₦airaland Forum

Marriage (epecially MONOGAMY) is honestly overrated! It works for some and doesn't work for many others.

As a man, never allow a woman drive you into violence, divorce her (incase of monogamy / court marriage)
OR
Divorce / marry additional wife to tackle her (in case of customary marriage)

Our forefathers had a better cure for their wife's madness. Men now have been reduced to p*ssies! They have been bullied so well that some even take pride in being controlled by the manipulative women in their lives.

Disgusting, but I am not suprised. Is it not Mercy of BBN again?
My only issue is the biased reaction when it comes to men on men misbehaviour. Even women will cringe, yet there is a lot of tolerance for women on women misbehaviour.

Were Alasho! Elenu razor. Omo ale jati jati!

ngwaIgbo223:
Shut up Kogi man.

He may have cluelessly tried to do that, then rescinded as an afterthought to his cluelessness. The president that keep assuring & doing nothing about his assurances is infinitely blessed with gaffes!

rexwalters:
Common sense, can the President sack the Chief Executive Officer of a Private company? Why are Nigerian youths dull like this?

Talk is cheap, scammer!!!

See why it’s so difficult to help Nigerians who look like they are in need? 99% of them are inherently evil!

Eleribu! Just like your ancestral home is no man’s land?

KillIgbohoN0W:

Lagos is no-man's land. Na monkey get am.

Very careless lecturer. The picture could cost him his job if his haters take it up!

You are what is wrong with the 2 tribes. You tribalistic, hastily generalizing simp!

NoFucksToGive:
Yorubas will not stop disgrcaing this nation with their fraudulent activities, while the yam leggers are disgracing us with drugs

what is wrong with these two tribes?

The same selfish UK?

What is this one saying? Did you even read my comment where I said the creation of Nigeria was by force?!
A lot of coutries in the world, even in the West keep negotiating and renegotiating their existence. Why will someone now say Nigeria's existence is non-negotiable?
While sharing Cameroon and Nigeria, even Britain and France negotiated the spoils.

rexwalters:
A Failure will always find an excuse for been a Failure, please name one country in Africa which the colonialist negotiated with the people before it was created?

Ever heard of the Berlin conference 1884 partition of Africa, are you not aware the Cameroon & Nigeria was once a single empire until it was divided between France & Great Britain?

Have you not asked yourself why Nigeria is the only English speaking country amongst its neighbors from Republic du Benin, Niger, Cameroon, Chad?

Although Nigeria's creation was FORCED and not negotiated, even Britain, France and Germany (until Germans lost their conquered territories after WWII) had to NEGOTIATE the sharing formula of how they will allocate Africa to themselves.

Nigeria's existence at independence was negotiated.

Why will the continued existence of Nigeria by freemen and freewomen NOT be negotiated!!!

Are we a nation of slaves that cannot negotiate whether they want to part of Nigeria or not?

Mr. Ooni of Ife, I respect you a lot o. But on this one, Oga park well!!!

You are a woman who goes into a relationship for ONLY one reason, MARRIAGE. Unfortunately, you met your spec, but he is not in the market for the same reason... at least not yet. You already know it, but you a desperate to find a reason to hang in there, hoping that he will change his mind and orientation.
My dear, YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME. Even if you eventually manipulate him to marry you, it will be a bad marriage like many out there, Because you did not let it evolve naturally.
If you are in a hurry to confirm marriage, you better date someone with that mentality too. If not, you better calm down and enjoy the ride until marriage pops up if it ever does... there are no guarantees.
Most Nigerian women forget relationships are not created ONLY for marriage, there are 101 reasons why romantic relationship happen.

You probably loved her and she did not love you as much. If you sponsored her to your current location, that may be the only reason why she married you... to relocate.
Start by letting her know ALL that you have typed here. If you can't say it, print it on a paper and have her read it in your presence. Hopefully, your pain will soften her up if she has any ounce of love for you.

I also suggest you see a marriage counsellor / couple therapist ASAP. If that fails pray and fast concerning your marriage. Ask God to show you his will for the marriage. If you see nothing or see negatives in dreams or vision after your prayer and fasting RUN! You married a Jezebel that will destroy you. You did not marry the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh.

Marriage is not do or die. We make mistakes in our decisions sometimes and those mistakes MUST be corrected.

Beneficiaries of the Nigerian rot.

Nigerian women have now formed a habit of shaming men with sexual dysfunction when they separate from those men.
Do women even know how many of them are not sweet in bed? Men just quietly move on. We don’t go to public shouting that our exes have smelly p*ssies or c*nts as wide as river niger, do we? Some even have jinxed t*t* that will immediately bring bad luck into the man’s life. Most men will just usually quietly move on when they realize this. They don’t go all out announcing it.
Wonen should learn to move on & stop this childish trend of bitterness & revenge.

I have actually asked a couple of them out, but they ey always seem to be hooked.
My rule of thumb is usually not to destroy other people’s relationship, so I just move on.
They are really hot cakes, whether ugly or not. Men don’t want financial or intellectual liabilities & female doctors are not usually any of these.

Lie Mohammed raised a formidable MISINFORMATION machine!
He, his children & generation yet unborn shall bountifully reap the evil he has sown!

You hate schooling? I honestly apologize to you. I just realized I was talking to the wrong person. Goodbye.

ideatoprince18:
..,... This is the reason why I hate schooling or arguing with dumb people.....

...... The word procure means buy .... Now try putting the word "buy" in place of procure and read those statements aloud to yourself.

That aside .... I said let's be logical ...... I guess it brain is not logical enough to comprehend!!!

What is wrong with a Man of legal age having sex with a woman of legal age and paying for it!!!!.... There was "consent" from both of them.... Nobody raped each other ..... It's a business transaction .... Everybody goes home happy!!! ....

My brother the law exists in the Nigerian criminal code. The only reason it is not being enforced is because these brothels know they MUST regularly settle police to avoid the arrest of their customers.
Please google section 223 of Nigerian criminal code.

Revolva:
So now make person no have se.x now abi which kind useless law be dat

When every gal in naija is demanding money for banging

So what do u mean abeg guy ...I never see when police arrest people for ashewo house for having se.x it can't happen in naija

Instead of doing your research, you ask me to be logical?
Dear lazy Nigerian who will ignorantly argue without any work at researching the claim,
please read sections 223 of the Criminal Code. I hope you are not too lazy to read it till the end? Procure, means paying for something by the way.

“Any person who procures a girl or woman who is under the age of eighteen years to have unlawful carnal connection with any other person or persons, either in Nigeria or elsewhere;

“Or procures a woman or girl to become a common prostitute, either in Nigeria, or elsewhere;

“Or procures a woman or girl to leave Nigeria with intent that she may become an inmate of a brothel elsewhere;

“Or procures a woman or girl to leave her usual place of abode in Nigeria, with intent that she may, for the purposes of prostitution, become an inmate of a brothel, either in Nigeria or elsewhere; is guilty of a misdemeanour, and is liable to imprisonment for two years.

ideatoprince18:
... Let's be logical .... When does paying for sex become a crime??

Once he pays, he has 'procurred' a prostitute & according to the criminal code, he is liable to 2yrs in prison. The lady on the other hasn't committed an offense for being a prostitute. Unless they are in the Northern Sharia states.

nazicartel:
Pay her off nah.... Some people just like having careless issues gaan....

You people don't realize paying for sex can earn you 2yrs in prison, while the prostitute may go free!

ideatoprince18:
Mtscheeeeeeeee..... Na acting Dem dey act?!!!


But sincerely if I see many wey patronise ASHAWO and him no wan gree pay, e dey pain me!!!.... No matter how u see it, this babes are hustling legitly .... So after patronising, pay the money wey u agree. Omot for there make another customer see road enter him turn.

I fit even join hand beat the guy sef if na true!!!

Do you even realize that paying for sex is an offense in Nigeria?

chariisGRACE:


This same man will complain that his president is a failure, simply because the president is yet to fulfill some of the promises he made during his campaign for re-election.

Here he is, ordinary to pay for hole you drilled, he cannot pay, but he would be blaming his president when hunger comes knocking after wasting the little strength he had drilling the kpekus he couldn't even pay for.

Clown! He wouldn't have won if not for his sponsors who packaged him for gullible Nigerians.
Grammy awards kor Granny awards ni!
You better go & open a restaurant, even if na Mama put!

Excellent job to Obiano. Even Lagos has not been able open it's long awaited airport!

Who will fire Bubu for his ineptitude & cluelessness?

We have a culture of bullying that must be addressed.
Whoelse noticed while complaining of bullying the shouting woman ended up bullying the whistleblower too?!

Sad! RIP little girl!

But why will they burn down the forensic crime scene where irrefutable evidence may be collected to convict the suspect with ease?!

Foolish people. You just suddenly realized that?
The government is pained because their already planned holidays with their family & concubine in UK & Canada has been disrupted!
God is not asleep on Nigeria’s matter!

Good job. The culprits deserve extrajudicial smoking.