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Romance › Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by triplechoice(m): 6:43pm On Feb 28, 2019

lefulefu:
she was just ur girlfriend and she was already bothered dat the neigbours would know she cant cook?. So wat can u say about wives who dont even bother entering and wen its time for dinner they would walk to the balcony and yell at their husband to come prepare dinner as he's downstairs discussing with friends. Dat would even be more embarrasing for d husband.

I think the more reason she was bothered was the fear that some busy body neighbor might say something to discourage me from continuing the relationship. But I am not that kind of person to listen to such talk. I believed her previous experience was the cause of her reaction.

Romance › Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by triplechoice(m): 2:05pm On Feb 28, 2019

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Were you guys living together for her to be bothered about neighbors? Great submission. Cooking shouldn't be difficult.

Yes.but not all the time

Romance › Re: Can You Date A Lady Who Cannot Cook? by triplechoice(m): 1:54pm On Feb 28, 2019

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many of you lads can actually be patient enough to be with a lady who cannot cook but willing to learn? People are so quick to break relationships these days over little things.
For example when my dad(God bless his soul) met my mom, she didn't even know how to make ordinary pap but he didn't judge her or push her away, instead he taught her everything he knows.
If someone you actually like is lagging in an area, you complement them. Too bad most relationships now are based on selfish interests with very weak bond.

So before you leave that lady because she can't cook, Think twice.

I broke up with a lady in the past because of not only her cooking skills but her other attitude too

At the initial stage of the relationship she was willing to learn because she wanted to do well. Sometimes I have to insist on cooking a particular meal myself when I know she would not be able to do it well. She agrees sometimes at other times she doesn't. She says if visitors or neighbors gets to know I cook instead of her, then it would lead to embarrassment because everyone would know she is not a good cook. So I allow her and just force myself to eat it.

My patience ran out when I observed that whenever she was agitated, especially if I was the cause of the agitation, she relapsed to preparing something very awful. If I dare complain at this time all hell will let loose. I remembered eating stew and rice with the stew almost tasting like unripe grape juice. I started to think and concluded that if I get married to her I may experience worse. I know of a friend who is suffering this and when he complains the reply he usually gett is___you know she cannot cook why did you marry her?. I was not willing to be told this so I gradually ended the relationship

So for me I am willing to be patient only if she will not let her emotions get in the way of her cooking. She should not use it to spite me at anytime. I want to marry her because I love her and not just to cook for me. I think cooking is a necessary skill everyone woman should strive to acquire not only as a aid to personal growth but also as a means to express love. As they say, the fastest means to a man's heart is through the stomach

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Christianity Etc › Re: ** How Devil Uses Housemaids To Destroy Homes *** by triplechoice(m): 4:31pm On Feb 12, 2019

udopee:
If the message in this post pained you, it means that it really hit it's target. Remember, truth is always bitter...SHALOM!!!

The primitive superstition you're promoting cannot stand as truth.The group of persons you 're demonizing are facing all sorts of maltreatment everyday from people like you. They are not the cause of what you fail to do for Yourself.

If a man is not happy with you because you leave everything to the maid and you can't cook for once, take care of the home but stuff yourself with too much food and become overweight that it becomes a problem putting up your legs 'in the other room'', it is in your hands to change things. Housemaid are never responsible. They do not possess such powers or are they partnering with enemies to wreck your home.

Christianity Etc › Re: Hypocrisy And Irony Of The Christian Religion by triplechoice(m): 12:06pm On Feb 08, 2019

I can see that some persons have missed the point of the op by focusing on the scenario used in the introduction. The concern here is on the hypocrisy and irony of the Christian faith. At the moment I would like to think that the problem is from its adherents and not the religion itself

Some of my Christian friends and close family members derive a kind of Pleasure in jumping into conclusions that the reason for some of my personal challenges is because I don't tithe. That I am robbing God. I You can imagine such insensitivity coming from people you are supposed to trust not to behave that way. But the irony is that tithing has not giving them any immunity from having their own challenges too. During such times I am usually the own they can rely on to bail them out and I try as much possible not bring up the issue of tithe while offering my assistance.

Not learning anything from this or maybe due to habit they always fall back to warning me of the consequences of not tithing Sometimes, I ask myself,Is it that some persons have been robbed of their senses that can no longer see the truth?

Recently the vice president was involved in an helicopter crash and was lucky to escape. The explanation was that enemies or the devil has some plans but prayers by powerful men of God averted what would have been a disaster . I say, thank God for that!. But suppose the vice was not a Christian I am sure the reaction or explanation would have been, 'God is warming him to change his ways' or God is not happy with they way the have managed the economy 'and if he doesn't change what happened to Abacha would befall him'

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Christianity Etc › Re: ** How Devil Uses Housemaids To Destroy Homes *** by triplechoice(m): 9:23pm On Feb 01, 2019

udopee:
Common sense should have made you reason very well when I said "housemaids can be a blessing or a curse". There is no generalising there, just that your reasoning and comprehension are bias. Read, understand and comprehend the post before you display your low level of mentality towards the message... SHALOM!!!

I expected your to reply that you were not generalizing. But ask yourself is there any marriage without a problem? You claim housemaids are usually responsible Go back to what you have written and see that you were generalizing even though it was not expressly stated

Your post has created a confusion you need to address. I still insist you learn self responsibility instead of looking for who to blame or trying to advise others on who to blame.. That is common sense

Christianity Etc › Re: ** How Devil Uses Housemaids To Destroy Homes *** by triplechoice(m): 12:32pm On Feb 01, 2019

If you have had any negative personal experience with a housemaid in the past, then try to understand why it happened and not to generalize by labeling all housemaids as evil

From what you have posted, housemaids should be blamed once a married man starts to womanize because according to you, they, the housemaids have evil powers to manipulate the man. What nonsense!

You should learn to accept self responsibility for your actions as well as having a clean imagination if not, when you have not employed a housemaid or have disengaged any, you would turn to blame your mother - in-law and others around you for manipulating your husband or bringing evil into your home

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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji Breaks Up With Sholaye Jeremi Her Baby Daddy by triplechoice(m): 12:12pm On Dec 14, 2018

victorian:
Some guys can pretend for many years, claiming they are in love and if your senses are not alert, they complete their mission and turn to another individual the next second. Sholaye knew who Linda was, the first day they met but he knows if he tells Linda that he knows her, she's popular and very rich hardworking lady, Linda will be on her guard with him , like she has done to most men who came her way to woo her.

So the best and intriguing part is to say nope I don't know u, I have never heard of you before with a plain innocent face. But what lies beneath his mask, is a blood hounding dog waiting to bite. With that sentence, she relaxed and let down her guard. At that point, was where the script graduated to the next level.

What a pity.

You sure know the game. When I got to the part of the story where she mentioned that Sholaye claimed not to know anything about her popularity, I started to laugh.

She let down her guard for something one would have expected her to know. That guy don too old for this kind game sha

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Politics › Re: Alani Akinri: 'Buhari’s Certificate Saga, An Insult To The Armed Forces' by triplechoice(m): 12:29pm On Oct 31, 2018

adanny01:
Good, continue to do so.

The result talies to what the school released to him as his results.

Accept it or sue him.

Lastly, if operation show your cert is carried out now, even you dont have a certificate. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

You say the result released to him? has he ever at any time acknowledged it and presented it to INEC.

An obviously forged document that has been avoided like plague by the person that is supposed to accept it, is what you are using to support your argument?

My affidavit and the supporting documents which represents my missing credentials is legally acceptable even outside this country. If you do not no this, then it means you are stubbornly ignorant. I have been employed with it in the civil service since 2018,done numerous screening/ verification of results without any problem and you want to say I do not have a certificate. You claim to be a graduate but I am afraid you are not reasoning like one.

Maybe you should contact the presidency on their Twitter handle to advise them to submit the. so called result from the school. I wish you good luck with that
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Politics › Re: Alani Akinri: 'Buhari’s Certificate Saga, An Insult To The Armed Forces' by triplechoice(m): 5:08pm On Oct 30, 2018

adanny01:
It is your comprehension that sends you into all this arguments you keep bouncing here and there.

Now, you want to drag me into the insensible court cases politicians use to intimidate themselves. I aint going that route with you.

Check the results very well. I hope you see WAEC where it reads "PHOTOSTAT FOR USE OF SCHOOL STAFF AND WEST AFRICAN EXAMINATION COUNCIL ONLY". There lies your last answer.

Mind you, my advise to you is never leave your affidavit behind when asked to show up with your certificate. Thats my issue.

You are posting a document which has not been confirmed as genuine by the original owners of the exam to convince me or anyone.?You keep exhibiting ignorance. Twisting and turning like a clueless footballer and in the giving out a wayward pass

And the university of Cambridge at the top of it, that is, if it is genuine, does not mean anything to you?

It is funny you advising me on always having my affidavit with me whenever I need to present my credentials a thing I have been doing for close to 8years now.

Politics › Re: Alani Akinri: 'Buhari’s Certificate Saga, An Insult To The Armed Forces' by triplechoice(m): 3:40pm On Oct 30, 2018

adanny01:
In the same vein you didn't take time to read my post cause i never said your certificate issuer will not give you anything.

I said they wont give you the certificate you lost back. Its you who went into further stories and even cover exactly what i said.

You are even lucky your school keeps a copy of the cert. My school does not. You sign a register that you collected it and thats the end. You can get a statement of result for yourself a confirmation or transcript to thirdparty institutions.

Guy your long epistle carries many irrelevant statements.

So it is now that you know its Cambridge, yet you continue to talk like it is me who doesnt know. I knew this fact since 2015, how come you are getting to know that now. Please use your head, reasearch before writing things you dont know and insinuate others dont know.

If Cambridge conducted Buhari's exams in 1961, and WAEC was established in 1952, who do you think Cambridge conducted the exams for. Where do you think WAEC originated from?

Back to my father, if you are a 25 yr old graduated who lost his certificate and my father is a 69yr old retiree who also lost his certificate, who between the 2 of you needs a confirmation of his certificate? What does my father need his certificate for after retirement?

Think of what you are writing before it turns to an insult.

All this Buhari matter you guys are peddling has been properly trashed out in 2015 and its a none issue. Anyone continuing the issue is either uninformed or gullible.

Even the grades he had was trashed up to Cambridge. Cambridge even replied alot of queries on Buhari's result. Its left up to you to research and arm yourself with details.

I blame myself for arguing with you who just found out Cambridge conducted WASC during the 50s and 60s. If you just found that one out, there are alot you will find out. Dont keep arguing without the whole facts.

Oh, in addition, do you know what a confirmation is? Its a letter telling who ever you present yourself to that you are a graduate of the school. It doesn't replace your certificate in whatever way. Do you know that even those who have completed the requisite conditions for the award of a degree but have not been awarded can get a confirmation.

I had one in which i used to get a job before i went for NYSC. When you get a Federal Civil Service job, present a confirmation and see how your employment will be thrown to the next person.

Lastly, do you know why a certificate is irreplaceable? Its because it carries security features no other document you have will get. When you deal with government or its agencies or organized private sector or foreign institutions, they deal with either your certificate or transcript delivered directly from your school. The only other thing that they deal with is a police report and affidavit. Dont decieve yourself, the affidavit you have is much more important to the confirmation you have.

It is very pathetic to see that your replies do not reflect any understanding of anything I have said

When I mentioned In my previous post that it just occurred to me that it was cambridge not WAEC that conducted the exam, you interpreted it to mean I just knew now.Recollecting a fact now does not mean you do not know it before. It. You are among one of those misinforming people that it was WAEC if not why the WAEC extract you posted. Check this tread and any other one concerning this issue, all you see is WAEC. Instead of excepting your mistake you want to mischievously turn it around to show I just knew now. You have failed woefully

Let me try and explain in a simple way the issue in contention so you can understand and reply appropriately. Someone swore to an affidavit that his original credentials are missing. Another says it is not true that the person at anytime actually had any certificate. So what happens? Let us go to court. What will the court do? Demand a confirmation on the authenticity of the result in contention. from who? The secondary school or Cambridge? My answer? Cambridge and not the school. Now"
why allow the matter to drag to the extent of going to court and you spending millions of naira to hire SANS to defend you in a matter you can easily solve by getting confirmation from Cambridge with less than 10 thousand naira. If you are in that same position what would you do.?

Finally, people swore to and affidavit claiming what is not true. Does it mean anyone cannot challenge it in a court of law if the person has evidence that you lied under oath
Hope you reply show a thorough understanding of the matter at hand if not I would not bother to reply you

Politics › Re: Alani Akinri: 'Buhari’s Certificate Saga, An Insult To The Armed Forces' by triplechoice(m): 10:55am On Oct 30, 2018

adanny01:
How is what you are saying any different to what i am saying. Did you get your original certificates back?

Did you see the screenshot i shared? Question 18 to be precise. See it below.

A certificate reads, "this is to certify that ........" or "This certifies that".

I repeat, you never get reissued a certificate when you lose it.

You get several other things, a certified true copy, a confirmation, a testimonial, a statement of result but never a replacement of that certificate. This is a fact and not an argument.

As a person who lost his documents, when you get a new job and they ask you to bring original certificates for viewing, you dont take just your certificate true copy, confirmation or whatever you got, you first of all give the affidavit that says you lost your certificate, then present the alternative you've got. Without that affidavit, nothing else would explain why you dont have a certificate. You got a confirmation and a certified true copy, they are not your certificate. There are situations you will be asked of a certificate amd not a statement.

For example, when i registered for NSE you take your original certificate for viewing. Take a statement of result, confirmation or certified true copy you will not qualify, but attach an affidavit, the affidavit enables them to accept those other documents you have.

FYI, both my parents were school principals, my father for over 20 years of his civil service career. Reissue of certificate is the crime not issueing a statement. Do you know that a confirmation of result is invalid in your hands? It is inadmissible in most cases. A confirmation is like a transcript, it is meant to be sent directly from WAEC to a third party organization.

It is obvious you did not take your time to read my reply
I never at any time mention that anyone receives an original as replacement. I was giving a confirmation document as replacement not the original. When I mentioned the copy in my file in the exams and records, I explained that it was the photocopy of the original I made when I collected the original. Except you have never collected any certificate before then you should know that is one of the process. The reason I was giving that to make a copy of is because a staff who is a close relative begged on my behalf and I also tipped them if not you do not have access to the copy in your file.

It has occur to me now that it was cambridge and not WAEC that conducted the exam which certificate is now in dispute. So it seems you do not really have all the facts concerning this issue. We do not know the exact procedure for cambridge. But if we assume it this same and we want to use the document you pasted then I can tell you that what you have there is only a brief explanation of the process.

Statements of results are no longer reissued once the certificate is already. out. If you lose your certificate after collecting it you do not go back to demand for statement of result. What the school does is to initiate the process of confirmation on your behalf. Now the question is, did the principal initiate,this process on behalf of the president. If he did, then confirmation should be out by now and if not why? That is the only means to resolve this issue. The confirmation will authenticate whatever statement of result that the principal has already issued out. Affidavit cannot help in this case, If it is confirmed that the statement of result is not correct and the said candidate did not sit for the exam it means the he has lied under oath.

It seems you do not know that the result and the exam belongs to Cambridge, This is not a university certificate. When there is any dispute concerning a secondary school certificate, it is the examination body which the school is affiliated to that validates it. I said it was illegal -—maybe not a crime yet—because the school principal did not follow the right process. If we accept that he did was the right thing then it means anyone can walk into any schoo and demand for statement of result. Do not forget that the said original was issued over 60 years ago. Why a statement now and not a confirmation?

To put and end to this matter let the school initiate the process of confirmation once that is done and it is confirmed, case close. The army can continue to have it in their possession. It does not matter anymore.
Finally, the fact that your dad has over 20 years experience in public service does not mean he has experienced it all. You said what he has is an affidavit and a remnant of his certificate. Why has he not gone for confirmation yet? does it mean he is not aware of this? University hand over to you a document which stand for the original. Unlike a secondary school, it is not sent on your behalf to any person or organization.

Politics › Re: Alani Akinri: 'Buhari’s Certificate Saga, An Insult To The Armed Forces' by triplechoice(m): 3:22pm On Oct 29, 2018*

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adanny01:
Certified true copy you mean.

Thats if you have a copy of the cert, the school will authenticate it as a certified true copy but will not give you a replacement for that certificate or any copy for that matter.

Schools dont keep copies of certs they give so they dont give you certified true copy if you dont bring one.

Its you the certificate holder that brings a copy of the cert for the school to authenticate as a certified true copy.

A certified true copy is not the same as the certificate.

Only an affidavit replaces the non existence of
an original certificate. A certified true copy doesnt.

Modified

Check the WAEC FAQ 18 and 14

Honestly, right from your first post on this tread, you have not shown that you really understand the process involved in the issuance of a replacement for a missing certificate in Nigeria, It is obvious that what you know is based on your father's experience and snippets of information you got from the media.

My certificates were stolen 8 years ago. This happened at a time I really needed it. Before it happened , I used to believe, just like you and so many others, that once you lose your original certificates then nothing can be done about it or you cannot get a replacement that can stand for the original. But I have since discovered that you can actually get a replacement from the original issuer to stand for the missing and burnt or even if it is with the army.

When I could not find my certificates were I kept them, I initially did not know what to do until a relative whom I narrated the incident to advised me on the actual steps to take to get them replaced. And they were simple steps.

I first of all got a police report and also an affidavit. Armed with this, I went to the university I graduated from to inform them and also to get a form of replacement. While there, I was directed to exams and records. My file was brought out to confirm if I actually graduated. When it was confirmed I was issued a formal confirmation document having my school's letter head which serves as a replacement and luckily for me the photocopy I made of my original certificate was still in my file. I was asked to make a photocopy of that too. If you have ever collected any kind of certificate you should remember that you are asked to make a copy of the original. You return this copy with a statement'original copy received by me' written by you at the bottom as a form of evidence that you collected the original. The reason I mention this, is because the military if they cannot find the original should atleast have a kind of confirmation that it was 'original submitted by me'. that they have The school he claimed to have sat for his Cambridge should also have in their file a copy with the statement 'original result received by me' . Issuing him a statement of results after so many years is not only illegal but also a crime. Statement of result is only valid for a period of time, at most 4 years and after then you do not reissue it. I got this information from a senior waec official who also told me that if your certificate is missing you go to the school were you sat for the exam and apply through them for a confirmation of result. If you are a private candidate you go to waec office and apply directly. I repeat no school as the right to issue any form of replacement without the consent of waec. If in doubt you can confirm from waec. If you lose your original, yes, go to your school but they have to contact the original exam body for a replacement. If waec is not close to confirm this, you can confirm from the principal of any school near you will be told the same thing. Most people do not know this because not many persons lose their certificates

So for me at the moment I have replacements for every of my certificate stolen even my NYSC.I choose to reply you not because of politics but to make you see that you are misinforming others who at this moment have lost their credentials or may later. Do not believe or trust everything you read in the media most of them have interest they are protecting

Finally, let your dad know he can get a replacement for his cerfitcate if he goes to his Alma mater.The process is not difficult. I am sure in his file he can find the photocopy he made while collecting the original. With a little tip he can beg to make a copy. That should be more presentable than the embarrassing remnant of the certificate he has in is possession

A lot of people now think it is difficult or practically impossible to get a replacement because of this buhari certificate saga. Other than this I do not have anything other thing against. him. The people who want to replace him cannot change Nigeria the are only fighting for their interests

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adanny01:
Certified true copy you mean.

Thats if you have a copy of the cert, the school will authenticate it as a certified true copy but will not give you a replacement for that certificate or any copy for that matter.

Schools dont keep copies of certs they give so they dont give you certified true copy if you dont bring one.

Its you the certificate holder that brings a copy of the cert for the school to authenticate as a certified true copy.

A certified true copy is not the same as the certificate.

Only an affidavit replaces the non existence of
an original certificate. A certified true copy doesnt.

Modified

Check the WAEC FAQ 18 and 14

Honestly, right from your first post on this tread, you have not shown that you really understand the process involved in the issuance of a replacement for a missing certificate in Nigeria, It is obvious that what you know is based on your father's experience and snippets of information you got from the media.

My certificates were stolen 8 years ago. This happened at a time I really needed it. Before it happened , I used to believe, just like you and so many others, that once you lose your original certificates then nothing can be done about it or you cannot get a replacement that can stand for the original. But I have since discovered that you can actually get a replacement from the original issuer to stand for the missing and burnt or even if it is with the army.

When I could not find my certificates were I kept them, I initially did not know what to do until a relative whom I narrated the incident to advised me on the actual steps to take to get them replaced. And they were simple steps.

I first of all got a police report and also an affidavit. Armed with this, I went to the university I graduated from to inform them and also to get a form of replacement. While there, I was directed to exams and records. My file was brought out to confirm if I actually graduated. When it was confirmed I was issued a formal confirmation document having my school's letter head which serves as a replacement and luckily for me the photocopy I made of my original certificate was still in my file. I was asked to make a photocopy of that too. If you have ever collected any kind of certificate you should remember that you are asked to make a copy of the original. You return this copy with a statement'original copy received by me' written by you at the bottom as a form of evidence that you collected the original. The reason I mention this, is because the military if they cannot find the original should atleast have a kind of confirmation that it was 'original submitted by me'. that they have The school he claimed to have sat for his Cambridge should also have in their file a copy with the statement 'original result received by me' . Issuing him a statement of results after so many years is not only illegal but also a crime. Statement of result is only valid for a period of time, at most 4 years and after then you do not reissue it. I got this information from a senior waec official who also told me that if your certificate is missing you go to the school were you sat for the exam and apply through them for a confirmation of result. If you are a private candidate you go to waec office and apply directly. I repeat no school as the right to issue any form of replacement without the consent of waec. If in doubt you can confirm from waec. If you lose your original, yes, go to your school but they have to contact the original exam body for a replacement. If waec is not close to confirm this, you can confirm from the principal of any school near you will be told the same thing. Most people do not know this because not many persons lose their certificates

So for me at the moment I have replacements for every of my certificate stolen even my NYSC.I choose to reply you not because of politics but to make you see that you are misinforming others who at this moment have lost their credentials or may later. Do not believe or trust everything you read in the media most of them have interest they are protecting

Finally, let your dad know he can get a replacement for his cerfitcate if he goes to his Alma mater.The process is not difficult. I am sure in his file he can find the photocopy he made while collecting the original. With a little tip he can beg to make a copy. That should be more presentable than the embarrassing remnant of the certificate he has in is possession

A lot of people now think it is difficult or practically impossible to get a replacement because of this buhari certificate saga. Other than this I do not have anything other thing against. him. The people who want to replace him cannot change Nigeria the are only fighting for their interests

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Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When You Fall Under The Anointing by triplechoice(m): 1:02pm On Oct 21, 2018

rosalieene:
it is real......
from experience...
You suddenly feel this weakness, like been controlled even in your conscious mind. like something took charge of you and then you don't know what you're doing especially as you keep screaming.

I have also observed that once the spirit has taken charge of you once, subsequent times, you keep falling under anointing but people out there would call it pretense because you fall all the time.
For me, sometimes when you try to hold back or refuse, it would seem like something is tormenting you and pheewww! by force, the spirit of God takes charge.

You have actually highlighted the dangers of the so called anointing business without realizing it.

What pentecostal pastors refer to as falling under the anointing is a form of hypnotism called dark shadow hypnotism. At your spare time, you can Google it. Just type, dark shadow hypnotism.

The aim of this hypnosis business(ANOINTING) is to take over your spiritual center, your will.Once that happens the first time or you allow it to happen to you, then, as you have observed, it happens easily again and again. And as you have also observed, it is as if something is trying control you which you try to resist without success

Pastors who do this do not know or understand what is actually happening and because of the ignorance they ascribe it to God or the holy spirit. It is actually black magic or if do not want to describe it as such, then you can call it psychological manipulation

When you give away your will in the name of coming under the anointing you actually put yourself under the control of another who may take advantage of you.

This is not to make you leave church but for you to know what is actually happening so you can protect yourself. Once you know and understand the mechanism involved in this practice, then, the spell is broken and you find that you have control again.

Not all churches do this. So you can always find a safer group to fellowship with. The choice is yours

Have a wonderful sunday

Crime › Re: I Produce Fake Wine Because My Master Refused To Settle Me – Suspect by triplechoice(m): 12:57pm On Oct 17, 2018

SarkinYarki:
So because ya master refuse to settle you that's why you want to kill Nigerians with poisonous wine and yet you left your master free ..What a stupid excuse

Why are we not told what kind of trade or business the master is involved in?
Mission road and new Lagos axis in benin is where adulterated achoholic and non achoholic beverages are produced
If we cannot know what the master does, then I suspect he is also involved in the illicit business . He should be questioned too
I have lived in benin so I know what goes on there and the police also know but they have refused to do anything about it.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Is The Soul Immortal ? by triplechoice(m): 8:12pm On Sep 24, 2018

OneJ:
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I have done my research on this topic ( as to whether the soul is immortal ) , and what i found out is evidently affirmed by the Wikipedia's "Soul in the Bible" article.
Shalom.

Wikipedia cannot be relied upon for any serious research.. Anyone can place anything on that site. Anyway, it does not matter for me how you choose to conduct your research
There are certain ideas and experiences that cannot be fully expressed in words. You may think you have understood them just by reading the words in which they are expressed, but it is only when you have a direct experience of what they describe that you fully capture or get to understand better. That is why in schools we have theory and then practicals for a complete understanding
An idea as complex as the human soul is not what you can understand just by reading it up in a few sentences
You have been made to believe that the idea of the immortality of the soul has its origin from the ancient Greeks . That is certainly not true. Here in Africa, our forefathers also share in such belief

. I can tell you from my own personal experience and that of others who have similar experiences that the idea of man having an immortal soul goes beyond belief. .
I know you rest on Genesis account of how man was created from dust as a validation for your argument Unfortunately, I do not completely see the Bible in the way I know you have come to see it. If you remember Joshua commanding the sun to stand still, then you should understand that the Bible writers were people who had a limited understanding of the world as at that time.. Do you believe the sun stood still during that period?

. Was man created from sand? Of course we now know that a new born baby is predominantly made of water . was there a time water covered the surface of the earth? If you are not destitute of the knowledge of geography you should know, that it is not possible for water to cover the surface of the earth.

In the context of the Bible it all happened but in reality they did not.

Yes, man does not possess a soul. Man is soul encased in a body

Christianity Etc › Re: My Freedom And Your Feelings. by triplechoice(m): 5:42pm On Sep 21, 2018*

[quote author=Martinez19 post=71292855]Hian!

@bold
It is not logically advisable to use hard paper to wipe one's butt but people have the right to do so. My topic is not about what you deem civilised or not, it's about people's rights.

People also have the right to react if the find your behaviour offensive. You cannot stop them from doing so . Except you live in Jupiter, you should know, from experience, how people on earth take certain issues if not why should any be bothered by your personal fantasies

@red
It might be barbaric and crude but do they have the right to use hard paper to wipe their ass? Yes! And they shouldn't be forced to do otherwise or be punished for doing so. The rights are the only focus of my topic.

Yes, they have the right to do so provided it is done in the right location. But if they choose to record it and post or even stream it live on Facebook then they should be ready to bear the consequences of their action. In certain climes, they would be tracked and bundled 'rightfully' into an asylum.

@green
Lol grin

who asked you? The consequences of their choices is their's to bear if they want to wipe their ass with hard paper. They have the right to wipe their ass with hard paper. Their right to do so, not consequences of doing so, is the only focus of my topic.

Glad to know you still have your sense of humor intact. I was wondering at a point if I was not dealing with a psychopath . I agree the consequences is their's 'to bear and that they are entitled to their rights but as long as they live and interact with other humans who may be overly sensitive to certain issues, then it is my opinion that such rights as you intend to express should simply be mastubated on
@blue
It's not uncivilised to insult and ridicule ideas neither is it uncivilised to call people names. The manner, subjectively, is what determines if it's uncivilised or not. Given the rot which religion has, is and will descend on humanity, it's alright and deserving of religion to have insults and ridicule come it's way.
People love feeling good about themselves but the truth must be told. People who believe in religious claims are being foolish and stupid as far that aspect is concerned and it's not uncivilised to point that out. That's the truth.

I thought you were not concern about the form it should take. I have not mentioned that one should not express their right to criticize and maybe ridicule other people's ideas but there are boundaries you do not cross. You say people who believe in religious claims are foolish? then sorry to say that your naivety has made you not to see that you have been sold a dummy. Religion to me is all pretence. Why should I worry myself over those who do not practice what they preach. There was a time in my life I used to bother myself over religious arguments but not now. I have decided to channel my energies elsewhere.

@purple
Hmm. Are you the weak minded type that shivers at harsh reality and therefore will seeks solace in something(lies or truth) as long as it brings comfort? If you are like that, you have to toughen up for your own good. The correct response to absurd garbages like religion should be a critical scrutiny and analysis of it's claims, debunking where necessary and calling it for what it is. You don't take an idea as valid or respect it simply because it helps you cope--- that's weak mindedness.

Me weak minded? that assessment is wrong. I am not sure you can handle some of the things I have dealt with when it comes to religion.. I do not see religion as completely garbage it has its benefits if you ask me, with what I now know, to choose between religion and atheism, I will go for the former. at least we know from science that religious people live healthier, happier lives even if it is gotten from what we may regard as ignorance. Believe in anything no matter how absurd may lead the way to self discovery

@brown
Oh I see. Happiness of others is more important than the truth, right? By the way, I won't fuel the delusions that has torn mankind apart by giving people tools(bible and quran) to help submerge themselves further in these delusions. It's in the best interest of humanity. Truth is more important than happiness. Truth ensures man takes a realistic outlook and approach to life and taking a realistic outlook and approach to life not only ensures our survival and puts us out of harms way, it ensures an increase in the quality of life(I won't go into details).

Yes, sometimes happiness may come from a lie . It works in two ways. Some persons are not ready for the truth if you try to force it on them it may lead to a dislocation. For such, just let them be. It is just a matter of time they will learn. The only way you can help is share truth by not ridiculing them otherwise you put them on the defensive because it is natural for people to defend what they stand for no matter how absurd. So let them enjoy their 'lie' until when truth opens it's doors for them to walk in. While in the other way, you value truth more only when you have experienced the lie. Sometimes it is advisable to allow people have certain experiences and learn from it. I do not think it is religious books that is tearing mankind apart but rather the insincerity of those hiding under religion to perpetrate evil

@last
If happiness leads to lies and ignorance of truth then it's not worth it. This is true and it's in the best interest of the individual and society.
True happiness does not lead to lies. it is our responsibility to point this out. We should not stop doing this but do it with common sense

Christianity Etc › Re: Is The Soul Immortal ? by triplechoice(m): 12:13pm On Sep 19, 2018

OneJ:
So ,the ancient Greeks whose pantheon of gods & goddesses influenced their philosophy & pagan rooted ideas are now your role models & life coach ?

But, triplechoice, are U a Christian, moslem ,atheist or what are your beliefs ,as regards the soul, per se ?

If the Genesis account, is in your words, is "mythical" , also your assertion implies that Jesus Christ is a myth.

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I only intend to draw your attention to the irony in the op you created

If you know so much about the Greek 's ancient world view, then, except you want to pretend, you should also know that such ideas and beliefs are also found in the Bible. Bible writer's drew extensively from such sources you now term pagan

You can do your own research to confirm this. It will help to expand your religious paradigm.

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Christianity Etc › Re: My Freedom And Your Feelings. by triplechoice(m): 10:57pm On Sep 17, 2018

I do not think it is civilise behavior to buy a religious book and use it to wipe your anus .It is barbaric and very crude .The abrasive nature of the paper might leave some tear which makes it easy for infection to happen
I am neither an atheist nor a religious person so I understand how it feels when some religious people try to control your behavior because they assume they know what is right for you.As a civilise person you should not respond by disparaging what they believe in even if it seems illogical to you or calling them idiots,stupid, brainless
I think the correct thing is to act in a way that will make the religious person to want find out what keeps you going even when you don't think like them
So Incase you already bought a Bible or the Koran you intend to wipe your anus with,please change your mind and give it out to a neighbor who is either a Christian or Muslim tomorrow morning and see how you are going to bring happiness to somebody s life
We all seek happiness the reason most people search for it in a religion

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Christianity Etc › Re: Is The Soul Immortal ? by triplechoice(m): 8:27pm On Sep 17, 2018*

wow!
So,you just with one wave of the hand dismissed a whole of body of Greek philosophical thought on the nature of soul as pagan tradition and out of nowhere presenting us with the mythical account in Genesis as the correct one?
Its obvious you have taken the Genesis story literally because that's what you have been thought and come to accept as truth.

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Politics › Re: Nigerian Students Demand Arrest Of Kemi Adeosun Over NYSC Certificate Forgery by triplechoice(m): 12:28pm On Sep 17, 2018

REELnewz:
Trust Me Even A Quack Lawyer Will Tear Her Story Into Shreds In Court.She Knew The Right Thing To Do But Chose Not To,is She The First Person To Graduate Abroad.Make I Hea Word

If you go to the NYSC Secretariat in Abuja right now you will see graduate Nigerians from foreign universities who have come either to apply for exemption or to serve

So I just wonder why people are being deceived by the weak reason she gave for not doing the right thing.
She is claiming ignorance now but she knew more than three years ago during her screening for the position of a minister that the NYSC exemption certificate she presented was fake.Those doing the screening told her so and she agreed to a deal with them.Someone aspiring to become a country's finance should have been wary of striking any secret deal with dubious politicians something I am very sure NOI would never accept
It is the subsequent blackmail that led to everything coming out.I am sure she must have learnt her lesson now.I do not really blame her she is just a victim of circumstances.I believe certain persons must have placed undue pressure on her to do what ordinary she would not have done.Now her reputation has been dented

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Christianity Etc › Re: Juju: How Real Is African Black Magic? by triplechoice(m): 3:40pm On Jul 30, 2018

NPComplete:
Thank you!!!

People keep screaming Edo. And when I ask them this same question and many other similar questions, they shut up and tell me it is because I haven't seen any yet. The funny thing is that they haven't seen any either.

I was born in edo state.I attended both primary and secondary school there.I never experienced anything witchcraft or anything close to that.So it is amazing to hear from. from some persons who claim Edo is the center of witchcraft activities as if you can see them flying on broomstick in broad daylight.
Maybe the reason for this,are the sacrifices you can. easily find at some road junction.Other than this I have never had any such experience not even my siblings or close friends while growing up there.Although I know of some persons who claim to have experienced it but It was not as common as people describe it
I am sure the Edo people talk about is the one portrayed in nollywood movies

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Christianity Etc › Re: My by triplechoice(m): 7:37pm On Jul 28, 2018*

@samuel1981
If the situation is still overwhelming for you,then you shoud seek professional help
Ensure it is not from someone who will tell you it is voodoo or witch craft that is responsive
It is very obvious from what you have been posting what your beliefs are
You need to boost your confidence with more empowering beliefs and I think you need someone to help you do just that.
I have gone through the same situation as you can see from my previous post
It was worst than yours but I came out of it and even more stronger than I use to feel
You are seeing cobwebs which only you can see because your mind is creating it or has anyone told you they have seen cobwebs covering your face
You mind is very powerful and it can create all sports of phenomenal if you do not learn how to discipline it.
Jus like in my case,it is your beliefs that has brought you to the situation you find yourself and you need to change it and everything will start to change
If the Church you attend or the company you keep is fueling this negative mindset then you need to reconsider your association with such place and persons
My problem started when I attended a religious program where the guest speaker discussed the activities of witches and wizards I left the service feeling much afraid and unsecure and to worsen it at that time I was living alone
I started suspecting people around me and the illusion started to get real.That was the beginning of my problem then
Looking back now,one thing that really helped me was what someone who I could describe as an advance soul told me.He advised me to go and improve my relationship with the people I regarded as witches,to eat their food and spend time with themThe idea behind that action was to remove fear from my mind
.It helped greatly and today I can visit my village without any fear
One a final note stop giving negative interpretation to dreams and it will change or if you like you can tell yourself before you go to sleep that you will no longer see the individual who come to you in your dreams to tell you negative thingsYou can even tell yourself you will chase him away and when you dream you will see yourself doing just that
Do not be afraid It is you alone that can decide your destiny and no one else
Yes, at certain times I still experience doubt s and fears but each time I still have to remind myself of certain principles I have learnt to stay afloat

Christianity Etc › Re: My by triplechoice(m): 10:51pm On Jul 26, 2018

You need to change your mindset
Stop believing there is a witch somewhere affecting your life or you are under a curse.I have also experienced what you are currently going through.In my own case,I even started to hallucinate.I saw cats and strange humans appearing and disappearing..Prayers and running to churches did not stop it until I met a very knowledgeable man who told that it was mind that was responsible for what I was experiencing and I should not be afraid that it will end.I did not take the advice at that time because I felt he did not understand what I was going through
So I decided to run away from warrri to Lagos believing a change of location. will bring and end to it but it became worse.In lagos,I got a job in a bakery because someone told me. in warrri that I should occupy myself with something to take my attention away from what was disturbing my mind.
One night my deliverance came in a strange way.It started with my mind creating images as usual so I left the bakery I was working to met a friend who was working as a night guard in a church close to airport hotel in Ikeja.By this time I was filled with much fear and apprehension because I imagined some persons where following me but I coul not look directly at them due to fear
When I got to the church ,my friend was not there .He was having his off day.So I decided to go to his house to sleep there because I was afraid to be alone
By now I was running and walking at the same time .When I got to the gate of my friend's house,it was locked. At that moment I observed that the persons and cats I believed where after me also stopped .As I moved back they also moved back.That was when It dawn on me that I have been hallucinating all this time due to fear of witchcraft.So immediately I looked directly at what I believed were after me and it just disappeared
For the first time all my fears vanished I walked back to the bakery to join them.By morning when the owner of the bakery came ,I told her I was returning back to warrri.she paid me for the one week I had worked and I left .
I was going back to warrri because I now realized there was no witch anywhere after me.It was my assumption and believe that created all that I experienced.Also what that man told me now made sense:that it was mind that was creating everything .So each time I felt I was seeing or hearing things ,I just ignore it and it goes away
That was how I finally came out of it
I got myself engaged with a teaching job in a private school.T he following year ,I sat for GCE and also enrolled for jamb.I was successful in both.I am now a graduate and I have been working for the past eight years
I have decided to share this story not only for you but to others experiencing same
Get anything to do forget your certificate
You went to school and graduated why is it now witches are after you?
Look for any job by the time you start earning money no matter how small it will take your attention from those beliefs.
Ignore the cobwebs you are seeing it will go away.you are the one creating them through your fear s and believe
Don't go for any deliverance it will only reinforce the belief that witches after you

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Business › Re: Did The ATM In Computer Village Scam Me? by triplechoice(m): 12:20pm On Jun 08, 2018

I also experienced the same with stannbic bank ATM here in Asaba along Nnebisi road
on the 5th too
On that day,the money was being dispensed but did not come out for me to receive it as the clamp could not open fully enough.Just then I received a debit alert for the transaction .I immediately called the attention of the security personnel close by to what has happened and was advised to wait for a little to see if the mon
ey would come out.It did not and I went to complain
inside the bank.I was advised to go to my bank to lay a complain. I have to wait for two weeks for it to be reversed. Was not too happy to hear that If it were to be my last cash and I had an emergency to attend to then what would have happened.

Christianity Etc › Re: Looking For Advice by triplechoice(m): 6:06pm On Mar 20, 2018

Hello,
I grew up in Benin and know how the indigenes put so much faith in the ability of a witchdoctor to cast a spell to affect destiny.Fear is usually the controlling factor and nothing more.Fear that something bad would happen if you go against the terms of an oath. It is this fear that has trapped your friend.She is right now in a position where her traffickers want her to be until she pays off what she agreed to
If you want to help her,you can try this simple psychological trick it will help to remove fear and free her to seek the help she needs.Search for the recent video or images of the oba of Benin and his chiefs performing a ritual to revoke curses on trafficked victims.Download this and send to her.Before sending to her you need to prepare her mind to make it really effective.Tell her before sending that you have a solution to her problem and that the information will come when she is about to sleep.This will make her look forward to it,,Tell her to call you when she is about to sleep and send it to her at that time
Viewing the images at that time will help to impress it in her subconscious or spirit if thats what you will understand.If this is done properly it will to remove fear and give her the confidence she needs to seek her help
What the oba and his chiefs did has the same purpose.If you read what the chief priest said concerning a ritual item that had not been exposed to the sun in 800 years,you will get understand my whole point.The mention of the 800 years item not seeing the sun is to help create a powerful belief that will help invalidate in the mind of the trafficked victims the belief which they place on the oath to affect them
You can also contact the Edo state task orce against human trafficking on her behalf.Thete is a working agreement with the Italian authorities to deal with such cases.Hers is not the first
Money is not the issue here as it seems to me most persons may have misunderstood you thinking you are seeking for fund on her behalf to pay off her traffickers
I hope my advice helps.Goodluck

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Middle Path by triplechoice(m): 5:32pm On Feb 15, 2018

Good day sarassin, I have been expecting a reply to the mail I sent you for over two weeks now. I sent a reminder last week and still no response I would be grateful if you could find the time to reply me Thank you

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Romance › Re: Angela Nwosu Slam Ladies Who Complain About Men With Small Joystick by triplechoice(m): 1:12pm On Aug 08, 2017

[quote author=bbbabes post=59263876]Not really dear, what's the essence of having a pencil screw you, when you don't feel nothing.. And you would not want us to make use of sex tooys or have other ladies help us out.

Forget it. [/quot'
'what is the point of a man having a large dick if it cannot make a woman pregnant'.This was the reply a lady gave me when I tried to find out her opinion on this same issue.Apart from been amused by her reply,it was also an eye opener for me.It made me realise forcefully that apart from giving pleasure the penis,whatever the size,is there for the important function of procreation
Well,for those who do not give Bleep about getting married or having children,they are free to sample the numerous dicks out there until they find the one that can really fit.Looking at your dp I can guess you do not belong to that group.I know your comment is just for the attention.Girls pretend alot.

Phones › Re: 9mobile Recorded The Highest Number Of Porting Subscribers, See Full Reports! by triplechoice(m): 1:24pm On Jul 23, 2017

asuustrike2009:
What's with this code!

It gives you access to a loan from 1k to 50 k payable in two in weeks with an interest of 15%.
I have been on it for some months now.It seems most people do not know this

Phones › Re: 9mobile Recorded The Highest Number Of Porting Subscribers, See Full Reports! by triplechoice(m): 10:00am On Jul 23, 2017

I think the reason for people porting to 9mobile is because of *561#

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Celebrities › Re: “I Stand With Falz”-daddy Freeze Shades 9ice by triplechoice(m): 2:32pm On Jun 24, 2017

SaulRazor:
I have always said most Nigerians are criminals, if not explain why they are angry with Falz for saying the right thing

The reason their conscience is pricked whenever Evans story appears on frontpage .They dont want to be confronted with the fact that the same fate awaits them if they continue with their criminal activities

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