₦airaland Forum

Miracle1991:
she did not give, she SOLD.
Don't try to change the narrative

that is subject to interpretation.....if someone gives her child to a couple and the couple goes "take this money for transport and to take care of yourself" would that be termed selling the baby?

gretblue:
She said could not feed her own mouth talkless of feeding the baby. But she still went ahead to make the baby where CD of N100 could have saved the day. Sister, call a spade a spade , there is no single justification for her actions. She's purely a greedy fellow influenced by making quick money from the sale of the baby.
If she has not been caught, definitely she will make another baby ,so she can continue to make quick cash. Simple

some people can genuinely not feed their kids......The process was wrong, even if I don't know whether there is a process for that.

It is a confusing case it is right on one hand, wrong on the other

But if the mother couldn't take care of the baby she won't be wrong giving it to someone who can ...it is the responsible thing to do

Aiyk2333:
so people's business and shops that are demolished by government for illegal spaces or road building ain't taking people's jobs away? nna eh some una for this place una go sit for una Hut deh talk nonsense. you don't even know what's happening in that particular locale yet u can't close ur gutter-like mouth!! that hotel is a den of thieves, kidnappers, prostitutes. Even as at the time of lockdown parties and gigs happen there, people troop in daily patronizing prostitutes despite the executive order in the state!! Bleep y'all talking about law and constitution, how many times has your president acted according to law!! y'all stink

sometimes read what you write and reflect on it...... building on illegal space....was the building on an illegal space?

Buhari does the same.....do people clap for him when he does.....the same way Wike's action is being condemned is the same way any other government will be condemned.

The matter is the building was destroyed for violating a lockdown..... nobody is saying the hotel did right....People are saying, there are several punishments that would drive home the point of not violating the lockdown, one of which is to seal off the place and place a fine on the property.

emmayoc:
I want to ask you; Which business are you talking of?

1. Is it the one harbouring criminals?

2. Is it the one hosting cult boys for there meeting?

3. Is it the one hosting prostitutes?

Pls I need ur answer

All the reasons you mentioned, were those the reasons the hotel was destroyed?

If so does that mean if the hotel hadn't violated the lockdown, it would still be standing?

emmayoc:
Please all of you condemning the Governor's action, you can't stay in the comfort of your home in another state and judge a matter in another state without findings. I am living in PH and was condemning the act until my friends wife from Eleme told me thing about the owner of the hotel.

Read what an APC member in Eleme wrote.

WIKE'S ACTION, HAND OF GOD.

I have read several articles and watched videos of people condemning the River State government demolition of property ( Hotel) of Princewill Osaronwa OSAROEJIJI. I appreciate their concerns and worries as Democrats and law abiding citizens cos, I would have screamed louder if I am not an Eleme son. However, knowing Governor Wike well, they ought to ask questions and make further investigations as to know what really happened.

1. Note that the said hotel belongs to Princewill Osaronwa OSAROEJIJI of Alode in Eleme LGA of Rivers State.

2. The demolished hotel has been a hideout for criminal gangs and venue of cult meetings from where they take off for operations.

3. The hotel houses prostitutes ( Asawo)

4. The hotel was operating with the prostitutes hosting customers even during the lockdown despite State orders.

5. The hotel was not only open to customers both full and short time but was hosting parties amidst this covid-19 pandemic, the owner feeling he is above the law and indeed the Youth Leader of PDP.

6. That words was sent across to the hotel owner to close down or face demolition and he sent words back that he dares the State to try it and see if he will not bring down the State.

7. That Members of covid-19 committee monitoring hotels went to enlighten the owner and his guest that what they were doing was against the executive order of the state government and acceptable practices.

8. That he and his boys not only assaulted the Committee Members but pointed guns at them and shot and injured one of the members of the team.

9. That Eleme people who are his people are weighing a little sigh of relief concerning the pulling down of the hotel.

10. That the hotel is not money made from genuine seat as alleged but crime and human blood.

9. Do u know how many lives the boy has wasted in that hotel?

10. That Princewill was the Cause of the crisis in his community Alode in 2017/2018 that led to over 10 deaths including that of Late Isaac obe (Former Eleme Youth President and APC Zonal youth leader) as well as his sister Barrister Mary Obe.

11. That the owner Princewwill is a suspected Gun runner as he has not been convicted.

12. That he was shot on the leg during one of his escapades in the community and thus limps.

13. That he is suspected to be the Blackaxe leader in Alode and that enboldens home to live above the law.

14. That he is an alleged oil thief.

15. God just used Wike to bring some respite to Eleme Community.

16. Ask Eleme people how they feel before you make further comments or condemn the ousting of a criminal.

17. How many hotels are in Rivers State. Several have been sealed and their management arrested and charged to Court for several violations, none was demolished.

18) That the State was not just dealing with a regular hotel but a criminal den. He cup was just full.

19). That Princewill should be arrested to face the music and let Eleme have some respite.

20). We thank God for this intervention through Rivers State cos nobody dare touch Princewill in Eleme.

21). Any doubt as to any issue raised here. Please cross check with the security agencies in Eleme who Princewill Osaronwa OSAROEJIJI is and what he stands for.

I AM FROM ELEME AND AN UNREPENTANT APC MEMBER BUT I THANK GOV. WIKE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE.

I WOULD LIVE TO ADD MY NAME FOR CONFIRMATILN BUT FOR SECURITY REASONS AS HIS BOYS ARE STILL THERE.

Note. Do U know that the second hotel that violated was not completely demolished. They only demolished the small bar section and left the main hotel building. Pls always make findings before jumping into conclusion. Thanks
.

so it was a den of thieves and cultists all this while, yet they did nothing. So if the hotel hadn't violated the lockdown, it would still be open for business housing kidnappers and cultists right?

Then your last line....he didn't destroy the whole hotel....just the small bar section. Was that also housing kidnappers or since it is a bar was it housing drunkards?

If you want to go after kidnappers go after them.....if you want to destroy their houses please do.....but do it right. Shikena

And to think the purported owner is also a PDP member. Feels more like a vendetta than a fight against COVID

FEGNO:
We want a Country that works. Yet somehow are also so tolerant of flouting and breaking laws. No country progresses that way. Though Wike was excessive but we must begin to exert repercussions on law breakers. That is how Countries move forward

No one said the offenders shouldn't be punished..... Everyone is say that act of destroying a hotel is pure insanity. So I don't know what your point is exactly

ndcide:
It happens everywhere.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8291341/amp/Texas-judge-JAILS-defiant-hair-salon-owner-opened-business-despite-stay-home-orders.html

Did you even read what you posted.

First it said Judge
Second her business was shut and not "demolished"

The law is there true.....but you don't use a tractor to kill a cockroach

This is a democracy and it goes against what democracy stands for..... except we are no longer in a democracy.

Face and role model definitely Ndidi.....great footballer who combines that with school - not saying going to school is ultimate show - But being that responsible with so much money at his disposal shows someone that has a good head on his neck.... certainly leadership material......I will go with him

The face of Nigeria football must show maturity from a young age

TOPCRUISE:
No evidence that he slapped her. Her excuse for doling such slaps ain't valid.
She claimed that the officer slapped her, yet nobody in that scene accost or condemn the officer why he slapped the lady.
Besides how is 13 slaps from a woman equivalent to just 1 slap she received.

This is a shallow argument.....nobody in a scene that doesn't show the genesis of the whole matter? She claimed he slapped her first.....that is assault and she acted in "over self defense"

We have medical officers working tirelessly treating people.

Yet these ones want to add to the problem. Solution is simple. Those that are protesting, have them write their names down and sign an undertaking that they would treat themselves in their houses if they come down with any corona virus symptoms

That way medical officers can focus on people with sense

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

Get rid of your wife...she is a wicked person.... treating someone else's child that way.....2 yrs no new cloth....that is recipe for divorce

bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.

what sort of advice is this.....he is miserable in his marriage...he has to leave....It is that simple

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

Get a divorce and save yourself this stress....forget the past.....look at the future. Would you be willing to deal with her for many years?

Mynewdawn15:
Based on Nigeria system of driving 3 is wrong, you are not supposed to overtake when the road line is Solid.

I agree....both are overtaking on the left which is proper.. the lines are the differentiating elements

SeunWedsLinda:
To those people predicting doom as this lockdown is undergoing gradual relaxation. You do not know what it means to continually remain indoors over a virus with 5% chance of death. Hunger on its own has 100% chance of death. If you wish to help spread the 'stay home' gospel, start by attending to all these nairalanders dropping account numbers everywhere. If you can't, mind your f*cking business as people go about their daily businesses. Capisce

that is not 5% chance of death.....400 recovered 87 deaths.....that is 17.9% death rate

AroleOduduwa2:
Before you take sides, ask yourself the origin of the virus, who withheld information that could have saved thousands from dying, who disappeared the whistle blowers.

China strategically taken over Africa countries, they give out loans knowing fully well that Africa leaders will embezzles it, loan will be default and they will take over whichever institution was used as a collateral.

People should google China taken over Zambia.

lol....you want to blame China for giving out loans that your own people embezzled?

mployer:
It doesn't change the fact that they lied.

1. They imprisoned and killed the Doctor that first raised alarm about the outbreak.
2. They said the virus wasn't airborne.
3. They agreed the death was underreported which they later upgraded to 50% more.


They could easily enforce mask and lockdown because they run a totalitarian government.

I don't know of number 1

But number 2 - it is a new virus so you learn new things as you go along

Number 3.... everybody will upgrade their death toll later.... because as it is most countries are counting deaths only in their hospitals. Don't know if that was the case with China though

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

write a story and make a blockbuster movie out of it.....last last $1m go enter your pocket

NextD18:
Public giveaway is nothing but scam to reasonable people who understands the concept of generosity and helping.

There's always a hidden motive behind anyone who does giveaway publicly. Quote me anywhere.

It's either for clout, to buy love, to buy loyalty, to gain favors from some persons within or a business strategy.

Behind everyone doing giveaway, there's this a friend on his/her contact list who's desperately in need of help. There's this family member, either from the mother's side or father's side who's in need and perishing looking for help.

But NO! They'll not help those needy family members, but will prefer to come to the public, chase clout with the less privileged and snap pictures or go to social media, chase clout, buy fake love to look generous.


Whatever is it, this woman experienced. I don't care, because if everyone should focus on their family members, maternal cousins and paternal siblings, there won't be needy people in the public for these clout chasers to use.

People should say no to fake public accolades from strangers who truly doesn't give a fvck about their existence and and focus on people in their family tree and people around them. They'll appreciate the more.

This is the exact reason why Nigeria is where it is today... .then you blame politicians who put their family members in choice positions as being nepotistic....yet you come out to say things like this.

Nigeria is where it is today because People don't see beyond their families...."once my family is full, that is all I care about"

Tajbol4splend:
He's the richest man, how does that make him an expert on vaccine? Because he's the richest man?

because he reads....just like every other expert out there

byteem:
Tell them.. they dnt get it.. this man is in the verge of becoming the most powerful corporate entity in the world.. lets break it down

1. Develop vaccines foe covid

2. Administer the covid via RNA vaccine with embbeded microchip that helps comfirm you have take the vaccine via the.microchip and personall data within.

3. Countries have to sign up to the singular platform which will be world wide.. advantage..from the airport or any point of entry you can verify if one is a potential risk or not.. anyone who has not taken the vaccine and has no proof they they have taken it. Cannot enter.. the need to.protect their countries. From this scourge will get all countries to sign onboard. So u take the vaccine and your data gets configures into a microchip.embedded in uour skin to confirm you are no risk just.like yellow fever card inly more advanced..

4. Miscrosoft with worldwide presence becomes the most powerful entity in the world cos it now controls data of almost the entire world or least the travelling majority who must trade and commute.

5. Nigeria passes the NCDC bill which subscribes to the vaccine and the compulsory insertion of a chip once taken. Lagos adopts.. u cant access any public facilty without it.. RNA vaccine.

6. The chip needs updating.. so later on they tell u it can now be used to buy stuff.. can now replace ur international passports as a more acceptable means of. ID ..all u need to donis swipe. Ohh it can now be integrated with you car and can start your car open ur house.. the application is endless .. ohh does that.tel u its link with 5G..

7 . Who stands more to gain from all this corona.. Huawei if China.. and Bill gates .. call.it.conspiracy.. but ul see it come to.light soon enough the tech companies are evolving..

nice theory....but where is the problem?

sweetmelanin:
Now Bill Gates (a white man) has a more complex brain than the rest of us
This is coming from the same the idi0t who made this same statement on the front page?

"so you think every white person is smarter than a black man? "

You are either:
Too stupid to realise you are dumb.
Or,
Too dumb to realise you are stupid!

I think you should read what he wrote again.....then slowly read what you wrote.....you might have inadvertently described yourself in the latter part of your post

sweetmelanin:
I think you are the shallow one here who has clearly refused to reason!

1. Why is Bill Gates (a college dropout with no medical background) suddenly the spokesperson for global health?
2. Why is the vaccine (which we have no idea of it's long term effect) being pushed to be mandatory?
3. Why is Bill Gates pushing for digital identification of those who have been vaccinated (ID2020)?

Bill Gates a college dropout....lmao... And that is your defense? Because colleges determine knowledge right?

Long term effects? Vaccines are tested over an extended period....just like those that refuse polio vaccine and how it makes no sense, that is how this case is. Replace covid with polio

Why are you afraid of being identified digitally? Are you hiding anything?

lalasticlala:
Source: https://www.thetrentonline.com/covid-19-distress-access-bank-to-lay-off-75-of-staff-says-md-herbert-wigwe/amp/?__twitter_impression=true



Source: https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-04-30/nigeria-s-access-bank-to-cut-staff-salaries-to-avoid-job-losses?utm_campaign=socialflow-organic&utm_content=africa&utm_source=twitter&cmpid%3D=socialflow-twitter-africa&utm_medium=social&__twitter_impression=true

your headline is misleading

Nelso2:
Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

why do I find it odd that you said dad instead of husband

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

get him a side chick.....so he can leave you alone

As it is..... He likes sex you can't cope....if he continues this way....you will begin to withdraw and detest sex with him.....however, it won't stop his libido and that is when his eyes will move out. Rather than wait for that moment take charge and get him a side chick that you can monitor

Got stranded once.....Travelled with no extra money....got to the last park and realised the fare had gone up by 20 naira.....saw someone that lived close to my area but I just couldn't beg neither could I beg the conductor, because there was a rush then. Trekked from the park to my house for almost 2 hours.....got home and realised an item had been stolen from me.

Felt bad but that is life. I saw it as a blessing to the person that stole from me, probably needed to buy food or something.

Anyways learnt sometimes you might need to shout out for help

Although in my case it is an absolute last on my list to beg or ask for help.....not that it is bad, but I plan better and do things within my capacity

Millenniumlady:
Can't date a broke guy

can't date a broke girl

am4truth:
Religion is not the problem with African, but greed, selfishness and corruption. We all need God.

Religion is......it is one of the tools the greedy ones use to manipulate the populace that along with tribalism

Detour00:
You don't need to destroy religion to have a knowledge based economy.

you won't won't need to Destroy religion, the knowledge you have will take care of that

honeyB2018:
You got wrong. Science and technology, as much as they have tried, are yet to find all solution to man's need, including your so called knowledge based economy.
But God still remains the ultimate power and source of all wisdom and knowledge, which he in bestows to men including the pastors.


Domdva

I don't know why people like you, love to take a swipe at the pastors, when they have not been given opportunity to demonstrates their God given power over Covid 19.
Pastors were asked to close down their churches, those who dare to open them are, harassed, arrested, taken to courts and are fined. So why blame and castigate them?
By the way, are there not medical conditions, that are beyond science, technology medication, that God by these lampooned pastors have healed in the past?

This is laughable....pastors need their churches to perform miracles....I am shocked.....go and read up about the centurion's servant

egoriboy:
Right move, test it on yourself. African no longer guinea pigs.

Then you will wait for them to produce a vaccine and start begging for hand-outs