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asha 80:
Marketwomanlike response.No evidence to back up argument.

origina9ja:
are you complaining on based on others or you are speaking for yaself
i don't think its anything serious jor
we all know that some people come across others as rude
they might not even know they are being rude
just try and tolerate it, its not big deal
na Internet be this jare
stop getting stress over notting
no matter how many thread like this being open
some people would still be seen as insulting/rude

asha 80:
Your lonliness is affecting ur thinking.Look for a partner or at least a Love Machine so sooth your feelings.

theolar:
I didnt know guys on nl liked dumb and dumber.

tkb417:
jagbajantis

Bitch. Ladies Do You Get Angry When A Guy Calls You A Bitch?


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-270027.0.html

kokoA:
I watched one senator of the Federal republic on NTA made a statement like this[b] "when I opened my cnn this morning"[/b]. What can you say about this. I think elementary english language course is needed urgently for our public office holders.

People no fit speak english but dem wan go havard (your governors)

Afam:
It seems you always have time to respond to some issues but the very important ones like trying to remember how come Dr Ngozi became a Prof don't seem to get the time required to confirm or support your position. This is troubling.

Lagosboy:
such nonsense can never happen in the UK and with Obama in the US

adamcn:
See a dentists cost much. I'm a Chinese, coz i find there is a topic named "chinese hate black people" on this forum when i search the key word china, so i just want to try to make you know chinese better.

ariblaze:
who is the so-called adam?

tpiah you are beginning to fall back into that trend

the santa's helpers comment. . . .

are you talking about a particular set of people?

origina9ja:
abeg jor
dont take things personaly
na 9jaland we dey

biola44:
is just abt mischief!

if women aren't bashing men its the men calling the women bitches

sparta:
Jealousy is normal though it just should not be excessive because excessive jealousy is a sign of possesiveness and insecurity.

Mates also should be able to respect their spouses whether married or not and draw the line when dealing with the opposite sex.

80% of my friends are guys but when dating and in a serios relationship, i ask them for some space because i dont have to give my man headache.

I had an issue with my man over him picking different ladies in his car on our way to work as a way of helping, you know, its either titi or bola or nkechi and they are always related to one of his friends one way or the other. I was a bit jealous because you can never let your guard down when dealing with too many women around your man. I asked for some space on it and told him he had to do something about it.

it caused a lot of fracas between us and we alomst broke up because i was ready to let go not because he cheats but i know that the heart of people is very deep. The enemy never comes as an enemy, they come disguised as friends and when they strike, hmm. My man is very good looking and i know what is looks does to women, believe me.

I asked for some space from my friends out of respect for him, i think he should too.

So i really drew the line and we settled it and we are good now. Jealousy is part of our make as humans so we should be wise for our own sakes and the sake of our mates.

gen2genius:
"Ask any law enforcement officer or legal beagle in a civilized society."


That's one of the most defective yardstick anyone could consider in determining incidence of abuse among couples. Most women are natural talkers, and when they do they want you to empathise with them. How many men report spousal abuse to law enforcement agencies? How many were not disbelieved and humiliated?

In Nigeria, the tendency is to automatically heap all the blame on the woman and exonerate the man

What proof(s) do you have to validate this?

In countries where the law protects the already overprotected male rather than the female a lot goes on which never sees the light of day talkless get prosecuted

Countries like? And let's assume you're right. In countries where the reverse happens, is it not the same result you get? Women capitalising on the provisions of the law to perpetrate evil?

Finally, I have no "interests" to protect. Only insecure people blabber about victimisation. A woman rightly said, "no one can regard you as inferior without your consent." So, I don't see myself as an underdog or an endangered species. All I'm saying is both men and women are prone to spousal abuse, one way or the other. And what we all should be advocating is mutual love and respect, not selfish interests.

origina9ja:
huuh
i dont get why u have 2 quote me