Romance › Re: How Can I Make Her Mine by Tonyet1(m): 6:02pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
Maybe you werent met to be. U win some U loose some.
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On the second, maybe she could have been a victim of a broken heart and prolly doesnt want to have u compound more troubles to her. Come up as a guy she can have confidence for and if u r really down with her then try talking to her friends about ur feelings its works magic. |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Kunleoshob Deserves A Ban by Tonyet1(m): 12:52pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
So where is your "self-acclaimed spiritual maturity"?
Stop acting childish and do the needful. Apologies is the sign of HUMILITY irrespective of who did who first. all that aint an issue!
Prov 19:11 Good sense makes a man restrain his anger , and it is his glory to overlook an offense. AMP |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 12:46pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
[quote author=tpia. link=topic=402951.msg5586821#msg5586821 date=1267131643]life is a school of hard knocks, dont you think? You cant always force someone to toe a particular path.[/quote] True! but you can profer help/ counsel before lessons are learnt. aint it?[quote author=tpia. link=topic=402951.msg5586821#msg5586821 date=1267131643]and how do you know this isnt my own story you're repeating here btw?[/quote] really? That means i m privilaege to having you around.[quote author=tpia. link=topic=402951.msg5586821#msg5586821 date=1267131643]btw, if the girl is showing all those symptoms you described, she could either be lovesick, pregnant or have an STD. the oath by itself is only as strong as the people who believe in it.[/quote] Okay TP, you made a great point there, the force of Love Infatuation could be really strong that i know. But again, i have heard crazy stories about the blood oath thing.
In reality, i have witnessed cases of insanity amongst folks who got indulged in the shit especially from the females. Her phone's been switched off, all her relatives have been contacted and we were planning on going on air prolly today if she doesnt come back soonest.
God help me.! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 12:34pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
thehomer: If she has been complaining of illness and has barely taken anything of late, has she been taken to hospital?
Taking here to a hospital will be a temporary means of solving the problem. I still think that if she is really ill, let her have a check up before all the attempts at moving her somewhere else. That'll be possible if she were found anywhere. Dont u think so? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kunleoshob Deserves A Ban by Tonyet1(m): 12:27pm On Feb 26, 2010 |
KunleOshob:
 I laugh in nairaland tongues I am even tired of the forum sef. Also I would like to use this opportunity to alert everyone that I am being hounded by CEC plc members on the internet, I keep receiving all sorts of dodgy requests and threats on the internet the source of whom I have been able to trace to characters associated with CEC plc. I am even tempted to believe their intention towards me is not only sinister and evil but probably homicidal cos of the expose I have been doing on their evil trade and scams. I serve this as notice that I would be alerting appropriate authorities as per the threats I have been receving from CEC members traceable to this forum. KunleOshob,
Please be an exemplary christian and apologize to her and stop diverting the thread, you went too far to call someone created after the image of God a "slut" and this aint suppose to be coming from someone like you. 
If you are tired of the forum you can do yourself the good of checking the exit door. No one is indispensible.! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Let's Talk About Faith (''non-wof Believers'') by Tonyet1(m): 5:54pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
KunleOshob: What is this silly slut ranting about  Lil Brother you sure need a little vacation. trust me!
I feel exhaustions in your posts lately  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 5:51pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
[quote author=tpia. link=topic=402951.msg5585062#msg5585062 date=1267113985]the boy will tire of her after a while.
sad, but unfortunately the girl may have to learn facts of life the hard way.[/quote]True talk TP, if she was ur lil'sister would u mean to leave her to face this xperience and prolly learn the hard way? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 5:49pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
pinky lady: uhm, this is really serious.
what about your pastor's wife, elderly women in the church,
i dont know, but i see this more of spiritual than ordinary
prayers, fasting
cos the weapon of our warfare are no canal but are mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds Pastor's wife is fully aware but at present no one even knows where lil'sister is.
I know there is the need for counselling but for a blood-oath i am as naive as a baby because such a situation sure needs more than much talking and trying to convincing.
Trust me! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 2:57pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
pinky lady: what happened to mother and daughter communication? why cant the mother sit her down and explain the consequence of what
she is doing then back it afterward up with prayers. Exactly what was asked, but the Mrs. said she losed communication with her lil'missy lately after she started opposing the "thief" from coming to their home for visitation.
With this, the gal got offended and wouldnt speak no more to mama. Something tells me this could get really ugly if she doesnt come back to reconcile with God and her Mum.
My quest is to know what else can/should/will you do, assuming you're in my shoes to salvage this situation / counsel this young missy' |
Christianity Etc › Re: Alas! Its A Blood-oath Case by Tonyet1(op): 2:53pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
thehomer: If she's ill, take her to a good hospital what are you waiting for? You should also realize that sexual intercourse is very enjoyable. And the refractory period for young people is quite short. You're blaming a blood oath before real possibilities have been eliminated.
I sincerely hope they used some form of contraception. [quote author=Tonye-t link=topic=402951.msg5569922#msg5569922 date=1266942323] ^^ Will taking her out of the vicinity solve the problem? is my question
and yes the case has been reported to the church, as at today the girl has not been found anywhere same with the boy after we held prayers last nite[/quote] |
Christianity Etc › Re: Let's Talk About Faith (''non-wof Believers'') by Tonyet1(m): 12:50pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
mba emeka: Though I agree with most of what you said I don’t believe Jesus meant it “figuratively”. Why? Simple, lets see the passage in context
M'r:11:11: And Jesus entered into Jerusalem, and into the temple: and when he had looked round about upon all things, and now the eventide was come, he went out unto Bethany with the twelve. M'r:11:12: And on the morrow, when they were come from Bethany, he was hungry: M'r:11:13: And seeing a fig tree afar off having leaves, he came, if haply he might find any thing thereon: and when he came to it, he found nothing but leaves; for the time of figs was not yet. M'r:11:14: And Jesus answered and said unto it, No man eat fruit of thee hereafter for ever. And his disciples heard it. M'r:11:15: And they come to Jerusalem: and Jesus went into the temple, and began to cast out them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves;…
M'r:11:20: And in the morning, as they passed by, they saw the fig tree dried up from the roots. M'r:11:21: And Peter calling to remembrance saith unto him, Master, behold, the fig tree which thou cursedst is withered away. M'r:11:22: And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God. M'r:11:23: For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
So you see, he couldn’t have meant it figuratively as he had just commanded a tree to dry from its root which it did. His disciples on seeing this marveled, then he (Jesus) said why do you marvel at this? Don’t you know if you had faith as a mustard seed you could say unto THIS mountain move to yonder place and it will. its like saying hey! if i did it on a tree it can also be done to a mountain-this mountain.
“A mustard seed” referred to the size it usually is before being planted and the size it eventually would grow to after being sown. Thus he was teaching them to “grow” their faith by planting it(sowing it)which in other words could mean using it in “smaller” situations till you can use them in “greater ones” Yeah Brother you are right, exactly what i said in line 16 & 17
I said though paraphrased here:
". . . this faith comes in measures and the scriptures has said that
"THE EFFECTUAL FERVENT PRAYER OF THE RIGHTEOUS ONES WILL MAKE TREMEMDOUS POWER (Faith) AVAILABLE!" This is exactly why a believer can perform a spiritual task well while the other struggle to. Its not becos the later doesnt have the faith to, but his faith isnt up to the level of which he could do the same things as did the former. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Evil People Live Longer? by Tonyet1(m): 5:43pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Not so smart, brace up and answer a simple question. Dont come up like someone who spews and run.
For the knowing, lets just say i dont know the defs of Evil people and Good people and i need you to just tell ur def of the term.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Sexuality by Tonyet1(m): 5:26pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Respect Our ........ by Tonyet1(m): 5:25pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
So Sir gombo are you a female to start with? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Evil People Live Longer? by Tonyet1(m): 5:20pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Jagunlabi,
You are sounding confused.
Topic: "Why do Evil People Live Longer" and your paraphrased response was that " For good people to start living longer, they should stop living the life of victims" meaning " Bad people live longer becos they dont live the life of victims" right?
Ok, in clear terms what is your definition of "Good People"? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Believe In "the End Of The World"? by Tonyet1(m): 5:15pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Jagunlabi,
In a journey, do you believe there could be the possibility of finding oneself in the wrong path? and If yes, what would you advise?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Believe In "the End Of The World"? by Tonyet1(m): 4:45pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
jagunlabi: And what might these true realities be?Please don't disappoint me by telling me they are those christian sesame street fairy tales.  Fear not Sir,
They aint no "same street fairy tales" like you put it. True RealitiesIts but a life that comes back to embrass the fact that somehow someway, you and i are both products of a source.
It makes no difference the modes and forms of our connection to this source rather what matters is the soul-cry of our very being yearning to reconcile that which was lost (sourceless) to that which is always found (Sourceful).
Yeah the profess of my faith is only my own way of connecting to "this life", and the same goes for your profess too. But one thing remains very important, and that is in the quest for our reconnection there could only be two roads, One leading to the "sourceful" and the other a long path of self-delusion.
Now someday, i pray your quest for this reconnection will lead you aright, until then i say Panta Rae!  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Evil People Live Longer? by Tonyet1(m): 4:29pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
jagunlabi: Living the life of a victim is to live one's life with the victim mentality, and as the ancient wisdom goes, victim mentality produces victim circumstances(accidents, bad health,etc), and victim circumstances can kill one faster than a bullet.We are what we experience in life.We have far more influence on our lives and what we experience in ou lives than we have been led to believe up till now.
How does one live a life of victim?By debasing and denigrading oneself in one's own mind with the following mantras of doom; -I am nothing; -I have no control over my life; -I can't do anything by myself, so i need somebody else to do it for me(whoever that may be); -Only god can solve my troubles, i am powerless; -Etc.,etc., etc
If these mantras of doom sounds all too familiar, then that's because we are all living by them.Negative people do not live by such mantras and that is why they live longer and they prosper.They empower themselves with knowledge instead of disempowering themselves with empty dogma.Dogmas are for losers, and losers are mostly good people.We have been taught very erroneously that there is virtue in believing and wallowing in one's own powerlessness, they even call it "humility".That is the worst, most vicious lie ever told us by people in the know. Good people should also begin to empower themselves with knowledge in order to assert themselves and live longer, for it is all in the mind. So do i take it that YOUR OWN definition of "Good People" are that:
-They are nothing; -They have no control over their life; -They can't do anything by themselves, so they need somebody else to do it for them(whoever that may be); -Only god can solve their troubles, they are powerless; -Etc.,etc., etc
If your answer is yes, then we really have to talk urgently. |
Romance › Re: Cheating For A Reason by Tonyet1(m): 3:56pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
And the concluding question: why do good people suffer ? |
Romance › Re: Help: My Ex Gf Took My Name To Babalawo by Tonyet1(m): 3:49pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
manmustwac: you poste this topic in romance and u posted it again in religion. your breaking the nairaland rules dude. Oga Moderator,
cant u see the guy desperately needs help. i aint gon be surprised to see this in the JOKES SECTION  |
Romance › Re: Women: Do They Really Worth It? by Tonyet1(m): 3:47pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Both genders are worth it. understanding and tolerance are two major ingredients for a loving r/ship. |
Politics › Re: Yar'adua Returns To Nigeria: Condition Unknown by Tonyet1(m): 3:38pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
[quote author=naija_swag link=topic=403229.msg5576361#msg5576361 date=1267020214]He must be president oh.When he was asked to resign,he refused while garnering the support of the cowards who inhabit Nigeria.I don't mind if a mentally retarded man is our president.Moreover the past sane leaders have left us in the negative for 50 years.[/quote]Dont mind His excellency, when asked , his reply was that he wouldnt for the interest of the nation.
I wondered, what more could be for the interest of the nation than a sick man resigning from office honorably and pave way for another with strength and vision rather than portray to the international community that over 180million people can be ruled by one sick dude.
May God help Nigeria! |
Business › Re: Blessed Chidon Nig.ltd.we Are Highest Buy Of All Scrap Equipment. by Tonyet1(m): 3:26pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Do you buy electronic appliances too? |
Business › Re: Which One Is More Profitable Pls? by Tonyet1(m): 3:22pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Events accessories is also a lucrative biz
2 Canopies for a start will cost = N45,000/stand to build = N90,000 100 Good plastics chairs will cost N850 * 200 = N170,000 20 sets of tables will cost N600 * 20 = N12,000
with good management skills, the biz can reap u like N30,000 every week, for a month will mean N120,000. Thnk about it! |
Business To Business › Re: Do You Really Need Wristbands? by Tonyet1(m): 3:15pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
I really love these sturvs. pls check ur yahoo email urgently . Thanx |
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Politics › Re: Yar'adua Returns To Nigeria: Condition Unknown by Tonyet1(m): 2:55pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
For the notes:
Cant this man just giveup and take care of himself?
Must you rule?
well sha:
"Umaru is likened to a man dancing to the drums of the underworld."
Welcome back to your *coughing-pls excuse me* sessions during meeting |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Evil People Live Longer? by Tonyet1(m): 2:44pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
jagunlabi: For good people to start living longer, they should stop living the life of victims.The victim mentality shorten your lifespan more effectively than any disease can. Life of victims? Sir, pls explain?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: What To Do If My Pastor's Very Attractive Wife Coms On To Me? by Tonyet1(m): 2:39pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Believe In "the End Of The World"? by Tonyet1(m): 2:37pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
jagunlabi: Yes, i did.What is so "unjagunlabi" about what i said?And yes, jagunlabi is forever changing.It is called "following the evolutionary impulse of the universe". Jagunlabi of a few minutes ago is not the same as jagunlabi of this very moment, and the same goes for you and everybody else existing in this eternal flux called life. Panta Rae, everything flows, and it will keep on flowing. . .  So at least i take it that you'll someday find urself out of your mind delusion into the true realities!  |