₦airaland Forum

OneNaija:
Nonsense Comment Coming from Outside Nigeria. don't worry you will also be Kills when walking along.

you should look at the facebook page and people's comments before raining down curses.


Dont see what you're trying to achieve here.

If you want to register a protest do so but no need to attack in a frenzy.

I checked other links about the guy before posting.

gen2genius:
You're really complicating issues, dear. Why are you being so biased instead of being balanced in your analysis of issues? Which is more rational - to suggest that men and women respect each other or to opine that men respect women? You keep portraying men as devils and women as angels. Is that objective enough? Every rational person knows that there are beastly men and there are bitchy women. And the ratio is 50:50. Nothing will work until we admit this fact and approach the anomalies in our relationships in an OBJECTIVE way. I repeat: men and women must learn to give each other due respect! If you lack it, don't expect it!

hellooo

and I'm telling you there's no saint and no sinner in 95% of marriage dysfunction cases.

In Nigeria, the tendency is to automatically heap all the blame on the woman and exonerate the man. To me, that's absolute rubbish.

The example you gave was of a woman who intentionally hurt herself and the man was saved by his daughter. that alone shows where you're headed to and where your bias lies.

Simple fact: I dont buy the rigmarole. True, there are women who beat up their husbands, and there are women who intentionally damage a man. However, for each of such cases, you'll find at least ten more where the opposite is the case. Ask any law enforcement officer or legal beagle in a civilized society.

In countries where the law protects the already overprotected male rather than the female, a lot goes on which never sees the light of day talkless get prosecuted. However, they get their payback in other ways such as general overall destabilization and lack of progress.

You have your opinion and I have mine. You protect your interests but dont tell me not to look out for myself in a culture that tries to minimize my doing so.

na wa for degenerate minds with no sense of decency.

I dey wait una oh!

very unfortunate.

may he RIP.

poster

while you're at it, are you also mourning your own death in advance?

You're supposed to pray and caution such thoughts because even if inexplicable things are really happening in that manner, dwelling on them like this wont help your mental state.

Rebuke the devil and he will flee from you.

You're not the only one experiencing such and you wont be the last either.

virgie:
@ poster, stop deceiving yourself, you can never be fully prepared until it finally happens.

Live for today and thank God for giving you and your own family life. Let 2mr take care of its own problems.

thank you.

Count your blessings, not your sorrows. The day's own problems are sufficient for the day. Why add more.

having a thankful attitude makes better sense.

adamcn:
As far as i know, this guy grow up in Zhejiang Province, China, so i think it's better for him to have a chinese name, like chinese need english name. You sabi Jackie Cheng, but his chinese name is Cheng Long.

As to the teeth, black people's teeth is very white. Especially compared with the black skin, the white is so highlighted. Many chinese hope to have their teeth as white as blacks'. So that's why they pay attention on teeth, is it irreverence?

you mean he changed his name? ok- no problem with that.

as per the teeth- arent dentists supposed to help out in that area?

Are you Chinese?

gen2genius:
" No smoke without fire. Dont push a normal woman into destroy mode."


I wonder why people still keep looking at this issue from a subjective perspective. Let's push sentiments and political correctness aside. Same should apply to both parties. Don't push a normal woman or man into destroy mode. Simple

Dont push a normal woman into destroy mode by constantly belittling and derogating her simply because you feel women are inferior to men. Your feelings or the way you were raised, shouldnt supercede your common sense.

I've already given instances of how males keep doing that right here on NL.

agabaI23:
Do you think it is a black woman thing because your undies have them and you have not been able to get rid of them?
I will tell you what to do so that you won't even have it at all not to talk of how to remove them.

And no, it has no colour, race or location.

this isnt about me oh    I dont have underwear someone will be monitoring for blurbs.

You're the one seeing ski marks on your girl's kini.

From your vast experience and observations of different females, which ones have this thing na?

gen2genius:
Now, the bombshell. Sentimentalists would not like to hear this but it happens. There are women who inflict injuries on themselves to cover up their own misdeeds. I wouldn’t be saying this if I had no proof. Recently, a girl was forced to expose the evil deeds of her mother to the police when she could no longer bear the injustice being meted out to her innocent father. The woman was loud and lousy; she was aggressive and abusive but nobody knew except the man who was the victim and their teenage daughter. Each time they had an argument, the woman would hurl all sorts of dangerous objects at the man, kick him and end up boasting that if he dared touch her, she would injure herself and call the police. Scared and seeming incapacitated, the man continued to bear the agony until one day, when he was forced to retaliate. There was a fight between the two but the man was careful not to injure her. Feeling subdued and humiliated, the woman slashed her wrist with a knife and thereafter called the police. The man’s explanations fell on deaf ears and he was jailed for wife-battery. But the young daughter who had witnessed the whole incident had to call the police secretly and told them the truth.

Now, what would have happened if the girl was not present? Of course the innocent man would be suffering behind bars while the guilty woman would be enjoying superfluous attention, care and sympathy from the public.

now, what makes you think so-called "sentimentalists" are unaware this happens?

Yes, some women harm themselves in order to get the husband in trouble. This happens with both naija and non-naija females. Likewise males have been known to cook up lies about the wife who is no longer in his good books for whatever reason. There are kids who also witnessed their dad plotting against their mother but being in Nigeria, couldnt do anything about it.


What many of you prefer to ignore is the fact that there are warning signs in every relationship. If your marriage has gotten to the stage where its irretrievably broken and any interaction damages you both, do you want to say it all happened out of the blue. The women suddenly went crazy for no reason and decided to destroy both herself and the "innocent" guy, right?

Or its all the wife's fault (naija mentality), and she did so many things wrong that the husband had no choice but "deal with her". If the police now get involved then of course its still that very wicked witch he married who was sent by her sea husband and the underwater world, to destroy him.

On this nairaland alone see the number of so called males posting very stupid things about the opposite sex. Not once or twice, but constantly. When the females respond then you all start yelling stereotype and male ego but you were cheering and egging on the mysogynists posting all kinds of trash in the name of free speech. Assuming such people are even a minority and underclass which is what they are in civilized societies, that's a different matter. But when you have a majority rejoicing in the kind of criminality I'm seeing here, then dont whine at the backlash.

No smoke without fire. Dont push a normal woman into destroy mode. The naija males abroad married to foreign women know their limits and they also know what they see should the wife decide to deal with them. Stop pushing your luck.

handsome governor.

Too bad these aint happier times!

Father-Daughter duet:

Ready, Set, Dont Go


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUsa2rXTteE

full song


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlrg4y15s24

In fact, in Guangzhou, a city referred to as “Chocolate City” by the Chinese, there are an estimated 100,000 African immigrants, mostly from the western part of the continent, reports the Telegraph. The number is increasing by at least 30 percent each year in that area

http://www.bet.com/News/NewsArticleChinaNamesFirstBlackOlympicAthlete?cid=YSSP

wow.


anyway, if the guy's father is south African, then why is his name Chinese? Is he half or a quarter black because I dont get it.

SPORTS magazines have breathlessly hailed his "special characteristics"; learned analysts have spoken in awed tones about the "athleticism of his genes" and some have praised the "whiteness and size" of his teeth.

At its core, though, the source of all the excitement is simple: Ding Hui, the latest addition to China's fiercely competitive national volleyball squad, is black.

http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,25337021-5015718,00.html

isnt that nice. They even checked his teeth.

One of China's biggest internet portals described him thus: "Black skin, thick lips and big white teeth are his main characteristics," it read, adding that "due to the special characteristics of his bloodline Ding Hui is blessed with pliability, toughness and agility".

hahaha hehehe

so funny

and what's with the emphasis on teeth? Is he competing in chewing tournaments?

Isnt France very strict on the separation of church and state?

If other religions arent allowed to mix the two, then why should the burqa women be an exception?

If I were wearing a burqa, I wouldnt go to France, obviously. I'd head for Britain or somewhere else where it wont be considered strange.

can you look at

Matt 13:55-56
Isn't he the Carpenter's son,isn,t mary his mother and aren,t JAMES,JOSEPH,SIMON AND JUDAS his brothers aren't all his sisters living here

and

Mark 6:3
Isn't he the carpenter ,the son of mary and brother of JAMES,JOSEPH,JUDAS AND SIMON? Aren't his sisters living
here?

then explain how you concluded the people mentioned were his cousins?

na money problem.

No money, no friends.

the black white man is here.

agaba123

this ya skid mark matter- is it a Nigerian woman thing, a black woman thing or what exactly.


Have you ever observed the same in your white non-black girlfriend's underwear? I'm guessing not.


_{na wa for bruising oh.}

skyone:
well' you will meet yours in future carry on my little sister and happy father's day.

oh, I see you're one of those "oldish" new users who "know" tpia. In other words, a smartaleck.

As you met yours on this thread and started crying over being called a cow, I wonder what you'll do the day your actions really bite you in your behind. Cow na small thing.

I do hope you dont feel you have the monopoly on abusing others  yet you hate it when others abuse you?

Keep on the way you're doing now and we'll see about that.

and what's with the little sister et al? Who be your sister? Whether you say little sister or aunty tpia is irrelevant if you want to get your a$$ whooped oh. A word is enough for the wise.

happy father's day to all who believe they're fathers and those who actually are.

happy father's day to all past, present and future sperm donors.

Also, to all sperm donors who use a condom. Good planning.

I'v

e been searching to see if i can find a family where a child will say "i love my daddy just the way he behaves",but i've found none.its a pity though that most african children just live wit a man who has no daddy aspect in them.it hurts real bad especially when the crown it wit wicked acts towards our mothers who do their duty so well.i know cos i'm a victim n stil live wit it as i write.i just hope our fathers will pause n think just4a minute before they act cos u r just deepening the barrier

sad and sorry state of affairs but how for do.

the answer is blowing in the wind.

when a loved one is proud of me.

na real wa.