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You are so weak! FYI, she is your baby mama NOT your wife idiot! That may be the reason for her aggression. Although your delay in marrying her should not be a reason she whoops your stupid ass regularly na?!
Did you just say It is a curse for a man to beat a woman? What of her beating your weak ass up? That is a blessing?
Fool! leave that stupid live-in situation you call a marriage before she murders you or you murder her!

This ovation clown and his 4-yearly episode of madness! Someone should give him his medicine ASAP!

Good for the man. He should thank God it isn’t after he has invested years, money and emotions in the marriage. If she had stayed, she was sure gonna give him a bastard!

dre11:
Court dissolves 3-year-old marriage after wife eloped with lover



https://dailypost.ng/2022/01/13/my-wife-eloped-with-her-lover-after-our-marriage-man-tells-court/

Make I digress a bit. Civil servants are the main evil in Nigeria. They are the ones that enable politicians to steal our commonwealth while they enrich themselves too.
Corrupt & evil set of people!

The jagaban of all crooks! Keep lying to your moronic supporters.

I swear, you just wrote absolute trash!
Your marriage is not working, but you assume you have it working.
Both of you need to see a marriage counselor and sex therapist ASAP.
If you are still having issues regarding sex thereafter, better consider divorce & focus on raising that poor child & being physically present in the child’s life before your stupid attempt at marriage makes you a stranger in your child’s life. If you don’t know, sendings your wife to her mum is taking you away from your child!

SKULL MINERS! �

RIP to the poor kids!

You are wrong. That question is very valid and the response of the interviewee shows the validity.

FreeStuffsNG:
Hahaha...Ruffy Baba is asking a pedestrian and near infantile question. I am not sure Seun Okinbaloye of Channels TV would ask such question that sounds like beer parlour discussion to the point the person being interviewed ignored him.

I just hope the media will take its job very serious as we approach 2023, to ask very important questions to empower the electorates on the quality of each candidate.
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Nigerians and their warped value system. These wh*res will then go and pay tithe from their wh*ring escapades. Then turn around to demonize others that don't go to church or pay tithe.
Rubbish country, mostly filled with rubbish people.

Calm down bro! It is not irredeemable. As long as you
1. Truly learn from these mistakes
2. Stop living a fake life
3. Open up to your wife about your predicament and REAL financial status
4. Sacrifice seriously to repay the current loans
5. To learn to save, get a carpenter to make a local piggy bank for you. Everytime money comes in, put a part in it.
6. Never borrow money to do anything that is not life treathening to you or your immediate family
7. Learn to say NO to people when ask for money that you don't have
8. Don't be ashamed to ask family and friends to help you if they can. Don't feel bad if they don't. It is their money and you are not entitled to it.

Well, she just gave you free pass to her kpekus.
Just be careful because these ladies usually mean it when they say such things. Only venture there if you are cooked enough!

This is so unfortunate. Was sex like that with you prior to marriage or she recently started avoiding sex with you?
She may have a tangible reason for recently avoiding sex with you, For instance, she may be treating a non-STD related infection like yeast or toilet infection and she was too naive or shy to discuss it with you.
You needed to be a bit more patient with her since you described her as the naive type.

The ONLY reasons you should get angry at your wife for denying you sex, BUT NEVER BE VIOLENT WITH HER are:
1. for spiritual reasons that she did not get your buy in first
2. for monetary reward like a common wh*re
3. for revenge purposes

You need to really beg her and convince her that it will NEVER happen again. Also let her know that sex is very important to you in marriage and carry her along at her pace. Let her know you will need her to match your voracious sexual appetite with time. But still be patient with her. Good women are not easy to find out there o.... at least you descibed her as a good woman.
If your marriage is restored, good for you. If not, just prepare for a divorce. There is no reason why anybody should wallow unhappily in a marriage.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

This is how it is done. Stop asking for zoned presidency in the South until the North takes advantage of Southern disunity.

Your cup of tea in the North. Just stop sending your destitutes to the SW!

RIP to my former boss!
Unlike other regions, the SW has consistently supported Ogun State citizens to represent us at the centre/ presidency. Whether they have represented us well is another matter all together!

naptu2:
https://guardian.ng/breakingnews/former-nigerian-leader-ernest-shonekan-is-dead/

These SE politicians are big jokes. So you expect the presidency to be dropped on your laps?!
The presidency WILL be zoned to the South. Then the SE, SW and SS will contest for it.
The presidency was zoned to the North and the NW won (by hook or crook) both times, after competing with the NE & NC.

No it will not be Buhari's greatest legacy! Buhari's greatest legacy will be to return Nigeria's economic indicators to where he met it or do better with it.
The presidency is not the ultimate achievement. Buhari has destroyed Nigeria and we all need to man up to tell him what he has done. Everyone keeps stroking his over-bloated narcissistic ego and misdirecting him from the evil he has done and abyss he has plunged Nigeria into.

What kind of fuckery is this?!

You are naive. Very few shady characters can hide their trail. If you get close enough to an individual you will definitely smell a rat. If you don’t, then you deliberately ain’t looking or the person is too dumb to spot it. Both deserve what they get most times. Very few people get unlucky, very few like 0.1%. Most of the others got what’s coming!

franchasng:
Amen



For instance, that Ondo State Ex Deputy Governor's daughter that got killed by her innocent looking broke boyfriend for rituals didn't accept to date that unfortunate broke guy for money and we also learnt she gives him money yet he killed her in a cruel manner for money. Most times its not the ladies' fault. Just ill luck with meeting the right guy. Life sha

Na ONLY yahoo plus? What of Yahoo, robbers, kidnappers, drug dealers, gangsters and so on?

Dem no dey tell pikin make s/he no become leprose as long as s/he can live ALONE in the forest.

I have no pity for guys/ladies that don’t even try to understand what their partners do & if they find out s/he isn’t legit in any way s/he must ignore the lavish lifestyle or freebies and RUN!

These people are deranged!
If you defend terrorists, are you not a terrorist?
You have over the years defended and incited the actions of callous and cowardly Fulani terrorists, THEREFORE, YOU ARE A TERRORIST!

Rubbish! Why was she so much in a hurry to announce her mum’s death to the world? Social media will put some people in deep trouble one day!

Like Orji Uzor Kalu abi?

This man is annoyingly narcissistically delusional.
Nigerians finally got a nutcase to lead them.

With your FAKE bum, face & attitude, you are only entitled to FAKE LOVE!

When did Nigerian presidency become a way to reward personal loyalty?

This incompetent and senile narcissist is so out of tune with reality.

Who is this delusional fool?
This is an insult to all terrorized Northerners daily enduring the horror called Buhari presidency.

How has this resulted in the betterment of the Oyo kingdom & her people?
These traditional rulers are becoming social media monarchs with no significance in the lives of their subjects.

Supreme Court governor of lies, propaganda & sensationalism!

I thought the Torah abhors homosexuality?!

What an evil girl! Imagine the trauma the child’s parents must have faced?
I think the girl had accomplices in Imo who sent her on this mission from the beginning.
Their intention may be kidnap for random or rituals.
Thank God the child was rescued from the evil girl. Kudos to the observant good samaritan.