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pofolo:
while the 2 egoistic and superich - connected- mumuistic family play their power play, the life of a 7months old baby is at risk all thanks to the cannabis addiction of the mother, who i guess is just after the fame and money of the baby's father........supported by his childish supposed elder stateman uncle....

Ile ola ni iyonu........

Easy now cos u are not there. All you know is what you read. We can't really tell where cannabis came from. If I'm to pick between David O and Sophie Momodu on who is most likely going to have cannabis around, I'll go for the Aye crooner in a heartbeat.

What calamity aka baby mama buhaha has befallen this guy.


Guys please watch who you stick it into. Some women are out to ruin a young nigga.

Trendition:
Got married two years ago to a now 34year old man, and I am 26. Met him through my mum when he came into the country 3years ago, so we dated for about 9months. We got married but he had to remain in canada while I stayed back.


Truth be told, I never loved him. He's rich, okay-looking, charming and all but I just do not love him. I married him cos I kinda saw him as a clean slate, a chance to start anew cos I have lived life, done things that I am not proud of, gotten heart broken. And I just don't want kids with a man I do not love. They say u can fall in love after marriage but not here, I just admire my husband.

Hubby comes home in December and stays through to february. I kept d pills in an empty bottle of multivitamins but never thought he'ld look closely at d inscriptions on the tablets cos I had gotten away with it the past years. No one has been on my neck about getting pregnant though.


He was so angry I thought he'ld throw me out that night. He's been sleeping in d guests', doesn't eat my food, he says I am a selfish and wicked woman. I'm sooooo scared he'll call my parents, I'll just die.


Do I just walk out now and risk my parents knowing what really happend? Will I find such a gentle man again? Do I get pregnant? will I love my kids? He's such a wonderful man but I don't love him!!!



PS: I never cheated on him

Any particular reason why you guys dont stay together through out the year? Please apologise and do the needful. Learn to love him, na you marry am nah.

bronzegoddess:
He didn't keep a piece of d hymen Craaaaaaaaaap!

I know its painful cos u lost urs cheaply

quiinnBee:
she was 18 no big deal

Its always painful when you know you lost yours cheaply. LOLZ

Docmann:
Have to create a New Nick for this,Just to hide My identity.Please am not begging anybody to believe this life experience i just wrote down

here, Rather for all to be careful with who ever you are having an unprotected sex with in life, either male or female...Please pardon my Use of

words and spellings.

A friend of mine Visited me in my office,we started discussing as usual, along the line he brought up his personal issues just to get some idea from

me. He told me how he was having serious issues with his Girl friend he loves so much, in the area of him Putting on a CD during Love Making. He

told me that it has been causing so much problem for the both of them in his relationship, because the Gf dont like her guy using CD to make

love to her, because she felt like she is a prostitute and she dont enjoy it, rather she prefer raw Love making..He told me that he would have

love to do it raw, But if he does it he will surely release inside her and his not ready to have a baby for now, That he can only do it raw when

she has fully becomes his wife..They have been dating for like 6months now,they have only made love about 4times, but most times it always

end up in quarreling between both because of the CD Thing, though she works and stay far from him..The pressure was becoming so much on

him from this lady he love, so i advised him to take the lady to the hospital to run blood and pregnancy test on her, that's one condition you will

only give to her before you can Make love with her raw without using protection if she agrees okay. He called me on the phone after some days

gone by, he told me that His Gf refused to follow him to the hospital, that she only brought a pregnancy test to show it to him that she is not

pregnant. He was so confused, yet still blinded by real love for the lady, but something in me kept telling me that the lady is up to something

bad, so i have to do everything to make sure he stays away for sometime from the lady before he might fall into the lady request, so that i can

be able to figure out what to do just to help him out...I Finally figured out a way for us to be fully sure that she dont have any problem inside

her, I told my friend to invite her during this xmas holiday,plead with her and tell her you are now ready to do raw love making without CD with

her, That when she comes we will drug her favorite drink she likes, when she dose off, i will now take little of her blood just to put on the Hand

made easy blood Test Device..We both agreed on that, he called the lady and invited her to his house, she was so happy coming to spend some

days with her man..She came around, she was introduce to me by my friend, her laughter was so natural,very friendly to be with,tall and very

beautiful in nature. We really discussed a lot, i distracted her from not paying attention to my friend while he was pouring drink for the 3 of us,

drink was served by him,i rushed mine pretending to be going home because it was getting late in the night,she drank hers hoping to see me off,

but after some few minute she started feeling dizzy, i knew it was the effect of the drug. She slept off, i quickly took little sample of her

blood, i tested her blood immediately, you wont believe what i find out, The result was HIV Positive showing clear for we to see, i did the test

4times in front of my friend still the same, he almost fainted. I check his, it showed Negative..This happened a day ago, I stayed with him all the

night, just to make sure he dont do anything nasty to the lady. She woke up after like 40min,she saw little stain of blood in one of her thumb,

but couldnt take it serious, she was so shock to see me, because she thought i have already gone home, she asked me wont i go home is

already late in the night. I said, am sleeping here tonight because i have a lot to discuss with your guy..She changed her mood,she went inside

the room to sleep, I and my friend were awake all through out in the parlor..Morning time, guess she faked an urgent call she parked her things

back inside her bag, demanded for some money,which my friend did gave her enough, off she went away..I Felt weak and down, for breaking

there relationship and also for treating the lady in such manner in other to find out her hidden agenda..My conscience has been disturbing

me,though my friend thanked me a lot and now sees me as a Guardian Angel.... But please Guys,Ladies be careful of who you want to have an

unprotected Sex With, HIV IS REAL and is not written on each person forehead...But lets keep showing much love and care toward all the

affected ones, hoping sooner,wishing one day there cure will come and they will bounce back healthy again.

You have helped your friend but in so doing, you have violated the right of another. If as you drugged that lady something happen and na there she go? What will you do with a corpse in your house.

If indeed you are a doctor, I fear you. You have done something heinous by knocking someone out albeit temporarily. Instead of doing all that why didn't you advise your friend to break up with the girl?

Flashh:
[color=#225484]These old people should try as much as possible to grow up.

How can the patient and the visitor be bringing out childish fingers in a hospital? Does that looks like a club to them? [/color]

Chill tha fuvck out! Life is not that serious unless you make it be. I rejoice with the ma who God did not allow us weep over. Some didn't make it but he did. Y won't we give out the peace sign?

doyinisaac:
Shameless foolish fools...

.see as her stomach big like apc campaign promises....She must be a staff of oloshi & olosho PLC......

Hilariousssssss!

og2711:
Sigh.. Whatever you'd like to think about me that makes you happy, fine..

My message has been passed. I'm sure you'll hear it again soon..

Lolz I haven't but been getting numerous likes (like I fit convert am sef) on my initial comment. Clearly you are in the minority so just scoot!

dlox147:
his was a complicated case, a part of his family wanted her to pay the other part wanted her to go free. She was arrested and charged but was later released under unexplained circumstances....

Hmm! Thanks for your reply. May he continue to RIP

cosmatika:
Tears run down my cheek as I type this. I went into d medical profession to Save lives, but today I watched a patient die and I could do nothing.
It was around 11am today, 26th Dec 2015, I wz in the emergency room as the only Dr & House officer on call in a state Specialist hospital wen a peugeot wagon followed by a police van drove in. They opened d doors & trunk and started bringing out Accident victims. I did a quick triage & saw dat d 2 in d trunk were in a more critical condition, So d immediate plan was to refer d 2 to FMC wia dey hav better hands and equipment to handle it. So I asked d policeman who d driver is so dat d 2 will be rushed to FMC & he said he died at d Accident scene. I ran outside to buy airtime to start calling other HOs, b4 I could return, dey had dropped d 2 & drove off.
I called other HOs, only 2 showed up, others had travelled. To my greatest suprise, I called a medical officer who is a snr colleague in d proffession, she said I shud nt touch anyone till dey paid. That I shud Infact refer all of dem. I was incapacitated, d patients were in pains, crying, calling on us to help, some already unconscious, but we couldnt help cos we have an order frm above.
Within 5mins, 1 young lady in her early 20s died. Abt 10mins later, another police van came and carried d remaining 7 to FMC.
This evening, some road safety corps came to inquire if any Accident victims were brought to our center. They had retrieved d manifest frm d vehicle and contacted d families of d passengers. Dey came wit d relations of one of d patients, and wen I told dem 1 of dem died, dey asked for d Description of d 1 dat died and I showed dem d pix of d gal dat died, behold she was d 1 dey were looking for and right there was the gal's fiancee. Their traditional wedding was to be in 3days tym
I want to use this medium to call on the govt to make policies dat"ll enable Drs treat patients in such condition. Let's Save the human race

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og2711:
Typical Nigerian. When someone points out where you have erred, you attack the speaker.

Ask me what me or my wife's gifts have to do with the fact that you did not observe properly before commenting?

You are simply a frustrated job seeker with a penchant for hateful comment. I stand by my 1st statement; I see someone fixing a tyre - full stop!

By the way, I didn't see ya own car.

arcbay:
Whatever treatment u settle for, make sure ur dogs don't lick atall...Give them little palm oil after the chemical bath, reduces the potency of poison, just in case they lick the chemical accidentally.

You can try amiraz or amitrax too, mild on dogs, tough on ticks...

Nice one boss

bayulala94:
Go to any pet store and get gadol dat will help tested and trusted but you still need a vet to treat your dog because of tick fever

Thanks

BABANGBALI:
see 2face pikin dey hold tight to anoda person papa like say 2face don die,2face you no try o

That tells us Sumbo's husband is a good stepfather.

muaa:
She nor go born for the new husband ni?

You are supposed to be a lady; make shame catch you small before you talk like an uncouth woman.

Last bullet: God gives children in his time

og2711:
Na change of tyre na im make mechanic carry all those tools?!
Na change of tyre na im make mechanic come at all sef?!

Can you show me the pic of the hot car either you or your lover got.

tmcleo2k2:
abegiii na change of tyre u de use all that plenty spanners for abi...#igarachicken

Do you even own a bicycle? What of motorcycle? Okay what of keke? Okay what of old tortoise car abi Peugeot car? Guessed as much. Shiorrrr!

xx

INTROVERT:
Sweet nice.... Barely a week after refusing another fan a pic.

Thats why i think she did it; to prove a point that she's not so snobbish.

But that's just a change of tyre; that can happen to anyone at anytime. Please bad belle pipo, make una go siddon. And before you come here and spew rubbish ask yourself if your bf abi gf buy you common N10.00 buns for this Christmas.

The other time, I came here and complained about our dogs at home. After then, I using the oil I showed, I decided to research on home remedies for tick and I came up with the under listed:

https://analilscorner./2013/08/09/flea-and-tick-remedies-for-dogs-part-2/

and

m.petmd.com/dog/wellness/evr_multi_flea_control

The first link was most helpful. I didn't have most oils needed but what we have in good supply was orange. So in addition to the oil, I have used the orange treatment and also orange bath. I also tried the bicarbonate of soda and salt mixture (I used as a thick paste) and applied to the affected areas.

I am pleased to report visible results in just a few days. The ticks dry up and fall off like flakes. Of the 3 treatments, I can't tell which was the most effective. For now, I've slowed it down abit to just orange treatments and orange/lemon bath. I hope this helps someone. Cheers

francizy:
7. How will my wife do some family planning stuff that will make her forever barren and I still live with her after finding out? I dey craze?

Kindly note a small point of correction, a good family planning method (hoping all goes well which happens nearly all the time) does not make a woman barren forever. It prevents conception but when removed/stopped, the woman goes back to being reproductive. Nevertheless, a good wife should discuss family planning with the husband and together they should agree on what works best for her body. Together they can halt having kids and begin planning for another when ready.

EagleNest:
Ops,I will even think you are already under spell because your life has been in danger all these while and you kept on enduring.

When she raised hell on you because of N45k you would have bolted out but you did not because you were not normal again.

I cannot just see 1/5th of what you have seen and I will call it a quit.I don't need uncles, aunts and parents to intervene.

FLEE NOW PLEASE!!!

I am strongly of the belief that indeed he is under some sort of spell. It is the spell that has made him 'useless' jobless and insecure in his own home. I agree with you totally.

dlox147:
as a man, I can boldly say you have taken enough and have done your best to see that your marriage to her works.

My advice to you will be, to dissolve the marriage so you can move on. She obviously is not in love with you and is paying back for the sins of others.

If you continue with this marriage, it will not end well as you may loose your life to her or some other way sooner than expected. Like someone suggested, leave her and move to a different state and start a new life.
I lost a close friend to a similar situation, he got stabbed in the heart by his wife while he was sleeping so my bro be careful. That's a link to my friend's memorial page to prove..
https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=129379300467748&tsid=0.43433445133268833&source=typeahead

I couldn't help but click on your friend's facebook memorial page out of curiosity. Please tell me his family did something concerning his demise. Tell me the woman is cooling off her heels in jail.

This domestic abuse thing is not just for women but men too. Just the way we tell a woman to leave a physically abusive home and protect herself, its the same advice we must give to the man as well. No double standards. Life is precious and we only have one life to live. RIP to your friend.

I believe op is under some sort of spell but the fact he can open this thread shows his spirit has begun to rebel against his current situation. What I don't understand is why his immediate family cannot lift him from this pit. Why is his immediate family leading him back to the marriage like a sheep to the slaughter house? OP please whatever you do, you must take God serious after leaving that woman. She is the type that WILL throw spiritual arrows your way. You must be prepared to continue fighting the good fight of faith. Don't slack and say at least i've left her, you must turn pastor ontop this your issue. All the best.

[s]God knows if you are my brother, you would have left that home long ago.[/s]

fem29:
I agree but the husband needs to play a part in keeping the home and care of the kids and not just when he feels like it.

Again read my post again. I never encouraged or said that was right. What I am saying is it is not feasible in this day and age for a working woman not to contribute a pin to her house hold especially when her husband needs the help and is simply an average earning guy.

Please all you people quoting me, its crystal clear you aint married or you don't know what obtains in a typical Nigerian society today. I'm allergic to bullshitttt so please so quoting me and saying op.

charix:
Lalasticlala I think this news should hit frontpage to aware unsuspecting nairalanders like myself ten minutes ago.

I'm a casual facebook user. Many times I can go for weeks without checking my account. Most of my friends know this and have no problem.
Today I was in church when I received five random messages from facebook saying the pin to access my account're xxxx, xxxx and xxxx. Not understanding what the message was since it didn't refer to my account directly I paid the message no mind.
After church service an unknown contact started calling my phone, giving me ten missed calls at a go. Wondering who this was and if was an urgent call from a potential employer I quickly picked up the phone. On the other line was a young man of say mid-twenties in age telling me he mistakenly typed in my phone number when facebook requested for his pin. I told him I received the messages and would send them via sms. He flashed my phone a few moments later as a reminder and I sent the most recent pin to him.

Fast forward about thirty minutes later, I received whatsapp messages from five of my friends telling me I've asked them via facebook for an urgent amount of N50,000.00 to get deposited in a strange account without any of my details attached. It was then it finally clicked that I willingly gave these fraudsters, these rogues, these animals in human skin the pin to access my facebook account for a free-for-all scam on all my facebook contacts. Immediately I changed my facebook password and announced on my timeline my account was recently compromised.

I don't know how to end this but I'd say; the same way people wake up and plan their way on how to remain productive to society is the very same way some people wake up with the incentive of defrauding others out of their hard earned pay. I don't know how these people sleep at night or live with themselves but may we have no reason to cross paths with them.


Merry Christmas everybody. Enjoy the holidays.

M sorry but this sounds a little dumb. You don't have to know Facebook sef to understand you shouldn't give out your password, pin, pan no (for banks) or C.V.V code.

Why did you pass on your password to someone over the phone? What for? Makes no sense to me.

He mistakingly put in your phone no and he needs your pin/password to do what? Log out or what? #confusedmuch

Lol

Funny u

Droyal:
SMH

Even if the dog was worth 10millionnaira is that enough to beat a pregnant woman to the point of bleeding.

What you are implying now is that if a wife takes a wrong business decision and it costs her husband millions of naira he is justified to beat her which is bad enough not to talk of being pregnant.

What happened to reprimanding her calmly, Like you said something is really wrong with that family. Even If it was his child that was beaten he shouldn't react that way.

Please don't even try to give reasons why he did what he did.

The man has issues, serious one at that and YES he was wrong.

Go and sink your husband's 10milla and see if he will not beat shege out of you!

devour129:
are men no longer the head of the house ? The man giving 95 n the lady 5 is ok unless there's a problem then they both can do 50-50. We then wonder women are growing wings nowadays .its because they bring in 50 so they see no reason why they should be submissive .please go and work hard to take care of your families and stop doing things backwards.

Nowhere in my earlier post did I advocate 50\50 but I believe a woman should help. Are you married mister? I take it you are not or you can provide ALL your family needs; if that is the case good for you.

But allow me tell you the reality of the AVERAGE Nigerian man today. Unless your hubby is very wealthy, most men expect some sort of help. Each household would vary; it could be 20%, 10%, 30%. Can a man be earning 100k with 3kids in a place like Lagos and the wife is earning 70 -80k and refuses to lift a finger? Like really would that be fair? Do you know how much rent is in Lag?

Whatever it is, its not too much helping out your own husband even if its just feeding. That's my take and that does not make me less a man.

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=41320972]My take dear nairalanders is that the issue is just too flimsy to warrant separation at this stage, what do you think about it?[/quote]He has a valid concern. He will struggle with this lady over monetary issues in marriage. She may be the type that wants to pitch in 5% while her husband brings in 95%. She will work and use her money for her personal needs or for her kids (perhaps not). Every other weighty thing will like rent, feeding, bills, health matter, fuel for gen, provision even her needs will rest on him.

It will be even more painful for your cousin knowing fully well she earns something! Such behaviour is not feasible in this day and age. Since she has refused to change, your cousin has every right to move on. If he marries her tomorrow and does SOS appeal, the question we will all ask is "didn't you notice this behaviour before marriage?"

This is what courtship is for, its a foretaste of marriage. Move on if you can't tolerate it in marriage.

sameer1212:
Lol... And ma'am you think by kissing this way is the only way to show love and affection to your child? Can't he hug,peck,kiss her on her fore head and other kiss able places? Must it be mouth to mouth? Little children learn very fast and she will be thinking her Dad is doing the right thing with her.

He has done the right thing wit her. Just because you don't agree does not make it otherwise

ijustdey:
cheating without any form of guilt.....



some women have overtaken men in the art of cheating and feeling proud about it

So gay men don't cheat? Ode ni