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mysticgal:
I am been sincere here

I believe you

Boyooosa:
Show me a lady that loves this then I ll go for her

lol!

mranova:
To add to that, you could also get married in church on a sunday during church service.

Wow!...so smart

SamOgasco:
To be sincere, are you married yet? if 'no' would you ever accept that from your man to be just like that as said by you above?

No mind am..na joke!

Did I just view this thread? Gosh!
*walks out*

lexxwiz:
@op not bad... Not bad at all.
The ultimate question though should be "is he/she really ready?" I remember my wedding, I did both my trad&church same day. Wife wanted big though but stood my grounds. Summary is, we were both ready to become one. Cause trust me, once the both parties are ready, financial, recession or whatever can't stop them.. Some cases, they elope. So!!! Finance is an excuse for the weak/not ready category.
Meanwhile I stumbled on this hilarious picture.

I really don't see any biggy in tieing the nuptial knot in a low key way and saving up for the big one.

Even omotola jalade said this about her wedding and I quote
"We did the court wedding in 1996 and the traditional in 2001 after we had had three kids."

Nigerian ladies should really tow this line if huge funds are not available ...it makes no sense spending all you have or getting into debt because of a grand wedding.

INTROVERT:
Laughs in swahili.

Small pickin romance...
That lady just succeeded in denting her image for life.

chayoski:
Whenever I just see a thread by Toks2008 gbam I'm on it nd it never disappoints always on point, though sometimes with plenty grammar that I always have to involve m dictionary. Nice write up! The part I don't understand is why humans can't be humans! You don't concur with a write-up, then just pass or just state your opinion rather than giving a destructive criticism(not referring to this thread though)

I'm humbled bro.

Thanks

rheether:
Should I propose to my boyfriend? its taking forever jhooor.

Lol! Abeg no let am waste your time o.

Lalasticlala I believe this is good enough for a wider view.

lol! to think that this is a pics of my inlaw...they wedded few months back. Happy married life to Mr and mrs Abimbola

DanielGb:
Its a well established scheme no doubt. well networked. however, I have some questions:

1. a member who can participate for free. Will he/she still have to bring another three new giver into the network? Explain what you mean by participation for free.

2. both 3€ and 1€. What are they for? monthly bonus or weekly bonus? Elucidate

A good thing I'm still awake to see this mention so let me explain further.

This is not a buy and sell system but is based on rendering help to people by voluntarily donating €54 which is 27k nara at 500naira to 1euro flat rate.

1.The first step is to get a form number or actual form from a registered member.

2.You will give that person who enrolled you a naira equivalent of €18 which is 9naira.

3.Go to and click on enroll online and follow the simple process where you will donate €25 to 7people where 5 people get €3 at peace and 1 person gets €10. You will send €11 to the German firm and that's all

4.You will now get 3 forms which you will use to refer people and for each person you refer you get 9000naira instantly so when you sign up 3 friends from anywhere in the world you would have gotten back your donated sum of €54.

Relax and earn deposits of 3 and 10€ which keeps coming and coming.

Omo my eyes are heavy..we discuss more tomorrow pal...good nite

fullofregrets:
my dear , you are right ,
we learn everyday ,
sometimes in just a hard way ,
I just wish he can give me chance to make things right again , but he refused to hear my pleas, he said he's fed up , and ready to find another girl , and impregnate her , well I can only wish him luck , am not bad either , God will surely send my own husband and children my way , I moved on already ,

I once created a thread that love does not exist and i get justified each day.

I am not patting you on the head for having an abortion in the past but if the guy truly desires you, he won't break up with you cos of this.

forlahkhe:
Anytime i have disagreement with my husband, he would always tell me that "I WL GO OUTSIDE, PLENTY BABES DEY OUTSIDE DAT NEED MEN AND I WONT EVEN SPEND MUCH B4 THEY OPEN THEIR LEGS". I always feel hurt by this statement because I believe that we should BOTH be committed to make our home work. If i wont go out there to look for men why should he?

My marriage is just 2yyears but i have never enjoyed 1month happiness. My hubby would prefer to stay late @work because he doesn't want our baby to disturb him with cry cry. I'm a sit @home mum, I resigned my marketing job because I want to have time for my baby but now my husband would not give me money anytime we have misunderstanding, not even for my baby too.

I have called his parents' attention to this but his people call me "ABOKOKU". That because he is married to me doesnt mean he should not enjoy himself, afterall, there are times someone is tired of eating rice and you would want to taste beans and other varieties. His father (57yrs) still has concubines which his mum can't do anything about. But the truth is that this thing is wearing me out emotionally.

I AM MARRIED BT LONELY

This is the reason why I create the threads on my naira land wall so go read them and you will find succor.

https://www.nairaland.com/3336311/every-lady-wants-experience-happy

forlahkhe:
Anytime i have disagreement with my husband, he would always tell me that "I WL GO OUTSIDE, PLENTY BABES DEY OUTSIDE DAT NEED MEN AND I WONT EVEN SPEND MUCH B4 THEY OPEN THEIR LEGS". I always feel hurt by this statement because I believe that we should BOTH be committed to make our home work. If i wont go out there to look for men why should he?

My marriage is just 2yyears but i have never enjoyed 1month happiness. My hubby would prefer to stay late @work because he doesn't want our baby to disturb him with cry cry. I'm a sit @home mum, I resigned my marketing job because I want to have time for my baby but now my husband would not give me money anytime we have misunderstanding, not even for my baby too.

I have called his parents' attention to this but his people call me "ABOKOKU". That because he is married to me doesnt mean he should not enjoy himself, afterall, there are times someone is tired of eating rice and you would want to taste beans and other varieties. His father (57yrs) still has concubines which his mum can't do anything about. But the truth is that this thing is wearing me out emotionally.

I AM MARRIED BT LONELY

This is the reason why I create the threads on my naira land wall so go read them and you will find succor.

CuteMorriz:
I am not saying ladies raised by single parents are all bad, you may get lucky finding some exceptional ladies raised by single mums. Evidently you seldom find single men raising a child but it's quite prevalent with the opposite sex.

A relation of mine was dating this lady and when the time came for the union to be made official, his parents advised him to discontinue becos after they had made enquiries and investigation they discovered the lady's mother left her husband many years ago over some frivolous reasons. Then I asked my uncle why did he side with family and not allow his son take the bold step then he said:

1. Women raised by single parent (mother) are usually strong willed hence may end up like their mother.

2. A lady who has seen no need for a father will be swift to end a union because she will have the courage to train her children alone afterall she was raised by a mum.

3. How will she get marital advice from her mum when things are tough and you know ladies often run to their mum when they need advice (remember the mother took the easy way out)

4. Sooner or later my son may become a bachelor again...the odd is high and is glaring..

5. A lady who have spent 21 years of her life without a father cannot be psychologically stable even if she appears to be.

6. Ladies raised by single parents did not experience the beautiful and ugly part of the union called marriage from her parents hence they don't have their parents as their role model.

7. Amin (as he fondly calls me) when the baton gets to you, look at the mother of your fiancèe closely because with time she will display those traits you observed in the mother......

Then I asked him what if the lady's father is dead and the mum decided to train her alone?...my uncle said we may also enquire about the untimely death of the father but "Amin that is a topic for another day"......

Makes sense somehow sha..but there are always exceptions.

Originalsly:
In every thread about MMM.... before pg1 complete... an agent would jump in and give explanations and defend the scheme and encourage others to join. Where are they now?...whether the news is true or not? What is for sure is many would now hold back on contributing. ... less contributions means the scheme would have less to pay out... and if this continues the organizers would pull the plug....fly by night.

That is the panic abstinence i just referred to.

switch47:
The referral going on in Nigeria is high that the rate at which MMM is growing in Nigeria based on our population ...... MMM will still survive for 10 more years , those who are wise should key in now and join ..... MMM is not crashing in Nigeria

Unfortunately the crash has just began.

There is what we call panic withdrawal and that is what might hasten the crash.

anigbajumo:
Hian,make I hold on first b4 I go bank coz I just matched with another participant wey I go pay now.I fink it can't crash in Nigeria like that coz of the population factor which influence the rapid growth in investment. It can only crashes if people are no more participate and participants were withdrawing their money.......

Anyway, life itself is a risk.

I will advise the admin of MMM to make it mandatory to refer else it will crash like a pack of cards

Mcowubaba:
Ehhn, just lay it down in simple terms

Will the girls be hawkers, marketers or sales rep?
Will the be in shops/kiosk or will the be moving around?
Will the have target?

And what are accommodation plans, with even 1K a day, the can't get any decent accommodation in Eko City, this is excluding transportation, feeding o

Remember why the are called IDPs (Internally Displaced persons) is because the have been Displaced, their basic requirements should include resettlement (Accommodation)...
Bringing them to Lagos without all this proper logistics, maybe inversely bringing them from one IDPs camp to a redefined IDP settlement again.
In turn, this ladies maybe exploited or also be tempted to open their Female Instruments for survival again....
Making your gesture an Exercise in Futility.

Anyways, Lagos is a land of opportunities, the may probably survive without Exploitation.

I am not in anyway discouraging you, I just want you to look at this issue holistically and critically....

I have vast experience in issues like this, so I'm writing based on first hand experience...

I have all figured out.No hawking and accommodation ready.

DanielGb:
explain more Sir,
maybe this will work.

Here is a screen shot from my members area of the two slots out of about 5 that i have ..meaning i actually made many donations because each donation you make, you stand the chance to earn over 32,000 euro.

Remember what i wrote that it is only open for someone who is willing to network or just interested in rendering a helping hand to the tune of N27.000 or 54euro.

The reason why the system can never ever crash and is over 30 years in operatiuon is because it is not a ponzi where you are asked to do nothing.

If you want to earn effectively then be ready to network at most 3 people who will also donate and you get your donations back and relax to earn euros in naira equivalent deposited directly into your naira account in any bank of your choice.