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officialwdhtv:
Country hard; Man tells chicken seller to cut 17pieces out of a mere chicken wing

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rp6vwLk8y_A

This is a stunt for social media

Oluwashina72:
I can't count how many times I do get frustrated which always leads to huge argument and some results into real combat out of anger with me and the 2nd party...
I've observered this for years.. I pray a lot, avoid people sometimes to avoid anything causing anger, but it will always come to me even if I try to avoid it.. Please help me I'm tired of getting frustrated with people attitudes which always lead to anger and this affected my reputation of who I am and how I look with how I want people to see me....
Someone in the house should please advise thank🙏 you

Just be yourself.

Don't bother what people say about you because they will always talk.

But in all you do, seek out your interest because nobody else will do that for you.

Tayorshd87:
Am happy for u to get such a virtual lady because what social media has caused in this era is something that cannot be over emphasize with bunches of olosho and club girls 😢😭😭😢😭

Not that am not meeting my spec but date them that's when u Wil know why many of Dem are single 🤔..


But am still thinking of going for my true spec if I found one since have given birth already 🤔
Hope am not taking the wrong decision

Very wrong decision. Be content with what you got!

Psalme91:
I am tired of my marriage my husband has no consideration for me or our children he cheat like there's no tommorow he insults me like I am a piece of dirt . I am tired of treating infection all the time I am scared he may infect me with hiv soon. I am just tired of the marriage I want to leave I have a business but I am scared because I don't know how will I cope with 8 children all alone my business will not be sufficient for me to take care of 8 children alone. My health is at risk now because of my bp is high and the doctor advised me to stop stressing myself to avoid having a stroke. But I cant even rest because of my husband habit and both families are aware of the situation in our house but my husband isn't ready to listen to anyone.
please how do I go through this ? I need your candid advice.

For people like you, at times I do say you deserve what you have gotten because if investigated, it will be discovered there was another responsible guy who would treat you right but you probably ate his money and dumped him with the excuse that he is not flashy and too good or calm cos you need a what's up guy.

Ok, back to the issue. You allowed yourself to be manipulated and used. Why did you allow your husband and his people make you feel bad because you have only daughters? You are supposed to standup to them and tell them you give glory to God for having those wonderful girls as there are people who have none.

You should have stopped at three, maximum four but you raced it to eight yet the love and peace you seek didn't come.

Peace is never given but created because it comes from within. You must never allow the opinions of people influence your life decisions.

To take care of eight children is not going to be an easy task. So, you have to be strong now and learn to derive your purpose from within and not without!

Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

At first you were just a Pay-As-You-Go partner that is a client.

Now she is probably not in good terms with her best paying client (Main boy) again and now trying to put you into that shoe.

If you are ok with this, you accept it but know that as soon as another guy fits into that shoe in the not too far future, she will demote you again to Pay-As-You-Go.

UncleKoboko:
90% of women that will leave like that usually start doing HOOKUPS.
THAT'S WHY IT'S VERY STUPÌD OF ANY MAN TO TAKE A WOMAN THAT LEFT BACK.
YOU'LL ONLY BE TAKING BACK A MORE BROKEN AND DAMAGED WHÓRE.
SHE'LL NEVER GIVE YOU REST OF MIND.
Don't even consider it for any reason, EVEN BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN.
IF YOU DIE, YOUR CHILDREN WILL LIVE ON AND LIVE THEIR LIFE...

Most of these wayward and careless women leave only to start sleeping with other married men.

When they now realise that no man will want to take them and their baggages (children), they'll start looking for a way to go back to that man they left.

You have a good point...

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Two strategies that have greatly enhanced my indie publishing career and increased my earnings are as follows:

1. Writing and publishing more books.
2. Increasing the rate I promote my published books through social media.

As simple as these strategies may appeared to be, they are very effective.

sheldonbbt:
As a married man, what do you do when you realize your wife is self centered? Marriage is just a year old.

She is quick to question when I need to send money to my family. I transfer 40% of my monthly salary to her for savings as I am not so good with money, but when it comes to her family, she is very swift.

I intend to stop giving her the savings.

Develop the habit of savings and start saving your money by yourself.

Reason is there is a danger in having someone else to handle your life savings. If the money amounts to something worthwhile in the future and the person is a bad fellow, he/she can harm you in order to take over the money!

bukatyne:




Your own concern is cashing out? I pity your clients

Na so ooo. Election Cash out is over na, what can I do. Although, we are waiting for Kogi, Imo and Bayelsa tribunal cases to start for Pro cashing out.

It is obvious that it was not intentional because your two left legs and your sleepyhead led you there. But tell the accuser to sue you to court and then get in touch with me so I can be your defense lawyer as we will surely win the case.

Don't dull oooo, this is my chance to cash out!!!

FarSide:

God forbid.... Except my girl now

You are not yet ready to live a decent life. Who told you that your "girl now" you are referring to is knacking only you and hence can't infect you.

Even if you make her do the test and confirmed negative, who told you she won't knack outside and thereby posting a threat of infection to you.

Danremmy:
this your advise really got me. I'm taking it

In addition to what he said, be more proactive in all you do. Since you know the importance of those clothes to you, you shouldn't have left them there.

Also, just know that your breakthrough is very close and from now on, be proactive, intentional and be ready to pay your dues because one must always endure one way or another to breakthrough. Also start developing the money saving habit as it is the only sure way to financial independence!

People normally ask questions on keywords when publishing their books. To get your keywords right, you need to have an understanding of search engine optimization.

Secondly, you need to put yourself in the place of a potential buyer and imagine what appropriate keywords you will used in searching for the book if you were searching for it on the Internet.

Also, search for best selling similar books to yours or other books in the same niche with yours. Read through their sales pitch as well as check out their categories as these will help you pick up some important keywords used by the authors.

People normally ask questions on keywords when publishing their books. To get your keywords right, you need to have an understanding of search engine optimization.

Secondly, you need to put yourself in the place of a potential buyer and imagine what appropriate keywords you will used in searching for the book if you were searching for it on the Internet.

Also, search for best selling similar books to yours or other books in the same niche with yours. Read through their sales pitch as well as check out their categories as these will help you pick up some important keywords used by the authors.

okomi562:
My friend recently got a job in one of the top banks in Nigeria.


I am happy for him. He did not tell me but I asked him for financial help but he said he is in training school. I got to know blah blah.


I am also a recent graduate with no work but I am teaching now.

I am happy for him, I congratulate him.

But yesterday, I felt sad because I thought when will mine come.

I just felt tired. I have seen far friends hitting success but it hurts when close pals get it. Like you begin to question did I get it wrong. Not that it pains me no. I begin to think of my plans too.

I am happy for him, I will not lie.

Am I jealous? Or is it normal?

I am here to learn.

So I can correct my self

I don't know if it is jealousy.

What I know is that you are comparing yourself with other people and it is bad because it will always put unnecessary pressure on you which can lead to wrong decisions, depression etc

Stop that habit for your own good!!

Just ignore all of them for now. Time will surely heal all concerned!!

You said your sister is prayerful. Tell her to channel her prayers towards breaking any force hellbent on dragging you guys down.

This is because from your story, when ever things are getting better for anyone of you, tragedy will strike. So, you guys need pray God to intervene and put an end to such forces.

As for where you are currently managing, if you are sure that the cash flow of the place can support you being more enumerated, then you need to plead with your boss to look into that, also put in more efforts into your work as that can make him consider your request in positive light.

Alternatively, consider getting and offering home service laundry to people who can pay for it on Sundays if you don't go to work on this day.

To get clients, observe and notice people in your estate you think might need such help, approach and tell them what you do and that you can render them laundry services on Sundays. If you get two of such opportunities, that will be a good start.

jsp0:
I caught her cheating on me and i broke up with her, although she have begged me but no



since yesterday i don't have appetite,I'm very moody and sad, i have headache, having suicidal thoughts

please how can i move on fast please

seun mynd44

"suicidal thoughts" because of a girl. Guy borrow sense. She is not worth it, just be up to something great for yourself and you will be fine!

Realashbobby:
Dear Nairalander,

How do you cope with your life after your spouse failed you and took the whole matter to the worse level by seeking for divorce?

I woke up everyday of my life in the past nine months thinking about this man. I heard he has moved on in Lagos, while I am still here bothering myself about him. This is the only man I have ever known in my life. He just left without looking back not even to check on his son.
What can I do to forget him totally?

I am down emotionally and it's affecting me.

Kindly advise.

For the fact that you still think about him shows that the reason for the divorce wasn't from him.

So, I advise you take time to focus on yourself and child while working on yourself to ensure you build up characters if need be to ensure your next relationship works fine.

Handsomejok:
Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

You would have clarify it in your main post. But still, if you have more, you can make it bigger than the 15K because things are expensive now.

Although, I know you are trying to make it tight to ensure she doesn't have extra to spend on herself.

Lovemeharder:
Treat her right, she'll do same, treat her bad, she'll also do same.

The reverse is the case too...

I am grateful to God for divine health, success in businesses and in general, growth and development in everything I am up to!

Quit!

Quit!!

Quit!!!

Know this and be careful with them and know peace!