₦airaland Forum

I clearly separated physiological, legal and mental maturity dude. I understand your Nigerian thinking. That is why you people still collect feeding money from your parents at 21yrs. Most parents abroad will kick your lazy matured asses out at 18-19yrs!
I deal with facts. You are the one that has boxed yourself into shallow thinking. Physical maturity means they have matured enough biologically to have sex and procreate. Which is partially the aim of marriage.

Just think outside your myopia and Google age of consent around the world. Hope you know consent means legally allowed to have sex & kids?
I hope you know that even in the US, age of consent ranges from 16-18yrs?
In Australia age of consent is 15yrs. Canada is 16yrs

https://www.populationu.com/gen/age-of-consent-by-country

Carot:
false. What kind of people are this ones?

You are partially wrong.
1. Generally, all women are physically & physiologically ready for marriage at 16yrs.
2. They are legally ready at 18yrs.
3. Finally, mentally they are ready at different ages between 18yrs and infinity
You could be 40yrs and be mentally immature for marriage and be 18yrs and mentally ready for marriage.

The difference in age counts for nothing. There are many 18+ who married and had a lifelong of a great marriage and 40yrs + whose marriage did not last 48hrs.

BRATISLAVA:
Even in 2-3 years she will not be mature for marriage. Marriage was not made for teenagers and people barely out of their teens.

All the old men predating on teenage girls know why they do so. It is never for her. Selfishness in men didn't begin today.

Mr man, there is nothing wrong if they are truly both in love and have no selfish or ulterior motive behind their decision to marry.
Your 17 year old sister is too young tho. You guys can ask him to wait for 2-3 years for her to fully mature.

Scammer! Nigeria is not doing her best. It is Buhari & his clueless team that are doing their selfish best. And their best isnt good enough.

Mark my words, you are married to a woman that will kill or destroy you. Pack what is left of your life while it is still intact and LEAVE THAT MARRIAGE.
She has a lot to hide from you and you never know the gravity of her secrets. Maybe your kids are not yours sef!

Please report the phone number and account number ASAP. To save others from the scammer.

What kind of help are you asking for again? No decent woman will date a guy with a shady source of wealth… whether Yahoo, rituals, kidnapping or any other CRIME that we call ‘business’ in Nigeria.

I will advise you not to go there. If she ever loved you, she will NEVER have chosen your best friend over you. There is almost 100% chance she just wants to use you to get back at your best friend who dumped her. Women are vindictive like that.

Good observation. Three reasons can account for this:
1. She had always been like that, but she only initially hid it from you so that you don’t run away before you got deeply emotionally involved with her.
2. Like you said, she has probably just met a real Tiger who f*cked her brains out & she wants to replicate that in her sex encounters with you.
3. She may also recently have started watching & liking porn & masturbation because of your intermittent absence. Now, she wants to replicate the porn moves on you.

Zeal0000007:
Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

Stupid and jealous husband! Why would you go to that lenght to express your anger and displeasure?!
I know it is very sad and disappointing to realize your wife was hiding money from you while you struggled to fund the family month in month out. Especially if she was the demanding type & you had to sacrifice so much to make her financially stable and happy.
I know, because similar thing happened to me & I just added it to many other reasons to divorce her selfish, wicked and lazy ass.

These unreliable & unstable politicians that are just desperate to get power without knowing what to do with it ehn!!!

Rubber stamp senate president! You will go down in history as the worst senate president Nigeria ever had the misfortune of having.
Buhari has ever been in a hurry to underdevelop Nigeria into a COW COLONY!
Clueless cowards like you sufficiently enabled him!

You are going through a natural phenomenon.
You can only curb but not eliminate sexual urge through higher thinking, such as spirituality and meditation.
1. Pray continuously to the God you believe in to help you.
2. Exhaust your mental, physical & mental energy with activities such a martial arts, exercise, chess, sports activities, motorcycling, etc. Make sure that you are not idle for most part of the day.
3. Avoid subtle & aggressive sexual stimuli such as sensual scenes in movies, night clubs or bars, gym, etc.

If all these fails, seek out a psychological therapist, it may be because of your age or hormone imbalance.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

His brother’s wife committed an abomination, yet he is still wondering what to do?
Some Nigerian mothers have successfully raised an army of weak cretins in Nigerian men. Na wa o!

Your sister-in-law married into a family of WEAKLINGS & she has chosen to take full advantage of your family’s weak nature.
How can you say your brother & family don’t want to ‘go hard on her’ for denying the poor kids education They are lagging behind their mates & when those kids become miscreants for being raised improperly, they will be your WEAK family’s & society’s burden to carry.
Even some state governments have criminalized what she has done, yet your cretinous asses are tolerating her!
I pity those kids so much!

Dailyparrot:
My brother lives in the remote part of Ikorodu. They have three kids.

The children didn't go to school throughout last term and this term again, they've been staying at home. When other kids in the compound have gone to school, his kids will remain at home with the wife doing nothing.

The reason the wife stopped the kids from going to school is because she wants them to leave that part of Lagos and move to the developed part of Ikorodu or any township part of Lagos.

Invariably, she's using the kids staying at home to protest and punish the husband, maybe?

I feel she's punishing the kids and not the husband. My brother leaves for work very early in the morning and will not be able to take the kids to school himself.

He's not financially capable of relocating at this time but I feel he can plan with his wife and save towards relocating, maybe in a year's time but I doubt the wife is taking the best approach.

The wife said she's not taking up any job or starting any business until they relocate from that area. So for now, the whole burden is on my brother.

Please, what's the best approach to this their family issue. We don't want to take side and go hard on the wife, but, don't feel she's taking the best decision for the kids.

100% kwaret!
Watch how broke, entitled, lazy and selfish bimbos criticize this truth. They also have male woman-wrapper cretinous accomplices!

You are very kwaret!

Agbe-cowards, talk is cheap! Just do it if you can! Warning your oppressor sounds chicken and stupid to me!

This is the most stupid assertion in the world!
Do you know RELIGION in Nigeria is a BIGGER distraction to the youths and adults alike? Should we suspend religious activities too?!

Mr professor, so IMPEACHMENT is not?!
Your academic & pastoral certificate should be withdrawn!
Those stupid journalists don’t know how to ask follow up questions!

Yeah! We believe you, serial LIAR!

As the protector of the sycophants ans corrupt!

BeeBeeOoh:
https://dailytrust.com/okorocha-buhari-has-promised-to-take-up-my-efcc-case

You are likely reacting to something. It maybe food, clothing, cream , soap or even household cleaners/disinfectant.
Secondly, you may need to detox seriously. Go on a week of only fruits & water once every month to see if it helps. Also take zinc supplements to boost your immunity.

I tell some of my friends who have never had sex with non-Nigerian women that if they do, they may hate Nigerian women.

Uchesis:
i swear nigerian girls are sooo damn boring at sex. Of all the girls i've fucckd in my life, only one has given me bj and cowgirl. can u imagine

You are so wrong!
The fact is that a man can still NOT do all these things and his target is ONLY sex.
The truth is that women get the vibe that it is ONLY sex men want because ALMOST ALL Nigerian women have nothing else to offer other than SEX (and very terrible sex for that matter). Nigerian women are also not ashamed to emphasize that they have nothing to offer by their utterances and mannerisms.
So men just focus on the ONLY advantage they think they can get from Nigerian women … very boring sex where the man is again expected to do everything and the woman is unwilling to lift a finger to spice things up.

Another propaganda that has no impact on stopping the carnage. What is wrong with naming the perpetrators so that legitimate people stop doing business with them?!

What is wrong with all these politicians going to seek permission from Buhari like students do with their principal?!

RIP to the dead. May your killers be caught if your hands are clean.
SW is not the only region where you find head hunters after all.

This Buhari & his team na the biggest scammers in the history of Nigeria!

This is the most lame, lazy, entitled and shallow narrative ever!
How can you have NOTHING to bring to the table? It may not be equal, but it MUST be something.
Even God will ask you what you have in your hand… like he asked Moses!
Most Nigerian women are just BHGS! It is not Boko Haram Grammar School o! Broke, Hungry, Greedy and Selfish!

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

This propagandist and con artist again?! I’m surre he will start his paid lies and propaganda on TV stations again now. Anytime he has this kinds of drama I noticed stations will start airing his spinsored propaganda.

Op you are wrong! The reason is that Nigerians have become so morally bankrupt that they insist nobody should ask for the source of wealth of anybody. They demand their youths and old to get reach by ALL means, but hypocritically express shock when they see the extent some people can go to get rich!