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Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Ask Their Women For Money When They Are Broke?� by TheGift: 2:48pm On Aug 01, 2023

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most men like to show they are financially stable all the time but Why do they find it difficult to ask their women for money when they are broke?💞😍💘💔💓❤️💋

Because he is the kind of guy that thinks the only way he can get and keep a woman is by Money, and he was probably living a fake life with Her before they married.

Because the two have not become one

Because the Man sense of self worth and identity is too tied to his capacity to provide.

Because he is generally not open with His Wife

Because He sees His Wife as competition to be subdued and cannot come to terms with receiving help from His subduee.

Because, like many men, His wife is not really their life partner. Otherwise what good is a partner that you can tell you are broke?

Me if I am broke I ask my Wife, because if I am not , nobody needs to ask me. Just make sure that if it's a loan you pay Her back.

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Education › Re: Ugandan Magistrate Caught Disguising As Woman To Write Law Exams For Girlfriend by TheGift: 8:09am On Aug 01, 2023

What a disgrace to the Ugandan judicial and legal education system.

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Politics › Re: Transcript Of President Tinubu's Speech On The Current Economic Challenges by TheGift: 9:37pm On Jul 31, 2023

ogododo:
https://dailytrust.com/full-speech-tinubus-speech-on-current-economic-challenges/

Can someone please summarize? Cos just as I did not care to watch the speech , I do not care to read it.

Celebrities › Re: Davido Replies Troll Who Questioned When He Plans To Sell Out An 80,000 Capacity by TheGift: 9:35pm On Jul 31, 2023

Nairaland can be soo late with the news sometimes. This news is like a day old or more.

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Politics › Re: US Throws Weight Behind ECOWAS And President Tinubu On Niger by TheGift: 6:27pm On Jul 31, 2023

Benjaniblinks:
Let the west get involve let's see Na.
They're only better of fighting Iraq and Libya.

Let Putin fire a nuclear weapon, let's see. Keep on ignoring the fact that Putin is struggling to Win the war even as He is creating more internal wars at home.

And I guess if you are given the option to relocate to either Russia or a country in the west, you will gladly choose to go to Russia.

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Politics › Re: US Throws Weight Behind ECOWAS And President Tinubu On Niger by TheGift: 3:17pm On Jul 31, 2023

Benjaniblinks:

Just the same way they backed Ukraine and now part of it we is in rubbles.

What you are failing to see is that that Part of Ukraine would have been much worse than Rubbles but for the backing of US.

Don't also ignore the fact that the west has not gotten directly involved and Ukraine has mostly played defense.

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Travel › Re: Don't Come To The UK If You Are Guilty Of These 10 Things by TheGift: 3:14pm On Jul 31, 2023

Mindlog:
Did you bother to read my other posts after it?

No I did not. Maybe it would have helped if you captured your fully formed thoughts in that one post.

Or Maybe you care to share here, as I honestly don't have the time or obligation to read every single post written by a poster whose one post I commented on.

Travel › Re: Don't Come To The UK If You Are Guilty Of These 10 Things by TheGift: 9:23am On Jul 31, 2023

Mindlog:
You think you just show up and be allowed to look after teenagers in the UK without being skilled or you think, it is Nigeria you pick up any random person to look after minors?

Exactly what I was thinking when I saw that comment.

Travel › Re: Don't Come To The UK If You Are Guilty Of These 10 Things by TheGift: 9:03am On Jul 31, 2023

Mindlog:
There are some 12 hours jobs from 8p.m to 8a.m, that entails you to just be awake throughout the night while the teenager being looked after is in his/her room, on their phones or playing video games until he/she goes to bed while you are downstairs in the sitting room watching Netflix and sipping coffee or tea as they just want an adult who would be awake throughout the night, making sure the young person do not run away during the night as you would have the house keys on you after having locked doors that leads outside of the house, complete the expected paperwork of how of the shift is going and getting paid £12.70 per hour.

You make it sound so easy, leaving Naija to go and look after teenage kids while spending your time watching Netflix, not even learning new skills. Are you speaking from experience or imagination??

Family › Re: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by TheGift: 1:58pm On Jul 30, 2023

So sorry to hear about this. Especially as you have been trying all by yourself.

I don't have any advise for you now beyond not giving up on a brighter tomorrow for you, your children and even your husband wether he remains so or not.

I pray for wisdom guidance and break through very soon.

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Romance › Re: What Advice Do You Have For A 35 Year Old With No Job, No Skill, No Wife . by TheGift: 11:43am On Jul 29, 2023

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

My simple advice is that He should learn a skill, so that He can get a job before he gets wife.

If he wants more, he needs to reach me directly.

Family › Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by TheGift: 9:53am On Jul 29, 2023

You are referring to fake men who don't appreciate the privilege and responsibility of Fatherhood.

Regardless of ones relationship with their mother, a Man's children remain His children. And "he that doesn't take care of His own household is worse than an infidel."

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Politics › Re: Subsidy Removal: You’ve Endured, Persevere A Little More, Tinubu Tells Nigerians by TheGift: 2:23pm On Jul 28, 2023

Voltage7:

You’ve Endured, Persevere A Little Bit More, Means; You’ve Endured Shege, Persevere A Little Bit More for Banza.

Meanwhile 👇

No clear plan for ending the endurance

No timeline for how long to endure

No apparent willingness on the part of the political elite to also endure.

Just endure 😣

Politics › Re: Ministerial List: New Ministries May Be Created – Gbajabiamila by TheGift: 7:58am On Jul 28, 2023

IconicR:
Asiwaju can never go wrong in my eyes. He mean business and he's very ready to save Nigeria from the mess Jonathan and Buhari created, may God be with him.

Thanks for letting us know that you are biased. And are willing to call black as white, for the sake of Asiwaju.

Politics › Re: What Is Your Level Of Confidence In The Nigerian Court System? - Tribune by TheGift: 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2023

nairalandkachy1:
Just an answer ...

https://twitter.com/nigeriantribune/status/1684203263027998724?t=jk1KkL8F360yOkh8uDEmYw&s=19[/quote]Neutral with leanings to the low side.

Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by TheGift: 3:13pm On Jul 26, 2023

talented321:
The kind things some men dey think sef'' wetin concern my father concern my precious kid. Your father did mistake u don't like fine, now it is left for u correct those mistakes in ur time. Oga stop been too emotional abeg
Use whatever name u like it is ur son.

Yes, this is all that is required. It will be stated on His birth certificate that you- with your official names- are the Father.
If you ever need to change your own surname name, you don't need to alter anything on the birth certificate.

Meanwhile, don't let anger or hate eat you up.

We truly become adults when we are able to forgive the sins of our fathers and move
On with our own lives with greater wisdom.

All the best.

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TV/Movies › Re: Doyin To Ceec: I Never Liked You In Your Season, But Now Understand How It Feels by TheGift: 3:08pm On Jul 26, 2023

Tolu181:
FTC
i dedicate it to my igbo brothers
may they be above every tribe looking down on them

Stupid bigoted prayer. Bragging over something you have o control over.

You are not even talking about being above every race in the world, you are here dragging tribe.

Which god will answer? Amadioha ??

Family › Re: Why Do Nigerians See Relocating Back To The Village As Failure by TheGift: 6:35pm On Jul 25, 2023

SmartPolician:
This is FALSE. Just a few of them move down to their countryside because doing so means cutting one off from opportunities.

That's what Internet and private jets are for. The really rich don't have to hustle like that.

And even for those based in the city, many go closer to nature when they want to take a break.

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Family › Re: Why Do Nigerians See Relocating Back To The Village As Failure by TheGift: 4:08pm On Jul 25, 2023

PatEinstEin:
Most Nigerians especially Igbos see the idea of moving back to their hometown as a defeat. If the City (for instance Lagos) becomes very difficult, I don't see anything wrong in relocating. There are people there afterall.

What are your thoughts on this?

Meanwhile rich people in other climes relocate from the city to the country side- I.e village.

Maybe it's colonial mentality that is doing us.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Inmates Hold Guards Hostage In Ecuador’s Five Prisons by TheGift: 4:05pm On Jul 25, 2023

HonNL:
SOURCE

k

How does someone choose to be a guard in an Ecuadorian prison? When Ecuador has some of the most dangerous prisons in the world? How much do they get paid huh

Is it worth it huh

Car Talk › Re: Break Failure Experience ( Pix ) by TheGift: 4:02pm On Jul 25, 2023

Yes. About 10 years ago. While driving from Lagos to Abeokuta. Luckily the stretch of the road was free and I was able to maneuver to the side before I engaged the hand brake and let the car finally come to a stop.

Politics › Re: 'You Have Done Well': Political Parties Commend Yakubu, INEC On BVAS, Irev by TheGift: 8:44am On Jul 25, 2023

johnjose68:
Save your insult for Reno:

See Reno's reply for you here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7775280/reno-omokri-slams-peter-obi

Where is the insult in what I said?

Until I know that you know the difference between an insult and a credible allegation. I am not reading any link, especially from Reno with his mouth Diarrhea.

Politics › Re: 'You Have Done Well': Political Parties Commend Yakubu, INEC On BVAS, Irev by TheGift: 10:24pm On Jul 24, 2023

johnjose68:
I.pob, over to you.
But remember (to help your emotional outburst and cry cry baby-ism), Obi was not even validly nominated as a candidate in the elections as he was not a member of the LP as at the time the primary was conducted, which means his case will be like: https://www.nairaland.com/7776443/tribunal-sacks-lps-ngozi-okolie

Oya...i.pob start wailing

Face your BAT with his more fundamental disqualifications, beginning with fake certificates, fake career history, fraud and drug related indictments and a most illegitimate electoral victory, thanks to the incompetent and apparently biased INEC chair.

Politics › Re: 'You Have Done Well': Political Parties Commend Yakubu, INEC On BVAS, Irev by TheGift: 10:19pm On Jul 24, 2023

chisomkachy:
https://www.thecable.ng/chairmen-of-political-parties-commend-inec-over-use-of-bvas-irev-in-elections/amp

Which political parties, PDP, LP, ANPP or some mushroom parties that didn't garner up to 50,000 votes in any election huh

? Jokers.

Any party so quick to conclude when qualified judges are still sitting on the matter is very likely a biased. compromised and joking party.

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 3:26pm On Jul 24, 2023

GeneralPula:
Stop playing yourself..

Their was no Lekki killings!

I gave you a link from Guardian, you are sending me a fake news link from a no-name news site, just cos it suits your narrative. Na wa for you ooo!

Politics › Re: My Colleagues Use Their Knowledge To Defend Electoral Frauds - Okutepa SAN by TheGift: 3:07pm On Jul 24, 2023

TemplarLandry:
This mushroom lawyer should go sit down.
Business is business.

What makes Him a mushroom lawyer? Because he does not support His fellow SANs using their knowledge for injustice?

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 12:04pm On Jul 24, 2023

GeneralPula:
Stop playing yourself..

Their was no Lekki killings!

So what was Sanwo talking about immediately following the events of 10.20.20 ?

I have heard directly from medical personnel that were on duty that very night , so YOU , STOP Playing yourself !!!

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 10:10am On Jul 24, 2023

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 8:50pm On Jul 23, 2023

fergie001:
PREVIOUS THREAD:
https://www.nairaland.com/7774989/sanwo-olu-approves-mass-burial-103#124600473

https://guardian.ng/news/sanwo-olu-blames-forces-beyond-direct-control-for-lekki-killings/

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 8:49pm On Jul 23, 2023

cliqtips:
This one no sabi read to understand ni ...

Abi kini kati kati yi nor

Was ile ne fe ni nit ?

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 8:44pm On Jul 23, 2023

Reptyle:
Read the response of the government for crissakes!!!!!

YOU, read the initial response of the government for your sake here: https://guardian.ng/news/sanwo-olu-blames-forces-beyond-direct-control-for-lekki-killings/

Politics › Re: Re: Sanwo-Olu Approves Mass Burial For 103 EndSARS Victims - Lagos State Govt by TheGift: 8:41pm On Jul 23, 2023

cliqtips:
I guess you know better than your governor then... clown.

.
All of you will be sounding "woke" on the internet whereas in real life you can't think straight.

I guess you too know better than the governor Sanwo that said - dark forces beyond his direct control did the deed.

Keep lying to yourself in the face of truth:

https://guardian.ng/news/sanwo-olu-blames-forces-beyond-direct-control-for-lekki-killings/

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