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Jennyclay:
If you choose to distance your emotions from your children, good for you. If you choose to be emotionally attached to your children, good for you.

What ever you sow is what you reap.

gbam!

This God is wonderful

None
I live each day as it comes
Resolution list na pressure, I don’t have strength for that, and I make my decisions as the days roll

But they want us to marry guy wey Dey smoke weed.

Use sense
No catch feelings like werey

Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

you spoke well until that your last paragraph
Which one be 25, na Una go Dey pressurise person upandan. You think say na every body Dey privileged??
No go kick your children comot o

An experience made me learn that miracles do happen, God answers prayers, that all successes ain’t about brains; success comes by luck/ miracles/prayers.

2022 taught me that whatever is gonna happen will definitely happen

2022 taught me how to be confident, taught me responsibility, taught me to always put myself first.

Na mad men full this thread

God Abeg
Wharisdis

fman:
u just mentioned the hookup cartel

anyone for that list don use you as customer?

Zonefree:
If you see your moniker, indicate by answering "Present Sir" ;

- Persephone1
- Sweetplum
- Jennyclay
- Siofra
- Candidlady
- Virginprincess
- Onyi22
- Ukaface

Y'all should come and take this mic and tell us why you can't keep a man.

shey this one Dey play ni?
What’s my moniker doing in the list ?
KEEP a man? Is he my possession? Is a man a property?

And who told you I’m not in a relationship? Abi you Dey jonz ni

Richhard:
So quick to judge?

If you had taken 1 min to skim through the thread, you wouldn't have posted this.

I saw some post and yes I judged right a thread to bash ladies

Another thread to bash Nigerian ladies

Make Una leave us alone kwanu
Una no dey tire, hunger no Dey hol Una no. Every time woman woman relationship.Dey play
98% of the guys here too no buy anything for their partner….. hiaaaa
Naso e don turn crime to be a female in Nigeria, Wahala o

Zonefree:
Any guy coming here to claim he received a gift from his Nigerian girlfriend is a big LIAR!

you are living in disillusion

Who be liz ajanaku

All I know is somehow I got confused in the movie, all those kidnapping scene were confusing

By the way I’m in love with government, frank and ishaya

Portable
Speed Darlington and
Vic o

Romanoff:
That's why she needs to be away from her mother.

as at this age now, her mum has turned her against her dad and staying with the man would increase her hatred towards her dad. She will just be giving the man hypertension.
And you think that woman will take it peacefully if her daughter leaves her She go make trouble

Hamiltonii:
I bet it does. If you stimulate that hole very well, then you will define her, control her and even enslave her.

wahala
What can we use to define men??

tiswell:
best nairaland comment 2022!

I know say sometimes I Dey get sense…… lol
Thanks

Romanoff:
I believe she's still redeemable.

she can’t be redeemable so far as her mum, a female like her allows her to do rubbish.

Jennyclay:
point out in my write up where I normalize immorality .
What can you say to those ladies who lost their virginity through rape and other molestation?

Loosing virginity through rape will definitely not be the fault of the girl, blame the rapist and society shouldn’t label the girl bad cos it was not a voluntary act, don’t try to raise dust on issues that don’t require dust. We no Dey talk about rape.

Mind you, I’m not in any way hating on girls that loose their virginity, we make choices and we live with the consequences

Your write up seemed like you were against virgins.
Because you obviously want guys to feel that virgins ain’t worth it.

Sister rest
Make the men marry who them wan marry, if marriage scatter it can’t be on the basis of virginity, it’s all about personality.
But know this, virginity is a plus
If I be guy, na virgin I MUST marry.

Romanoff:
You're obviously still young, I for say make you carry your sister and papa comot for that woman place.

omo
Make e no carry him sister
Make she Dey with her mama so when the thing go scatter both of them go suffer am together

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

virginity is still a plus
Don’t normalize immorality
She may not be the ‘ best’ but at least allow her own her pride
And any guy that choose a virgin or non virgin I’m sure definitely has his reasons

Who
Don’t get it twisted o
Nigerians bad o
We just Dey disguise
Tribalism is a problem amongst them o
Nigerians get Wahala o
When them show you shege you go know

Makebuna just make sure say Una continue to Dey love laidis till forever o
Cos any outcry, me go follow taunt Una


Make Una allow us rest, Una no be first people to fall in love kwanu.

Yes
My goal was to japa

If person Dey spend on you, you go call am bad person?

Just Dey play, Dey play

Didn’t they talk about this before marriage?
Truly, not every woman wants a child no go Dey assume o, try Dey ask

What do people do in relationship nowadays sef?

Not only men
It also spread across females
Always body shaming their fellow female too

I’ve lived in that world
I’ve been depressed and recoiled in my shell because of body shaming words but the victims of such words just need to learn to love themselves.

That’s why most ladies keep going for butt and boobs enlargement, jaw lifting etc all in the name to be the society standard….. smh

Inasmuch that the people calling another ugly is in the wrong, the victims need to develop body positivity no matter what.
We can’t create human, na how God and gene do us be this.

Pukkalolo:
One of the most steady lies society tells us is that women are smarter than men. Moreover, in my experience, I don’t think women are necessarily smarter.

Many times, when it comes to real life situation where intelligence and critical thinking is needed, they don't really perform better than men.

For example, in a work situation the other day, couple of guys were brought together in a group: they easily collaborated even when they didn’t even really like each other much, but they still got the job done quickly and efficiently.

But when couple of women were brought together in a group, not only that nothing was got done, it also resulted to unnecessary drama where two women insisted that they would not work with some other woman.

Men are smarter that is why many of them go into head cracking jobs like engineering, Tech, Financial analysts, Architects , database analysis. Women aren't as smart as men; Supposedly, this is the reason they run towards jobs such as customer care rep, secretary, front desk, TV show host, air hostess or prostitution.

The only situation where women are smarter is their ability to manipulate and exploit men

guuuuyyyy zukwanike!! Zukwanike in Jesus name aaaah
Who do you like this?
Are preparing for a debate contest??
Rest kwanu ! Haba!

You no Dey see men that are exploiting on a daily on the grounds of yahoo and fraud or is it the numerous male politicians embezzling and scamming the citizens?
No be manipulation be that? Alll of a sudden from your narrative na only females Dey manipulate and exploit
Females never even near half of the male exploitation skills
And if you check am now, your wailing of manipulation and exploitation no go pass matters relating to relationship. Guy rest
No gender holy pass
As guys Dey do ladies too Dey do
Try Dey calm down

If I be judge you no go win the grand prize of this debate.
Nowadays we see women in ‘male fields’

Joblessness
You carry money pay to stand and see a musician sing
Money wey you suppose use drink garri make your belle know say you don do something great for am

How did those crowd not take his kicks sha
Them suppose don strip am down to boxers
Them still return am back to the stage in less than a minute, wey bouncers suppose enter crowd Dey find am

Ignorant set of crowd