy and read your good books.

3. Go out and spend time with your best friends (male).

ahnie:
Most parents are scared of male home lesson tutors.
The wife has no choice than to keep bearing with her husband for the time being since the man is not resting on his job hunting.

But if the reverse is the case ,the man would gladly feed the said wife without complaining.

Hmmm, I gat your points.

Have you tried home lesson teaching. It could be the way out for you as a mathematics teacher.

She threatening you could mean two things but I don't know which is your reality though:
1. She thinks being of help and soft on you is making you feel relaxed. Hence the need to fire you up.

2. She is beginning to fall for someone else and hence regretting the marriage.

Making the transition to a full-time writer does not happen overnight, it takes time, consistency and hard work!

So, don't be in a rush to quit your full-time work for writing but make writing and publishing a side gig until it can pay the bills and more. You can then quit your work to focus on writing.

Making the transition to a full-time writer does not happen overnight, it takes time, consistency and hard work!

So, don't be in a rush to quit your full-time work for writing but make writing and publishing a side gig until it can pay the bills and more. You can then quit your work to focus on writing.

Obavoh:
After eating, the wife asked us to sit outside and served us some fruits.

As we were eating, my uncle came out and greeted us. This was around 9:30am. He went inside again and we waited for about 3hrs before he stepped outside.

He told me to go inside and collect a package from his wife, which I did.

When I came out, my friend told me my uncle drove his car out of the compound.

I was heartbroken.

The wife gave me frozen fish. My wife fried some and roasted the rest because we don’t own freezer

My observations:

1. In the past two years you have been chasing your uncle for #600K and he kept deceiving you. He doesn't wants to give it to you and expects you to understand and give up the chase.

2. The time you put into doing the chase, put same into creative thinking and action. You may make more than that money in less than a year.

3. You said your wife fried some of the fish and roasted the rest! I didn't noticed where you mentioned giving some to your friend or was he given his own package too. Just want to share that the art of giving pays most.

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

You are just unnecessarily being hard on yourself. You have not met a woman you want. If and when you do, you will be committed to her without forcing it.

Darlingme:
So, I was thinking out loud on my desk this morning and this keep ringing in my head

I've known quite number of people, who are extensively wealthy and enjoying life, but they're not famous, they don't even post or update on their social media platform.

I've also seen lots of popular people/celebrities, who can not afford medical treatment. Live good life due to financial hindrance.
Some celebrities, rent/borrow clothes, chains, wrist watches even shoes to functions, music videos, photoshoot and make the society believe it's theirs.

This days, almost everyone wants to trend.
Some ladies, do all manner of cra.zy things in the name of content creation, to gain Fame online
So many parents wants their little children to get famous so, they can have breakthrough from poverty.
My question is this,
Dose fame really bring wealth? If yes, How?
Why does most famous people in reality, poor?
Would you prefer to be rich and have a quiet life or famous, known everywhere, but financially not stable?
What are the benefits of being popular?
Share your opinion. Let's learn.

Fame brings money but it takes financial management skills and prudence to create wealth out of it.

By my definition, wealth is using your money opportunities to create a lifelong financial streams of income.

The actors you mentioned, were once rich but lack the ability or willingness to create wealth out of their money for a long-term financial security.

For instance, if what Portable says about his financial investment is true, then he is wealthy and will even get wealthier with time because he is investing his money rightly but there are some musicians who are have more liquid cash than him right now but can't be as wealthy as him in the long term because they spend the most of their money on frivolities.

As at the moment, the digital world have created one way by which fame can make an individual directly rich. That is having a high social media or YouTube followers which can bring money to the person through advertisement revenues. But the individual still have to manage the money to create wealth out of it.

Prospertochu:
My x wife and I share 3 children together ( 4 years old triplets 2 boys 1 girl). I live in another state due to the nature of my job. The girl lives with her in Lagos and the boys are with my mother and sister in the village. I rented another apartment for them far away because I don't want my x or her family to come and kidnapped my boys the same way she kidnapped the girl . My x wife and daughter are going to the village for xmas she want me to give her my mum adress so she can see the boys she said she bought plenty gifts for them . I refused because the last time she visited she took all 3 children to her parents house only for her to kidnapped the girl leaving behind the boys. I don't want her to kidnapped my boys and she has threatened to take me to court for custody she said the judge will grant her custody because the children are tender . I told her to go ahead and report me anywhere she wants. I am scared to loose my boys. I love them so much they are my everything I won't bear to lose them. My boys are only 4 years old is it true that the judge will grant her custody because they are tender ?

Children are not articles. The court will only ask you to handover the children to her if you make yourself and the children available for the litigation. Do what you think is best for you and your children.

lordfemzy:
We are working on this sir, i appreciate your suggestion

You are welcome. It is good to know that my little suggestions were of help to you.

Please whoever you guys are hiring, ensure due diligence is involved. Make sure the person's background is known.

She should be someone who is contented, appreciates the salary she is being paid, not take advantage of your mom and can not plan evil against her inorder to covet her properties.

The person should be known to the neighborhood and easily trackable.

Brokendad:
The girl just texted my sister this morning that the abortion has been successful. People are just impossible.

Imagine her telling me that she needs my support now than ever. Jeez.

They even prayed in the church before commencing the abortion. Wow.

Well, it has all ended. Although I don't want to end things with her so abruptly so she doesn't plot evil against me.

You know, some people's thinking can be ridiculous. This girl might at the end of the day, play the victim card, claim that I got her pregnant that led to her doing the abortion and abandoned her.

I need to play safe as much as possible. She was asking me from the hospital bed what is the way forward? Hahaha.

I don't know how I got myself involved with this type of girl and family.

There is nothing to play safe about here. Just tell her the way forward is what she decided. That is rejecting you. Tell her the abortion signified she and her family rejected you and you have accepted your fate and moving on.

Don't even attempt to pretend to have anything with her again if you love your life.

At the moment she is leaving alone, which is not good for her type of person. Get her a matured house help. Someone who is kind, has her own family but need the work.

She should be well paid, she should become a friend and jist mate with your mom not just a house help.

With this, you will be able to take a break and breathe while focusing on yourself and family.

Maddict1:
I didn't take their family name, i took my mother's name. deny me as in how?? deed has already been done sha

Ok, she didn't get this point. She thought you taking your mum's maiden name (her father's name)

In this, since you took your mum's name, there is no issue other than you are starting a new paternal lineage, starting with you.

Maddict1:
I wanted to say thanks and move on before but nah, what's all this meeting here and there? for what?

Wait o! is this because it's a woman's name I'm changing to?

What she is saying is it has to be done with the consent of your mum's family since you are about taking their family name as your surname. Otherwise, if you just do it on your own without due process, they can deny you and your nuclear family in the nearest future when it is most important.

We dey here. It is a staple food. Forget those pretenders.

Writing a great book is the most important book marketing strategy!

Writing a great book is the most important book marketing strategy!

UnfairLife7:
You no just get sense. So sad

Mr Sense. No point trying to use the format of attacking me! Just tell the OP to give you the contact of the girl. Case closed.

We4all:
This comment made me laugh. Advice him to sell one of his skills and use the money to buy sense.

Don't mind that guy. You know truth is bitter, right.

Otherwise, why is he the one doing the marketing?

A girl did something similar here sometime ago. She stated the fact that the lady in question is her elder sister who is no longer motivated about relationships, reason why she is doing it on her behalf.

This one is here marketing without clarifying grey areas. I raised one of such points and he is mouthing....

Intergrated:
she is a good girl. If you go through my post am looking for a professional lady or a career type. Other than that she is good to go.

I can see. She is your fvckmate but you don't like her but been deceiving her that you will get married to her once she finishes school. The time is near and you want to discharge her by linking her up with another person while you may still be by the side as a fvckmate. Hmmmm

Aurelius1:
I wonder how good hardworking women end up marrying deadbeats. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

It's a matter of choice. The men were not forced on any of them. In most cases, they were after looks, vibes and frivolities which the man displayed and she is angry now.

The same is true for men who get married to bad women because they are after looks, vibes, etc

Raxxye:
What makes you think that is not a potential client? For even having his contact and watching his updates/status on Whatsapp, that makes the person a potential client.
I guess you would have responded thesame rude way this guy responded!

He is entitled to his actions. That doesn't mean I will respond the same way in such situations. I just shared my view after analyzing the conversation.

A serious potential client will not just say I will get back to you after seeing quotes. Rather, he will analyze it and ask for some concessions, get the concessions and then say I will get back to you once I am ready to kickoff the project.