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CelebritiesRe: Do She Have Hand In His Death, Jasminechanged Mr Ibu's Tiktok Accounts (video) by Tallesty1(m): 8:14am On Mar 03, 2024
EreluRoz:
I watched her interview with Chude and she debunked all the accusations. According to her she helped the family financially and other ways
You were expecting her to say she did all that?
CelebritiesRe: John Okafor 'Mr Ibu' Is Dead (Photos) by Tallesty1(m): 8:14am On Mar 03, 2024
pocohantas:
Strangely I noticed this thing with some uncles. Their lives were never really the same after the first wife left. Only few still look and act honourably after the wife of their youth leaves them. I hope he puts his house in order before his demise, because the drama from the wife, grown sons and Jasmine is coming.

I would never understand the allure for a divided home, but men and women are different like your brothers say.
I'm not sure why, but it happens.

It's as if the woman took a part of them when she died. They kind of give up and start living life carelessly. Some may not engage in womanizing, but taking care of themselves becomes a problem. Drinking is almost certain.

Not just death, even divorce.

Maybe we're not as strong as we claim to be.

Also, there's a certain age when a man will receive breakfast from the woman he loves and wants to marry, and it's almost certain that he will marry/date rubbish whenever he decides to try again
Christianity EtcRe: Post deleted by Tallesty1(m): 8:06am On Mar 03, 2024
The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit.
1 Cor 2:14
CelebritiesRe: Do She Have Hand In His Death, Jasminechanged Mr Ibu's Tiktok Accounts (video) by Tallesty1(m): 8:01am On Mar 03, 2024
EreluRoz:
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There are even speculations that he and his son were having an affair with jasmine. But above all my his soul rest in peace She denied everything few days ago, only God knows the truth. She may actually be innocent of all those allegations
People know the truth also
CelebritiesRe: John Okafor 'Mr Ibu' Is Dead (Photos) by Tallesty1(m): 7:56am On Mar 03, 2024
pocohantas:
Picked which right women? What won't you guys put on women, Jaxxy? Is the iPhone seeking wife his first? What happened to the wife of his youth? Or is it the numerous ladies he carries upandan? Or the Jasmine? Or drinking? Did the wife tell him to drink like that? Even the 2nd wife tried her best. But when they tell you men to stay one place, una go say "men cheat without emotions". "Men and women are different".

This is about the lifestyle many of you live forgetting the human body doesn't know your male privilege. It would shutdown when abused. Anyway, I like that reality is there for everyone. RIP to him.
I blame the first wife for all of this.

When a man loses his first wife, he resorts to drinking, womanizing, etc.

She is 100% responsible for everything that happened to him.

My house shares a fence with an army barracks, just in case you decide to come and beat me.
FoodRe: See The Food I Bought For ₦2,800 by Tallesty1(m): 2:01am On Mar 03, 2024
folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Thunder fire you there.

Christianity EtcRe: "If You Catch Your Wife Cheating & Forgive Her, Her Respect For You Will Go" by Tallesty1(m): 9:20am On Mar 02, 2024
pocohantas:
Works both ways. Men do not respect the wives they cheat on too and they only become more brazen with each forgiveness. Recently ee are seeing a high rate of separation and divorce over the same things our mothers endured. It wouldn't stop until everyone fixes up.
They will soon tell you that men and women cheat differently.

Just wait
FashionRe: Why Do Men's And Women's Shirts Button Differently? by Tallesty1(m): 9:11am On Mar 02, 2024
The people that notice these things sha
RomanceRe: Gambling Is Disastrous, Please Flee From It by Tallesty1(m): 9:08am On Mar 02, 2024
Kenda123:
How ll I have 2 million and not win anybet
Bookie: Goalkeeper to smoke shisha in normal play time?

You: No

Stake: 500k


Injury Time: 5mins

Current Time: 90+4mins

Goalkeeper: .👇

FamilyRe: Which Area Should A Woman Be Contributing To At Home by Tallesty1(m): 8:52am On Mar 02, 2024
pocohantas:
In the real world, most men with working wives do not bear it alone. Except men married to weapons fashioned against them. grin
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True, women have always contributed.

Even in the olden days, women traded farm products, worked on their own small farms, or assisted in men's farms.

But losing respect for your husband because you contribute financially is irrational.

It will never make sense to me.

There are homes where women are the primary providers, yet husbands are respected.

It's not about the money; it's about the woman, the kind of person she is.

So if as a man you cannot seek assistance from your wife because she will disrespect you, then you married rubbish.
FamilyRe: Which Area Should A Woman Be Contributing To At Home by Tallesty1(m): 8:32am On Mar 02, 2024
pocohantas:
Realistically, you would always be loved and respected for something. It is what it is.
Interesting.

I am not of the opinion that couples should sit down and calculate who should do this and that, but in marriages where both are gainfully employed, I see no reason why a man should bear the financial responsibility alone. This marriage is a union formed by two people who are determined to make things work. Once one person is taking care of one thing, the other person should look for another thing and get it working.

You can't dump the financial responsibility; men's mental health matters.
FamilyRe: Which Area Should A Woman Be Contributing To At Home by Tallesty1(m): 8:21am On Mar 02, 2024
pocohantas:
Tbh, I agree with her. I find it stressful sitting to press calculator on issues relating to a "home". But we are in perilous times and thee average home needs to have these discussions and put it in black and white if possible. An intuitive woman should know when and where to come in based on her/their incomes. Some are not, so spelling it out wouldn't be bad.

I think for respect , rent, child delivery fee and school fees should always be handled by the man. She should handle the kids petty bills, snacks for school and gas.

Most women add money anyway. Just not in ways you guys see and appreciate until we are not there. grin
My issue with whole thing
CelebritiesRe: Shocking, Naira_marley Sister Is Pregnant (video) by Tallesty1(m): 7:51am On Mar 02, 2024
ObaKlaz:
I just wonder! Like she's virgin Mary, or she slipped and accidentally fell on the gbola. undecided
Maybe she slipped and fell on erected dick and the dick nutted out of surprise and got her pregnant.


Impossible is nothing
FamilyRe: Which Area Should A Woman Be Contributing To At Home by Tallesty1(m): 7:46am On Mar 02, 2024
EreluRoz:
I dislike men having such mindset, like that sharing bills wareva I detest it as well and as such I reply them in a very silly way.

Two people who are truly into each other won't even remember sharing bills or whatever, the man should be ready to be the financial provider while a wise woman know how to be his back bone codedly.

Men that go into marriage waiting to share bills with a woman always have problems because women are naturally not created to provide, a woman that shares bill with her husband most times loose respect for the man and before you say jerk marriage have broken.

A woman should help all round when needed without being told and not attaching her to a particular responsibility.
In essence, are you saying that a woman's respect for her husband is contingent on his ability to provide? Do you realize how childish that sounds?

And with all due disrespect, the notion of a woman not being given any particular responsibility in marriage is undoubtedly one of the dumbest things I have ever heard, especially coming from someone who has strong opinions on traditional gender roles in marriages
FamilyRe: Which Area Should A Woman Be Contributing To At Home by Tallesty1(m): 7:27am On Mar 02, 2024
EreluRoz:
I personally don't believe in women contributing financially at home however she should help immediately she observed the weight is getting heavier on you without being told.
Buying snacks for kids if you insist on a particular area.
Why?
Christianity EtcRe: "If You Catch Your Wife Cheating & Forgive Her, Her Respect For You Will Go" by Tallesty1(m): 7:01am On Mar 02, 2024
EreluRoz:
Are you talking from experience or just the normal internet slangs?

A cheating woman will be remorseful after being caught and will be ashamed to try such ever again but when a man is caught cheating, he'll be like I Bleep up I should be smarter next time
A cheating woman is gone, she will cheat again and then punish you for being foolish.

Not just cheating, forgiving a woman anything she knows she shouldn't be forgiven will end up in you being punished for being a weak man.
CrimeRe: Police Parade Lawyer Over Alleged Abuse Of 10-Year-Old HouseHelp by Tallesty1(m): 6:56am On Mar 02, 2024
123yes:
Why should some men be wicked to other people's children. Same lawyer will go and defend a client whose daughter face such issue
Kia! People living double faced life. Sycophants every where.
Majority of humans do not hate oppression, they hate being the oppressed.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Soldier's Only Daughter What Should I Do? by Tallesty1(m): 6:53am On Mar 02, 2024
Goalnaldo:
we just started dating not upto a week. It's my desire to date girls between 22-26 but God keeps sending these 19-20 year olds my way.
You confirmed from God that he is the one sending them?
Christianity EtcRe: "If You Catch Your Wife Cheating & Forgive Her, Her Respect For You Will Go" by Tallesty1(m): 6:52am On Mar 02, 2024
EreluRoz:
But women will always be asked to forgive her cheating husband. It's a man's world truly
Forgive her and she will punish you for it later
CelebritiesRe: Shocking, Naira_marley Sister Is Pregnant (video) by Tallesty1(m): 6:49am On Mar 02, 2024
Why is it shocking?
FoodRe: See The Food I Bought For ₦2,800 by Tallesty1(m): 6:48am On Mar 02, 2024
folake4u:
Get thee behind me, Satan. undecided
Phewww.

You look great from behind

Christianity EtcRe: Powerful Spells To Clear Misunderstandings In Your Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 6:47am On Mar 02, 2024
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FoodRe: See The Food I Bought For ₦2,800 by Tallesty1(m): 6:43am On Mar 02, 2024
folake4u:
undecided undecided
You are not getting it.

If you think her food is great.

Then it means you no sabi good food.

Which means you no sabi cook.



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FoodRe: What Food Do You Consider Overhyped In Terms Of Taste? (picture) by Tallesty1(m): 6:41am On Mar 02, 2024
folake4u:
Wo!

Y'all should keep drinking your garri, I rather eat it in eba form.

Which one is king of food? Pounded yam?

Yeah, I like honey.
Yup.

Poundo is the king.

Cool.
FoodRe: See The Food I Bought For ₦2,800 by Tallesty1(m): 6:16am On Mar 02, 2024
folake4u:
Yen yen yen.

Come up with something original.

I'm about to eat Poco's famous Afang soup with swallow.

You still have enough time to beg me to cut small for you oh. wink
Poco is not that great a cook though,

At least not when compared to me.

I challenged her to a cooking competition six times, but she declined each time.

Even told her that she would go with the prize whether she wins or not.

Yet no show.

She later went to a dead thread to concede defeat.

Don't tell her that I said any of this; I promised her to keep it between us.

I am telling you because I believe you can keep secrets.
FoodRe: What Food Do You Consider Overhyped In Terms Of Taste? (picture) by Tallesty1(m): 6:10am On Mar 02, 2024
folake4u:
I kuku Nor dey drink am.

Respect kwa? Make I hear word.

I don't rate it. Other people were mentioning fried rice (which is my fave food by the way) but I didn't attack them because I'm a child of God. kiss
But ordinary garri, you want to come for my head. undecided

You people are having sex? (Does sign of the cross). tongue
Food and sex are different issues sha.

I don't eat/like amala, fufu, wheat, semovita. I eat eba and pounded yam.
Nwa Chineke indeed.

Not talking about food in general, just garri. They are not the same, but the hunger for both is alike. Also, the feeling you get when you have garri mixed in cold water with milk/honey, sugar, coconut, etc. in your mouth is orgasmic. nof said.

You like the king of food, so you are good.

You like honey much?
FamilyRe: See What I Had As Breakfast Yesterday Morning. by Tallesty1(m): 6:03am On Mar 02, 2024
HookUp?
FamilyRe: Missing Fiance Star Michael Ilesanmi Is Seen Being Abused By Wife Angela Deem by Tallesty1(m): 11:14pm On Mar 01, 2024
crackhaus:
This is funny... cheesy

Would this guy take any of this from a Nigerian wife? gringrin
This nothing compared to what some men take from a nigerian wife
FoodRe: What Food Do You Consider Overhyped In Terms Of Taste? (picture) by Tallesty1(m): 1:05pm On Mar 01, 2024
folake4u:
No matter how y'all glorify drinking garri, I'm still not a fan.

How can you compare food to sex? Lol.

Eba ie cool, I don't eat it always though. I seldom eat swallow.
No drink.

Just give it some respect. grin grin grin grin grin

Like not mentioning it in a thread like this, even though you don't rate it.

I know I shouldn't have; garri is way better, but sex is the closest thing that I could compare it to, not just sex though; only good ones.

You rarely eat swallow? Like all types of swallow?
RomanceRe: Guys Can You Drink Garrrrri In Front Of Fine Female? by Tallesty1(m): 9:51am On Mar 01, 2024
Spagi:
Why not i dont have to prove myself to anybody.garri, coldwater, milk,peanut,oh la la. STOP PLAYING
Man wey sabi
FoodRe: What Food Do You Consider Overhyped In Terms Of Taste? (picture) by Tallesty1(m): 9:48am On Mar 01, 2024
folake4u:
I can eat eba. I am not just a fan of drinking garri.

You don't like assorted too?

National holiday bawo? Mtcheww. undecided

Good morning to you too. kiss
Garri with milk, sugar, kuli kuli, or coconut and chilled water after a hot day in the sun is better than good a sex.

Eba is not my thing, but I still respect it because it is made from garri.

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