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@op where did you buy it? Lolzzzz.
Lalasticala weekend fun topic here.

hisprinceship:
well, I don't spill on the GROUND, I spill on HER

On or in? Why will you spill on her? Is she a tissue paper abi refuse bin? Some girls dey suffer sha!

enigmagu1:
Everything about sex is sinful as long as you are not doing it with your wife ....onan was doing it with his brothers wife which is already a sin .....some chu rches advocates withdrawal method e.g catholic church , they believe contraception is sin.

Sorry but this is op.

Rapmoney:
I have never debated before, online or offline, on whether relationships should be free of love-making or not; I am not a moral teacher and I believe whoever that is 18 years and above, living in Nigeria is an adult by the laws of the land. This implies that I cannot judge whoever is of the opinion that relationships should go with love-making; in the same sense, I cannot give names to people who feel that love-making should never be part of relationships too! To each, his or her opinion!

At this point, it is important to note that it is very annoying to see how some ladies campaign for No-sex relationships without considering the level of the authority they use in campaigning for this. The truth is that you cannot be in Moscow and expect not to feel cold!!! Below are the categories of ladies that do not deserve a No-sex relationship:

1) Ladies who cohabit: How can you be staying with a guy and all of a sudden, you wake one morning to tell him that you want the relationship to be free of sex? Did you smoke grass? So what have you been thinking all these months/years? You think you can just convince him to lose what he has been 'eating' all these years just like that? Except you are breaking up if he disagrees; don't cohabit while thinking of No-sex relationship!

2) Ladies who depend on men for their daily resources: You want a No-sexie but you want to chop his cash? Demanding unnecessarily from guys surely makes you vulnerable to sex. You can ask sometimes from male friends when in need; after all, what are friends for? But you should not make it a favourite hobby! Ladies who do this do not deserve a No-sexie!!! There's no difference between the one that stands in brothels and you!!!

3) Ladies who do multiple dating: Don't you think it is very unfair to deny Akporode sex while giving that same stuff to Emeka? Most often than not, when some girls tell you that they want a No-sexie, it doesn't mean they are out of it. It could mean that they have stopped it with you and started it with someone else!!! A lady must prove herself worthy of it. Anything far from this should sincerely be seen as counterfeit! . If you have not been faithful in the past, how do we tell whether you would be faithful to the guy if he eventually agrees to the No-sex situation? You surely lack the authority to campaign for this. Trust is earned, it can never be commanded!!!

Sex is an important issue in a relationship which must be seen as one! Don't be too emotionally carried away that you would outrightly condemn it when you in person lack the authority or platform to do that! In law, they say 'He who comes to equity must come with clean hands'. In romance, they say 'He who comes to No-sexie must come with a good stand or authority to back it up'!!!

Let's call a spade a spade! Let's not call it 'that instrument that is used to dig the soil'!!!

Good evening everyone!

My problem with what you have up there is that it gives the impression that any lady who indulges in such and says no has no right. Now that is wrong! Please don't give the impression that a man can/must have sex with certain types of women cos those women have no choice. THAT WOULD BE RAPE BROTHER!

Anytime a woman says no, she must be respected! Good morning yall.

Goodness me! Catastrophic for the poor couple. Well nothing bad, na just to snap and go do reception then straight to their home. That's all. A child is a blessing. He who is without sin should cast the 1st stone.


Congrats to the couple.

Rapoo:
there is no prove that those kids actually came out to vote.

*proof

Mynd44:
Hold on, how can a 7 year old wear "revealing clothing"?

Abeg she is wearing clothes. Nothing special, if you are uncomfortable with this, check yourself

Tell me that first picture of her in blue shoes didn't shock you. By the way, it didn't move me sexually but I felt immense pity. That's the sexualization of a kid right there!

iliyande:
Goood.

I keep on wondering where those guys get their supplies while their no fuel in our feeling stations

arrest all of them........

Filling station*

JingoOAU:
If u are a staff of AIT, this is the time to start looking for another job or any other alternative cos by the time EFCC finish with Dokpesi, he would regret the day he founded AIT

He does not even pay promptly on a good day so imagine what would happen with them. Those guys are sunk!

See how they bled Nigeria dry. See how the sent off our brave soldiers to die with little or no equipment. Too bad.

Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!

41? Lol, he is an unstable character. That's why he is that old and still single. Carry on at your peril. Such a man would love petty things: silent treatment, quarrel, not eating your food, malice et al. I used to have a lady friend like that- I dropped her like hot potatoes.

I know you feel time may no longer be at your side but don't settle for less.

Ahnie has killed me with laughter. Lol @ spread like python.

I always believed Beverly then. I don't know why but I just felt she was saying the truth. Posterity has proved she was indeed right.

PS: Is that the lovely daughter he mistakenly slapped? Nawa sha. I know say na frustration dey do this guy this kain thing. He has not been so relevant in the music industry. too bad... I hope his marriage can still be salvaged.

Andyblaze:
Guys help me and thank God ooo
was cut in the foot, had to rush myself to a nearby clinic as no one was ready to help and I was mini-operated on and stitched up...can't really walk for now, but I thank God I didn't bleed to death.

Hope to get better soon as I have a video shoot by next saturday.

What were you doing there? If you were an innocent passerby sorry. If you were not, na you sabi sha. Speedy recovery all the same.

yatch360:
Its yr life ,who cares.... Stop forcing yrself into the limelight

She is not; she is just writing on her blog like a normal person abi make she hide forever? Why should she? Is Chris hiding?

changes1:
She`s just telling her own side of the story wait until @shotz states his own side. She wants to tell us 2shotz will see her and slap her for no reason? Woman abeg tell us another story.

When a woman runs her mouth for you ehnnn, you`ll know that tongue is sharper than razor blade and is more painful than slap.

#dropsmic

Still no reason 2b violent.
PS: beverly osu accused him of the same thing too.

chuna1985:
Forget ur nonsense talk. I really pity u people that think it will be hard to split dis country. Once our military splits into tribal lines, it's all over.

Lol! Nobody comot their land pass ibo man and you are here fighting to separate state. Who wan leave their business all over country return to that corner to siddon? Bros, please speak for yourself; the very smart men with stakes are silent. There is a reason for that. Go siddon!

PS: na the jobless and students dey ff them protest for street. Do you think a rich man's son is there? LOL

Calculia:
That mosque was burnt by the same terrorist bombing mosque in kano.

Hausa Fulani. Boko Haram!


The propaganda will not stop the peaceful Biafra Protest.


It will continue until, UN peace keepers and Africom put boots on ground to divide us.

How old are you? Do you know what it will take to scatter this great nation? Have you seen war before? May God not allow us witness such. Please grow up.

Why only you? Two managers kwa? I've seen your profile picture sha; you look pretty. I hope you don't wear like that kind of spaghetti top to work?
You need to soak yourself in the blood of Jesus before you go to that place tomorrow; if you can, go with a friend who will be waiting for you outside. Good luck.

Achorise:
it just killed my only brother last three weeks.guys pls abstinence remains the best.

Sincere condolence but HIV should not be killing anyone in these times nah. Unless one didn't know his/her status on time or failed to take his/her medication. HIV is no longer a death sentence as such.

Well thats lagos for you, everything on the Island is twice its cost.

Amazing stuff. I read this thread from page one to this present page. Phewwwwwwwwwwww! Thank God. Thanks to everyone who helped, donated, prayed, drummed up support, visited, liked and commented on this thread. Wow!

@deeptesting let go of these dogs! Oh well there must have been a good reason cos he loved them.

They also appear happy with you at op so that's great. I'm happy he gave them out together. I used to follow his initial thread until it fizzled out. I will continue to follow this whenever I can. Well done everyone

HungerBAD:
What is Negative here?

Still don't understand her narrative. Some one jumped in front of a fully armed police man, challenging him that he had been pushed, and wanted some sort of apology from the police.

Scene 2: Man was dragged into a waiting vehicle for security reasons.

Scene 3: Kate wanted to intercede, which she eventually did and the man was released, so what is she talking about?

Maybe those with more intelligent, can break this story down to the Nursery level, so I can understand.

My advice to Kate Henshaw. You are an actress, and that is where your power stops.

You are not in any position of authority, and do not make the mistake of being well known, to be the same thing as being well liked or respected.

You have done a nice thing by interceding, so keep it moving and don't go to your page to write as if, the RED carpet should be rolled out for you because, you are Kate Henshaw.

What are you on about?

Guys be careful for today

muh4eva:
And if the subject z gat no encouragement anywhere he/she can decide to kill him/her self..... Pele o the one that could comprehend english.... Ain't nothing, I repeat ain't nothing can justify a man taking his life, even when the whole world doesn't encourage him.

I quite agree with you but when one is suicidal, most times they are not thinking straight.

@mathschic, why didn't you simply state the name of the school. At least you were there gan and you saw with your eyes.

dearpreye:
Not at all. That would have meant disaster. Hahha.

Thanks for commenting. God bless.

Nah, thanks for sharing. Perhaps you can share (without going into so much detail) how you were able to overcome the stares, whispering, snide remarks et al during the aftermath of that incident. So many folks are going through dark times and the most trying time is when the heat is the hottest or when they are all alone and the worrying thoughts come again.

muh4eva:
People had gone througj what could be termed as more than worst but they still held on, stayed calm.... Errbody is gat a story to tell... Big men today z gat some hell of a story. I have had people who told me their story amd I was like I had been through noting but they still held on and they later made it.... Nobody z gat the right to take his/her life no matter how hard the situation. Victor Moses of super eagle is an example......

You guys are not getting it. Op does NOT support suicide but he is stating where one does, we can show empathy instead of raining abuses on the victim. He is saying a suicidal person is mentally disturbed. If you ever met someone like that, don't dismiss them or curse them out. They are frail in that state, so show them love.

Op is not saying the student did the right thing or that suicide is good. Please go back and read his post again.

Some folks must have struggled with their English comprehension.

@dearpreye, God bless you for this timely message.
PS: hope your job was not affected?

Rukemi291:
I work with a very wonderful organization and as my job demands, one of my very crucial academic meetings is always held outside Nigeria.

I am also married with a 1yr 11 month old son and pregnant (few weeks gone).... My husband works and lives in a town that is 4hours away from Lagos where I work.

The need for a house help arose when morning sickness started. So I told a lot of people in the office that I needed a girl. Luckily one of the staff told me she could help me send down her half sister who is 15years old and her mum can no longer carter for because they are poor. She said she's also with the girl's elder sister.

I spoke with the girl's mum, she was so excited and prayed for me and all she requested was for her girl to go to school. I promised her that the girl would go to school. The girl was brought to me on 19th October.

So I went in search of a school and I was lucky she was admited into a Lagos State Government School that is close by. The principal said that it was late actually but she doesn't want the girl to be idle at home, so she could resume immediately but her academic session would be from January. I paid all d fees and got her two sets of uniform. She started school early this month.

My son has also started school, so she drops him in school and picks him up when she's back too.

Fast forward to this time, d official assignment that would take me away from the country was close. I couldn't risk leaving her in Lagos with my super active toddler for almost two weeks that I would be away. I had to take them to my husband.

Early on Thursday, 19th, I received a call that my girl had left home with her belongings and she left a note that she was angry with me that I did not let her go to school and that if not that she loved my son ehn.....

My husband's job is a shift- based job and he was on night duty to be back home by 8am the morning she left.

A neighbour called my husband who was at work that the girl took my son to them very early in d morning that we sent her on an errand and that they should borrow her N500. They took my son from her and told her to wait for my husband to return. They said they did not know when she left.

The girl scattered the whole house took all the pieces of meat in d pot, the juice packs at home. I Knew she wouldn't get money, my husband isn't as careless.

My husband spoke with her mum that didn't sound surprised and all she said was that she would scold her when the girl comes home. Yes, d girl is home now.

I was devastated and destabilized for two days. I never ever maltreated this girl. My conscience is as clear as a gallon of distilled water.

Well, my son is now with my mum.

My mum also spoke with her mum that the girl said neighbors were calling her omo-odo (house girl). She left the 6th day she got there. We stay in a compound of 5 flats where everyone minds his business. So who called her a house-girl.

I think the mistake we made was that we got her a phone and even loaded the phone. My husband said he noticed she was always calling someone and he once heard her telling the receiver the address of where she was.

I really wish to visit her mum when I return and I hope to see her and ask her questions.

I really appreciate my family for staying with me throughout this period and I'm glad I'm not hypertensive maybe I'd have lost this pregnancy. And I thank God most that she didn't hurt my son because I never hurt her.

Well, it's all good. Life goes on.

I am not trying to discourage people from getting house helps....

Jesus Christ! It is well o! Thank God your boy was safe and well. But you tried sha leaving househelp with your husband. Hmm! Working mothers, it is never easy. God is your muscle.

Pay her no heed. Anytime she talks just say "okay". Don't get anyone pregnant just to satisfy parents. Your turn will come.