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People be like, what a beauty to behold. Oh really. With the make up and high def picture she is still not looking that grt and she is not 21 probably 26

This is the type of content I like to see.

Its better to be a owl in some country.

Magnoliaa:
theButterfly?

I have a problem kneeling. Only kneel before The Lord my God.

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

She will not, she will be happy, the man will love her becouse she proved that he is special, something that most of you lack and why you will probably die alone. Mtchewee

lavylilly:
REASONS WHY GIRLS SNUB GUYS -
1...You are seeing her name on top with her profile pic and u are still asking her what's her name

2... Always asking her if we can see, as if she opened her facebook account for you to see her

3... U asked how are you , she said fine , you are still asking about her day ,if her day was bad she wouldn't have said she was fine...stop asking too much unnecessary questions in the name of being romantic ;

4... She know she's pretty, stop reminding her about that

5. you meet a girl online all you care about is her big butt, hip and breast...those are the only thing you tell her about herself. And you're already thinking and planning how to have sex with her... Bro why won't she snub you?

6... You said you love her no problem, she asked u for airtime, voom u went offline � and u expect her to reply
ur message again

7... Stop asking her if she have a bf, go to her timeline and read her bio

8... Asking her to send you her pics, bro go check her mobile uploads. Her pics are there

9... Guys don't respect girls, you meet a girl and the first thing you're asking her for is her nude, or sexy pictures and you're already telling her you're Hot. Does she look like a prostitute?. Guys respect yourself for once...

Women still think they are the price.

uromii:
Actually lost my husband who traveled to Finland since 2016 , I have not heard from him since then. some people said he was implicated in a crime, its so complicated. please help me if you can. Acess 0807 344 826. I have to use my son's acct no, because mine have not been functional for long. God bless you

Hehe wow, you guys don't even try anymore.

uromii:
Please if you are reading this post do not just read and pass a sister and single mother is on her knees in dire need of your help.
I am a single mother of two working at private secondary school as secretary and teacher . For the past four months life has been unbearable for me and my two kids, no salary not even good food, you need to see how hungry looking the are now, a close mouth is a close destiny I have to drop shame aside.
This morning my landlord summoned me with so much anger in him threatened that he is going to throw out my properties this coming week that he wouldn't accept anymore pleas from me that he needs money to fix things. My yearly rent payment has been due since January which normally I pay twice a year (six months two room apartment). I learnt his wife has told him to kick me out and his serious about it.
Please am on my knees begging every kind hearted nairalander of this great forum, no matter how small it is, at the least let just present something to him then I will try my best for subsequent ones. I have no other option right if he should carry out his threat than to move to the village and that will derail the destiny of this promising kids God has giving to me. I am begging please. You can help me through this acct no access Bnk 0807 344 826. May the Almighty God shield,bless and favour you richly as the week proceeds.

Lost me at single mother.

Again, make up and a HD camara. I don't know abt the beauty. Unless artificial beauty is beauty. There is nothing to be happy abt birthdays. They are a count down

Unfortunately women don't operate on that level. You are trying to make sense.

Translation : Don't get involved and wipe my boys out.

In my situation, she is dead. Just walking now on borrowed time cus am still in the hospital.

Emary:
What a joke!
Mentally unstable President Kanye West and First Lady and ex-IndecentStar Kim Kardashian. If he really wanted positive change, he'd throw his weight and wealth behind a stronger candidate and stop borrowing from President Humpty Dumpty's script.

And thought nothing can make laugh today

Women with make up. They know they can not show their real face. They hate themselfs when they look in the mirror. They know deep down, they are not worth it.

bimtee2001:
I read a lot of the replies here with amusement and surprise. Most of the married men don't understand the psychological make up of a woman while most of the women either do not understand themselves or have made up their minds to endure marriage rather than enjoy it.
My understanding of a man from my study is that he gets turned on easily sometimes against his will; it's natural but for the woman to be turned on she has to be completely involved emotionally, physically, I mean it's not just a spontaneous reaction for her. That's why she'll not cooperate when she's worried,sad, angry,etc.
Most of our mothers did us no good by preparing us wrongly or not preparing us at all for the sexual aspect of marriage. That's some women view sex as a man thing. If your wife belongs to this group you are in trouble because she'll only be there while you do the work. I tell it'll be laborious to say the least.
Some or most women had been taught consciously or otherwise that men cannot be relied on thus your children are your husbands. Husbands to these women will definitely be abandoned as soon as children start coming into the union: the children have all the love their fathers should get then the man becomes miserable.
There are more reasons but it's of utmost importance to discuss sex in your courtship, learn as much as possible about sex. Learn more about women and marriage particularly if you are a Christian or you don't want to cheat your partner as a responsible man or woman.
I read the comment of someone who is considering leaving his virgin fiancee to that I want to say authorizatively that virginity has little or nothing to do with a woman's response to sex after marriage. Her mindset about sex and the way you introduce her to sex and sex to her is what will determine what happens to your sexual lives after marriage.
I am a christian and an advocate of no sex before marriage, married as a virgin having learnt a lot about sex in marriage and sexuality of both men and women, I'm enjoying my sex life giving and receiving as the need arises. I'm not just married; my kids are all grown up.
It's wrong I must say for women to use sex as a means of getting what you want as a woman,if you do, it's like you are reducing your own value.

interesting!

4ckz:
He spoke highly of her, in his words, the wife is a "good" woman. I don't think he ever wants to part ways with her.
He even said he will not keep a relationship with any lady again, reason he choose the ashawo life.

Not good. Manipulative!

goldensoul55:
Cheap excuse to cheat .


He should keep making excused untill he gets infected with HIV/AIDS in

Not blaming the wife here ok. Is that or be a slave.

Why the fvck is the man not chasing away the woman or marrying another one. At least that's what I ll do.

Probably best for everyone. The wife should not use sex to manupulate men when sex can be gotten everywhere.

StillWiz:
God help my country

No lies detected

bukatyne:
Humility and high self-esteem are mutually exclusive. Infact, humility is a sign of a high self-esteem.

Often times, we mistake humility for timidity or fearfulness.

High self-esteem is a healthy subjective evaluation of one's worth. How do you see yourself? It is also not to be confused wit delusion or self-deceit.
Some markers are:
1. Firmly believe in certain values and principles, and are ready to defend them even when finding opposition, feeling secure enough to modify them in light of experience.
2. Are able to act according to what they think to be the best choice, trusting their own judgment, and not feeling guilty when others do not like their choice.
3. Do not lose time worrying excessively about what happened in the past, nor about what could happen in the future. They learn from the past and plan for the future, but live in the present intensely.
4. Fully trust in their capacity to solve problems, not hesitating after failures and difficulties. They ask others for help when they need it.
5. Consider themselves equal in dignity to others, rather than inferior or superior, while accepting differences in certain talents, personal prestige or financial standing.
6. Understand how they are an interesting and valuable person for others, at least for those with whom they have a friendship.
7. Resist manipulation, collaborate with others only if it seems appropriate and convenient.
8. Admit and accept different internal feelings and drives, either positive or negative, revealing those drives to others only when they choose.
9. Are able to enjoy a great variety of activities.
10. Are sensitive to feelings and needs of others; respect generally accepted social rules, and claim no right or desire to prosper at others' expense.
11. Can work toward finding solutions and voice discontent without belittling themselves or others when challenges arise.
Culled from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-esteem

Humility can be seen as the absence of pride and arrogance; putting others before yourself; taking care of others; not drawing attention to yourself.

** I learnt something responding to you; Wikipedia had to treat humility in a religious context because it is mainstream defined as low self-esteem which is wrong (at least in the religious sense )

Look at this for examples of humility. Some concepts are easier to explain than define. https://examples.yourdictionary.com/examples-of-humility.html

I get what you are saying but if you cross the line, be sure that I will check you. am not humble like that.

bukatyne:
Marry a high self-esteemed humble man. I did not say a walkover or a man suffering from low self esteem.

If you earn less than him today, you can out earn him tomorrow except you work hard NOT to out earn him.

A man with high self esteem that is humble. How dose that work?

Am thinking the whole country is infected at this point.

Ayantoyeopeyem:
@OP Are u a Male of Female? too many kids on dis forum. U most have used ur gender to confused many. Grow up boy

Am curious, grow up cus he just advice men to develop themselves or grow up becouse he just realized that women will loose their sexual value and men will gain sexual value with age and success.

Women are not all that. And Men know now. Can't take bullshit behavior from you. Treat men nice or they go simple

Onyi22:
Only the useless broke guys that don't have money will like this post....
I can't even date a guy that can't take care of me

Hehe, its not ending well. First the wall is coming. Second even if you find thid guy and end up with him. You will run the family to the ground.

And women are surprised when men sleep with them and leave them. In her logic. Stay here and keep spending loosing your money. You did right man. I STAN

Petyprincess:
You are obviously still pained hence you brought it here! If most people that preaches online practice what they say it would have been better,bt stupid guys will take them serious nd even destroy their relationship because of what someone posted online,shior.
You d be surprised Reno is practising opposite of what he preaches

Don't matter! Massage is, Men are not retirement plan. Fvcking make your own money and stop leaching.

OriOko88:
Stupidy is now your shadow, its following you everywhere, so stupidity is your legacy!

Really can not take what comes from you seriously.

chatinent:
When will people realize age is but a number?

Age is not a number, aged women will find it hard to bear children and chances are they won't give birth to healthy babies

ollie86:
My wife is 4 yrs older than me. We're happily married for 11 yrs and still counting.

Hehehe
damn! Hope this is a lie

OriOko88:
So because d lady is older now, d man should gv her due respect abi See no matter d age difference, a man will always be d head, even if the woman is twice his age, the natural leadership acumen of the man, would still Mk him control over d woman. Man is naturally ordained to be d head no matter d age, so don't try to twist the status quo!

Confuse Simp

Atteraino:
me self my Babe senior me for 3years oh. I be 27 my Babe na 30+...

Modified: Why is the lady trying to withdraw from the relationship, is she not in love with him again... Sometimes we guys, we just talk anyhow... May be the guy never meant what he said cause he was thinking he is her senior

SIMP

Onyi22:
Apple phone any day, anytime.
The rest brand are for broke ass guys

Smh. You bought a phone just bcouse you don't want look broke?