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Sometimes, there can be a political solution to a legal dispute.
In my opinion, given the huge value of the asset already on the land, I suggest the old occupiers should negotiate a reasonable settlement with the SC judgement owners. Instead of destroying lifelong properties running into billions. There are several known land disputes settled this way.
This way both parties will gain something.
Don’t forget that LASG has the constitutional right to give and withdraw the Cof O at anytime. Any judgement that contradicts this runs ultra vires to the grundnorm.

FreeStuffsNG:
They should face Supreme Court that pronounced that the true owners of the land were cheated and the land be returned to them.

In my opinion, this issue has absolutely nothing to do with Malami and they will be playing to the gallery by attempting to politicize it. Thank God the true owners of the land who were cheated for several years took the path of legal redress instead of taking the laws into their own hands. The SC judgement is a serious indictment on the state and it will be nice if the judgement winners petition EFCC to investigate and prosecute those Lagos State officials who originally sold the land after dispossessing the true owners .

This issue can't be closed with just returning the land, it's an opportunity to see the faces of those who put LASG in this disgraceful position where the Governor is engaging in the criminality of attempting to block the enforcement of a SC judgement and even the LASG AG resorted to twisting the SC judgement and outrightly threatening the judgement winners.
With the kind of advice the Attorney General gave the Governor, the judgement winners should report the AG to NJC and NBA disciplinary committee.

Until the judgement winners petition EFCC, those standing against the execution of the judgement won't realise the severity of the injustice committed against private citizens who had to go hungry for years just to get back their property.

Rubbish!

This Gani Adams guy likes to over hype himself.
We know you & your clowns have fed fat on the Nigerian rot. Don’t add insult to injury by trying to be politically relevant.
Toothless bulldog!

Since the ladies already know he is a prolific ‘impregnator’, why have unprotected sex with him ? Why not use post pill to avoid adding yourself to the baby mama list?
How women hold men responsible for the decision they made to
1. have unprotected sex,
2. their refusal to understand & monitor their fertility status which ONLY they are privy to.
3 not to use N1000 post pill in the event of fertility uncertainty, mistake or sex accidents.

It really baffles me. If a man is told that ‘if you have unprotected sex with me there is a high likelihood of getting HIV’, I am sure most men will either refuse sex or choose using protection.
All women need to do is remind men that they are ovulating and WILL get pregnant if protection is not used. Most men will either pass or use protection. This will minimize the nightmare women face with men rejecting their pregnancies.
To think that refusing to take a $2 post pill is what messes up women for the rest of their lives amazes me.

SURElee:
He just dey born babies with different women up and down. Mschewwww!

You fell in love on the 1st day after tasting the d*ck?! How are you sure you ain’t just infatuated?
He didn’t promise you marriage girl, he ONLY promised you love. FYI, a man can love a woman without ever wanting to marry her. It may not be the same for women towards men.
Nigerian women should understand the following:
1. Because you had sex doesn’t mean love is involved.
2. A man isn’t obligated to marry you because you gave him your body.
3 Although unrelated, a man is not obligated to foot your bills just because you agreed to date him or have sex with him.

You are delusional!
Most men want better women.

Not flirting with those beautiful office hotties!
You know it won’t ever go beyond the office, but it is one reason people like me look forward to that next working day!

We forget that it is ILLEGAL to erect a gate or obstruct movement in Lagos Private security can control access to PRIVATE properties and NOT PUBLIC ROADS for Pete's sake! Please ref the link below.

I detest the Nigeria Police, but on this, the private security guards were wrong!

https://lagosstate.gov.ng/blog/2017/12/29/lagos-begins-enforcement-of-street-gate-regulations/

Confused MF!

Has there ever been any good governance under the Buhari regime horror!

We should keep faith while you continue to FEED FAT as usual on the insatiable stupidity of Nigerians that tolerate your kind.

So she met a random guy & decided to have unprotected sex with him. Then she refused to understand sex education & her fertility matrix. Lastly, she stupidly refused to use 1k out of the money for selling her body to buy post pill & spare us this her madness. Now she wants to be rewarded for her idiocy.
No pity from me to her!

Ain’t Nigerians tired of these old fools who put Nigeria in this mess & have decided not to apologize or let go?!

The 30k difference isn’t worth your unhappiness.
Go for the lesser paying job that offers career growth and fulfillment. Then work towards developing and positioning yourself better pay on the same job or a similarly fulfilling job elsewhere.

Trulydude:
Hello House,
Please I have a dicey situations here, can you give your input.
After concluding my youth service at Firm ABC in Lagos, the company wanted to retain me with a gross salary of 100k, but I don't want the job, I am an engineering graduate with average skills and so much potentials. I hate the job just because of it's description, it is base on trial and error and sometimes a lot of energy and effort is used to deliver some services, Moreover, the job is frustrating and tiring and also I don't think I see any likelihood of carrier growth from that job; because as an engineer you are to work under the supervision of a registered engineer before you get COREN certification.

Then, company CDE gave me another offer for 70k Gross, and the company is Telecoms company and I see a lot of potential with this new company, though the pay is something else.

So, please I need some experts views, comments and recommendations; which one should I go for?

Typical Northern Nigerian idiot trying to glorify the fantastically corrupt shithole country.

Bunch of idiots doing the same thing over & over again and expecting a different result?
You recycle the same old thieves and expect a different developmental outcome from them each time? Why did God make most Nigerians so brainlessly stupid?’

Honestly, Nigerians must be congratulated for surviving the horror that is Buhari.
I just believe Nigerians have resigned to fate, given that they put themselves in this predicament.

These people that are reluctant to speak truth to power like the biblical prophets did and Jesus did want me to believe their words

So, why didn’t this senile oparun sign the electoral bill and return it for amendment
Just like he has done for the Budget and PIB
The people that still believe in this dubious despot are the real problem of Nigeria!

The West has tacitly conditioned our minds to abhor polygamy. Even legal civil marriage forbids it. If not, most of us will prefer polygamy to all these one wife and several side chic rubbish we do.

lexy2014:
if its just down to poverty, then all the rich men carrying small girls up and down outside their marriages would have had polygamous marriages

All talk, no action.

For fairness and equity, it is desirable that a decent and wise Igbo man or woman is given the chance at leading this quagmire called Nigeria.
But, I do not agree that Igbos understand Nigeria better. At least I can speak for Yorubas. They do not understand us.
1. Most Igbos hate Yorubas.
2. Yorubas know it.
3. Yorubas are endlessly willing and able to reciprocate the gesture Igbos direct at them.

Only poor polygamous men have issues with their wives. With adequate wealth and wisdom, polygamy is the best option. It even curbs the incessant madness women display in marriage. Women don't threaten or become problematic for their polygamous husbands. They know by doing so, they will only shift the man's attention to the other women. Our forefather's and the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob knew this and there was peace.
Monogamy is mostly problematic... just look at the 1st monogamous man Adam. Adam lived a miserable life and got misled in his monogamous marriage.

Look at how beautiful those hands look. Yet she felt so insecure that she had to fix that ugly artificial nails?!!! Good for her!

When will our ladies learn that the more natural you look, the better?

CAVEAT- The natural look is for the beautiful ladies o! Not the Bobrisky 'unmade up' look alikes shouting 'I can't date a broke guy' upadan internet.

Oga, go and give barber N500 to cut your hair properly! The cut looks like a newly released prisoner's hair who used blade to augument his looks.

Rating? 10/100

How is that our business in the South?!

Oga carry your cross jor! Just like you asked us to carry our cross when we were invaded in the South.

Excellent Job by the police. I hope Hisbah Police also arrested ALL the ladies for PROSTITUTION? the criminal code does not criminalize prostitution, but the patronage of prostitutes.

The ladies would not have fallen victim if they did not go to the HOTEL to sell their bodies for the agreed amount.

Have you divorced her? If not, she is still part of your life.
Initiate divorce proceedings against her if you are serious about her being your ex.
You can also ask your girlfriend being intimidated to file harassment complaint against her.
In all, please take care of your kids in the best way that you can. Lodge a formal complaint & Ignore your wife’s madness. A lot of Nigerian women are like that.

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Imbecilic old fool!

This woman wants us to keep remembering how fishy her p*ssy smells?
There are times when you acknowledge your mistakes and chart a better course for your life.
Tega going to BBN as a married woman and f*cking up the way you did should be enough for you to avoid public scrutiny that will surely come with videos like this.

You judge ALL men by the yardstick of a GAY man pretending to be straight? Is that a fair measurement?
The guy did not do well for trying to deceive you into marriage. He doesn’t last long because he was just managing to endure sex with you. His office friend gave him better sexual encounters … however deranged.
Move on with your life. Watch out for REAL MEN & give them the right attention & watch your life & impression of REAL MEN change.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

Correct guy. He bought the phone with his money, he can choose who he gives it to.
Nigerians are just too entitled for my liking! It is so annoying.